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Old 01-23-2004, 09:15 AM   #41 (permalink)
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I wouldn't worry about it they were probably just flirting.
If she loves you nothing will happen and if your angry it just makes you seem paranoid and insecure. However you cant help how you feel.

Thats my view anyway.
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Old 01-25-2004, 12:25 AM   #42 (permalink)
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I think it's totally understandacle to be uspet over this convo. And you might want to ask what prompted this type of discussion. It definitely looks like this guy is making a move and that your g/f is not totally averse to such a move.
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Old 01-25-2004, 12:56 AM   #43 (permalink)
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hmm, honestly im not sure if the way the guy posts it if its sarcasm or if hes really serious. Sometimes the guy looks like hes acting like a total idiot and not serious and other times looks like hes joking.

If hes joking well then crappy joke if hes serious well then I say keep an eye on him if he does it again then show him whos boss
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Old 01-25-2004, 01:20 AM   #44 (permalink)
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Thought I'd update. We've been together a 2 months now, and I'm very happy to say my ex-friend is out of the picture. Things are going extremely well, and I couldn't ask for more
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Old 01-26-2004, 01:33 AM   #45 (permalink)
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That's fucked up on his part. I don't like my girlfriend talking to other guys too much about sex. But like people have said, take solace in the fact that she sent the conversation to you, that means something. I wouldn't be mad at her, she didn't seem to be encouraging it really. Just do this:
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Old 01-27-2004, 10:43 PM   #46 (permalink)
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if the g/f brought this to your attention, it prob means she's uncomfortable with the situation. so that would mean you need to tell ur buddy that she's uncomfortable with it. at least you can be comforted that your girlfriend isn't a cheater.
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Old 01-27-2004, 10:47 PM   #47 (permalink)
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hitting on your friends gril

thats worng
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Old 01-28-2004, 09:56 AM   #48 (permalink)
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I wouldn't be mad. If someone hits on your girl you should take it as a compliment. Everyone flirts from time to time but unless she was in the act of sleeping with someone then you have nothing to worry about.
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Old 01-28-2004, 11:13 AM   #49 (permalink)
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If someone hits on your girl, not knowing she has a boyfriend, and flirts its ok. If someone hits on your girl, who is your friend and knows you are going out with her then that is messed up.

man you are a bonehead

You wouldnt be mad if a friend of yours went up to your girlfriend and said hey tommorrow lets fuck in a bed and a car. If you didnt get mad id say theres something wrong with you. This was more than an innocent flirtation attempt by this guy.
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Old 01-28-2004, 11:29 AM   #50 (permalink)
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For sure confront him.....but do it with a wooden baseball bat
While I'm going to recommend that you talk to your girlfriend and get the whole I.M. before you decide who to be angry with, I'm also going to pass on one sage piece of advice.....

Don't use a wooden baseball bat. Pieces of wood can break off - and be traced back to the bat, and there are way too many crannies and crevices for blood, skin, hair and other stuff to get stuck in - and that won't clean out easily!

....Of course, if you burn the bat afterward.....
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Old 01-28-2004, 02:23 PM   #51 (permalink)
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I think people have feelings on and off the net and I think it is totally wrong for this guy to even had such a conversation. Not saying anything bad about your girl .. but I think if it was me I would have ended the conversation with a big FO long before it got that far. At least she had enough respect for you by the sounds of it to at least have filled you in altho my reasonings would be uncertain as to why it even got that far or even how it came about.

I think it shows just how insensitive and selfish this guy really is (friend? yeah right) And I think if I were your girl numero uno: it would stop with all conversations right where it began period! I think I would just leave the man well enough alone to figure out why conversations stopped. I'm sure he isn't an idiot and if he is he deserves to be. Afterall what do you owe him? I'd say nothing. He knows what he did. I think if anything the both of them owe you a reason as to why sex was a discussion between the two of them to begin with anyway.
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Old 01-29-2004, 01:00 PM   #52 (permalink)
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DUDE...your profile says that your birthdate was in 1984...that would make you about 20 years old....

What the hell are you doing in a relationship? Forget them both...It takes 2 to tango. You should be out there hitting on girls just like your buddy. I am not suggesting trying to seduce one of your friends girls like this sorry piece of crap, but at this age you should be playing the field, not getting tied down to one girl.

Back to your issue. If some guy spoke that way with my girl...we would be exchanging more than just words...

Next judging from the conversation that was taking place, I would need to see the rest of this conversation...as I said before it take s 2 to tango. How do you know that your princess was not flirting right back at him. She didn't seem to mind until he tried to make some solid plans with her. If she truly did not want the advances, she would have said something the moment he suggested they hook up...

Look let's be honest most guys (especially at your age) would try to get any decent girl in bed, that is just the nature of us...(unless you are gay), but I think that both parties here need to answer a few questions...don't be the chump...you can get other girls, and you should be, you are too young...these are your prime years...

I don't know, I think you need to lose the friend, because he has no respect for you, and you need to lose the chick cuz you are just too damn young...go hit a kegger...go get educated...get yourself in a better place, then worry about a "girlfriend"....date, man date.....

Bring on the flames....
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Old 01-29-2004, 01:16 PM   #53 (permalink)
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First off, props to your girlfriend for trying to "shrug off" the situation and try and prevent it from going on or even happening.

More props for her sending it to you, as you can probably be pretty sure she is being completely open with you, which is a great thing.

Regarding your friend.. If he wasn't kidding around (and from what you say, it seems he isn't) then I think there is a serious issue there you need to take up with him.

There is enough outside "competetion" without having to deal with friends wanting to steal your girl away.

Lastly, I would be careful with how you confront your friend. I'm assuming he doesn't know your girl shared the discussion with you, and I'd just be cautious about how you approach him so that he doesn't do anything drastic, like harming your girl for doing the right thing.

Take care, and good luck.
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Old 01-29-2004, 01:22 PM   #54 (permalink)
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I would be kinda upset at my friend, but my friends and I are comfortable about these things. If you notice, your girlfriend never really said yes or anything, so I wouldn't hold it against her.
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