Toecutter

Its interesting how people connect. I think when you really connect with someone its a click that starts in that most personal of places inside of you. I think when you really feel that click with someone that's when you can create an opening.

Its like when you know you get that warm feeling inside, when you just feel really like you've just really found that thing you've been looking for.

Sometimes its like you instantly know for whatever mysterious reason that something is going to be right for you. Its almost like that voice on the inside says, "this is the main chance you've got to get some, go for it!"

I hope some of you are able to experience the adventure and rush of being with someone and enjoy the energy that comes form sharing youself with someone else.

Toecutter

I was also thinking about something else. Has anyone realy ever thought about the difference between ordinary women and bisexual women? It's really interesting, because when I first started dating bisexual women, I started dating them because I liked threesomes, and I still do.

But as I got to know these girls, and really discover what they were about on the inside, I found that they have qualities and characteristics that you don't find in ordinary girls.

Bisexual women have a sense of freedom, an openess, and adventurism. A sense of comfort with not only their own sexuality, but all things sexual. Because they realize, on a very deep level, they know that in this form, we're sexual beings.

I have also found them to be alot more fun, not only because of threesomes, but there are certain things that I can really appreciate about them, such as the absence of jealousy, for example.

Every guy has had the experience of dating a girl who gets angry at them for noticing the presence of another woman. But a bisexual woman, on the other hand, will usually notice her first! And with the absence of those kind of jealousies in a relationship, it makes it much more natural and easy to be honest and open, to truly be friends as well as lovers, which I think is the essence of really being able to connect on a much deeper level..now..with me, I think that being able to have that kind of connection is priceless.

Another thing that i have observed from bi girls is their sense of adventure. Instead of seeing a situation, listening to opressive internal dialog that makes them feel they have to manipulate a situation for a certain outcome, they just go with the flow, and anticpate the adventure at awaits around the corner.

rufgti

Lucky you....I screwed up my chance with a young, blonde, bi, FOB English girl...rats!!! And she wanted me too...double rats!!!!!

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jay-g

:::OshnSoul:::

I've had a few very strong connections. Everyone I meet, though, I meet for a reason. It's soul-choice to join. Strong connections have very important messages in them, the most important of messages are usually in those we call "romantic" relationships, in which we get lost in the "romantic" part and forget to focus on the "why"- as in why did we meet? Why do we have a strong connection? Why did our souls choose to join? and What is the reason for this relationship?
Each encounter has a meaning. Don't take any for granted.

Rodney

I believe in connections that go "click" through mutual understanding or shared backgrounds, but beware of "clicks" at first sight. Last time that happened to me -- and it was mutual -- I realized that we both had the same coloration, eyes, hair, even similar features. Of course we were attracted to each other -- we looked at each other and saw ourselves. Once you get aware of this stuff, it loses its power over you.

spived2

Make sure that click isn't just lust though. Sometimes it's easy to mistake the two.

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Toecutter

Very cool responses and insight in responses. But yeah, it is easy to get caught up in what one might consider a "connection". One must be "heart smart" when this takes place. Its fun to be caught up in the moment, but you must also remain true to and take care of yourself. </philisophical buzz-kill>

Toecutter

I found this rather interesting. A couple of weeks ago, I was at work, helping my supervisor move a printer to another division within our building. Another supervisor and her subordinate came by and chatted us up for a bit about us locating the printer and what not. I'm honestly not really paying much attention to the conversation, i'm inside myself planning the logisitcs of the final move of this printer, and all of the sudden, I am feeling this "heat", if you will, go from the top of my head to the bottom of my feet.

I' m like "what the hell?", and out of the corner of my eye, i see the female supervisor, petite and rather cute, lookin me over. I don't acknowledge it, outwardly, anyways. So I'm gettin kinda turned on by this, but not to the point where i loose it. At this point, im kinda bathing in this heat, enjoying it for what it was. So i say to myself, "Hey, maybe I should return the favor." so I generate some of my own heat, kinda like acknowledging what was going on, and the damnest think happens. This woman like jumps backward, kinda like gets knocked over, and i caught the loook on this womans face as i did this, it was one of shock and horror, like she was busted or something. I'm a bit freaked out by what happened, but only briefly, and i think to myself, "Cool!" Whatever convo was going on ends, and i procede to assist in the relocation of the printer.