DemetriousKaine

hey this is my first post so bear with me here

you know how some times you just kinda get horny as hell with your signifigant other? and you want to have some fun (but you're both still virgins and plan to keep it that way for a little while) just get him ( the male in the relationship) hard and have him rub up and down in the girls crotch, it works nicely if she has a camel toe. It is very nice and yet fun and safe all the same. and another tip if the guy stick his hand down his pants and controls his penis it can be even better. as if he were masturbating in his pants while rubbing the girls crotch. it is soo much fun i just felt like letting all you peoples know. give any tips you have for non sex,sexual fun.

la petite moi

Good first post. I don't have any tips myself...

Zorvox

Me and my ex, I just use to pull her panties down or whatever, and i'd just rub her pussy, I wouldn't put any finger's in i'd just rub in a circular motion while she was against the wall, and she'd rub my dick..

Was all good fun

Charlatan

I have to say that it has been a long time since I had to dry hump a date. Thankfully those days are long gone...

If you want something to do that is sexual and erotic but not "sex"... Try masturbating for each other. Show each other how you get off.

Phone sex... aural sex can rock.


It's all good.

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monkeysugar

If you haven't tried it already, try just in your underwear (with him wearing boxers) or both wearing sweatpants....thin is goood. Not as good as the real thing, but if you've both decided you want to wait more power to ya. Oral sex and mutual masturbation is always good.....

skysooner

My wife and I did this stuff for a year since she was a virgin. She would strip down to panties and would kind of hump my leg when she was on top. If I had my leg slightly up with the knee bent, she could come to orgasm pretty quickly.

analog

So... if you're still humping... and still orgasming... and still mostly naked or at some point totally naked... I don't understand the big deal with putting your damn cock in her. Get a condom, get some birth control, and have some more fun. I just don't understand the "anything but sex" bullshit i hear sometimes. Oral? Some will go as far as allowing anal, but not regular vaginal sex.

Ridiculous, the whole notion.

Sledge

My woman likes my leg better than my fingers. I don't. [cry]

Pragma

To some people, the magical "virginity" (note: not meant to belittle virginity or virgins at all) is something that they don't want to lose until they're very sure of it - but they don't want to abstain from sexual contact (ie: oral/anal or the aforementioned leg-humping). I say let them have their fun, and let them get around to losing their V when they want to.

SabrinaFair

Oh wow, this reminds me of my virgin days, when I had my first orgasm as a result of dry humping. Even now, it's still a turn-on to do some pre-intercourse humping. It's fun, it shows where your mind is (you want sex!) and it definetly gets you warmed up for the big show.

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Heath

Dry humping can be really fun, especially if you live with your parents and they are home. Also Oral is very fun. My girl is a virgin and I have given her plenty of orgasms without sticking anything in her.

Masturbating for each other is very hot (someone mentioned above) We will continue to do this even after she is no longer a virgin.

emphant

I've always found that girls liked dry humping a hell of a lot more than I did.

But then one of my best friends absolutly loves it.

But hey, if it works for you, and you have the willpower to abstain from sex, more power to you.

herostar

thanks for the advice

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Arrion

Yeah, that's not bad, especially when making out, and I do know for a fact that most girls regard their virginity as a treaured thing and that it takes a long time for them to let that go. In the mean time, there's no harm in having a little "alternative" fun to get them ready for the big event.

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REDL|NE

two words: Silk boxers

King of dry humping

before my gf was a virgin, we used to do a bit of it, and when i wore silk boxers she could feel it all over.

Good stuff indeed

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DemetriousKaine

yeah thanks for the good input, we have tried quite a few of those things and i just have to say they are most all true(except the ones we havent done yet) but yeah sweats/underwear is lots of fun. oo oo ooo and one of my favorite things is she has a few"spots" and i take advantage of those by teasing her with them it lots of fun, but i do have to say one time she was super pissed at me she said i made her feel like a whore( which i hope to never do again) but once we made up and i pleased her she said it was one of the best ever for her and she kept saying she wanted it so that helped me get off too. yeah so i give lots of fun for her, b/c she dosent like to masturbate herself so i figure hey i will.

another question does anyone rather please their partner rather than be pleased themselves or am i just weird?

Pragma

Not weird at all - I really enjoy pleasing my girlfriend: it gives me a great deal of satisfaction to know that, for example, I can make her orgasm so hard that she passes out for a few minutes. Compared to that, what's a handjob?

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DemetriousKaine

too true too true

Sho Nuff

*post edited at request of cowgirl*

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Fist and Shout

Gives your pussy a TKO:

This is so simple: take whichever hand you use the most, make a fist, and rest your vagina right on top of it. Move yourself onto your fist, and press yourself around it and around it, where your clit is. You'll feel just like you're having sex, without the dick inside you.


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Cup O' Water

If you're too lazy or insufficiently nimble to scoot down to the faucet:

Instead of taking minutes to get yourself properly positioned in front of your bath tub faucet... just get a big cup and fill it up with hot water. Then lay in the tub with your legs spread apart, slowly pour the water onto you clit and refill it as many times as you need until your orgasm. I've been doing this for years and it works every time.


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Clip It

This tip is good for men too:

I love to have my nipples pinched while I'm masturbating, but don't have enough hands to do it all, so I use hair clips... the spring-loaded type with the sharp little teeth. Before you buy them, check to make sure they don't clamp too tight. Put them on your nipples, gives you both hands free to play with your pussy and clit.


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Pillow Dildo

The best parts of a man with none of the hassle:

Stuff an old pair of shorts with two pillows, on in each leg. Buy yourself a strap on dildo and put it over the shorts. This now actually feels like a guy's in between your legs. You can feel the heaviness of the pillows and then the dildo sliding and teasing as you move your hips under it. You can also lean it against the couch and straddle it and it stays perfectly still, giving you all the pleasure you need and it's totally hands free. You'll be cumming over and over again.


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Table Leg

Talk about acrobatics in the service of a good cause:

First you have to be kinda short 5"5" at the highest. Now you also have to have a table that has round legs. Make sure you are wearing something loose...like pajama bottoms. Then prop your elbows on the table and wrap you legs around the leg. Go up and down, up and down. It feels SO great!


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Beadwork

I wonder what kind of sound this makes:

For very nice clitoral stimulation take some plastic beads (the one you wear around you neck...like from mardi gras) and cut it so it's one long string. Stand with your legs parted and the beads between them. Pull the beads back and forth to rub against your clit. If you're not wet yet this can be kind of painful so tease yourself a little bit first. It also feels great if you run the beads under water first! The orgasm feels so incredible!


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Kitchen Counter

Sounds like fun, but you might want to just splurge on a shower massager:

Empty out the kitchen sink. Take the sprayer head off your sink sprayer. Climb up on the counter and scoot to the edge of one side of the sink. Hold on to the sprayer hose tightly and slowly turn on the water till it is on full force (I like the water to be almost scalding hot). Aim the hose at your clit and lean back and cum over and over again. It is even better if you have a friend to hold the hose for you. You can lay all the way down on the counter with your pussy hanging over the sink. That way your friend can switch from your clit to insert the water stream in your pussy or over your asshole for added stimulation. I always cum four or five times at least and even had to turn off the water and lay back on the counter once for about 20 minutes before I was able to move.


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Balloon Trick

Oh, I just hope it doesn't pop:

Get two fair-sized pillows and pile them on top of each other. Next, get a balloon and fill it up with lukewarm water. After covering the pillows with a towel and making a small mound out of the towel (for something to ride on), place the water balloon in your panties (to ensure that it stays in place) After rocking on the balloon for 1 minute you'll have the most amazing orgasm ever!


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Press Together

Sometimes the simplest ways work the best:

Place the tip of your middle finger on the tip of your clit and place your index and ring fingers beside your clit and press them against the base your clit over and over again (like a pair of tweezers). It's something simple to be done, but the feeling in amazing. It works much better if you only do that when your clit is already hard with excitement.


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Bumpy Brush

I just love it when people get specific cuz then I can dig up a photo:



Get the 'Privado' hair brush, by 'Goody' and stick the handle up your pussy and move it very fast in and out. It feels great because there is a rippled rubber grip right before the bristles which rub again your clit and it feels GREAT!


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Ball Rider

The crazy stuff that goes on in high school gyms:

I just love finding some really tight fitting underwear and then getting a huge maxi pad and sticking it in. Then I wet myself and get on a soccer ball...basketballs work too...rock back and forth slowly at first, then faster and faster...fucking awesome orgasm. Also, you can wet your pad with hot water and put it on....ooooooh so fun.


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Finally... Jet Success

Yet another satisfied reader:

I had been trying to get myself off for about week with no success so I "came" looking for help on this page. I tried more than few of these suggestions with no luck until, I read about the bathtub jets! WOW!!! Just as I thought i would never have an orgasm again it came! (In fact it came more than once) I made noises I haven't made ever! I suggest this to anyone and everyone who has the means to try it. It is the most wonderful thing I have ever experienced. Thank you so much for all of your wonderful ideas, I'll keep trying them if you keep adding them.



If you have a pool or hot tub, get in front of one of the jets or blowers and spread your legs as far as you can. Get kinda far from it and let it hit your clit and slowly begin to go closer to the jet. The closer you get the more intense the stimulation. You cum pretty quickly so I normally do it a few times. It feels so great. I usually stay in front of mine when the whole time I am in my pool


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Come on Baby Drive My Car

If you see some woman swerving down the street with a big smile on her face, this is why:

I like to masturbate while driving with the cruise control on. The other cars on the road add a bit of excitement for me. Sometimes all it takes is the way my jeans rub against my clit to get me off, I rock back and forth in my car seat but can't move around much and I like that too. Sometimes I sit on a sweatshirt for added clit stimulation. Sometimes if I am really going for it I stick my hand down my pants and massage my clit until I cum. I love road trips...


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Baby Got Back Massage

Bottom line, anything that vibrates will do the trick:

Get one of those back massagers, the ones that have the round vibrating things and different speeds. Put it to your clit and start of slow and then move the speed up until it's as high as it can go. It really works.


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On The Rocks

Shiver:

I'm surprised no one has mentioned ice cubes. I love to masturbate with an ice cube inside my vagina. No words can express what the chill inside feels like.


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G'day Bidet

In case you had any doubt, the French have all the fun:

Use a bidet and let the water hit your clit. When you begin to climax
let the water flow inside of you. It works great!


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Bathtub mania

We get so many variations on this submitted, it isn't funny:

When the water is running in your bathtub, put your legs up in the air against the wall underneath the faucet. Then spread your lips and let the hard water spray on your clit. It's the best!


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Hot Injection

Or maybe try a turkey baster:

Try using a large syringe (without the needle!). Fill it with warm water and insert it while rubbing your clit. Push it in and out (without releasing the water) until you're ready to climax. As you're coming, squirt the warm water into your pussy with 6 or 7 short bursts, like it's cum.




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More Hair Brush

Just to clarify, put it in handle-side first:

Get a brush with a round handle (condom optional) and slide it in all the way. Then move it around in circles. The bristles will rub your clit.


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Fill 'em Up

If ever someone was over-stimulated:

Take an AC-powered vibrator to your clit, a battery powered anal stimulator with an attached controller and a nice, fat, long dildo. Tease your clit with the electric vibrator (they're the best). When sufficiently juiced up, lube the anal vibe and stick in your ass slowly while working you clit with the electric vibe. Don't turn on the anal vibrator on just yet. Relax and enjoy the feeling of having your ass penetrated. Continue working your clit. Then, slowly work the dildo in and out while working your clit with the electric vibe. I like to occasionally suck my own juices off the dildo and then stick it back in. When you feel your orgasm approaching, I like to turn on the anal buzzer to high, and stroke that big dildo in me nice and fast while buzzing my clit. The contraction in my pussy eventually pushes the dildo out and I usually squirt my cum all over myself as I ride the waves of buzzing ecstasy. You will be arching your pelvis towards heaven as your entire perineum is stimulated to a fantastic orgasm. It's even better when my husband watches, strokes his cock for me and then sticks his cock into my only remaining orifice (my mouth) and cums at that same time as I do. All I can do is swallow and writhe, as there is nothing like having all of your orifices filled and stimulated simultaneously!


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Double Trouble

If one toy is good, two must be great:

I use a clit stimulator along with my dildo. Place the stimulator into position, insert dildo and turn on stimulator to what ever speed you like. It feels great to lay face down on the bed with these devices in me and it gets me to cum rather hard.


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Hit the Clit

Don't forget the tease:

What works best for me is direct clitoral stimulation. I will wet my fingers from my mouth, from between my legs or with a product, such as K-Y liquid or baby oil. Then I use the first two fingers of both hands to spread the skin a little, the others to stroke. It is fabulous to begin stroking the center of the clitoris, then while continuing the strokes, move them around, then down, below the center of greatest sensitivity, every now and then bringing them stroking right back into the center, up onto the hardest part, then as orgasm approaches, back down....repeating this several times. What it amounts to is a self-tease of sorts and makes the resultant orgasm wonderfully intense. Watching with a mirror close up makes it even more fabulous.....LOL....I just have to be careful not to come too quick, or the intensity of the orgasm is too very reduced.



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Two Heads are Better than One

Poor guy. She's probably disappointed to see him:

My boyfriend works out of state so I only see him on the weekends. While going through his stuff I found a double headed back massager. One head stays on my clit and the other right beneath my pussy. I turn it on sit in the rocking chair and start to rock back and forth. It gives me almost an instant orgasm. Its better than sex.




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Mirror, Mirror

For even better results, use a video camera, and send me the tape:

I like to watch myself rubbing my clit in the mirror. I sit in front of it with my legs as wide apart as they will go. You would be surprised how much watching enhances the experience. I stick two fingers in my pussy and bang myself as hard as possible, then I rub my clit with my other hand, using saliva to wet it. It feels like having sex and being eaten out at the same time. The orgasm is incredible.


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More Oral Hygiene

I wonder what a "warm and slippery orgasm" feels like:

When I masturbate, I find a good solid object to stick inside me. Those traveling toothbrush holders work well and I stick that in completely and either pump that in and out or put it in and slide down in the bath tub and let the water hit my clit while the holder is inside me. Works great cause it's shaped just like a penis.


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Washcloth

I wonder what a "warm and slippery orgasm" feels like:

Take a wet, warm washcloth and put Vaseline on it. Lightly stroke it back and forth over your clit - it is awesome. I tease myself for as long as I can and then I press the washcloth hard against my pussy. The orgasm is warm and slippery.


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Playstation pleasure

Talk about a home entertainment center

For this, you need a Playstation, a vibrating controller and a Metal Gear Solid CD. Use the vibration test in the option menu of the game. Insert the edge of the controller to your pussy or clit, test the vibration and enjoy!


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Oral hygiene

This is popular, so are electric pencil erasers and shavers:

Use an electric toothbrush! Rub it against your clit,, it feels so good.


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Hairbrush

I bet half the hairbrushes sold are actually used for this purpose:

I like to take the handle of a hairbrush, the thicker the better, put a condom on it, and use it as a dildo. If the handle isn't a perfect cylinder it's even better because you can rotate it inside you to put pressure on different places. I like to lie on my back in the bathtub, stick the handle in, and turn the water on so it hits my clit. When my pussy gets too wet and slippery that the hairbrush starts to slide out, scoot forward a little and the front wall of the bathtub will push it back in.


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Space cadet

Not an unpleasant image:

I like to lie on my bed with my legs in the air and spread wide open. Usually, I prop my legs against the headboard. I rub my clit gently in a circular motion, getting more and more intense as I get more and more horny. When I start to get really aroused, I use my legs to thrust my lower torso into the air, up and off of the mattress. The orgasm is so great because you feel like you're defying gravity.


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Rider on the Storm

No wonder teddy has a smile on his face:

Riding pillows or teddy bears works best for a slow build up to an amazing orgasm.
I have been doing this even as a little girl. Humping the edge of a bed (mattress) feels delicious too.


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Pool Part

Forget about swimming laps:

If you have a pool or hot tub, get in front of one of the jets or blowers and spread your legs as far as you can. Get kinda far from it and let it hit your clit and slowly begin to go closer to the jet. The closer you get the more intense the stimulation. You cum pretty quickly so I normally do it a few times. It feels so great. I usually stay in front of mine when the whole time I am in my pool


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Slip and Slide

Just make sure you've scrubbed the tub clean first:

I like to straddle the edge of the bath tub with one leg inside the tub and one out, while slowly rocking back and forth, if you get the edge wet first too it works even better and it gives you a great feeling of slippery wetness that sends drives yours senses wild. It also makes great suction noises and can make you cum right away.


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Home Alone

You go girl:

My husband works graveyard shifts, so when he is at work I like to play. We have a small collection of porno movies that I love to watch. I get naked and turn on a movie in the front room of the house. First I start with rubbing my nipples to make them nice and hard. Normally do this for at least 5 minutes. By the time I am ready to play with my clit it swells and throbs, I use a few drops of lube on my index finger and first rub lightly in a circular motion, I tease myself like this for a while. When I just cant take it any more I pinch my clit with the pointer finger and thumb of my right hand and I bang myself with at least two fingers on my left hand. I usually have vagina juice running out of my pussy and into my asshole. I love it so much and my husband has no idea.

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Justagirl

I myself think the anticipation of sex can sometimes be much better than sex it's self.... so I say do what you want to do and have fun at it.

onodrim

iamtheone - thank you so much for that great list of ideas, I'll be sure to check some of them out.

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Stompy

Hit the nail right on the head with that one.

It's funny how people think sex is more special than it really is. It's as natural to life as eating, breathing, and shitting. If you're saving it for a rainy day, then you're wasting time, IMO, but hey, it's your time, you can waste it however you want ta. I promise you this, the day you finally decide to do it, you'll be regretting the fact you didn't do it sooner.

...and the whole "I want to give my virginity to the right person" is very silly. What is this, 16th century England? No one beats your ass or burns you at the stake anymore if you get married "impure". I mean, you don't get anything for waiting. It's not like a magical bunny hops out and gives you a gold star or somethin, haha. That kind of mentality is what brings on crazy fems "I can't leave him or let anyone else have him. *I* gave him my virginity!!"

I know someone who will give oral and do everything BUT sex. Putting a dick in your mouth is in no way different than putting it between your legs. Mouth = hole in the body. Vagina = hole in the body. The only difference is you can get pregnant with one of em if you aren't on birth control.

I'm usually one to respect other's beliefs and feelings on issues, but this is ONE thing I think is just utterly silly. People need to give into their sexual impulses or you'll just end up torturing yourself.

(No offense to anyone, that's my opinion on the matter )

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Silvanio

Personally, the choices me and my fiancee we don't regret. Just a matter of personal choice, personal desires and... yeah, being good friends with someone who got pregnant entirely too early helps a lot too.

unoaman

Good point Stompy.

As is evidenced here, there are lots of ways to have fun, and be intimate with actual penetration...but I'm unable to go along with the oral. I would much rather my partner had had actual sex with someone else, than given them a blow job. I fail to understand what you are saving...a vagina that is supposed to receive a penis, or your mouth, that to me takes a great deal more consideration to use. Both are fine, but to say "I am a virgin, but I blew the football team sucks". (so to speak)

fro2020

More things than I would ever have imagined...Thanks!

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Shampoo Bottle's Many Uses

Take an empty shampoo bottle. Don't stick it in our anything, just fill it up with warm water, then squirt it on your clit. Also, when it's empty, squeeze it, then put it on your clit. Release it and it'll give a nice good suck.


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Shower Head

When you take a bath , sit down and let the water fill until your tummy. Then unscrew the shower head, so that you have a very strong stream of water directed toward your clit. Open your legs and enjoy. Sometimes I cum this way for 2 minutes.


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Dildo Tease

What I like to do is with a dildo, rub it against my clit with a massaging motion. Then I tease myself by putting the head of the dildo inside me then taking it out and rubbing it against my clit again. I do this until it just drives me crazy until I put the whole dildo inside me.


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That's the Spot

Find a smooth curved object (I like to use a butter knife handle) and insert it into your pussy while lightly touching your clit. When you feel you are ready to cum, wiggle the knife handle and push it up until it presses the vagina wall on the pubic hair side and put more pressure on your clit. If you get lucky enough to find your G-spot you will feel like you have a huge cock inside you.


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Fingers in Motion

Put a rubber band or condom over 3 or 4 fingers so they get pushed close together and on top of each other. Then bang them into yourself. With your other hand you can finger your anus or clitty.


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That's the Spot (6/6/00)

Find a smooth curved object (I like to use a butter knife handle) and insert it into your pussy while lightly touching your clit. When you feel you are ready to cum, wiggle the knife handle and push it up until it presses the vagina wall on the pubic hair side and put more pressure on your clit. If you get lucky enough to find your G-spot you will feel like you have a huge cock inside you.


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Bzzzzzzzz (6/5/00)

I bought a mini vibrator and can sit anywhere with it in and work and no one knows, the longer it's in the hotter and wetter I get. Only cost $17.00 whilst in Canada - and it's fantastic. I cooked dinner for a friend of my husband the other night and no one even guessed why I had such a smile on my face. A good battery lasts about 6 hours - I can only take it for maybe 4 hours then I've just got to CUMMMMMMMMM!


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Pillow Tower (5/6/00)

When no one is home and I have no way to get caught, I stack 4 or 5 pillows on top of each other. I lay a towel over the top one, and the terrycloth is an amazing stimulator. make sure to use regular bedpillows, as it prolongs the orgasm, and builds you up slowly, allowing for a more powerful climax. Mount the pillows and just rub back and forth, not too much, or you'll numb yourself. You almost don't even slide, it's more of a rocking motion than anything else. As I get to the end, before I climax, I stop, play with my nipples awhile, and start again. I do this a few times. It takes time, but it is all worth it in the end, trust me. when I finish my last "round" I put a small, beanie-baby sized stuffed animal under the top pillow, so I have something a little more firm to ride. use anything as hard as a shoe if you like. Or just use the pillows, it is up to you, you know what you like. The orgasm is intense and amazing


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Pillow Saddle (5/6/00)

Stick a couple of pillows on your bed, one on top of the other. Straddle the mound and simply slide your clit up and down the length of the pillows. You should be coming in no time.


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Sit on it (4/13/00)

Put a pillow on a chair. Place a Venus butterfly or another battery-operated toy on the pillow. Straddle the chair so that you can hold on to the back and lower yourself onto your vibrator so that it touches your clit. Turn on your vibrator and move back and forth. Since it's hands free, I've had some knock your socks off orgasms this way! My knees are usually very weak but since I'm sitting down anyway it's no problem.


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Rub-a-dub-dub (4/13/00)

Lie in an empty bathtub. Spread your legs wide and turn on the faucet to a lukewarm, yet on the colder side temperature. Scoot down to a position where the constant flow of the water is on your clit. Position your arms so your elbows are holding you up, and I like to keep my hands wedged under my butt (this adds more pressure I think). As you start getting hotter and hotter, change the temperature to more of a hot one, and enjoy! Gives great orgasms almost every time! I don't recommend filling the bathtub up first, this gives too much water and the hot water runs out quickly leaving you with freezing cold left which numbs your clit.


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Sit on it (2/6/00)

I like to sit on the washer when it goes really fast and it vibrates until I can't stand it. I sit on it for at least 5 minutes it feels really good.


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Toys 'r' us (1/20/00)

The best is when you use a dildo and a vibrator at the same time. First you start with a little lotion and the dildo. Put the lotion on the dildo and gently insert into your pussy. Then when you start getting really hot, you grab the vibrator and start rubbing your clitoris with it. Try climaxing as many times as you can, the more the better.


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Shower fun (1/20/00)

In the shower, get a cucumber or any other long cylindrical object, and stick it inside you (you probably should put a condom on it first). Take your massaging shower head, put it on the shiatsu setting, aim it at your clit and enjoy! For the best results, squeeze and then relax your legs to increase the tension.


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Flex, relax, flex, relax (1/1/00)

Take your index and middle finger and place them on your clit. Harden the muscles in your legs as much as you can and imagine your hips are being pushed back. Now take the two fingers on your clit and move them back and forth, while still pressing on your clit. Then once you get the hang of it tighten and untighten your legs to give added effect, but not too much. This usually sends me into an orgasm. It's hard to keep this up after the orgasm, but you can place your fingers in a spot slightly above or below your clit to do this again many times.


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Portable vibrating stationery (12/30/99)

Do you know those dizzy doodler pens that vibrate and make those squiggly lines?? Well all you do is take one of them and use the end that is flat. Turn it on and you will be cumming in seconds. This is a clean and easy way. You can even travel with it!


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Don't forget the veggies (12/13/99)

I must have a vegetable fetish. Often times, I find that a ripened cucumber, squash, or broccoli serve as a good replacement for my husband during his business trips. I must say each vegetable has its own distinctive feeling. The cucumber is your typical penis feeling, the squash provides that much wanted girth, and the broccoli (although sometimes messy) provides a unique and tantalizing feeling. P.S. Don't forget to remove them from underneath the bed before he returns.


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Tap, tap, tap (11/28/99)

I like to tap my clit rapidly. Faster and faster and faster. It gets me hot, wet, and when I reach the edge, I rub it hard. Always works. Always.


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Hurts so good (11/28/99)

One thing I like doing is to squeeze my breast down to the tip so that the nipple sticks up proud. Then I dig the tip of my fingernail into the tip of my nipple and push it down hard so that the nipple disappears into my breast. It hurts like hell but it is VERY exciting. Then I suddenly release it and the nipple stands up stiffer than ever. My whole breast aches and throbs. Then I do it again. After a few times, I do it to the other nipple. Soon both breasts are throbbing with my pulse and my nipples are sort of twitching. It is SO exciting I get off really quickly after just a few minutes of squeezing my clitoris.


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Rushing water (11/22/99)

Lay down in the bath with your legs opened wide. Then open the tap as fast as it goes, (on cold), letting the water run on your clit. Make sure there is a lot of pressure flowing out of the tap. After a few minutes turn the water to a hotter temperature, being careful not to burn yourself. It feels so great, better then sex or a dildo, but make sure your legs are as wide as they can go for maximum effect.


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Look, no hands (11/22/99)

When I get really horny, the lips of my vagina get swollen and my clitoris gets puffy. When that happens, I can get into a position so that I can sort of trap the ridge of my clitoris between my lips. By squeezing my thighs together and then releasing them I can get a fantastic sensation round my vulva. If I keep this movement up, I get even hornier and everything gets even more swollen and slimy. It means that I can often get off 'hands free' and so I can fondle my breasts and pinch my nipples at the same time. I can often do this by crossing my legs and pressing my thighs together, and what is more I can often do it in public! That is the ultimate turn-on!!! I can also do it while I'm typing - like right now!


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Pillow squeeze (11/7/99)

I like to take a pillow and take one of its corners and twist it so it makes a hard knot. then I put it on my pussy and close my legs very tightly and squeeze.


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Oral hygiene (10/29/99)

Take an electric toothbrush (preferably one with varying speeds) and turn it on, moving it around your inner thigh until you get nice and wet. Without a little lubrication, this can be kind of uncomfortable. Then bring it right on top of your clit, first to one side, then the other. Usually one side of your clitty is more sensitive than the other. If you REALLY want to drive yourself wild, leave the toothbrush on that side for most of the time. It really feels divine!


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Slow tease (10/24/99)

I always start with my nipples because it makes me really horny. I rub my breasts and pinch or role my nipples between my fingers until they are really hard. If I do that for long enough my clit is twitching before I even touch it. I like to lay on my bed naked and after I play with and stroke my tits and nipples. I start stroking myself down to my pussy. I use baby oil on my hands and pussy and I very lightly begin to tease my pussy and clit by stroking around the sides of my clit while only very lightly touching it. I do this for a while and occasionally rub my clit directly, then go back to light touching and teasing it. I do that for as long as I can stand it, and it really drives my wild. I moan so loud I am afraid of being heard. Finally when I know I can't put off climaxing any longer, I rub my clit good and and hard and it is fantastic.


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The pussy pet (10/14/99)

Using enough lube to create a smooth hand-to-pussy connection. Gently pat your clit with your hand flat. Occasionally, hold your hand down, creating pressure and then go back to patting. Eventually, just press and release, not pulling the hand all the way off.


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The sandwich

Hold your clit from its base between two fingers with one hand while stroking it with your other hand (either one finger or more rubbing). The pressure of the stroke is up to you, of course, but continue to maintain the sandwich effect while you rub.


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One girl in a tub

While you are taking a bath lie on your back with your legs far apart. Then scoot down and let the tub faucet hit your vagina. It feels great!


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The shovel

Using a dildo or other object, pretend your toy is a shovel and you are softly digging. With a forward, gliding motion, slide the toy down to your clit, across it and then upward, removing it from your body completely. Repeat over and over and over until you drive yourself crazy.

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iamtheone

Now, we just need some willing individual to post a FULL REVIEW on each and everyone of these techniques to help others achieve positive and satisfying sexual stimulation.

OK, who has their hands raised?

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rukkyg

If you're rubbing your dick on her pussy or dry humping her or participating in oral sex, what are your reasons to not just have sex?

The first one, virginity, is bullshit. If you break up and tell the next person "yeah we rubbed together and i sucked his dick a lot but we never had sex! tee hee!" and expecting him to feel different than if you just had sex, you're insane. If you think that this is somehow not sex in the eyes of some God, then you're also insane, for 2 reasons.

Now if you think that it's to not get pregneant, I can respect that, but any contact between the penis and vagina, even without penetration, can lead to pregnancy. In fact, you're putting yourself at more risk by dry humping with thin sweatpants or silk boxers than you are if you just had sex with some form of contraception. And what child wants to grow up knowing that they were conceived without their parents even having "sex"?

Edit: Oh, and if you're doing the things on this page in addition to sex without trying to fool yourself in to thinking you're not having sex, then I'm all for that.

rukkyg

I'd like to quote myself here and mention that sex education in school today is only allowed to teach abstinence if they wish to receive federal funding. I bet that teenagers growing up right now won't know the knowledge in my quote because of this. Thanks W!

fallenangel

iamtheone -> Wow, i've been lookin for a few new ideas, and that's just wonderful Gonna have some real fun giving some of those a whirl...woot!

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basmoq

I'm with ya on this one analog, get a condom, and go at it

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jordan_is_god

i used to dry hump as a way of getting a virgin to give in... cruel i know... im going to hell.. i know... but i would start out clothed then less clothes then naked... grinding away... sliding up and down the moose knuckle watching her enjoy it... occasionally dipping the tip in a lil... to get it wet to make it slide easier is what i would tell them then gradually slip it in... most wouldnt even flinch... they were past the point of no return... god im going to hell