If you're rubbing your dick on her pussy or dry humping her or participating in oral sex, what are your reasons to not just have sex?
The first one, virginity, is bullshit. If you break up and tell the next person "yeah we rubbed together and i sucked his dick a lot but we never had sex! tee hee!" and expecting him to feel different than if you just had sex, you're insane. If you think that this is somehow not sex in the eyes of some God, then you're also insane, for 2 reasons.
Now if you think that it's to not get pregneant, I can respect that, but any contact between the penis and vagina, even without penetration, can lead to pregnancy. In fact, you're putting yourself at more risk by dry humping with thin sweatpants or silk boxers than you are if you just had sex with some form of contraception. And what child wants to grow up knowing that they were conceived without their parents even having "sex"?
Edit: Oh, and if you're doing the things on this page in addition to sex without trying to fool yourself in to thinking you're not having sex, then I'm all for that.
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