John Henry

My girlfriend and I have been going out for about a year now. When she is studying at uni we either don't see each other or I go and visit her and we have our own space. However, I still live with my folks and she lives with, so when she comes home, we have a lot of trouble finding our own space. Any ideas?

omega2K4

Get a nice hotel room? Ask a friend if you could use their place?

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la petite moi

Wait until someone's parents go out of town. HEHEHEH.

visotech

Yeah i have the opposite situation you do, im at a university and my gf is at home. The only time i got to go home since we got togather was thanksgiving where we got a hotel room for one night. Other then that we went to the park (its winter, it was wayy to cold..lol) and then in the car (just oral and fingering). Im wondering if theres any better places. Her friend has a 2 bedroom apt where one room is empty, gosh i wish she'd ask her heh that would be sooo nice.

John Henry

Her folks are really funny about us going away together and neither of our families ever seem to go anywhere.

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insidious_machinae

offer to house-sit for any friends/relatives going on vacation. usually they'll pay you or whatever, and if you have no conscience, you can use the house for your dirty deeds.

Rodney

Out here in sunny California we have hot-tub bath houses or Japanese-style bath houses. Whatever the name, you can rent a private room by the hour with a hot-tub or whirlpool bath or whatever -- depends on the place. And if you think people just bathe in those rooms, you've got another think coming. But many such places are pretty classy; you got anything like that back where you are?

It's going to cost, but probably not as much as a hotel room.

TheFirstDuffMan

Got a car?

You might want to look in that outdoors sex thread for outdoorsy ideas.

numist

Best I ever had, I was standing outside my house at night, and she randomly dropped down and gave me a BJ.

Most unexpected (and best) I ever had

Rainmountain

A good problem to have. If you both wat it bad enough you will find a dark corner if need be.

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feelgood

I had the same problem. What we did was either

Do it in the car in someplace remote.
Do it at a time when nobody is home. Like, before they all come home from school and work. Or they're out at a event or party, etc etc.

Takes a lot of committment to do those kind of thing, all you gotta do is be patient. All it takes.

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numist

My g/f and I did the deed the first time at her place one weekend afternoon. Her mom had gone out to run errands, and we had 4 hours to ease into it and enjoy ourselves. I reccomend you do that.

MSD

Tell your parents, "We're going to a party, bye"

This would be a good time to explore your wild side. Find semi-public places. Have the thrill of almost getting caught.

visotech

What are these places called and where in cali do you live? Im from the bay area, i dont know of any of these places...

insidious_machinae

I'm from the valley in CA and I haven't heard of those places either.

la petite moi

Me neither.

Zorvox

Find a nice private park?

Or somewhere where there is noone around ?

frozenstellar

you dont stay at her place when you come around? or do your folks live in the same town?

yeah, her folks might be home - but it hasnt stopped us before. sure, i've had her draw blood on my back and teeth marks in my arm to silence her, but if thats what it has to come to - then so be it, thats the way we see it

la petite moi

Wow frozen...wow.

Pragma

frozen: I can't say I've had anything exactly like that happen to me, but I've had close - teeth marks on my shoulder from her trying not to scream. No blood drawn, though. That'd be a bit difficult to explain to her flatmates when we walked out "Oh, uh, he just started bleeding spontaneously."

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feelgood

damn, same thing happened to me but not to the point of blood drawing...

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analog

my ex and i used to get it on in the changing rooms of stores in the mall. i went to visit and stayed in their house, so no go on the house.

valkan

I wish i could find some sort of place, it seems like pravacy is the hardest thing to find. Waiting on a first time with a girl, we are all good and ready, we have our fun but usually someone is around, the house is never empty. Im just considering the idea of "we're watching a movie downstairs, piss off for a few hours" :P

frozenstellar

she's only drawn blood once. i'd been on a two week study program setup by my school that was out of town to have no distractions as to get the most out of their best students, the evening after i got back we went out for dinner then came back to her place. her younger siblings asleep in the room next to hers, she had to be silent... didnt exactly fancy her 8year old sister waking her dad up because she's hearing strange noises coming from her sisters room.

it's hard to think where you could have sex outdoors without sweltering - we're heading into a nasty summer already, and the thought of doing the deed anywhere but near a fan/aircon is just nasty.

as said earlier in the thread - perhaps wait for parents to leave? surely they have jobs that require them to be out of the house? when the cats away, the mice will come out to play.

WarWagon

My girlfriend and I had this trouble over Thanksgiving break. End up having sex in her car in a dimly lit parking lot right off of main street.

Rodney

My original post was about by-the-hour hot tub or bath house rentals in California.

Okay, I live in Santa Cruz, on the coast, and we have four or five of these places in town. What can I say, it's that kind of place. There were a ton of them up in San Francisco, too, when I lived there, but maybe AIDS has impacted the business.

If you're looking in your local yellow pages (American only), you might find them under Spas & Hot Tubs -- Rentals. That's where they are in my book.

aurigus

I agree with the others. Sneaking around is half the fun.