Koosh

I'd say date her and others her age and older. The idea of committing to anyone at your age is absurd. Life is much to short to get lost in the details at your ate. Date her, date others, enjoy! Why do we get stuck with the idea that dating means commitment. I am guilty as well. But in reality, dating means getting to know someone, not fucking or committing on the first date.

hobo

I haven't made up my mind yet. I know that the age gap will lead to problems and I need to think this through some more. I don't go out all that much and I don't plan on hanging out at bars so that her being underage for bars isn't going to be an issue. Also as I mentioned before I don't plan on having sex any time soon so that shouldn't be an issue. There are still other issues though, like her family might be uncomfortable with it and stuff. I dunno. I'll take some time and think about this and I'll let you know what I do.

tempestfeir

For dateing purposes your fine. But for everyone saying she's 15 go for the sex, i'd wait right there. Teens are only allowed to have sexual relationships up to 2 years older or younger. So technically it would be statatory rape if you had sex with her right now. But as you say sex is no problem.

Ho-train

The rule i always go by, is: take your age (18) divide it by 2 (9) and add 7 = (16)

So yea! go for the gusto!!

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Coolidge

I would say you're fine, but just know that you're going to (or are in) College. The relationship is over then. Unless she absolutely loves you (which isn't likely at that age) she's going to want to hang out with high school guys after you're gone.

Knowing that, go for it

89transam

Too young man

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the420star

i am going to have to say i wouldnt... i spent some time when i was 18 talking to a girl that was 15 and to be honest it isnt really worth it. At 15 they have all the peer pressure from there friends to have a "Boyfriend" and you dont want to be in a relationship with someone 3 years younger than you at that point in your life. They still have a lot of growing up to do, and often times no matter how mature they seem are unable to handle much of anything emotionaly. Just my experiance...

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Boardslut

Unless she's a really intelligent 15 year old you *might* get bored of all the teenage bullshit you almost grown out of. I've got a 14 year old sister and if you would be dating her ... you would definately have a problem.

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brandon11983

eeeh. I say go for it. Do whatever makes the two of you happy. I, at 20, just got out of a relationship with a 15/16 (she just turned 16 recently) yr old chick, everything went well, her parents were cool with it, mine were as well. We saw no reason to stay apart and deny each other what we wanted.

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eple

Too young. Age/2+7.

a_divine_martyr

Meh, I'd say go for it.

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TM875

As a band kid, the whole senior-dating-freshman thing happened a lot. It was kind of creepy, especially when you knew the senior guy just wanted to get some from the younger girl.

Anyway, when I was a senior, I dated a junior who was 16. She was mature for her age, and the actual age difference didn't really matter. Honestly, it's all a question of maturity.

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Nazggul

I know you've said sex isn't an issue with the two of you, but you will likely be forced to face the issue if your families find out. They just won't believe that it isn't part of it. Then, there is the legality of it.

I know at your age 2 or 3 years seems like an eternity (actually it is based on how much you will change in that time) but I would wait if I were in your shoes. The potential downside is huge.

On the other hand, if sex really isn't an issue, then the bottom line is you are just friends.

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hobo

I guess that "just friends" thing is true then. Although if it somehow lasts 3 years, it could get past that. Unfortunately, it probably wouldn't last 3 years although I never know.