Exhibitionist or perv? or both? :P - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

monstermash · 10-08-2003, 09:56 PM

long time lurker here

heh, never told anyone this.....and wanted to see what ya'll think.

there's a girl next door, half asian/half white. senior in HS, so she's probably 18 years old. thin, but she's got a nice, perky rack and great ass. really damn fine. she's going to be absolutely smoking when she's in her twenties. known her since she was a kid, so i kind of wrong thinking about her sexually. i'm in my upper twenties.

this past summer she walked around often in short shorts and those shirts with spaghetti straps. i'd make small talk and flirt a little, but afterwards i'd laugh and keep thinking, "dude, she's a kid" and feel like a perv.

anyways, once she was outside drying her car, hair was kind of wet, she was bending over, gyrating alot, etc

......i would have normally said hi, but watching her gave huge woody and was wearing basketball shorts

i went inside and had to relieve myself. i was going about my business while fantasizing about her. while i was masturbating, i realized that my window sort of faced a window in her home and she was in the room, walking around. for some strange reason, instead of feeling embarassed, it turned me on even more. i figured, the hell with it, so i just kept going. i watched her walk back and forth and i swear it looked like she glanced in my direction. well, i finished and then thought about what i had done. in retrospect, i'm a little embarassed, but at the same time, it was such a turn on to think that she could have been watching me.

so, does this make me an exhibitionist or just a plain 'ole perv?

monstermash · 10-08-2003, 09:57 PM

btw, after that 'incident', when i saw her i just casually waved hi and smiled.....she just waved back and smiled :P

Rlyss · 10-08-2003, 11:50 PM

I wouldn't worry about it then

If she seemed ok then she either didn't see you masturbating or she did and she doesn't mind.

But don't be too obvious about it, whatever you do. If it turns out she just didn't see you before, and if you do it again and she does, she might not like it and you could really get in to a lot of trouble.

Don't mention it to her (keep flirting with her if you want though!) and don't be obvious about it. Wait and see if she brings it up.

tekaweni · 10-09-2003, 01:40 AM

Yeah I concur, it's ok to fantasize about her while you're punishing young Willy so long as you do it in your own space ie you take reasonable steps to keep it out of her sight. Standing by the window crosses over that line and would most likely get you a visit from the cops if she saw.

Interesting thought tho, how does an exhibitionist get off safely? Cant really run around the park in an overcoat...

prince_albert · 10-09-2003, 02:55 AM

When I was 14 I had a private tutor at my place I was often pulling it out in frond of her but never got any

johnnypistoelro · 10-09-2003, 03:06 AM

Dude, you are way not a perv., it's completely understandable. Hell if I would have been in your situation I would have been all over her like flies on shit.

sexymama · 10-09-2003, 05:59 AM

There is a huge difference between enjoying a fantasy and acting on it. As long as you are within your legal rights and not hurting her (which obviously you didn't) keep enjoying. And when she turns 18+, you may want to consider acting on your fantasies by asking her out.

little limey · 10-09-2003, 07:16 AM

Exibitionists get off on the idea of other people watching them and that's what you were doing. Late twenties isn't so bad. Don't worry about it.

cas305 · 10-09-2003, 07:17 AM

If you fell under the definition of perv, the world would be a much safer place!

vveronica · 10-09-2003, 07:22 AM

Yo know she saw you, she could have left or moved away from your view. She was putting a nice show on for you... Been there done that.

mattevil · 10-09-2003, 08:58 AM

well this story gave me a woody so you know now where i stand on this issue. Nobody's at risk for life altering decisions with this scenario and if she's 18(hell 17.5) i wouldn't worry about it. wouldn't act on it unless she came on to you though.

skysooner · 10-09-2003, 10:18 AM

18 is okay, but it all depends on whether you want something to last. People change a bunch between 18 and 22 and dating someone at 18 is not the same as it is a few years later. I'm not saying it can't work long-term, but it is a bit more difficult. However if she is of legal age, I would say go for it. You never know what you might be missing out on.

krd913 · 10-09-2003, 11:10 AM

What you did sounds ok to me wish I had a girl like that living next door to me.

monstermash · 10-09-2003, 12:58 PM

i definitely didn't have any sexual thoughts years back when she was just a kid. i just looked at her as the skinny little girl next door. it's just this past summer, i realized she's going to grow up into quite a looker

i'm not looking to start anything with her, she's just some nice nextdoor eye candy

thanks for the replies, guys.

motdakasha · 10-09-2003, 03:02 PM

personally i'd try to figure out her age in casual conversation just to make sure what you did was legally acceptable. if she's 17, just hope she didn't see. if she's 18 and generally receptive to your flirtations, this could possibly open up a whole new door. you could think about testing the waters for flirtatious but not serious games. what you did sounds kinda fun... for both people involved.

analog · 10-10-2003, 05:47 PM

and if she grew up next to you all those years, you probably have the "big brother" thing, or the "dammit I want to hump you" think going on. I hope it's the latter. good luck! (and make sure she's legal first, PLEASE)

WarWagon · 10-10-2003, 06:57 PM

Invite me over for lunch some time, just don't tell my girlfriend :-D

Seriously though, finding somebody hot and then taking things into your own hands is not being a perv. I have to agree with cas on this one!

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Originally posted by cas305
If you fell under the definition of perv, the world would be a much safer place!

10-08-2003, 09:56 PM	#1 (permalink)
monstermash Upright	Exhibitionist or perv? or both? :P (hot girl next door) long time lurker here heh, never told anyone this.....and wanted to see what ya'll think. there's a girl next door, half asian/half white. senior in HS, so she's probably 18 years old. thin, but she's got a nice, perky rack and great ass. really damn fine. she's going to be absolutely smoking when she's in her twenties. known her since she was a kid, so i kind of wrong thinking about her sexually. i'm in my upper twenties. this past summer she walked around often in short shorts and those shirts with spaghetti straps. i'd make small talk and flirt a little, but afterwards i'd laugh and keep thinking, "dude, she's a kid" and feel like a perv. anyways, once she was outside drying her car, hair was kind of wet, she was bending over, gyrating alot, etc ......i would have normally said hi, but watching her gave huge woody and was wearing basketball shorts i went inside and had to relieve myself. i was going about my business while fantasizing about her. while i was masturbating, i realized that my window sort of faced a window in her home and she was in the room, walking around. for some strange reason, instead of feeling embarassed, it turned me on even more. i figured, the hell with it, so i just kept going. i watched her walk back and forth and i swear it looked like she glanced in my direction. well, i finished and then thought about what i had done. in retrospect, i'm a little embarassed, but at the same time, it was such a turn on to think that she could have been watching me. so, does this make me an exhibitionist or just a plain 'ole perv? Last edited by monstermash; 10-08-2003 at 10:15 PM..

10-09-2003, 01:40 AM	#4 (permalink)
tekaweni It wasnt me Location: Scotland	Yeah I concur, it's ok to fantasize about her while you're punishing young Willy so long as you do it in your own space ie you take reasonable steps to keep it out of her sight. Standing by the window crosses over that line and would most likely get you a visit from the cops if she saw. Interesting thought tho, how does an exhibitionist get off safely? Cant really run around the park in an overcoat... __________________ If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always gotten

10-09-2003, 05:59 AM	#7 (permalink)
sexymama My own person -- his by choice Location: Lebell's arms	There is a huge difference between enjoying a fantasy and acting on it. As long as you are within your legal rights and not hurting her (which obviously you didn't) keep enjoying. And when she turns 18+, you may want to consider acting on your fantasies by asking her out. __________________ If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.

10-09-2003, 07:22 AM	#10 (permalink)
vveronica Psycho Location: northern california	Yo know she saw you, she could have left or moved away from your view. She was putting a nice show on for you... Been there done that. __________________ ...We find ourselves in a struggle for our very right to exsist... We will not go quietly into the night... We will not give up without a fight...

10-09-2003, 03:02 PM	#15 (permalink)
motdakasha Hiya Puddin'! Miss me? Location: Silicon Valley, CA	personally i'd try to figure out her age in casual conversation just to make sure what you did was legally acceptable. if she's 17, just hope she didn't see. if she's 18 and generally receptive to your flirtations, this could possibly open up a whole new door. you could think about testing the waters for flirtatious but not serious games. what you did sounds kinda fun... for both people involved. __________________ =^-^= motdakasha =^-^= Just Google It. BA Psychology & Photography (I'm not going psychoanalyze you nor will I let you cry on my shoulder. Have a nice day.)

10-08-2003, 09:57 PM	#2 (permalink)
monstermash Upright	btw, after that 'incident', when i saw her i just casually waved hi and smiled.....she just waved back and smiled :P

10-08-2003, 11:50 PM	#3 (permalink)
Rlyss The Pusher Location: Edinburgh	I wouldn't worry about it then If she seemed ok then she either didn't see you masturbating or she did and she doesn't mind. But don't be too obvious about it, whatever you do. If it turns out she just didn't see you before, and if you do it again and she does, she might not like it and you could really get in to a lot of trouble. Don't mention it to her (keep flirting with her if you want though!) and don't be obvious about it. Wait and see if she brings it up.

10-09-2003, 02:55 AM	#5 (permalink)
prince_albert Banned Location: Bradford, UK	When I was 14 I had a private tutor at my place I was often pulling it out in frond of her but never got any

10-09-2003, 03:06 AM	#6 (permalink)
johnnypistoelro Upright Location: right here	Dude, you are way not a perv., it's completely understandable. Hell if I would have been in your situation I would have been all over her like flies on shit.

10-09-2003, 07:16 AM	#8 (permalink)
little limey Psycho Location: Room Nineteen	Exibitionists get off on the idea of other people watching them and that's what you were doing. Late twenties isn't so bad. Don't worry about it.

10-09-2003, 07:17 AM	#9 (permalink)
cas305 Insane Location: Indiana	If you fell under the definition of perv, the world would be a much safer place!

10-09-2003, 08:58 AM	#11 (permalink)
mattevil Addict Location: Virginia	well this story gave me a woody so you know now where i stand on this issue. Nobody's at risk for life altering decisions with this scenario and if she's 18(hell 17.5) i wouldn't worry about it. wouldn't act on it unless she came on to you though.

10-09-2003, 10:18 AM	#12 (permalink)
skysooner Registered User Location: Oklahoma	18 is okay, but it all depends on whether you want something to last. People change a bunch between 18 and 22 and dating someone at 18 is not the same as it is a few years later. I'm not saying it can't work long-term, but it is a bit more difficult. However if she is of legal age, I would say go for it. You never know what you might be missing out on.

10-09-2003, 11:10 AM	#13 (permalink)
krd913 Crazy	What you did sounds ok to me wish I had a girl like that living next door to me.

10-09-2003, 12:58 PM	#14 (permalink)
monstermash Upright	i definitely didn't have any sexual thoughts years back when she was just a kid. i just looked at her as the skinny little girl next door. it's just this past summer, i realized she's going to grow up into quite a looker i'm not looking to start anything with her, she's just some nice nextdoor eye candy thanks for the replies, guys.

10-10-2003, 05:47 PM	#16 (permalink)
analog Banned	and if she grew up next to you all those years, you probably have the "big brother" thing, or the "dammit I want to hump you" think going on. I hope it's the latter. good luck! (and make sure she's legal first, PLEASE)