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Shokan · 09-05-2003, 12:23 PM

http://www.dailycal.org/article.asp?id=12530

Sex on Tuesday: Slip Between the Cheeks

TUESDAY,
SEPTEMBER 2, 2003

Strangely clear in my memory is an episode of the British one-man show, Mr. Bean, in which a naked Rowan Atkinson ends up scurrying around a hotel with nothing but a few signs to preserve his dignity: "private" to shield the twig and berries, and "exit only" for the tush.

Amusing, yes, but I can't help but feel a twinge of sadness for Bean's poor, neglected prostate. While I certainly don't want to subject anyone to a lengthy reflection on Mr. Atkinson's anus, perhaps it's time we all take a moment to reflect on the back doors of the men we sleep with.

During a drunken conversation I had with a bunch of flaming heterosexuals, a guy silenced a round of butt-sex jokes by saying, "Look, I slept with a girl once who put these beads in my ass, and when I started to come, she pulled them out. I came so hard that, man, if any woman ever wants to put anything in my ass again, I'm all for it." Wise words.

The tissue of the anus itself and the surrounding area contains dense nerve endings and swells up during arousal—as do the labia, clitoris, and penis (I see this as our bodies' natural way of saying "touch me!"). Even if your partner isn't down with the idea of sending anything in the "out" door, if you lightly brush his anus with your fingertips during your next blow or hand job, he might surprise himself by craving more.

Any attempt to stimulate the anus generally goes off a lot better if the recipient is good and aroused first, and a gentle lubed massage, increasing in enthusiasm, is generally a good introduction if you plan to stick anything in.

For those seeking a more intense and intimate experience, male anal stimulation pretty much comes down to the prostate. This little nugget of sexual goodness, often referred to as the "male G-spot," is a gland that lies kind of between the penis and the rectum and plays a role in ejaculation.

All we really need to know here is that it provides intense waves of sexual pleasure to the recipient when pressed. It can be stimulated somewhat by pushing up on the perineum (that expanse of skin between the balls and anus) while a man is aroused, but the only way to get directly at this puppy is through the butt.

While a man is lying on his back, aroused, the prostate can be located by one or more well-lubed fingers inserted slowly and gently into the anus (palm up) and pressing towards his tummy. It generally feels kind of different from the surrounding area, a bit harder, and the male in question usually emits spectacular noises, which signals you're in the right place.

Many men describe sensations of frantically desperate pleasure, a sense of imminent explosion, or losing track of time and space at this point.

Contrary to popular belief, poo does not hang out right on the other side of your sphincter, but higher up in the bowels, well out of reach of the casually probing finger. This means you only need to worry about icky consequences if the probee feels the immediate need to poop.

For those who still feel a little funny immersing their fingers in the poop chute, latex gloves, finger cots (little condoms for your finger), or good ol' condoms put a reassuringly waterproof, disposable barrier between you and your loved one.

Squeamishness aside, such barriers are a very good idea for anyone planning an expedition. The rectum is made of very delicate tissue, and while the giver should always make sure his or her nails are nice and short and smooth, latex helps provide that extra easy glide touch. Also, LUBE LUBE LUBE LUBE LUBE. The rectum doesn't produce its own, and insufficient moisture can make an otherwise fantastic experience pinchy and unpleasant.

This column is too short, but future weeks will address more. For now, I highly recommend the Good Vibrations Web site magazine archive, which has an amazing series of articles specifically about anal stimulation for men. So check it out, have a chat with your partner, and get spelunking!

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Never tried it, mayhaps I will. Has anyone else tried this? What was your experiences? Good/bad/weird?

im2smrt4u · 09-05-2003, 02:08 PM

I've done it a couple times. Weird? Yes, a little. Good? Definately!

JStrider · 09-05-2003, 03:40 PM

shrug... im not really against it... *shrug* if arie wanted to try that she could...

meff · 09-05-2003, 04:02 PM

Whats wrong with that?

Ass play is fun

kingal · 09-09-2003, 01:37 PM

I had a girlfriend that loved to play with my ass. Mostly fingers and tongue. I'll tell ya, she loved it like crazy and after a few times of being open to let her explore me like I asked to explore her - I'll never say no. Feels awesome and I must say she enjoyed it as much as I did...

All you freaky closed minded boys get over it. Theres more to pleasure than just the act of pounding. Its not like jail rape (unless you ask for it to be)

zombieman · 09-09-2003, 08:33 PM

I really enjoy it, as long as my girlfriend is gentle.

lee251968 · 11-07-2003, 11:25 AM

I asked my wife to try it once and for me she did. I thought it was increadible but unfortunally she did not enjoy it. I have not approached the subject since.

Jim Kata · 11-07-2003, 11:30 AM

Tried it, but didn't like it. Maybe it just wasn't being done right. But honestly, I don't want to find out anymore after that first experience.

I kept feeling like I needed to take a dumper. And plus, I don't even know if my woman's fingers are long enough to find the "Golden Walnut". That is why I don't know if its worth it to try again.

Mango · 11-07-2003, 11:42 AM

I wanna try it but my wife willnot go there.

jvwgtr · 11-07-2003, 11:54 AM

It's the best! But not everybody will feel comfortable going there, unfortunately.

Devilchild · 11-07-2003, 12:59 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by im2smrt4u
I've done it a couple times. Weird? Yes, a little. Good? Definately!

yeah its fun, but sooo weird. and you do feel like you need to dump.

motdakasha · 11-07-2003, 02:17 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Jim Kata
I kept feeling like I needed to take a dumper. And plus, I don't even know if my woman's fingers are long enough to find the "Golden Walnut". That is why I don't know if its worth it to try again.

Unless she is of the "Wee" persuasion, her fingers are probably long enough.

MooseMan3000 · 11-07-2003, 02:23 PM

Yeah, I've done it a few times. Sometimes it feels sort of like I need to go to the bathroom, but it's not exactly the same. And as long as there's not too much movement, and it isn't too hard, it gives great stimulation. Trust me: when it works, it's worth it.

jw_toyboy · 11-07-2003, 05:00 PM

An ex girlfriend surprised me one day with some latex gloves and lube and I was all "Oh no... no f%@*ing way".
She offered a rather attractive deal that I could not refuse so I submitted to what I expected to be a major sacrifice (with an amazing pay off) however lets just say that procedure was even better than the reward!
It is the best orgasm your body can produce...
Don't believe me go hire a movie 'Road Trip' ( http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0215129/ )with Sean William Scott (a.k.a Steve Stifler from American Pie), a very funny movie, where his character asks for some 'assistance' at a sperm bank.

Lunchbox7 · 11-07-2003, 08:43 PM

Ive tried it and it is awsome. It makes the most powerfull orgasm. A toungue in the arse is one of the best feelings in the world. I can cum just from that.

elfuq · 11-09-2003, 11:48 PM

Um .. I have a 'come button' up there. Bored of giving head? Tickle the old prostate and boom, it's all over.

doncalypso · 02-12-2004, 06:38 PM

As much as I like to slip my unit between a woman's buttcheeks I must admit that I'm very uncomfortable with the idea of a woman doing any sort of anal play on me.

Being that I'm from a Caribbean culture where homophobia is pervasive, I doubt I could ever bring myself to even want to experiment getting my anus played with.

Charlatan · 02-13-2004, 07:12 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by doncalypso
Being that I'm from a Caribbean culture where homophobia is pervasive, I doubt I could ever bring myself to even want to experiment getting my anus played with.

I get why anal sex is associated with homosexuals but don't understand it...

From what I can see on this board there are a lot of very hetero couple engaging in anal sex all that time.

In fact I seem to recall seeing some stats that indicated there is more anal sex happening with straight couples than gay one...

Time to reassess your prejudice.

illesturban · 02-13-2004, 12:03 PM

yeah 'massaging', or whatever you wanna call it, the prostate is the best. when i've done it i've had the most incredible orgasms. like many i was really hesitant to do it at first for fear of what many think it means. But I think it's just ignorance... I think if more guys knew the outcome it wouldn't be that big a deal. In fact I bet more guys do it than are willing to admit. But yeah it's great; very powerful. The hardest part is probably just finding girls who are willing to do it. But yeah I'm definately all for it! heh

Prince · 02-13-2004, 01:37 PM

I've always wondered....people who are into, well, eating ass...aren't they bothered by the uhh taste of it? Honestly, I'm curious.

teriaki · 02-13-2004, 03:10 PM

Heh, that article was in the UC Berkeley weekly paper.

I read it a while back.

And Good Vibes, the place she mentioned? It's a great adult store here in San Francisco- very helpful, and very comfortable with some occasionally embarrassing issues

I've always received "thank you's!!" for the prostate inclusion in sex- I assume it feels as good as my own spots being hit just right

ariekitten · 02-13-2004, 10:21 PM

wow i had heard about the prostate gland giving good orgasms, but i had never thought it was good like "OMFG" good.....
i've always been particularly squeamish when it comes to anything dealing with the anal region.....but for someone i loved i would try it....just to see the look on his face when he comes that hard!!

sub zero · 02-15-2004, 11:10 PM

If I'm on top during sex I can't really control where my partner's hands go. Even just lightly running it over the rear entrance has mde me lose total concentration

-Ever- · 02-16-2004, 03:58 PM

No question whether it is amazing or not! See my wonderful, simple thread to see more 'confessions,' two of which come from some of my personal 'favorites' Sin and Nikki

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...threadid=37412

Quote:

Originally posted by ariekitten
but for someone i loved i would try it....just to see the look on his face when he comes that hard!!

A+ attitude

Bet you're a great lover.

09-05-2003, 12:23 PM	#1 (permalink)
Shokan Addict Location: Canada	Slip Between the Cheeks http://www.dailycal.org/article.asp?id=12530 Sex on Tuesday: Slip Between the Cheeks TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 2, 2003 Strangely clear in my memory is an episode of the British one-man show, Mr. Bean, in which a naked Rowan Atkinson ends up scurrying around a hotel with nothing but a few signs to preserve his dignity: "private" to shield the twig and berries, and "exit only" for the tush. Amusing, yes, but I can't help but feel a twinge of sadness for Bean's poor, neglected prostate. While I certainly don't want to subject anyone to a lengthy reflection on Mr. Atkinson's anus, perhaps it's time we all take a moment to reflect on the back doors of the men we sleep with. During a drunken conversation I had with a bunch of flaming heterosexuals, a guy silenced a round of butt-sex jokes by saying, "Look, I slept with a girl once who put these beads in my ass, and when I started to come, she pulled them out. I came so hard that, man, if any woman ever wants to put anything in my ass again, I'm all for it." Wise words. The tissue of the anus itself and the surrounding area contains dense nerve endings and swells up during arousal—as do the labia, clitoris, and penis (I see this as our bodies' natural way of saying "touch me!"). Even if your partner isn't down with the idea of sending anything in the "out" door, if you lightly brush his anus with your fingertips during your next blow or hand job, he might surprise himself by craving more. Any attempt to stimulate the anus generally goes off a lot better if the recipient is good and aroused first, and a gentle lubed massage, increasing in enthusiasm, is generally a good introduction if you plan to stick anything in. For those seeking a more intense and intimate experience, male anal stimulation pretty much comes down to the prostate. This little nugget of sexual goodness, often referred to as the "male G-spot," is a gland that lies kind of between the penis and the rectum and plays a role in ejaculation. All we really need to know here is that it provides intense waves of sexual pleasure to the recipient when pressed. It can be stimulated somewhat by pushing up on the perineum (that expanse of skin between the balls and anus) while a man is aroused, but the only way to get directly at this puppy is through the butt. While a man is lying on his back, aroused, the prostate can be located by one or more well-lubed fingers inserted slowly and gently into the anus (palm up) and pressing towards his tummy. It generally feels kind of different from the surrounding area, a bit harder, and the male in question usually emits spectacular noises, which signals you're in the right place. Many men describe sensations of frantically desperate pleasure, a sense of imminent explosion, or losing track of time and space at this point. Contrary to popular belief, poo does not hang out right on the other side of your sphincter, but higher up in the bowels, well out of reach of the casually probing finger. This means you only need to worry about icky consequences if the probee feels the immediate need to poop. For those who still feel a little funny immersing their fingers in the poop chute, latex gloves, finger cots (little condoms for your finger), or good ol' condoms put a reassuringly waterproof, disposable barrier between you and your loved one. Squeamishness aside, such barriers are a very good idea for anyone planning an expedition. The rectum is made of very delicate tissue, and while the giver should always make sure his or her nails are nice and short and smooth, latex helps provide that extra easy glide touch. Also, LUBE LUBE LUBE LUBE LUBE. The rectum doesn't produce its own, and insufficient moisture can make an otherwise fantastic experience pinchy and unpleasant. This column is too short, but future weeks will address more. For now, I highly recommend the Good Vibrations Web site magazine archive, which has an amazing series of articles specifically about anal stimulation for men. So check it out, have a chat with your partner, and get spelunking! ---------------------------------- Never tried it, mayhaps I will. Has anyone else tried this? What was your experiences? Good/bad/weird? __________________ Legalize it. Last edited by Shokan; 09-05-2003 at 01:27 PM..

09-05-2003, 02:08 PM	#2 (permalink)
im2smrt4u Beer Aficionado Location: Rancho Cucamonga, CA	I've done it a couple times. Weird? Yes, a little. Good? Definately! __________________ Starkizzer Fan Club - President & Founder

09-05-2003, 03:40 PM	#3 (permalink)
JStrider Poo-tee-weet? Location: The Woodlands, TX	shrug... im not really against it... shrug if arie wanted to try that she could... __________________ -=JStrider=- ~Clatto Verata Nicto

09-05-2003, 04:02 PM	#4 (permalink)
meff Vanishing, like I do.. Location: Austin, TX	Whats wrong with that? Ass play is fun __________________ Toy-like people make me boy-like.

11-07-2003, 11:30 AM	#8 (permalink)
Jim Kata Swollen Member Location: Northern VA	Tried it, but didn't like it. Maybe it just wasn't being done right. But honestly, I don't want to find out anymore after that first experience. I kept feeling like I needed to take a dumper. And plus, I don't even know if my woman's fingers are long enough to find the "Golden Walnut". That is why I don't know if its worth it to try again. Last edited by Jim Kata; 11-07-2003 at 12:26 PM..

09-09-2003, 01:37 PM	#5 (permalink)
kingal Crazy Location: sunny so. CA	I had a girlfriend that loved to play with my ass. Mostly fingers and tongue. I'll tell ya, she loved it like crazy and after a few times of being open to let her explore me like I asked to explore her - I'll never say no. Feels awesome and I must say she enjoyed it as much as I did... All you freaky closed minded boys get over it. Theres more to pleasure than just the act of pounding. Its not like jail rape (unless you ask for it to be)

09-09-2003, 08:33 PM	#6 (permalink)
zombieman Tilted Location: North Wales, UK	I really enjoy it, as long as my girlfriend is gentle.

11-07-2003, 11:25 AM	#7 (permalink)
lee251968 Upright	I asked my wife to try it once and for me she did. I thought it was increadible but unfortunally she did not enjoy it. I have not approached the subject since.

11-07-2003, 11:42 AM	#9 (permalink)
Mango Banned	I wanna try it but my wife willnot go there.

11-07-2003, 11:54 AM	#10 (permalink)
jvwgtr Completely bananas Location: Florida	It's the best! But not everybody will feel comfortable going there, unfortunately.

11-07-2003, 02:23 PM	#13 (permalink)
MooseMan3000 wouldn't mind being a ninja. Location: Maine, the Other White State.	Yeah, I've done it a few times. Sometimes it feels sort of like I need to go to the bathroom, but it's not exactly the same. And as long as there's not too much movement, and it isn't too hard, it gives great stimulation. Trust me: when it works, it's worth it.

11-07-2003, 05:00 PM	#14 (permalink)
jw_toyboy Tilted Location: Australia	An ex girlfriend surprised me one day with some latex gloves and lube and I was all "Oh no... no f%@*ing way". She offered a rather attractive deal that I could not refuse so I submitted to what I expected to be a major sacrifice (with an amazing pay off) however lets just say that procedure was even better than the reward! It is the best orgasm your body can produce... Don't believe me go hire a movie 'Road Trip' ( http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0215129/ )with Sean William Scott (a.k.a Steve Stifler from American Pie), a very funny movie, where his character asks for some 'assistance' at a sperm bank.

11-07-2003, 08:43 PM	#15 (permalink)
Lunchbox7 Addict	Ive tried it and it is awsome. It makes the most powerfull orgasm. A toungue in the arse is one of the best feelings in the world. I can cum just from that.

11-09-2003, 11:48 PM	#16 (permalink)
elfuq Insane Location: San Francisco	Um .. I have a 'come button' up there. Bored of giving head? Tickle the old prostate and boom, it's all over.

02-12-2004, 06:38 PM	#17 (permalink)
doncalypso TFP Mad Scientist Location: Philadelphia, PA	As much as I like to slip my unit between a woman's buttcheeks I must admit that I'm very uncomfortable with the idea of a woman doing any sort of anal play on me. Being that I'm from a Caribbean culture where homophobia is pervasive, I doubt I could ever bring myself to even want to experiment getting my anus played with. __________________ Doncalypso... the one and only Haitian Sensation

02-13-2004, 12:03 PM	#19 (permalink)
illesturban Psycho Location: Lubbock, TX	yeah 'massaging', or whatever you wanna call it, the prostate is the best. when i've done it i've had the most incredible orgasms. like many i was really hesitant to do it at first for fear of what many think it means. But I think it's just ignorance... I think if more guys knew the outcome it wouldn't be that big a deal. In fact I bet more guys do it than are willing to admit. But yeah it's great; very powerful. The hardest part is probably just finding girls who are willing to do it. But yeah I'm definately all for it! heh

02-13-2004, 01:37 PM	#20 (permalink)
Prince /nɑndəsˈkrɪpt/ Location: LV-426	I've always wondered....people who are into, well, eating ass...aren't they bothered by the uhh taste of it? Honestly, I'm curious. __________________ Who is John Galt?

02-13-2004, 03:10 PM	#21 (permalink)
teriaki Tilted Location: San Francisco	Heh, that article was in the UC Berkeley weekly paper. I read it a while back. And Good Vibes, the place she mentioned? It's a great adult store here in San Francisco- very helpful, and very comfortable with some occasionally embarrassing issues I've always received "thank you's!!" for the prostate inclusion in sex- I assume it feels as good as my own spots being hit just right __________________ Cute, but useless.

02-13-2004, 10:21 PM	#22 (permalink)
ariekitten bAck iN aCtiOn! Location: in my imagination	wow i had heard about the prostate gland giving good orgasms, but i had never thought it was good like "OMFG" good..... i've always been particularly squeamish when it comes to anything dealing with the anal region.....but for someone i loved i would try it....just to see the look on his face when he comes that hard!! __________________ I am known as Valentinez Alkalinella Xifax Sicidabohertz Gombigobilla Blue Stradivari Talentrent Pierre Andri Charton-Haymoss Ivanovici Baldeus George Doitzel Kaiser III. Don't hesitate to call. ~Vash, Trigun >'.'< kitty kitty, meow ^..^~

02-15-2004, 11:10 PM	#23 (permalink)
sub zero Addict Location: The one state that doesn't have black outs: TEXAS BABY!!!	If I'm on top during sex I can't really control where my partner's hands go. Even just lightly running it over the rear entrance has mde me lose total concentration __________________ Did you Google it yet? Join the TFP Typing team!!