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Tuffy_McGee · 08-28-2003, 09:04 PM

I really haven't been with that many women. (count on one hand) and I was with one girl for years. We broke up last year and I feel nervous when I think about having sex with other women. Is this normal? Do you have your favorite(s)?

I'm still going on dates and going out when possible. . . I guess it's just a phase I'm in.

messy · 08-28-2003, 09:23 PM

You feel nervous about boning another chick? I think its pretty obvious you're not over the break-up.

To be blunt... get over it.

RAGEAngel9 · 08-28-2003, 09:24 PM

I'm like you.
About 3 months ago I borke up with my gf of 4 years. I haven't been on a date yet. Partially, because I miss her and partially I just suck at meeting women.
Either way, I've thought about the idea of sex with others and it frankly creeps me out.

tisonlyi · 08-29-2003, 01:10 AM

messy.

Grow Up.

Oh, and to the original poster:

Take your time fella, and explain the situation to the to the new beau, I'm sure she'll be understanding.

skysooner · 08-29-2003, 10:06 AM

The more you do it, the easier it is. I was nervous with the first few women I slept with, but when I got the hang of it and was confident in my ability to make a girl feel great, I wasn't nervous again. Of course, sex back then to me was much more physical than it was mental. Now it is reversed. It sounds to me like sex is much more of a mental experience for you. The advice that tisonlyi gave you is right on.

Tuffy_McGee · 08-29-2003, 07:55 PM

Thanks guys.
Yeah, I need to be comfortable w/ someone before we get it on.
There needs to be chemistry and a connection, first!

wry1 · 08-30-2003, 03:13 PM

Seriously, it's just like riding a horse....you fall off, you need to get right back on and go at it again!

So grab a beer, slam it, and put the twig & berries back into use.

Exodus · 09-01-2003, 12:41 PM

I went through the same thing two years or so ago. I sat around feeling sorry for myself. I have since learned the error of my ways. Like wry1 says... you gotta just go balls out and go for it. You cant sit around and hope things get better. You gotta go out and make em better.

Blue · 09-01-2003, 01:02 PM

Right now in my life, I'm coming to the end of a 3 year relationship with my girlfriend.

We fight a lot, and she is angry a lot, and we just don't get along.

I'm not sure how i'm going to cope without her, but I hope I can get over it, cause deep down, I know its what I need.

bundy · 09-02-2003, 05:17 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by messy

You feel nervous about boning another chick? I think its pretty obvious you're not over the break-up.

To be blunt... get over it.

sounds pretty accurate.

i´m only starting to enjoy going out with other girls without feeling really nervous/strange regarding my ex.
its taken about 6 months... but i´m finally over her.

i think the nerves thing comes from a sudden loss in self confidence that usually accompanies a break-up.

my advice, Tuffy, get out there and sleep with as many girls as possible. overcome those fears and remember what a great big hunk of sexy man candy you are!!

meff · 09-12-2003, 08:15 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by wry1
So grab a beer, slam it, and put the twig & berries back into use.

I thought alcohol decreased the ability to stay hard and cum?

Shyla Loral · 09-12-2003, 02:32 PM

Meff is *the* best ever!!! I know I'm boasting, but I can't help it. And I'm gushing, too, sorry. But this is my first nonabusive relationship. He is gentle and caring with me when I need that, and dirty and nasty with me when I need that. I mean, what more can you ask for? Plus, he loves the pussy. He can eat me for hours. Mmm.... pussy.

08-28-2003, 09:04 PM	#1 (permalink)
Tuffy_McGee Crazy	Do you have your favorite? Are you shy? I really haven't been with that many women. (count on one hand) and I was with one girl for years. We broke up last year and I feel nervous when I think about having sex with other women. Is this normal? Do you have your favorite(s)? I'm still going on dates and going out when possible. . . I guess it's just a phase I'm in.

08-28-2003, 09:23 PM	#2 (permalink)
messy Insane	You feel nervous about boning another chick? I think its pretty obvious you're not over the break-up. To be blunt... get over it. __________________ If I say a chicken can pull a boxcar, hitch it up.

08-29-2003, 01:10 AM	#4 (permalink)
tisonlyi Nothing	messy. Grow Up. Oh, and to the original poster: Take your time fella, and explain the situation to the to the new beau, I'm sure she'll be understanding. __________________ "I do not agree that the dog in a manger has the final right to the manger even though he may have lain there for a very long time. I do not admit that right. I do not admit for instance, that a great wrong has been done to the Red Indians of America or the black people of Australia. I do not admit that a wrong has been done to these people by the fact that a stronger race, a higher-grade race, a more worldly wise race to put it that way, has come in and taken their place." - Winston Churchill, 1937 --{ORLY?}-- Last edited by tisonlyi; 08-29-2003 at 01:35 AM..

09-12-2003, 02:32 PM	#12 (permalink)
Shyla Loral Crazy Location: Austin	Meff is the best ever!!! I know I'm boasting, but I can't help it. And I'm gushing, too, sorry. But this is my first nonabusive relationship. He is gentle and caring with me when I need that, and dirty and nasty with me when I need that. I mean, what more can you ask for? Plus, he loves the pussy. He can eat me for hours. Mmm.... pussy. __________________ "Three may keep a secret, if two of them are dead" Ben Franklin, Poor Richard's Almanac. Meff r0x

08-28-2003, 09:24 PM	#3 (permalink)
RAGEAngel9 Insane Location: Vermont	I'm like you. About 3 months ago I borke up with my gf of 4 years. I haven't been on a date yet. Partially, because I miss her and partially I just suck at meeting women. Either way, I've thought about the idea of sex with others and it frankly creeps me out.

08-29-2003, 10:06 AM	#5 (permalink)
skysooner Registered User Location: Oklahoma	The more you do it, the easier it is. I was nervous with the first few women I slept with, but when I got the hang of it and was confident in my ability to make a girl feel great, I wasn't nervous again. Of course, sex back then to me was much more physical than it was mental. Now it is reversed. It sounds to me like sex is much more of a mental experience for you. The advice that tisonlyi gave you is right on.

08-29-2003, 07:55 PM	#6 (permalink)
Tuffy_McGee Crazy	Thanks guys. Yeah, I need to be comfortable w/ someone before we get it on. There needs to be chemistry and a connection, first!

08-30-2003, 03:13 PM	#7 (permalink)
wry1 Loser Location: Far too far from my Angel....	Seriously, it's just like riding a horse....you fall off, you need to get right back on and go at it again! So grab a beer, slam it, and put the twig & berries back into use.

09-01-2003, 12:41 PM	#8 (permalink)
Exodus Psycho	I went through the same thing two years or so ago. I sat around feeling sorry for myself. I have since learned the error of my ways. Like wry1 says... you gotta just go balls out and go for it. You cant sit around and hope things get better. You gotta go out and make em better.

09-01-2003, 01:02 PM	#9 (permalink)
Blue avi8r	Right now in my life, I'm coming to the end of a 3 year relationship with my girlfriend. We fight a lot, and she is angry a lot, and we just don't get along. I'm not sure how i'm going to cope without her, but I hope I can get over it, cause deep down, I know its what I need.