The more you do it, the easier it is. I was nervous with the first few women I slept with, but when I got the hang of it and was confident in my ability to make a girl feel great, I wasn't nervous again. Of course, sex back then to me was much more physical than it was mental. Now it is reversed. It sounds to me like sex is much more of a mental experience for you. The advice that tisonlyi gave you is right on.
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