I like giving my wife oral, its very satisfying for me, if I can make her cum just from that, because I know what she likes. I also, like all guys like recieving oral sex. But thats pretty obvious im sure lol

Sure I will! We post on the same board after all. :|



Sorry. I couldn't resist. :D

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HA! You're funny. :lol: (Uncle Pony)

So, uh, one thing you have to understand (Mr Honest) is that I've been with more girls than I can possibly count. Men, I've been with a few. Women know how to give it to eachother in my opinion and experience. So, you have to understand how frustrating it is when I am with a man and I have to direct his every move. :|

I guess I should have explained myself better in the first place. The fact that I don't like directing men the (whole) time they are down there isn't even the only reason. I am also sensitive to UTIs (my body doesnt like foreign germs from the mouth down there). So.... I am happily a giver!! Works best for me! :) :) :)

I love both giving and receiving. I mean love it. I tend to enjoy foreplay of all types as much as (if not more than, sometimes) actual sex.

Both my girls love receiving, but unfortunately neither like to give. At all. Both have stated they'll try to work on it, but I've gotten head maybe twice in the last 4 years. We've talked about it some, but neither is willing to tell me why they don't like it. I just bring it up from time to time and don't push it. Oh well, maybe someday they'll get into it.

Cleanliness aside, there is nothing hotter, my friend.

:lol:

I like receiving it, but I only give it for my partner's pleasure (and for them to return the favor). I really dislike the vagina smell and taste otherwise. Especially if there is more than minimal amount of hair...huge turn-off.

^ hmm..interesting. There are workarounds.

Giving. Usually sends me into a state of erotic, animalistic frenzy. Brings out the animal in a guy...does giving. Hair or bare, I'm there.

Receiving. Yes. Good. Not in the shower though. On dry land.

Basically, if my partner wants it and likes it, I'll do it without question. I just don't enjoy it.

Just like beer, its an aquired taste. I personally like to give, rather than recieve, but its not like i would turn it down if it were to happen.

Love the gettin', enjoy the giving, even if only for her sake. Don't get much out of giving, myself, but it helps encourage the gettin'! :)

get your lady to wash dammit! :icare:

seriously I've been down on every g/friend apart from one who refused :confused: and the taste is great. I love it. I could stay there for hours if only my tongue didn't refuse after ohh about 21.5 minutes.... :o

Love the getting. The most amazing feeling. I don't come from it, but it feels so good...

Giving is fun too. Not as nice as getting, but I enjoy seeing her squirm in pleasure and exploring her folds.

Not a fan of 69. I've found that neither party can really do a good job, so it just kinda doesnt work as well.

And some guys don't like broccoli. It's just not for everyone.

Re: earning the red wings, I've done that before. By accident, yeah, but all the same. It's not that big a deal. Sex is fun and funny and sometimes messy and things like this happens. You can let it get to you or just laugh it off and keep going.

yes the oral issue
 

i am a 40 yr old male who has never had the so called joy of cumming in ones mouth. i have had a lot of action down ther , just no end result. i enjoy giving head to both male and female. but as for me many have tried even saw it as a challenge, but to no avail.
i prefer licking in the genital area thighs, kneecaps, etc... as to mouth stroking of my penis. i have seen many techniques by a few south of my belt, if i ever was to ejaculate, lifes tray would be full.

I love receiving, even from those who don't do it well.

Giving I enjoy, but only for her to get off on it. If she doesn't, I'd rather move on to something else :)

I love to give....if it is a man i love i reaally love to give!i have been told i am very good by severa men...whether this counts for anything i do not know!

i m notkeen on receiving...no reason other than it just does notdo anything for me!

Only had one sexually involved girlfriend, so my judgement of good head is out a little bit :P At first i didn't like the idea of her (or anyone really) going down on me, that is, until she did it. Wow. She was amazingly good lol. And get hard (oh god the pun :crazy: sorry) , a little nibble here and there is awesome :P

I love loved loved loved loved going down on her, she didn't like it at all, so i only had a little bit of time ;< and stop moaning about hair, don't see what the big deal is lol.

I love both......but I'm partial to giving head. Preferably on my knees.....yes, for the obvious reasons (*mischeivous glimmer*).....but also because it is easier on my neck.

If the mood strikes me, then there's nothing I like better than giving and getting head. Other times, I just want to skip any sort of foreplay and jump him. I really want to give oral sex to a woman again. I've only done it once, and I can barely remember it.

Theres good sex and bad sex, but isn't any sex good sex :)

I love to give and recieve, sometimes I just love to dive into the juicy goodness of a woman :) But i know my ex didn't really want to give unless she was really hardup/horny, complained her jaw hurt. Sure I have the same problem after 15 min of oral on a woman my jaw is a little sore, but hey, im a giver!

And, for my first post in a long time, I will say that I went down on a girl two or three weeks ago that pulled me up and said (and I quote) "I don't like that, I want your hand." I was in shock.

I realized then that maybe that's where my talents were, after she said (again, direct quote) "where did you learn that?" Then, she failed to do anything other than a handjob, and because I was drunk off of Kentucky Gentleman (not only a title appropriate to me, but a cheap whiskey) she couldn't get me off. I was a bit pissed, and weirded out.

I'm not too big on giving or receiving. When giving, my jaw just hurts and I feel foolish. When receiving, I feel like I'm being examined and I'm just not comfortable with it. Then again, it could be my poor self-image.

I love giving my bf bjs but receiving can be quite uncomfortable initially. It all depends on the mood I suppose :lol:

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Giving is one of my favorite pleasures. Receiving... well, it took me a while. I'm just too sub to have enjoyed it for the longest time. Hubby had to literally pin me and take away the choice - my first few mind-blowing orgasms from receiving were under "duress". Not something I would recommend when the relationship is new, though. Hubby knew me well enough to know what I needed, and was happy to oblige... :D I do go through my dom times, and can demand it on occasion (or Cleopatra can, anyway...) *g*

What is the deal with "no hands?" :confused: Not every man is the same, of course, but experimentation tells me that most of my guys (past and present) cocks have responded most strongly to a mix of oral with handjob and breast play. I know that sometimes in porn I see the guy pushing the girl's hand away from his cock, but I thought that was just because of the camera. To keep the hand from "upstaging" the mighty dick.
Do you guys really not like hands???? I LOVE the feel of a hard cock in my hands! And then my mouth is free to kiss, nipple nibble and to explore other areas. ;)
Lindy

Somebody with more experience please tell me. Should this subject start a separate thread?

no hands ;)

I like giving. I'm not always comfortable with recieving, not sure why.

sweetpea

I have never received, and yet my feelings towards that sort of thing are less favorable than indifference. So I suppose that my preference as such is destined to remain the same.

Being the perpertrator I am relatively indifferent to, although I simply cannot imagine liking a girl enough to do this.

If I like the girl then I love going down on her. I will go down on her for hours. I love it. I like just kissing the insides of her thighs and right beside her lady lips and just driving her so insane that she grabs my head and just slams it into her crotch. Boo yea.

I love my BJ's as well. But the girl I am with now just won't give them, like not at all. Its kinda irritating actually, but oh well.

>>>Does anyone have any ideas they can share about the couple thing described in the above paragraph?>>>

Join a swing club maybe. Or a swingers personals site. Also www.polymatchmaker.com might work for you, but it isn't a meat market like the swinger sites are. Be nice.

Jonathan

>>>Is there anyone out there who doesn't like to GIVE or RECEIVE oral sex? >>>

I love both to give and to get.

>>>And why or why not?>>>

Some of my partners are too good at oral sex and I have to stop them before I come so I can still have sex with them. (^: Some of my partners are so so at giving oral sex so I let them go down on me as long as they want to. One friend of mine had difficulty going down on men or women. I told him where to buy strawberry flavored lube and he now loves going down on both men and women. he used to think oral sex was nasty and tasted horrible.

I love giving oral sex to men and women. I think our sexual confidence really stems from the first two times we have sex or try oral sex. Thankfully the first few people I was with really enjoyed what I did, so after that it was much easier to have awkward experiences happen to me. Easier to bounce back I guess..... My wife likes to have sex once a week and give me oral sex once a week. She loves the intensity of not having sex that often. She loves getting oral sex twice a month or so. I have never had the red wings fiasco because I always have some sort of light on during sex or oral sex. I don't like total darkness. I love to go down on women for as long as it take to make them come. I have not yet had bad oral sex given to me. **crosses fingers** When I go down on some men, they seem a little rubbery I guess. Odd taste, but not bad. Other men taste good. They must be drinking pinapple juice daily. (^: I get too distracted during 69, so I don't want to do it really. But if they insist, then I am willing to try it again.

Jonathan

I really dont like to give oral. I do it, and I do it with enthusiasm. Cause that is what my partner at the time wants and deserves. I have never once said that I dont want to or that I dont like to. Part of a relationship is doing thing for the other person even though you dont want to, and I classify this as one of those.

Personally the idea of a blow job gets me excited, but when it comes down to it. After about a minute. I think to myself Okay that was fun now lets get down to the fuckin.

... i like to give it but I'm not so hot on recieving it.

I prefer giving to receiving. I love watching, hearing and feeling him writhe and moan as I go to town, and I do this pretty much every time we mess around. When it comes to me though I really have to be in the right mood for it to feel good like it should. My clit is oversensitive and it took my hubby a little while to figure out what to do without overdoing everything. But even with that, I really have to be in a good oral mood to relax and really get into it.

YES.... :hmm: :crazy:

I dont like giving....neva really gotten it but dont think it would be fair to the guy
if he gives he'll probably expecting to get

I actually love giving it more than receiving. I love to make a woman react while im down there. The more she reacts the wetter she gets. That just excites me to no end. With the right woman I can stay there as long as she wants me too! :D

My wife and I both used do it alot when we were going out ,but when you get married it becomes a one sided thing ,I still love going down on her ,she loves it too but when asked to return the favour I always get "don't put pressure on me or why do you always torture me with this " :confused:

That's when you play the "Equal Rights" Card or the "You have changed" Card. There should be no boundries when it comes to pleasing your mate.

I love giving oral sex; there is nothing I like more then a girl who can stand multiple orgasms from oral sex. The majority of girls push away once they cum (yeah it's sensitive at that time), but every once in a while I find one that can pull through it. I don't know what the attraction is to that, but man it's a huge turn on when it happens. As for getting I love it during sex nothing like pulling out for oral to catch my breath then going back in refreshed. Most girls find in vulgar which I guess it is, but man I become there slave at that point it's my only weakness, it's like a true testament.

Hmm, I don't think that's a general rule, given what gets said by long-married TFP'ers around here!! :) I'd say that's a problem of communication in general... have you told her how that makes you feel, when she says things like that?

Getting married should *not* kill anyone's sex life/drive... there's always something else going on in those situations, I think. I don't intend to let anything get in the way of a mutually satisfying sex life once we're married. :D

I like both giving and receiving. My wife really enjoys giving, but doesn't care to receive. The odd thing is that I can induce orgasm through eating her out, but she still encourages me to not go down on her. I find it a little strange..but what my girl wants, my girls gets :)

There could be numerous reasons for not wanting to give or receive oral
1) bad experience
2) lack of experience
3) embarassment
4) just dont like it
5) uncomfortable about their body
6) afraid they would have to reciprocate and dont want it to be a one way giving or receiving street
7) think they smell/taste bad down there

Women expecially are very self conscious about their nether regions and how they dont look like the ones in nudie mags or the ones the porn stars have. Many women feel that no matter what they do they may smell funny or taste bad to men. Perhaps this is because people say hurtful things when they break up or they have put too much stock into convos they have heard or read in magazines. Whatever the reason, there always is one the trick is getting the person to admit WHY they dont like it.

I love lying on my back, head back and with my guy thrusting his cock into my mouth ......... need I say more!

Oh, and really, what girl could possibly not LOVE oral? Pure Heaven!! :)

I can't say I don't like oral, but I can say I believe the phrase: it is better to give than recieve.

I cant imagine a man not like liking getting head. A woman possibly, but I have only met one.

As far as using hands, sometimes it is cheating at the end of good head to use hands to get a man off. It is easier with a tighter grip. But to get a man off exclusively with head and no hands at all is pure skill.

Personally, I love getting head but Ive only ate out 3 women. A vagina is much more personal than a dick. It is much harder to properly maintain a vagina than a penis and balls.

I know that my next question has nothing to do with the bigger topic, but I beyond curious . . . .

Why is that? I know that a lot of people feel that way, but it doesn't make that much sense to me. I kinda feel like they should be treated with the same "respect" or something.

It'd be a big impediment to the old sex life if I wasn't into both giving and recieving.

Gilda

Its an issue of internal vs external. Penetrating an orifice is much for personal than a limb on the outside of the body. Not to mention its much easier to access and maintain.

I'm still not sure how it is easier to "maintain" a penis. Most women never have a need to access their vaginal canal to maintain it. It kind of maintains itself under normal conditions.

Some men on a forum I go stated he didn't enjoy receiving or giving oral sex, which suprise me... And a friend on my girl, never let a guy go down on her until lately, she always thought the idea was gross... But well, after trying she realised she was wrong the all time...

I like receiving it and love giving it, I could give cunnilingus all day long...
As for me receiving it, well if it is more than twice a day it can get boring, I still enjoy it, but I would rather have proper sex...

69s are just excellent...

It is that kind of mentality that keeps me far away from most vaginas

Sounds to me like you have a lot to learn about vaginas. :suave:

i love oral sex! the feeling i get when my man is going down on me is soo great!
and as for giving it.. i love to do it, even though i'm still learning :hmm:

So, skimming this thread, it seems like a lot more women than men DON'T like receiving oral sex. I really would like to know why... on a core level.

I think Lady Sage had a point with her list of reasons why, but it's a crying shame if women don't like oral sex due to reasons like those. I mean, everyone has a right to their reasons, but damn. It's just wrong, the way society conditions women to think about their genitals... it's beautiful down there, and if my man loves it enough to stuff his face in there, get my juice all over him... well hell, I imagine it's pretty damn good. :)

In case there's any doubt: I LOVE ORAL SEX. :D :D :D Giving, receiving, all at once... whatever it is, I'll do it.

I LOVE to give oral sex, it's my one talent!!!!

However, I dont like him going down on me because he sucks up all my juices. Granted he puts some back in + spit, but then when we do it, it doesn't slide the same. Lubes help, but I really like the feel with my natural flow.

Okay, fair 'nuff!! :lol: That's one good reason for not liking oral sex, then.

I do get a bit dry after he's been down there for a while. But then sometimes I get really hot and wet if I come, too. So, it goes both ways. :)

See, you got me their cause when I come I gush, then dry up like sand paper. Then, I am done for like 3 hours(which sucks!!!!).

Giving and recieving both have good and bad points...

Recieving does tickle after awhile, especially just after an orgasm. Sometimes it gets too ticklish to the point where it is more annoying than pleasureable. That's when I decide I've had enough. The look on someone's face when you tell them to stop...priceless lol

Giving head is great, but it gets old after a few minutes and starts to be a pain in the neck...literally. Giving and getting ehad for short amounts of time is wonderful, but like anything else, too much of a good thing is a bad thing.