Rope Bondage - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

collide · 08-17-2003, 11:36 PM

Anyone have experience in doing this safely? Online sources, recommended instructional books? If you have any personal experiences with this, please share!

JStrider · 08-17-2003, 11:48 PM

ummm arie and i have tied each other down... tore a large towel into 4 long strips.... they worked pretty good... it was fun...

Pellaz · 08-18-2003, 08:35 AM

We've played with it a bit, really just thise one:

http://ms.ha.md.us/~tammad/over21/bondage/karada1/

good, step by step instructions for a 'body harness'

Koosh · 08-18-2003, 09:20 AM

FYI, you will need more rope than you think. 50' is just right to do the breasts nicely.

Slims · 08-18-2003, 09:26 AM

Edited

collide · 08-18-2003, 10:20 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Pellaz
We've played with it a bit, really just thise one:

http://ms.ha.md.us/~tammad/over21/bondage/karada1/

good, step by step instructions for a 'body harness'

Hmm! I bet it'd take some work to get out of that hogtie. Thanks for the link! Now all I need is some rope...

motdakasha · 08-18-2003, 11:11 AM

Google: "bondage knot tying"
http://www.restrainedtastes.com/ttt/links/bondtech.htm
There were some other good-looking links listed in the google results.

Also, The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage by Midori is an excellent book that goes over what's pictured step by step. For the book: http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg...books&n=507846 Her website (she's a photographer): http://www.beautybound.com

Vyk · 08-18-2003, 12:18 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by motdakasha
There were some other good-looking links listed in the google results.

did you have those handy or are you just really good with google?

Cedar · 08-18-2003, 01:20 PM

There used to be a really good site run by a woman named Xandria, which had all kinds of BDSM dos and don'ts...haven't seen it in a while. In any event, one thing she stressed that was very important was that your rope should not be made of any kind of stretchy material, because the knots can become tighter if the person tied down struggles against them and effectively cut off circulation.

Old neckties work especially well.

jadedgrin · 08-18-2003, 02:37 PM

well instructions on body knots are interesting but dont feel so tied down (ouch , i didnt mean for it to be a pun) anyway, you should feel liberal with it and dont just stick to the book, let your imagination take over and you will have lots of fun

motdakasha · 08-19-2003, 03:52 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Vyk
did you have those handy or are you just really good with google?

First link was googled.
Second link is because I flipped through this book at one of my friend's house and it really is a good book.

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More Japanese rope bondage
http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...threadid=22657

vveronica · 08-19-2003, 08:39 AM

This is nearly my fav. I love bound sex, it is the helpless feeling. So many guys confuse bound sex with bdsm. I know in alot of ways it is getting closer to the line but there is still a clear difference. Rope is great it is important to have the right type or you will really injure the wrist, ankle, etc. One better thing to use is dear or elk skin, cut into strips. It is softer and does have another advantage. if used wet while it dries it shrinks and tightens.

But it is the helplessness that is (atleast for me) sooo arrousing.
Not for sex play in a hurry.

mew · 08-19-2003, 08:03 PM

ALWAYS important to have a code both you and your partner know as to When to STOP! Could be as simple as saying the word Blue or a certain nodd(if they are gagged). Very importatn...or else you might hurt or truly freak them out if they find out theyre not intrested in they play anymore.Ive never experjenced it personally but heard horror stories of plays gone wrong. Be careful and have fun

!

meff · 09-10-2003, 04:37 PM

Judging from Jadzia's avatar you might want to ask her

(I think those are ropes?)

i8one2 · 09-10-2003, 09:39 PM

http://catalog.com/css/bdsmreviews/beginners.html
http://www.folsoms.net/knots/
http://www.bdsm-academy.org/cj/page4.htm
---Go to the bottom of page on the last one, its japanese bondage.

siryn · 09-10-2003, 10:57 PM

I've never employed rope bondage in sex, but I have a friend that wants to go pro with his rope works. He did a huge photoshoot of me in nothing but lots of rope. He's very talented. Eventually he wants to start a paysite with all his rope photography, and I'll be on it. Let you guys know when its up.

raeanna74 · 09-11-2003, 05:35 AM

One thing that seems to work for some simple stuff like spreadeagle on the bed or stuff is Satin Ribbon. Not the stiff kind and it has to be wide. Wide Red satin ribbon - and the look is so erotic.

Charlatan · 09-11-2003, 06:30 AM

I haven't gotten into anything fancy but I've been tied down and have tied down...

Usually it is just a matter of tieing the wrists together and hooking them to the headboard...

iamjero · 09-11-2003, 07:34 AM

I have very little experience with actual tieing up, but I have played with blind folds and really enjoy both giving and recieving. the sensation of touch is greatly increased when you cant see.

08-17-2003, 11:36 PM	#1 (permalink)
collide Turn off your TV. Location: ... .- -. ..-. .-. .- -. -.-. .. ... -.-. --- --..-- -.-. .-	Rope Bondage Anyone have experience in doing this safely? Online sources, recommended instructional books? If you have any personal experiences with this, please share! __________________ "inhuman fiery goat worship" is an anagram for "information superhighway" -kingvolc

08-17-2003, 11:48 PM	#2 (permalink)
JStrider Poo-tee-weet? Location: The Woodlands, TX	ummm arie and i have tied each other down... tore a large towel into 4 long strips.... they worked pretty good... it was fun... __________________ -=JStrider=- ~Clatto Verata Nicto

08-18-2003, 08:35 AM	#3 (permalink)
Pellaz Addict Location: Texas	We've played with it a bit, really just thise one: http://ms.ha.md.us/~tammad/over21/bondage/karada1/ good, step by step instructions for a 'body harness' __________________ " ' Big Mouth. Remember it took three of you to kill me. A god, a boy, and, last and least, a hero.' "

08-18-2003, 09:26 AM	#5 (permalink)
Slims Eccentric insomniac Location: North Carolina	Edited __________________ "Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery." - Winston Churchill "All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act out their dream with open eyes, to make it possible." Seven Pillars of Wisdom, T.E. Lawrence Last edited by Slims; 12-20-2010 at 07:02 PM..

08-18-2003, 11:11 AM	#7 (permalink)
motdakasha Hiya Puddin'! Miss me? Location: Silicon Valley, CA	Google: "bondage knot tying" http://www.restrainedtastes.com/ttt/links/bondtech.htm There were some other good-looking links listed in the google results. Also, The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage by Midori is an excellent book that goes over what's pictured step by step. For the book: http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg...books&n=507846 Her website (she's a photographer): http://www.beautybound.com __________________ =^-^= motdakasha =^-^= Just Google It. BA Psychology & Photography (I'm not going psychoanalyze you nor will I let you cry on my shoulder. Have a nice day.)

08-18-2003, 09:20 AM	#4 (permalink)
Koosh Upright	FYI, you will need more rope than you think. 50' is just right to do the breasts nicely.

08-18-2003, 01:20 PM	#9 (permalink)
Cedar Crazy Location: Hogwarts School of Witchcraft and Wizardry	There used to be a really good site run by a woman named Xandria, which had all kinds of BDSM dos and don'ts...haven't seen it in a while. In any event, one thing she stressed that was very important was that your rope should not be made of any kind of stretchy material, because the knots can become tighter if the person tied down struggles against them and effectively cut off circulation. Old neckties work especially well. __________________ Do I contradict myself? Very well then I contradict myself, I am large. I contain multitudes. -Walt Whitman, Song of Myself

08-18-2003, 02:37 PM	#10 (permalink)
jadedgrin Psycho Location: eh	well instructions on body knots are interesting but dont feel so tied down (ouch , i didnt mean for it to be a pun) anyway, you should feel liberal with it and dont just stick to the book, let your imagination take over and you will have lots of fun __________________ what puts a smile on your face??

08-19-2003, 08:39 AM	#12 (permalink)
vveronica Psycho Location: northern california	This is nearly my fav. I love bound sex, it is the helpless feeling. So many guys confuse bound sex with bdsm. I know in alot of ways it is getting closer to the line but there is still a clear difference. Rope is great it is important to have the right type or you will really injure the wrist, ankle, etc. One better thing to use is dear or elk skin, cut into strips. It is softer and does have another advantage. if used wet while it dries it shrinks and tightens. But it is the helplessness that is (atleast for me) sooo arrousing. Not for sex play in a hurry. __________________ ...We find ourselves in a struggle for our very right to exsist... We will not go quietly into the night... We will not give up without a fight...

08-19-2003, 08:03 PM	#13 (permalink)
mew Psycho Location: Canada	ALWAYS important to have a code both you and your partner know as to When to STOP! Could be as simple as saying the word Blue or a certain nodd(if they are gagged). Very importatn...or else you might hurt or truly freak them out if they find out theyre not intrested in they play anymore.Ive never experjenced it personally but heard horror stories of plays gone wrong. Be careful and have fun !

09-10-2003, 04:37 PM	#14 (permalink)
meff Vanishing, like I do.. Location: Austin, TX	Judging from Jadzia's avatar you might want to ask her (I think those are ropes?) __________________ Toy-like people make me boy-like.

09-10-2003, 09:39 PM	#15 (permalink)
i8one2 COMPLETED and A TRAINER Location: BEAN_TOWN	http://catalog.com/css/bdsmreviews/beginners.html http://www.folsoms.net/knots/ http://www.bdsm-academy.org/cj/page4.htm ---Go to the bottom of page on the last one, its japanese bondage. __________________ LEATHER, LATEX and LACE "SSC" "Nothing That Gives Pleasure is Bad" Quality is for those who know what they want and are at peace with what they have. "S/M is about emotion; the erotic tension between my impulse toward something and my resistance against it."-- Virginia Barker

09-10-2003, 10:57 PM	#16 (permalink)
siryn Tilted Location: Long Beach CA	I've never employed rope bondage in sex, but I have a friend that wants to go pro with his rope works. He did a huge photoshoot of me in nothing but lots of rope. He's very talented. Eventually he wants to start a paysite with all his rope photography, and I'll be on it. Let you guys know when its up.

09-11-2003, 05:35 AM	#17 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	One thing that seems to work for some simple stuff like spreadeagle on the bed or stuff is Satin Ribbon. Not the stiff kind and it has to be wide. Wide Red satin ribbon - and the look is so erotic. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.

09-11-2003, 06:30 AM	#18 (permalink)
Charlatan Getting it. Super Moderator Location: Lion City	I haven't gotten into anything fancy but I've been tied down and have tied down... Usually it is just a matter of tieing the wrists together and hooking them to the headboard... __________________ "My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars." - Old Man Luedecke

09-11-2003, 07:34 AM	#19 (permalink)
iamjero Insane Location: New Orleans/Oakland/San Diego/Chicago	I have very little experience with actual tieing up, but I have played with blind folds and really enjoy both giving and recieving. the sensation of touch is greatly increased when you cant see. __________________ "Ideas are far more powerful than guns. We don't allow our enemies to have guns, why should we allow them to have ideas?" - Joseph Stalin