haha. it's nice. I miss it. :)

I'm too tired to search myself, but if you google for strap-on (or strap on) and harness, you'll probably find something. Usually strap ons that are harness compatible, and for her pleasure, are V-shaped so the dildo doesn't fall out.

Yeah my husband and I do anal:D The first time I tried it on him I got incredibly wet and we were both suprised that I got that turned on by it. It was just something about it:D

i'd give it a shot .I'd have to tart slow thogh i'm not strating with a footlong dildo maybe just a finger or two from my lady.

Actually i asked my gf a couple of weeks ago if i could try anal on her and she told me that she would me if i would let her stick 3 fingers up my ass. Needless to say i have purposly avoided answering her about this cause I DONT WANT ANYTHING UP MY ASS.

Most men dont even want to discuss the subject because they KNOW deep down that if they DO try it, they might like it, and if they DO like it, a Finger just might not be enough :O.

anywhoo,

i do my GF in the ass all the time. She absolutly LOVES it, and shes only 19, a few months ago, while she was suckin me off, she decided to get her finger all sloppy too. and then BOOM next thing i new it was up my ass, my eyes almost hit the ceiling! and then i came almost instantly, it was fucking cool! so since then, she has done it once more, she knows im still touchy about that, but she will get me occasional nights when shes feeling really kinky and do it again. :/

and im only 22, and im looking at some of the posts done by men twice my age and not even half as open to suggestion as i am... you guys should really re-asses(sp?) your way of thinking.

you dont know if it is something you dont like until you try it and prove to yourself you dont like it.

either that, or you just dont wipe your ass properly and are ashamed of it.

BTW: everytime RIGHT before sex, i always take a big poop right before, just incase hahahah. ok thats enough from me i will leave now.

If Mango or anyone was still looking for this:

http://www.stockroom.com/b372.htm

http://www.stockroom.com/g/b372.jpg

The FeelDoe: We've tested just about every double-ended dildo available that can be used in a harness , from the traditional double dong to the very complicated and pricey varieties. Technology has come a long way, but they all still left something to be desired, whether it be limited sensation for the wielder, sturdiness, or just over all functionality. Until now. The FeelDoe is the best double-ended dildo we have ever seen! It looks a bit strange and we were skeptical at first, but the pleasure that this toy delivers for both parties involved (its also great for solo play!) exceeds anything that we have ever tested. The smooth, realistically-shaped shaft is a great girth, length and shape for both anal and vaginal penetration. The egg shaped knob that fits inside the woman wearing the Feel Doe is not too big and not too small and somehow manages to give intense sensation with every thrust! The ribbed patch that lands right on the clitoris gets you closer and closer to orgasm as you grind away! The deep valley that runs along the bottom of the FeelDoe allows your 3-strap g-string harness to stabilize the toy even further, though it is equally suited for use with 4-strap harnesses. Simply the best double-ended harness compatible dildo.

Maximum insertable diameter: 1.5", Main shaft insertable length: 7"

I've never tired it before - but would in a heartbeat if my lady wanted to. But - that won't happen. She's not into Anal AT ALL - and the sad part is - it turns me on like you wouuldn't believe thinking about doing Anal with her.

Which brings up a question - ladies and men - were you ever a person or with a person who was totally against anal sex - turn around and then want to try it? What's the best way to help this along?

My first wife wanted to try it so I gave in. She popped on a strap on (didn't know she had one) lubed it and fucked me for a good half hour. Shot my load while I was getting humped which tripped me out. Probably did it a dozen times in the ten years we were married. It amazing what can fit in there. The last time was about six years ago.

When I was sixteen my buddy fucked me in the ass during summer vacation. In all I have been fucked in the ass by eight guys the last time was twelve years ago. Most of the action happen in college. Anal play was always a lot of fun.

hell yeah, would love to have been ridden with a strapon...

ex gf used to know how to please me :)
fine rimjobs :P and knew where to hit the spot

As much as I love penetrating my girlfriend anally I just cannot conceive of letting anyone get near my ass.

That's a definite no-no.

For all of you closed-minded people (especially the ones that want to or like putting it in your girl's ass), take a look at the fuckin' poll. In case you still need help, here's a simplified version.

Out of 100 guys that haven't tried it,
# that wouldn't try it: 36
# that would try it: 64

Out of 100 guys that have tried it,
# that wouldn't like it: 3
# that would like it: 97

Take a hint from the people who have tried it. All of you guys who are worried about it making you more gay, sooner or later you're going to have to face that fact that if you did try it, there's a 97% chance that you would like it. So if you post saying something like "I would never let a girl put something in my ass," you've got a 3% chance that you're making the right decision. Essentially, you are wrong.

Fingers (my own) yes, very intense orgasm
(M/F) not yet, soon perhaps
rimming (M/F): not yet
fucked in the ass: Male yes, enjoyed it
Female (via strapon) Not yet, but one lives in hope :)
Odd, tho my handful of attempts to fuck someones ass have been less than (my) orgasm, perhaps because i was not giving myself permission to enjoy.

I believe that this will not be a problem now ;)

I had a girlfriend who was fond of milking the prostate while giving me a blow job and I'll tell you guys who say you'd never try it....whoooooah....it's pretty darn good.

never done it, but I'd love to try it.

Definitely, definitely, no way, no.

Its interesting on the poll results that of the people who say they tried it nearly everyone liked it...

But my answer is still no. Pyschologically, I dont think I would want anyone shoving anything up my ass, even if it could by physically pleasurable.

I agree, only to a point.

You are making no allowance for the fact that the people who try it are more likely to be the people who would enjoy it, or at least be more open to enjoying it.

SF, They don't have to shove.. they can be gentle too :)

I'm not sure why straight guys equate anything in your ass to being gay ( yes, I have the same hangup sometimes). You have no idea what you're missing out on by not trying this. It probably isn't something you want every day, but when you get it.. oh man is it good. I've actually been sore the next day from the power of the orgasm. The strap-on idea is interesting given enough lube.. I think I'd do it!

sorry it is an exit only. no entry!!!!!

My girlfriend doesn't use anything besides her body on me, but I'd say that I'd be down for just about anything with her. It's all fun and games. I don't see any reason not to except for some personal limits based on insecurities (not trying to attack anyone here....) . It's not only unharmful to both partners, but it also feels amazing. Still, the only problem I can think of would be the breaking down of controll on the man's side who might be used to having the 'upper hand' :confused: :icare: Simply saying that you don't like things up your ass is a pretty hasty conclusion seeing that most guys are yet to even try it. To each their own though, but I tend to choose 'pleasure' whenever I can :p

I've had fingers in there and enjoyed it. As for a strap-on, I dunno, I'd have to get in the mood first to see how I felt about it.

Never done it (or HAD it done, I should say), but I would in a second if it was something the Mrs. wanted to try.

Hmmm... I think I'll go talk to her about it now! :)

I'd probably be up to something small with the right lady. Sure seems like enough of those who partake in it certainly enjoy it!

Haven't tried - don't care to try. Good for you if you have!

I like erotic shit, but I don't find shit erotic.

I'd be down for some assplay. Not that I get really any sort of play at all =/

hmmm I always said I'd be down for a finger and a rimjob, but I dunno about a strapon or whatever. I know how good prostate stimulation is, but the thought of a dildo or something up there kinda makes me cringe. *shrug*

I wouldn't try it, simply because I don't really find the anal region erotic. I'm sure that it would be pleasurable, but I don't find myself attracted to the idea. And for me, I have to be comfortable with an idea to make it enjoyable.

As for everyone that says it's because men are worried it'd "make them gay", that's not the reason. It's just that I've tried anal sex with a woman (at her insistance) and after the initial thrill of the "taboo" wore off, I found the idea actually turned me off considerably. It's just not my cup of tea.

And no, I'm not closed minded. I enjoy some pretty "out there" stuff, but I'm the kind of person that knows what I like, and what I don't. That's just how I am. I have respect for everyone's sexual interests (provided that they are legal and healthy, i.e, not rape and pedophilia), and all I ask is the same from others.

I would try it but I don't know if she would want to.

im interested in how many people were tempted, or tried it because of this post.

I enjoy it, its all good ;)

No, there is poo in there.

i'd definately go for some stimulation of the prostate. I don't wanna see a big strap on being brought out though.

You guys are fatly missing out. My girlfriend and I bought a strap-on about a month ago. I took a nice enema to clean myself out beforehand and then she fucked me "like I [she] like to be fucked". Oh my god...the role reversal totally opened us up to all sorts of cool, fun stuff.

<---- Open Minded.
I have both tried and enjoyed a some Anal Play with a GF. I am married now (boo) and have never gotten overly-kinky with my wife (sadly), but my ex-fiancee was a sex phreak and I loved it.

Been a bit since anything like that has happen, but it can be quite pleasurable. :)

My girlfriend uses a strap on with my atleast 3 times a week. Feels great, doesn't make me gay, makes me orgasm so hard my nuts hurt, and I can shoot a load 3 times as hard and far when she is riding me! If your not man enough to at least try it once maybe your not that much of a man to begin with

A girl surprised me with her fingers once, and I definitely didn't like it.
It's probably because she didn't ask that I didn't like it.
Maybe someday.

Wow! Blast from the past.

How have things changed in the past 7 years I wonder?

really like rimjobs and enjoy a finger up there

do not enjoy the idea of being penetrated though. it doesn't turn me on.
similarly, i myself don't dig pain and receiving that sort of thing. would not want a dildo up there. maybe a very small vib/buttplug but that's pushing it.

i like to dish it out though so maybe i'm a hypocrite

I'm trying out my first buttplug right now. Took a bit to get it in plus Im getting used to the sensation of having it in. We'll see how it goes.

By "right now", do you mean "during this part of my life" or "as I type"? This seriously affects my view of reading TFP...