Anal sex on men
 

This thread is sort of a spin off from this Ladies Lounge thread.

According to the linked thread, many women have found their men refuse to even try anything. Would you let your girlfriend/wife use a strap-on on you? What about other anal play? Rimjobs?

My g/f has tried a couple fingers on me twice so far, and I liked it both times. We talked about it, and we are going to try both giving and recieving rimjobs. We don't own any toys, so that isn't really an option right now.

What about you?

Most men aren't that open-minded. Kudos to you, im2smrt4u.

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I blame society for this.

Nope, my girlfriend and I have a mutual understanding about keeping things out of each other's poop holes.

I'd go for it... if is was spontaneous.

Never tried it and never will.
I'd break up with a chic immediately if she suggested that. http://www.boomspeed.com/sixate/noanal.gif

Eww!

If i had a girlfriend that ever asked me to do that, first i would laugh, hoping it was a joke. Second (if she was serious) i would walk out of the room feeling very awkward. Then i would return later and act like the conversation had never happened.

Why not?

Stimulation of the prostate is very enjoyable.

Yeah . . . here's the thing, i can't say that i would find a woman ramming a fake dildo up my butt hole very stimulating. Also, that whole process of her fucking me in my ass . . . well, it would be pretty damn awkward. So i'm going to stick with my answer of NO!

sorry im not open
i just dont enjoy the idea of something crammed up my ass

I think most men seem to have this fear that if they have something put into their butthole, they might actually like it, thus making them less of a man. I for one have never done it, although I did have a girl ask if she could put her finger in my ass. I said no, but not because of a fear of being gay or anything. I mostly said no because I didn't know the girl enough, and If I was going to have a women put a finger in me, it would have to be someone I was really close to.

sixate, that's the best smiley icon I've ever seen :lol:

Yes, it's fun. There are certain positions that raeanna74 and I have where she can finger my ass while we make love. I enjoy it, and she likes the results! Would I let her use a strap-on? Probably not, but a little ass-play is nice.

Toys are great -- I highly recommend them im2smrt4u, for you and her! Consensual anal play is a lot of fun! I get very turned on when my bf lets me play with his ass. We have yet to try a strap-on, but are open to it!

If my girlfriend asked for it, I'd be more than willing to let her try. I've tried fingering while wanking off (hey, sometimes the traditional way gets boring!) and let me tell you... it was the most intense orgasm I've ever had. :)

I have such a phobia of feces. :D

Seriously. I'm sure it feels great and it's stimulating, but I just can't seriously consider sticking anything up anybody elses butt. And likewise I couldn't feel comfortable with them sticking anything up mine.

Call me a prude, I don't care. I have absolutely no desire to explore the realms of my lower intestine.

i dunno thats kinda weird, i'd have to discuss it

a finger is one thing....but as for a big rubber dick? i doubt it

Never been asked. Would try it if asked, no qualms there.

Interesting...there are more people that would be willing to try it than refuse to try it...more open minded people around than I expected.

Another interesting thing to note is that not one person who has tried it says they didn't like it.

With the right person, I would be open to trying just about anything.

Never tryed it, but me being me i would go for it if the lady i was with wanted to do it.
Try being more open minded, i guess a lot of men think it will make them gay and whatever if they actually enjoy being fucked up the ass..
Well, you'r not, you just like it, heh.

For me, it's all good.

Yeah, but it's funny how the naysayers are louder and more vehment in the comments, isn't it?

Ass play can be fun but i'm probably going to bow out on the full on penetration.

k, i'm female voter who voted "Never tried it before, but would try if asked"

meaning...i don't have a strap-on or whatever...but it's something i do want to try sometime with my bf, and i *think* he'd be 'receptive'..he definitely enjoys ass-play. ;)

I think the most telling statistic is that none of the 10 who have tried it HAVEN'T liked it. I think guys with the mindset of "nothing goes in there" are about on par with women who don't want to receive oral sex; their choice, but they're missing out...

Haven't had the the strap-on, but had a little fingering. It was interesting in that I'm not used to it, but I think given time, it'll be better.

Never tried it but would with the right women. I have masturbated with a finger or 2 in my ass, and the orgams are great, besides who doesn't like variety.

During sex, I had a finger go up there and it was great. Rimjobs do feel good too.

Even one time during a colon oscopy (sp?), the nurse who was lubing my rear was good looking. As she applied lube with her finger, I got excited. But as soon as the camera was inserted, that excitement was gone.

its just too damn taboo for (almost) every man.

Why do you think there is the old adage that god played a trick on men and stuck their G spot in their ass. Stimulation of the prostrate can create extremely intense orgasms. As a matter of fact, that used to be an old prostitute trick. Not only did the guy have a much more intense orgasm, but they could make him have it quicker. And yes, my wife and I have and do try it

With the right girl, I'd try anything once.

I guess I'm not as willing as some. I get all tense by her just rubbing her hand on my ass. Not afraid of it or anything, it is just a natural reaction for me for some reason.

Perhaps it's a ticklish reaction?

Actually, ya, thats more of what it is. I guess that coupled with the fact I *HATE* being tickled is prolly why nothing like that happens.

Come to think of it, even my lower back is like that. Guess this makes my posts completly off topic :-P

Maybe you just need to find the right girl to playfully tickle you into submission. ;) It's one of the best way to seduce a person next to massages. Relax and enjoy those soft hands caressing you. *wiggles eyebrows*

Hehe, well, we have been togther for 5 years :) So unless other plans work out, there won't be another woman in the picture to tickle me into submission :)

Well, get her to massage your back and work slowly towards your butt, then have her run her fingernails down your back, And if you're still willing (getting back on topic now), you could try what a good portion of men (and women) claim to enjoy. So far, according to the poll, anyone who's tried it has enjoyed it, so have a good time if or when you do. :)

I've tried it and enjoyed it. Though, I am a prude in that I only did it after she and I have had a shower. Course, we showered together so that was half the fun. :)