Anal sex on men
 

This thread is sort of a spin off from this Ladies Lounge thread.

According to the linked thread, many women have found their men refuse to even try anything. Would you let your girlfriend/wife use a strap-on on you? What about other anal play? Rimjobs?

My g/f has tried a couple fingers on me twice so far, and I liked it both times. We talked about it, and we are going to try both giving and recieving rimjobs. We don't own any toys, so that isn't really an option right now.

What about you?

Most men aren't that open-minded. Kudos to you, im2smrt4u.

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I blame society for this.

Nope, my girlfriend and I have a mutual understanding about keeping things out of each other's poop holes.

I'd go for it... if is was spontaneous.

Never tried it and never will.
I'd break up with a chic immediately if she suggested that. http://www.boomspeed.com/sixate/noanal.gif

Eww!

If i had a girlfriend that ever asked me to do that, first i would laugh, hoping it was a joke. Second (if she was serious) i would walk out of the room feeling very awkward. Then i would return later and act like the conversation had never happened.

Why not?

Stimulation of the prostate is very enjoyable.

Yeah . . . here's the thing, i can't say that i would find a woman ramming a fake dildo up my butt hole very stimulating. Also, that whole process of her fucking me in my ass . . . well, it would be pretty damn awkward. So i'm going to stick with my answer of NO!

sorry im not open
i just dont enjoy the idea of something crammed up my ass

I think most men seem to have this fear that if they have something put into their butthole, they might actually like it, thus making them less of a man. I for one have never done it, although I did have a girl ask if she could put her finger in my ass. I said no, but not because of a fear of being gay or anything. I mostly said no because I didn't know the girl enough, and If I was going to have a women put a finger in me, it would have to be someone I was really close to.

sixate, that's the best smiley icon I've ever seen :lol:

Yes, it's fun. There are certain positions that raeanna74 and I have where she can finger my ass while we make love. I enjoy it, and she likes the results! Would I let her use a strap-on? Probably not, but a little ass-play is nice.

Toys are great -- I highly recommend them im2smrt4u, for you and her! Consensual anal play is a lot of fun! I get very turned on when my bf lets me play with his ass. We have yet to try a strap-on, but are open to it!

If my girlfriend asked for it, I'd be more than willing to let her try. I've tried fingering while wanking off (hey, sometimes the traditional way gets boring!) and let me tell you... it was the most intense orgasm I've ever had. :)

I have such a phobia of feces. :D

Seriously. I'm sure it feels great and it's stimulating, but I just can't seriously consider sticking anything up anybody elses butt. And likewise I couldn't feel comfortable with them sticking anything up mine.

Call me a prude, I don't care. I have absolutely no desire to explore the realms of my lower intestine.

i dunno thats kinda weird, i'd have to discuss it

a finger is one thing....but as for a big rubber dick? i doubt it

Never been asked. Would try it if asked, no qualms there.

Interesting...there are more people that would be willing to try it than refuse to try it...more open minded people around than I expected.

Another interesting thing to note is that not one person who has tried it says they didn't like it.

With the right person, I would be open to trying just about anything.

Never tryed it, but me being me i would go for it if the lady i was with wanted to do it.
Try being more open minded, i guess a lot of men think it will make them gay and whatever if they actually enjoy being fucked up the ass..
Well, you'r not, you just like it, heh.

For me, it's all good.

Yeah, but it's funny how the naysayers are louder and more vehment in the comments, isn't it?

Ass play can be fun but i'm probably going to bow out on the full on penetration.

k, i'm female voter who voted "Never tried it before, but would try if asked"

meaning...i don't have a strap-on or whatever...but it's something i do want to try sometime with my bf, and i *think* he'd be 'receptive'..he definitely enjoys ass-play. ;)

I think the most telling statistic is that none of the 10 who have tried it HAVEN'T liked it. I think guys with the mindset of "nothing goes in there" are about on par with women who don't want to receive oral sex; their choice, but they're missing out...

Haven't had the the strap-on, but had a little fingering. It was interesting in that I'm not used to it, but I think given time, it'll be better.

Never tried it but would with the right women. I have masturbated with a finger or 2 in my ass, and the orgams are great, besides who doesn't like variety.

During sex, I had a finger go up there and it was great. Rimjobs do feel good too.

Even one time during a colon oscopy (sp?), the nurse who was lubing my rear was good looking. As she applied lube with her finger, I got excited. But as soon as the camera was inserted, that excitement was gone.

its just too damn taboo for (almost) every man.

Why do you think there is the old adage that god played a trick on men and stuck their G spot in their ass. Stimulation of the prostrate can create extremely intense orgasms. As a matter of fact, that used to be an old prostitute trick. Not only did the guy have a much more intense orgasm, but they could make him have it quicker. And yes, my wife and I have and do try it

With the right girl, I'd try anything once.

I guess I'm not as willing as some. I get all tense by her just rubbing her hand on my ass. Not afraid of it or anything, it is just a natural reaction for me for some reason.

Perhaps it's a ticklish reaction?

Actually, ya, thats more of what it is. I guess that coupled with the fact I *HATE* being tickled is prolly why nothing like that happens.

Come to think of it, even my lower back is like that. Guess this makes my posts completly off topic :-P

Maybe you just need to find the right girl to playfully tickle you into submission. ;) It's one of the best way to seduce a person next to massages. Relax and enjoy those soft hands caressing you. *wiggles eyebrows*

Hehe, well, we have been togther for 5 years :) So unless other plans work out, there won't be another woman in the picture to tickle me into submission :)

Well, get her to massage your back and work slowly towards your butt, then have her run her fingernails down your back, And if you're still willing (getting back on topic now), you could try what a good portion of men (and women) claim to enjoy. So far, according to the poll, anyone who's tried it has enjoyed it, so have a good time if or when you do. :)

I've tried it and enjoyed it. Though, I am a prude in that I only did it after she and I have had a shower. Course, we showered together so that was half the fun. :)

it's now
Tried it before, and didn't like it - 0 --- 0%
Tried it before, and liked it ------- 17 -- 30.36%

I don't know about strap-ons
but I have had ladies use fingers and tongues in the moment.

I don't go out of my way for it, but my philosophy is
if it's part of the passion, then let it happen.

As long as I'm into the woman, then most anything goes.

I had a ex-girlfriend use some fingers once on a spur of the moment type thing and it was well, shocking at first, but then when I actually have an orgasm it was one of the most powerful ones ever. Ever since then I've been all about stimulating the prostrate.

That said, while I don't mind the fingers, I think having her use some sort of dildo on me might be a bit much. But who knows, I'm a sucker and would probably try anything once.

i had and enjoyed giving and recieving a rimjob and also a finger or two. i think if taken slowly a strap-on or something similar would be very enjoyable, but i wouldnt want one of those schlong shaped ones with veins and stuff, thats a bit too much for me. i used to think it was pretty gross but then i realized that, a good shit feels a lot better than bad sex, so if its at least as good feeling as the average shit its probably worth it, and it was.
i had a similar thing with tickling i used to really hate being tickled then the right girl came along and tickled me in the right way in the right places and it was one of the most enjoyable things ive ever done with a woman. so next time a girl comes along offering me new pleasures i wont hessitate to take a taste.

What I don't get is this attitude of "Well if they don't want it done to them, they must be homophobic". Screw that, I'm enough of a human that I can think about things and decide how I would feel about them without having to try them. Sure, maybe it would feel good... who knows getting a BJ while I take a dump might feel good also, I can live without either.

edit: But if the girl wanted to try it, I would.

It's the way people chose to phrase it. Some people express a dislike of the idea in terms like, "I don't think I'd enjoy it", and I'd certainly not describe that as homophobic. But there are plenty that express in terms of it being wrong for anyone, perverted, etc, which suggests to me they've got some issues of their own.

I'm extremely open-minded, it just doesn't feel good for me- just like there are many girls out there who simply do not like anything up there. I tried it and didn't like it- so what? And yeah, I blame the closed-mindedness of society as well.

And i HATE when people use the homophobia card- that's bullshit. If i don't feel like something is right for me, that's all it means. I know skydiving is something i'm not ever doing, but that doesn't mean i hate skydivers or look down on them for doing it themselves. More power to you if you want it, and bless you for enjoying it! :)

The fact that you've tried it or experimented with it makes you NOT close-minded. Also, I don't think I said anything that could be misconstrued as a homophobia card and that comment seems aimed at me.

Fingers, toungues, strap-ons... it is all good. Bring it on.

Exactly. It is only closed minded if you refuse to give it a try.

Have you tried any of them yet, or just willing to?

mmm this is just plain awkward

I was one to say I wouldn't try it, but I'd say it more depends on the time. Anything's possible, and I can't rule this out. However, I gotta say it sounds kinda... different...?

I'd try it with the right girl.

yup.. done it.. liked it.. want it again.

we do it all, although i give alot more than receive any of it. it came about slowly and i'll admit it was me who brought it up after i initiated some ass play with her. i didnt realize she had any interest in it but when it happened, it was very obvious she was getting off on that position.

cant wait to try it again.

Been the finger route and I like it.

I've tried all three and would do them all again... It started with an old girlfriend using her fingers and occasionally tongue on my ass... it was more pleasurable then I would have imagined.

One night we were messing around and she tied me up and blind folded me... before I knew it she was fucking my ass with one of her dildoes... It experienced one of the most powerful orgasms that night...

Since then anal play is just part of the repertoire of sex...

sure why not she lets me do her

I asked my girlfriend if she wanted to try me giving to her and she turned it around on me. I don't care anymore but she bugs me for her to do it to me.

I think it would destroy any idea of being the "man of the house" in a sense. Think if they made fake strap on vaginas for us boys and the girls jumped on and rode us. Too much role reversal.

I think it is only fair that if you want to fuck a woman in the ass she should be premitted to fuck yours first (she has to go first because most guys will back out if they get what they want first...).

I was watching SEX TV one night (an interesting show that is made here in Toronto and is on regular TV saturday and sunday evenings)

Apparently the all time most popular sex instruction video is called "Bend over Boyfriend" It's made by a couple of lesbians and deals entirely with women using strap ons on their boyfriends.

Here's the link....

http://www.fatalemedia.com/videos/be...boyfriend.html

I'd order it, but it's like everything else, i have a million other things to spend my money on.

For the record, i have have tried the gf wearing the strap on routine and must admit i quite liked it, though doggie style was one of the roughest positions. Personally, reverse misionary was the way to go i found. Very pleasurable.

Another variation on a theme is for you to put a butt plug in her ass, and she puts one in your ass and you have intercourse in a missionary position.

When you finally have an orgasm, you can feel this strange pulsating inside your body. You have to try it to know what the hell i am talking about.

I had one girlfriend who would put anal beads in my ass as she was giving me head, then at the moment i came in her mouth, she would pull them out.

I just about went into convulsions with that little trick of hers.

Commander Kirk - You are (still) my hero.

My S.O. is very much into anal, particularly when a bit tipsy. She tells me I've got a great ass (how nice of her) and when she's in the right mood she'll spend some time performing great rim work. It seems that her ass often gets a bit of a workout when we are doing a fantasy D&S scene that involves spanking.

I enjoy ass play with her using plugs, dildos, fingers, tongue and my cock and she reciprocates. I've tried her fingers in my ass and an occasional butt plug during sex but I don't own a strap-on. I'm open to the concept and expect that I'd enjoy it but just haven't made the investment - yet.

Kirk... I think Come As You Are on Queen St. W. in Toronto (www.comeasyouare.com) both sells and rents that particular video...

hmmm, I have tried it with one of my bfs i found it enjoyable, i did ask if i could figner him and he said no. but now i am kinda seeing this one guy and he is bi but i have never asked him. I think he is trying to block the fact that he was bi because now he claims hes straight. im gonna ask

Limey actually loves to wander down to my ass. Aside from fingering and the occasional Rimjob, not much else goes on. But that's only for lack of supplies...

Someone is getting a Strap-on for their birthday..

Ill try almost anything once. This is one of those things that falls into that category. It doesn't strike me as all that appealing, but I would be up for it just out of natural curiosity.

Funny the effect of Polls....

I was a strong NO WAY IN F@#$@ HELL

But then I see only 1 person say they didn't like it and a lot of people willing to try and the thoughts are starting to creep into my head :confused:

Crikie

65 bucks!

Sex is never cheap huh

i've been giving her and receiving rimjobs for some time now. Great stuff. Still trying to convince her to move onto fingering, and perhaps actual penetration.

don't knock something until you've tried it. :D

Behold the power of knowledge! Keeping an open mind can mean a lot more fun times... :)

I only wish :\

Regarding anal stimulation for men...

Really, no matter if you're going at the cock or the arse, the prostrate is wrapped up in the same muscle that controls you're urine, so....

When that muscle flexes, as it often does while you're up and atom, your prostate - and indeed your arsehole itself - are being stimulated.

Sorry to those chaps too insecure to deal with it, but whenever you're getting your knob fondled or fucked, you're effectively getting a little anal stimulation as well.

Get over it, and start enjoying the _whole_ bounty of pleasure your body can afford to your mind.

Of course, that's just my humble *cough* opinion.

It's kinda odd at first but then it gets more enjoyable...I've never really been one to not try new things at least once...This happened to be one thing that I don't mind trying again ;-)

It would matter on the girl. And it couldn't be a on the fly thing neither.

I'm looking for a good strap on for my wife (& me :D ) I saw a double ended one that was v shaped that looked pretty decent but I have not been able to locate it again. Any help?

I'd definately go for a finger or two, maybe even a small vibrator if the mood was right, but not a strap-on

My wife used a small vibe on my ass while she was giving me head the other night. I love it when she does that!

I'm thinking of broaching the strap-on subject with her, but I'm not sure how she'd take it.

I don't mind my gf finger up my ass but don't know if I would go for a strap on. Although she does like my cock up her ass.

my fiance and i do all that stuff. I dont know how we came to think about doing it. But she loves licking and fingering my ass. She'll use a dildo and we've used a strap-on a couple times. it makes your orgasm so much more intense doing that stuff. I don't feel ashamed at all. we are pretty open-minded. if you are curious about doing anal stuff with your gf, i'd suggest trying it. it's worth it if you both take it slow so you can get use to it.

I guess I'm trisexual... I'll TRY anything... at least once.

haha. it's nice. I miss it. :)

I'm too tired to search myself, but if you google for strap-on (or strap on) and harness, you'll probably find something. Usually strap ons that are harness compatible, and for her pleasure, are V-shaped so the dildo doesn't fall out.

Yeah my husband and I do anal:D The first time I tried it on him I got incredibly wet and we were both suprised that I got that turned on by it. It was just something about it:D

i'd give it a shot .I'd have to tart slow thogh i'm not strating with a footlong dildo maybe just a finger or two from my lady.

Actually i asked my gf a couple of weeks ago if i could try anal on her and she told me that she would me if i would let her stick 3 fingers up my ass. Needless to say i have purposly avoided answering her about this cause I DONT WANT ANYTHING UP MY ASS.

Most men dont even want to discuss the subject because they KNOW deep down that if they DO try it, they might like it, and if they DO like it, a Finger just might not be enough :O.

anywhoo,

i do my GF in the ass all the time. She absolutly LOVES it, and shes only 19, a few months ago, while she was suckin me off, she decided to get her finger all sloppy too. and then BOOM next thing i new it was up my ass, my eyes almost hit the ceiling! and then i came almost instantly, it was fucking cool! so since then, she has done it once more, she knows im still touchy about that, but she will get me occasional nights when shes feeling really kinky and do it again. :/

and im only 22, and im looking at some of the posts done by men twice my age and not even half as open to suggestion as i am... you guys should really re-asses(sp?) your way of thinking.

you dont know if it is something you dont like until you try it and prove to yourself you dont like it.

either that, or you just dont wipe your ass properly and are ashamed of it.

BTW: everytime RIGHT before sex, i always take a big poop right before, just incase hahahah. ok thats enough from me i will leave now.

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I've never tired it before - but would in a heartbeat if my lady wanted to. But - that won't happen. She's not into Anal AT ALL - and the sad part is - it turns me on like you wouuldn't believe thinking about doing Anal with her.

Which brings up a question - ladies and men - were you ever a person or with a person who was totally against anal sex - turn around and then want to try it? What's the best way to help this along?

My first wife wanted to try it so I gave in. She popped on a strap on (didn't know she had one) lubed it and fucked me for a good half hour. Shot my load while I was getting humped which tripped me out. Probably did it a dozen times in the ten years we were married. It amazing what can fit in there. The last time was about six years ago.

When I was sixteen my buddy fucked me in the ass during summer vacation. In all I have been fucked in the ass by eight guys the last time was twelve years ago. Most of the action happen in college. Anal play was always a lot of fun.

hell yeah, would love to have been ridden with a strapon...

ex gf used to know how to please me :)
fine rimjobs :P and knew where to hit the spot

As much as I love penetrating my girlfriend anally I just cannot conceive of letting anyone get near my ass.

That's a definite no-no.

For all of you closed-minded people (especially the ones that want to or like putting it in your girl's ass), take a look at the fuckin' poll. In case you still need help, here's a simplified version.

Out of 100 guys that haven't tried it,
# that wouldn't try it: 36
# that would try it: 64

Out of 100 guys that have tried it,
# that wouldn't like it: 3
# that would like it: 97

Take a hint from the people who have tried it. All of you guys who are worried about it making you more gay, sooner or later you're going to have to face that fact that if you did try it, there's a 97% chance that you would like it. So if you post saying something like "I would never let a girl put something in my ass," you've got a 3% chance that you're making the right decision. Essentially, you are wrong.

Fingers (my own) yes, very intense orgasm
(M/F) not yet, soon perhaps
rimming (M/F): not yet
fucked in the ass: Male yes, enjoyed it
Female (via strapon) Not yet, but one lives in hope :)
Odd, tho my handful of attempts to fuck someones ass have been less than (my) orgasm, perhaps because i was not giving myself permission to enjoy.

I believe that this will not be a problem now ;)

I had a girlfriend who was fond of milking the prostate while giving me a blow job and I'll tell you guys who say you'd never try it....whoooooah....it's pretty darn good.

never done it, but I'd love to try it.

Definitely, definitely, no way, no.

Its interesting on the poll results that of the people who say they tried it nearly everyone liked it...

But my answer is still no. Pyschologically, I dont think I would want anyone shoving anything up my ass, even if it could by physically pleasurable.

I agree, only to a point.

You are making no allowance for the fact that the people who try it are more likely to be the people who would enjoy it, or at least be more open to enjoying it.

SF, They don't have to shove.. they can be gentle too :)

I'm not sure why straight guys equate anything in your ass to being gay ( yes, I have the same hangup sometimes). You have no idea what you're missing out on by not trying this. It probably isn't something you want every day, but when you get it.. oh man is it good. I've actually been sore the next day from the power of the orgasm. The strap-on idea is interesting given enough lube.. I think I'd do it!

sorry it is an exit only. no entry!!!!!

My girlfriend doesn't use anything besides her body on me, but I'd say that I'd be down for just about anything with her. It's all fun and games. I don't see any reason not to except for some personal limits based on insecurities (not trying to attack anyone here....) . It's not only unharmful to both partners, but it also feels amazing. Still, the only problem I can think of would be the breaking down of controll on the man's side who might be used to having the 'upper hand' :confused: :icare: Simply saying that you don't like things up your ass is a pretty hasty conclusion seeing that most guys are yet to even try it. To each their own though, but I tend to choose 'pleasure' whenever I can :p