juanvaldes

it's now
Tried it before, and didn't like it - 0 --- 0%
Tried it before, and liked it ------- 17 -- 30.36%

rogue49

I don't know about strap-ons
but I have had ladies use fingers and tongues in the moment.

I don't go out of my way for it, but my philosophy is
if it's part of the passion, then let it happen.

As long as I'm into the woman, then most anything goes.

scud

I had a ex-girlfriend use some fingers once on a spur of the moment type thing and it was well, shocking at first, but then when I actually have an orgasm it was one of the most powerful ones ever. Ever since then I've been all about stimulating the prostrate.

That said, while I don't mind the fingers, I think having her use some sort of dildo on me might be a bit much. But who knows, I'm a sucker and would probably try anything once.

nosuchagent

i had and enjoyed giving and recieving a rimjob and also a finger or two. i think if taken slowly a strap-on or something similar would be very enjoyable, but i wouldnt want one of those schlong shaped ones with veins and stuff, thats a bit too much for me. i used to think it was pretty gross but then i realized that, a good shit feels a lot better than bad sex, so if its at least as good feeling as the average shit its probably worth it, and it was.
i had a similar thing with tickling i used to really hate being tickled then the right girl came along and tickled me in the right way in the right places and it was one of the most enjoyable things ive ever done with a woman. so next time a girl comes along offering me new pleasures i wont hessitate to take a taste.

Harshaw

What I don't get is this attitude of "Well if they don't want it done to them, they must be homophobic". Screw that, I'm enough of a human that I can think about things and decide how I would feel about them without having to try them. Sure, maybe it would feel good... who knows getting a BJ while I take a dump might feel good also, I can live without either.

edit: But if the girl wanted to try it, I would.

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rodgerd

It's the way people chose to phrase it. Some people express a dislike of the idea in terms like, "I don't think I'd enjoy it", and I'd certainly not describe that as homophobic. But there are plenty that express in terms of it being wrong for anyone, perverted, etc, which suggests to me they've got some issues of their own.

analog

I'm extremely open-minded, it just doesn't feel good for me- just like there are many girls out there who simply do not like anything up there. I tried it and didn't like it- so what? And yeah, I blame the closed-mindedness of society as well.

And i HATE when people use the homophobia card- that's bullshit. If i don't feel like something is right for me, that's all it means. I know skydiving is something i'm not ever doing, but that doesn't mean i hate skydivers or look down on them for doing it themselves. More power to you if you want it, and bless you for enjoying it!

motdakasha

The fact that you've tried it or experimented with it makes you NOT close-minded. Also, I don't think I said anything that could be misconstrued as a homophobia card and that comment seems aimed at me.

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Charlatan

Fingers, toungues, strap-ons... it is all good. Bring it on.

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im2smrt4u

Exactly. It is only closed minded if you refuse to give it a try.

im2smrt4u

Have you tried any of them yet, or just willing to?

mastboy4

mmm this is just plain awkward

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quantumburnz

I was one to say I wouldn't try it, but I'd say it more depends on the time. Anything's possible, and I can't rule this out. However, I gotta say it sounds kinda... different...?

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Mr Scorcex

I'd try it with the right girl.

oscar0308

yup.. done it.. liked it.. want it again.

we do it all, although i give alot more than receive any of it. it came about slowly and i'll admit it was me who brought it up after i initiated some ass play with her. i didnt realize she had any interest in it but when it happened, it was very obvious she was getting off on that position.

cant wait to try it again.

soxsfans

Been the finger route and I like it.

Charlatan

I've tried all three and would do them all again... It started with an old girlfriend using her fingers and occasionally tongue on my ass... it was more pleasurable then I would have imagined.

One night we were messing around and she tied me up and blind folded me... before I knew it she was fucking my ass with one of her dildoes... It experienced one of the most powerful orgasms that night...

Since then anal play is just part of the repertoire of sex...

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stevertbe

sure why not she lets me do her

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Pooface

I asked my girlfriend if she wanted to try me giving to her and she turned it around on me. I don't care anymore but she bugs me for her to do it to me.

I think it would destroy any idea of being the "man of the house" in a sense. Think if they made fake strap on vaginas for us boys and the girls jumped on and rode us. Too much role reversal.

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Charlatan

I think it is only fair that if you want to fuck a woman in the ass she should be premitted to fuck yours first (she has to go first because most guys will back out if they get what they want first...).

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james t kirk

I was watching SEX TV one night (an interesting show that is made here in Toronto and is on regular TV saturday and sunday evenings)

Apparently the all time most popular sex instruction video is called "Bend over Boyfriend" It's made by a couple of lesbians and deals entirely with women using strap ons on their boyfriends.

Here's the link....

http://www.fatalemedia.com/videos/be...boyfriend.html

I'd order it, but it's like everything else, i have a million other things to spend my money on.

For the record, i have have tried the gf wearing the strap on routine and must admit i quite liked it, though doggie style was one of the roughest positions. Personally, reverse misionary was the way to go i found. Very pleasurable.

Another variation on a theme is for you to put a butt plug in her ass, and she puts one in your ass and you have intercourse in a missionary position.

When you finally have an orgasm, you can feel this strange pulsating inside your body. You have to try it to know what the hell i am talking about.

I had one girlfriend who would put anal beads in my ass as she was giving me head, then at the moment i came in her mouth, she would pull them out.

I just about went into convulsions with that little trick of hers.

riskybiz

Commander Kirk - You are (still) my hero.

My S.O. is very much into anal, particularly when a bit tipsy. She tells me I've got a great ass (how nice of her) and when she's in the right mood she'll spend some time performing great rim work. It seems that her ass often gets a bit of a workout when we are doing a fantasy D&S scene that involves spanking.

I enjoy ass play with her using plugs, dildos, fingers, tongue and my cock and she reciprocates. I've tried her fingers in my ass and an occasional butt plug during sex but I don't own a strap-on. I'm open to the concept and expect that I'd enjoy it but just haven't made the investment - yet.

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Charlatan

Kirk... I think Come As You Are on Queen St. W. in Toronto (www.comeasyouare.com) both sells and rents that particular video...

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fallen_angel

hmmm, I have tried it with one of my bfs i found it enjoyable, i did ask if i could figner him and he said no. but now i am kinda seeing this one guy and he is bi but i have never asked him. I think he is trying to block the fact that he was bi because now he claims hes straight. im gonna ask

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Spinach_Indeed

Limey actually loves to wander down to my ass. Aside from fingering and the occasional Rimjob, not much else goes on. But that's only for lack of supplies...

Someone is getting a Strap-on for their birthday..

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giblfiz

Ill try almost anything once. This is one of those things that falls into that category. It doesn't strike me as all that appealing, but I would be up for it just out of natural curiosity.

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JTC

Funny the effect of Polls....

I was a strong NO WAY IN F@#$@ HELL

But then I see only 1 person say they didn't like it and a lot of people willing to try and the thoughts are starting to creep into my head

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Crikie

65 bucks!

Sex is never cheap huh

dimbulb

i've been giving her and receiving rimjobs for some time now. Great stuff. Still trying to convince her to move onto fingering, and perhaps actual penetration.

don't knock something until you've tried it.

Kadath

Behold the power of knowledge! Keeping an open mind can mean a lot more fun times...

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tisonlyi

Regarding anal stimulation for men...

Really, no matter if you're going at the cock or the arse, the prostrate is wrapped up in the same muscle that controls you're urine, so....

When that muscle flexes, as it often does while you're up and atom, your prostate - and indeed your arsehole itself - are being stimulated.

Sorry to those chaps too insecure to deal with it, but whenever you're getting your knob fondled or fucked, you're effectively getting a little anal stimulation as well.

Get over it, and start enjoying the _whole_ bounty of pleasure your body can afford to your mind.

Of course, that's just my humble *cough* opinion.

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Xirax

It's kinda odd at first but then it gets more enjoyable...I've never really been one to not try new things at least once...This happened to be one thing that I don't mind trying again ;-)

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Infinite Hybrid

It would matter on the girl. And it couldn't be a on the fly thing neither.

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Mango

I'm looking for a good strap on for my wife (& me ) I saw a double ended one that was v shaped that looked pretty decent but I have not been able to locate it again. Any help?

phunktastic

I'd definately go for a finger or two, maybe even a small vibrator if the mood was right, but not a strap-on

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erion

My wife used a small vibe on my ass while she was giving me head the other night. I love it when she does that!

I'm thinking of broaching the strap-on subject with her, but I'm not sure how she'd take it.

padam

I don't mind my gf finger up my ass but don't know if I would go for a strap on. Although she does like my cock up her ass.

Darthnapoleon

my fiance and i do all that stuff. I dont know how we came to think about doing it. But she loves licking and fingering my ass. She'll use a dildo and we've used a strap-on a couple times. it makes your orgasm so much more intense doing that stuff. I don't feel ashamed at all. we are pretty open-minded. if you are curious about doing anal stuff with your gf, i'd suggest trying it. it's worth it if you both take it slow so you can get use to it.

toxic515

I guess I'm trisexual... I'll TRY anything... at least once.

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