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txd · 08-12-2003, 08:23 AM

Hi All,

I was ondering if someone could give me advice on what I should be looking for in my first anal sex toy. Ideally I would like a plug I can leave in for a while, or should I be building up to that first?

Any advice / reviews or what not greatly appreciated.

oscar0308 · 08-12-2003, 11:22 AM

definitely start off small. i few more small and obvious bits of advice...

1. get something with a flared base so you dont lose it.
2. use plenty of lube.
3. go real slow the first few times. even something small can take some time getting accustomed to.
4. enjoy yourself.

specifically, i'd say look for a plug that can stay in for some time to help you relax and get somethign with vibrations. the last is just a little something to enjoy.

-Ever- · 08-12-2003, 12:16 PM

I just picked up a Little Flirt for my girlfriend to experiment with while we have sex. Check it out!
To put the size into perspective, I'd say that the Big Flirt's thickest point is smaller than the width of an average man's penis. The little flirt's thickest point is some bit larger than an average man's middle finger knuckle...Pretty easy to work with IMO.
http://www.wickedtouch.com/flirt.html#littleflirt

Charlatan · 08-12-2003, 12:47 PM

Here is a list of the anal toys from my favourite shop...

Come as You Are

My wife just bought the "joystick" for her strap on...

I'd agree with the others here... start out with something small. Use lube and relax.

I haven't tried plugs or beads but hear they are fun...

txd · 08-12-2003, 01:37 PM

Thanks for the replies, I'm currently considering the Spectragels Anal Plug which seems to be relatively small (1" x 4"). Is there any problems starting off with this due to the curve, or should I be considering something a little straighter.

WIth regards to lube, I take it application should be on both the plug and anus and as already mentioned in plentiful supply.

(Appologies if this is getting a little to indepth - I'll edit accordingly if needed

iceman2032 · 08-12-2003, 02:11 PM

I'm not quite sure if you're a guy or a girl, but when you're using anal sex toys make sure you don't take them out of the butt and put them into the vagina. You can get some pretty nasty infections by doing so.

Mephisto2 · 08-12-2003, 05:59 PM

It's been said before, but I'll say it again...

A flared base is very important. The anus, unlike the vagina, does not have a limited length (per se), if you know what I mean.

If you're not careful, you can "lose" stuff up there.

So either use dildos that you can hold onto, of if you want to leave it in there for some DP action (LOTS of fun!), then ensure you have a butt-plug with a flared base.

A sexy, and very erotic alternative, is anal beads. They come with a string, so you can gently pull them out one at a time during climax.

"Excuse me while I kiss the sky..."

Mr Mephisto

cheerios · 08-12-2003, 06:45 PM

txd: everyone i've EVER heard has said you can't have too much lube. (imagines sitting in a kiddy pool full of lube..." is this enough?" NOO!

) But, other than that, i wouldn't worry about the curve, but remember to relax!!!! no relaxation = tense muscles = anal being a pain in the ass pun intended.

so. a warm bath, soothing music, candles whatever it takes to loosen up.

angela146 · 08-12-2003, 11:47 PM

As you push it in with your hand, press out against it with your internal muscles, as if you were trying to expel it. That helps open you up more.

Also, park it at the begining for a while until you get used to it.

motdakasha · 08-13-2003, 02:45 AM

There are some anal-related questions answered here at Good Vibes:
http://www.goodvibes.com/cgi-bin/sgd...nfo/index.html

Charlatan · 08-13-2003, 05:41 AM

one more thing... if you are a guy, the curve is a good thing. It will make it easier to stimulate the prostate.

Knock yourself out...

iceman2032 · 08-13-2003, 07:58 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by motdakasha
There are some anal-related questions answered here at Good Vibes:
http://www.goodvibes.com/cgi-bin/sgd...nfo/index.html

Hey, good site. Thanks for the link.

Dilbert1234567 · 08-13-2003, 11:11 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by oscar0308
1. get something with a flared base so you dont lose it.

I know you say this in all seriousness but I cant stop laughing,

Thanks for being open with the advice

cheerios · 08-13-2003, 11:14 PM

it's all fun and games till ya lose a toy and end up in the ER, hmm?

txd · 08-18-2003, 07:29 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by iceman2032
I'm not quite sure if you're a guy or a girl,

I'm a guy

Ordered the toy I mentioned earlier it and alot of lube should be with me by the end of the week, just in time for myself and the GF to have some fun

virus · 08-18-2003, 07:43 PM

someone i know (eh hem) prefers long beaded contraptions ascending in size. think about it. i suppose if you're leaning toward a plug something like this could give you/your partner the idea of what size would be right.

jbrooks544 · 08-19-2003, 06:18 AM

Go to this site to see the extremes that some people end up putting up there. This site shows just the toys - not a porn site and no photos of people. Read some of the comments/reviews on some of the items, pretty funny:

http://www.bigsextoystore.com/cgi-bi...ildos&start=60

In left column you can go see other categories for a chuckle.

txd · 08-25-2003, 07:56 AM

Well it arrived early so I tried it out on my self first and it was very easy to go in, had a great time when the gf used it on me and later got to use it on her

meff · 09-10-2003, 04:33 PM

Me and my wife just got a rather skinny (like half penis width) glass dildo, and we're kinda new to ass play, and it works and feels soo good. They're like $50 so if you can snag one, it feels awesome right out of the freezer

Have fun!

Crick · 04-16-2004, 05:25 PM

Anal Probe.

Tuffy_McGee · 04-16-2004, 08:10 PM

Did anyone mention the aneros? I want to buy one and if you're a guy it is supposed to stimulate the prostate.

zxello · 04-16-2004, 08:59 PM

I'd like to hear some first-hand experience from the Aneros too, I was looking into that one, anyone?

zxello · 04-16-2004, 09:03 PM

found this while searchin on the web, WARNING : Illustration of male rectum / prostate included.

http://www.aneros.com/aneros_whyitworks.html

Tuffy_McGee · 04-16-2004, 11:39 PM

That's just a line drawing. hehe
Looks more like biology than sexuality.

SiN · 04-17-2004, 01:18 AM

There's a big thread on aneros here for those interested

zxello · 04-17-2004, 10:43 AM

SiN Thanks! you are the ....... woMAN! guess i should learn to use the "Search" button huh?

nanofever · 04-17-2004, 12:12 PM

I notice this on the comeasyouare site:

Anyone else think sword fight, I mean the thing has a rubber grip sword grip.

Harshaw · 03-21-2005, 06:13 PM

Can someone help me with some ideas on how to clean said plug when done? I know with Silicon toys, you can boil them. But the toy I just bought is pretty soft so I'm not sure if boiling is the best idea.

Any ideas?

Charlatan · 03-21-2005, 06:43 PM

If you can't boil it you should use a condom to keep it clean.

Elusive Dreamer · 03-21-2005, 07:03 PM

i suggest and highly reccomend a plug that has little ball-type shapes going up the plug. the base is flat and each ball gets smaller from bottom to top. i never thought i'd like it... but um, yes they're awesome. i think they even intensify the sex. it's hot. good luck!!!

Gilda · 03-29-2005, 09:20 AM

Never mind.

Leviathan[NCV] · 03-29-2005, 07:24 PM

Holy pulling of a thread long lost, Batman.

anne30 · 03-05-2006, 07:01 AM

Anal play it's a lot of fun !
Butt plugs are the best tools to open up backdoor,
I know my own ...
I woke up early this morning, I did all my housework walking around the house nude with the plug inside of me.
It's a very important task in my everyday life to keep on butt plug training,
I love anal penetration and i want it to be as easy and comfortable as possible.

It's a particular sensation also to have the plug inside when i'm among other people and no one knows about it... a delightful sensation!!

KungFuGuy · 03-05-2006, 10:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by anne30

Anal play it's a lot of fun !
Butt plugs are the best tools to open up backdoor,
I know my own ...
I woke up early this morning, I did all my housework walking around the house nude with the plug inside of me.
It's a very important task in my everyday life to keep on butt plug training,
I love anal penetration and i want it to be as easy and comfortable as possible.

It's a particular sensation also to have the plug inside when i'm among other people and no one knows about it... a delightful sensation!!

now i'm going to be looking at my friends throughout the day with a

also- how do threads 2 years old like this get resurrected?

Jim Kata · 03-06-2006, 07:55 AM

http://nawtythings.com/beads2.html

7th one down. The first anal toy i got for my girlfriend....and she loves it. We never messed around anally, but we got this...and she is now trying to work up to my cock in her ass....but it hurts too much right now..so we are building up to it. Highly recommended toy.

08-12-2003, 08:23 AM	#1 (permalink)
txd Addict	(anal) sex toys Hi All, I was ondering if someone could give me advice on what I should be looking for in my first anal sex toy. Ideally I would like a plug I can leave in for a while, or should I be building up to that first? Any advice / reviews or what not greatly appreciated.

08-12-2003, 12:16 PM	#3 (permalink)
-Ever- Junkie Location: San Francisco	I just picked up a Little Flirt for my girlfriend to experiment with while we have sex. Check it out! To put the size into perspective, I'd say that the Big Flirt's thickest point is smaller than the width of an average man's penis. The little flirt's thickest point is some bit larger than an average man's middle finger knuckle...Pretty easy to work with IMO. http://www.wickedtouch.com/flirt.html#littleflirt __________________ Embracing the goddess energy within yourselves will bring all of you to a new understanding and valuing of life. A vision that inspires you to live and love on planet Earth. Like a priceless jewel buried in dark layers of soil and stone, Earth radiates her brilliant beauty into the caverns of space and time. Perhaps you are aware of those who watch over your home And experience of this place to visit and play with reality. You are becoming aware of yourself as a gamemaster... --Acknowledge your weaknesses--

08-12-2003, 12:47 PM	#4 (permalink)
Charlatan Getting it. Super Moderator Location: Lion City	Here is a list of the anal toys from my favourite shop... Come as You Are My wife just bought the "joystick" for her strap on... I'd agree with the others here... start out with something small. Use lube and relax. I haven't tried plugs or beads but hear they are fun... __________________ "My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars." - Old Man Luedecke

08-13-2003, 02:45 AM	#10 (permalink)
motdakasha Hiya Puddin'! Miss me? Location: Silicon Valley, CA	There are some anal-related questions answered here at Good Vibes: http://www.goodvibes.com/cgi-bin/sgd...nfo/index.html __________________ =^-^= motdakasha =^-^= Just Google It. BA Psychology & Photography (I'm not going psychoanalyze you nor will I let you cry on my shoulder. Have a nice day.)

08-13-2003, 05:41 AM	#11 (permalink)
Charlatan Getting it. Super Moderator Location: Lion City	one more thing... if you are a guy, the curve is a good thing. It will make it easier to stimulate the prostate. Knock yourself out... __________________ "My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars." - Old Man Luedecke

08-12-2003, 11:22 AM	#2 (permalink)
oscar0308 Crazy Location: New England	definitely start off small. i few more small and obvious bits of advice... 1. get something with a flared base so you dont lose it. 2. use plenty of lube. 3. go real slow the first few times. even something small can take some time getting accustomed to. 4. enjoy yourself. specifically, i'd say look for a plug that can stay in for some time to help you relax and get somethign with vibrations. the last is just a little something to enjoy.

08-12-2003, 01:37 PM	#5 (permalink)
txd Addict	Thanks for the replies, I'm currently considering the Spectragels Anal Plug which seems to be relatively small (1" x 4"). Is there any problems starting off with this due to the curve, or should I be considering something a little straighter. WIth regards to lube, I take it application should be on both the plug and anus and as already mentioned in plentiful supply. (Appologies if this is getting a little to indepth - I'll edit accordingly if needed

08-12-2003, 02:11 PM	#6 (permalink)
iceman2032 Crazy	I'm not quite sure if you're a guy or a girl, but when you're using anal sex toys make sure you don't take them out of the butt and put them into the vagina. You can get some pretty nasty infections by doing so.

08-12-2003, 05:59 PM	#7 (permalink)
Mephisto2 Junkie	It's been said before, but I'll say it again... A flared base is very important. The anus, unlike the vagina, does not have a limited length (per se), if you know what I mean. If you're not careful, you can "lose" stuff up there. So either use dildos that you can hold onto, of if you want to leave it in there for some DP action (LOTS of fun!), then ensure you have a butt-plug with a flared base. A sexy, and very erotic alternative, is anal beads. They come with a string, so you can gently pull them out one at a time during climax. "Excuse me while I kiss the sky..." Mr Mephisto

08-12-2003, 06:45 PM	#8 (permalink)
cheerios Banned Location: 'bout 2 feet from my iMac	txd: everyone i've EVER heard has said you can't have too much lube. (imagines sitting in a kiddy pool full of lube..." is this enough?" NOO! ) But, other than that, i wouldn't worry about the curve, but remember to relax!!!! no relaxation = tense muscles = anal being a pain in the ass pun intended. so. a warm bath, soothing music, candles whatever it takes to loosen up.

08-12-2003, 11:47 PM	#9 (permalink)
angela146 Loser Location: Somewhere near Hubby	As you push it in with your hand, press out against it with your internal muscles, as if you were trying to expel it. That helps open you up more. Also, park it at the begining for a while until you get used to it.

08-13-2003, 11:14 PM	#14 (permalink)
cheerios Banned Location: 'bout 2 feet from my iMac	it's all fun and games till ya lose a toy and end up in the ER, hmm?

08-18-2003, 07:43 PM	#16 (permalink)
virus Tilted Location: NYC	someone i know (eh hem) prefers long beaded contraptions ascending in size. think about it. i suppose if you're leaning toward a plug something like this could give you/your partner the idea of what size would be right.

08-19-2003, 06:18 AM	#17 (permalink)
jbrooks544 Addict	Go to this site to see the extremes that some people end up putting up there. This site shows just the toys - not a porn site and no photos of people. Read some of the comments/reviews on some of the items, pretty funny: http://www.bigsextoystore.com/cgi-bi...ildos&start=60 In left column you can go see other categories for a chuckle.

08-25-2003, 07:56 AM	#18 (permalink)
txd Addict	Well it arrived early so I tried it out on my self first and it was very easy to go in, had a great time when the gf used it on me and later got to use it on her

04-16-2004, 05:25 PM	#20 (permalink)
Crick Upright Location: Calgary,Alberta	Anal Probe.

04-17-2004, 01:18 AM	#25 (permalink)
SiN strangelove Location: ...more here than there...	There's a big thread on aneros here for those interested __________________ - + - ° GiRLie GeeK ° - + - ° 01110010011011110110111101110100001000000110110101100101 Therell be days/When Ill stray/I may appear to be/Constantly out of reach/I give in to sin/Because I like to practise what I preach

09-10-2003, 04:33 PM	#19 (permalink)
meff Vanishing, like I do.. Location: Austin, TX	Me and my wife just got a rather skinny (like half penis width) glass dildo, and we're kinda new to ass play, and it works and feels soo good. They're like $50 so if you can snag one, it feels awesome right out of the freezer Have fun! __________________ Toy-like people make me boy-like.

04-16-2004, 08:10 PM	#21 (permalink)
Tuffy_McGee Crazy	Did anyone mention the aneros? I want to buy one and if you're a guy it is supposed to stimulate the prostate.

04-16-2004, 08:59 PM	#22 (permalink)
zxello Addict Location: P-Town, WA	I'd like to hear some first-hand experience from the Aneros too, I was looking into that one, anyone? __________________ Old signature just wasn't doing it for me anymore, so now I have this new one. It's equally as stupid but at least it looks really long. I'm probably just going to keep typing until I run out of things to babble about and see how many people actually read this. I once ran down a hill, fell down and hurt my elbow; my mom said I would be ok, she kissed it and made it all better. I've run out of things to say now, so if you have read this whole thing, congratulations you get a gold star!

04-16-2004, 09:03 PM	#23 (permalink)
zxello Addict Location: P-Town, WA	found this while searchin on the web, WARNING : Illustration of male rectum / prostate included. http://www.aneros.com/aneros_whyitworks.html __________________ Old signature just wasn't doing it for me anymore, so now I have this new one. It's equally as stupid but at least it looks really long. I'm probably just going to keep typing until I run out of things to babble about and see how many people actually read this. I once ran down a hill, fell down and hurt my elbow; my mom said I would be ok, she kissed it and made it all better. I've run out of things to say now, so if you have read this whole thing, congratulations you get a gold star!

04-16-2004, 11:39 PM	#24 (permalink)
Tuffy_McGee Crazy	That's just a line drawing. hehe Looks more like biology than sexuality.

04-17-2004, 10:43 AM	#26 (permalink)
zxello Addict Location: P-Town, WA	SiN Thanks! you are the ....... woMAN! guess i should learn to use the "Search" button huh? __________________ Old signature just wasn't doing it for me anymore, so now I have this new one. It's equally as stupid but at least it looks really long. I'm probably just going to keep typing until I run out of things to babble about and see how many people actually read this. I once ran down a hill, fell down and hurt my elbow; my mom said I would be ok, she kissed it and made it all better. I've run out of things to say now, so if you have read this whole thing, congratulations you get a gold star!

04-17-2004, 12:12 PM	#27 (permalink)
nanofever Huzzah for Welcome Week, Much beer shall I imbibe. Location: UCSB	I notice this on the comeasyouare site: Anyone else think sword fight, I mean the thing has a rubber grip sword grip. __________________ I'm leaving for the University of California: Santa Barbara in 5 hours, give me your best college advice - things I need, good ideas, bad ideas, nooky, ect. Originally Posted by Norseman on another forum: "Yeah, the problem with the world is the stupid people are all cocksure of themselves and the intellectuals are full of doubt."

03-21-2005, 06:13 PM	#28 (permalink)
Harshaw Is mad at you. Location: Bored in Sacramento	Can someone help me with some ideas on how to clean said plug when done? I know with Silicon toys, you can boil them. But the toy I just bought is pretty soft so I'm not sure if boiling is the best idea. Any ideas? __________________ This too shall pass.

03-21-2005, 06:43 PM	#29 (permalink)
Charlatan Getting it. Super Moderator Location: Lion City	If you can't boil it you should use a condom to keep it clean. __________________ "My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars." - Old Man Luedecke

03-21-2005, 07:03 PM	#30 (permalink)
Elusive Dreamer Upright Location: chicago	i suggest and highly reccomend a plug that has little ball-type shapes going up the plug. the base is flat and each ball gets smaller from bottom to top. i never thought i'd like it... but um, yes they're awesome. i think they even intensify the sex. it's hot. good luck!!!

03-29-2005, 09:20 AM	#31 (permalink)
Gilda 32 flavors and then some Location: Out on a wire.	Never mind. Last edited by Gilda; 03-05-2006 at 07:58 AM..

03-29-2005, 07:24 PM	#32 (permalink)
Leviathan[NCV] Well... Location: afk	Holy pulling of a thread long lost, Batman.

03-05-2006, 07:01 AM	#33 (permalink)
anne30 Loser	Anal play it's a lot of fun ! Butt plugs are the best tools to open up backdoor, I know my own ... I woke up early this morning, I did all my housework walking around the house nude with the plug inside of me. It's a very important task in my everyday life to keep on butt plug training, I love anal penetration and i want it to be as easy and comfortable as possible. It's a particular sensation also to have the plug inside when i'm among other people and no one knows about it... a delightful sensation!!

03-06-2006, 07:55 AM	#35 (permalink)
Jim Kata Swollen Member Location: Northern VA	http://nawtythings.com/beads2.html 7th one down. The first anal toy i got for my girlfriend....and she loves it. We never messed around anally, but we got this...and she is now trying to work up to my cock in her ass....but it hurts too much right now..so we are building up to it. Highly recommended toy.