07-23-2003, 07:39 PM
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Originally posted by Forks
so, let's say you are really hot for some chick and she is hot for you but youre both married. would masturbating naked together be cheating? no touching, no kissing, no body connection at all, just looking but not touching. even over the internet, although it would be even better in person. what about sending each other naked pics? where does it cross the line?
of course, i think this would constitute cheating, but just for the case of argument id like to hear what you guys think.
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Excellent quiestion. I think it comes down to the relationship and it's assumptions once again. Would I want my wife doing this? No. Would it have the same ramifications of other forms of cheating in my mind? Probably not. In fact, I'd most likely be more uspest about the situation she was getting herself into than the fact that she was doing the above act. It would feel like a 'gateway' act, if that makes any sense. On the other hand...I would find no problem at all with her doing this over the internet *with* and this is key, here, a reletive stranger who there is absolutely 0 emotional involvment. I don't know if it's wierd that I think that way, or if it's unfair to her, but I also don't really believe that it matters. Your partners definition of cheating is what matters, not yours, in respect to yourself, and it's no ones right to question those. The trick is to hopefully find a partner whose definition is close to matching your own.
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