01-30-2011, 03:32 PM | #1 (permalink) |
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yeesh, annoying possesive semi crazy gal
So, ok, I liked her a lot at first. Then she told me days later she has a boyfriend. I'm like ok...fine. Let's remain friends (we all do something social together). But almost every time I chat with her she is comparing me with her boyfriend and how great he is...I'm like ok....we all have our preferences. But she sees him as a 10+ in a scale of 1-10 and won't shuttup about it. Not sure if we can remain friends if she keeps up this odd and annoying talk. Any advice? She's even gone so far as to question who I'm dating and how they match up to her.
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01-31-2011, 10:19 AM | #6 (permalink) |
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Location: Oregon
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There's two sides to every story--this is your interpretation of events. For all we know, Zeraph, she could talk about her boyfriend a handful of times, and you might be construing that as "she talks about her boyfriend all the time".
The fact is, girls who have boyfriends that they admire do like to talk about them. I'm sure I got annoying to some of my friends when I was first with my husband and would drone on and on about how wonderful he was. I don't see how she is crazy or possessive. Annoying, yes. Have you clearly communicated with her that you find these behaviors annoying?
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01-31-2011, 10:54 AM | #7 (permalink) | |
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01-31-2011, 11:23 AM | #8 (permalink) |
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I'd like to remain friends because we game together. Its not that she admires her boyfriend (which is a semi loser that's high 90% of the time and works at starbucks) but she'll go, "no offense he's just better than you [variable]..." and it comes up in about 3/4ths of our conversations. I'd say that's a bit much. Its more the comparison that is really starting to piss me off. I'm about ready to say STFU up I don't give two shits.
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01-31-2011, 11:52 AM | #9 (permalink) | |
I'll be on the veranda, since you're on the cross.
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02-01-2011, 01:56 PM | #10 (permalink) |
Still Free
Location: comfortably perched at the top of the bell curve!
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Make up a mythical new "love interest" and talk about how much prettier she is than her. That's all I've got.
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