There is definitely a difference and its usually more genetic I think. I slept with an 18 or 19 year old who hadn't had much sex. Her vagina was very loose.

PS its not really an issue, its not like we're going to turn down a vagina....

Also, especially the petite girls, can be really tight. Too much so. Because they end up bleeding. One of my GFs told me this, that her last boyfriend made her bleed during sex every time (and by her words I was bigger than him!). I rectified that and knew how to loosen her up more, but she was still very tight comparitively. I don't think she ever quite got over it.

She stopped bleeding once enough foreplay was there, but I had a feeling it hurt her a bit. Ended up me doing a lot of oral for her.

I've been with girls who haven't had kids yet, tightness was great, nonissue, I was able to get off, no problem.

Been with girls who've had kids, can't say the same for them, it either doesn't happen or it takes a lot of work. Can't say that for all of them, but most. Some are better than others, generally the more fit they are, it seems to be better.



Not sure if there's any correlation but thats my experience thus far.

Wow... just wow. Almost missed that zinger.

I'm pretty sure you can feel a difference between 1 and 3 fingers. Obviously only a loose girl could feel the difference, as a normal girl it'd be tight regardless of how many right?

A guy can feel the difference between kegels and non-kegels. Instead of shooting off quibs like that, open your mind and you can learn things here. Might also do a favor to any current/future boyfriends.

Whoa, whoa, whoa...

C'mon, Seaver... your dick can't be as nearly as small as mine. I'm swinging like half a pimento here. I can't even fill up an olive! Talk about pathetic.

And, uh... yeah, fingers are a shitty unit of measure. My three emaciated Skeletor fingers are like two fingers on most dudes. Let's use a common household item... how many Ballpark franks can she take? And if she can take a tube of Pringles without flinching, she's no good for screwin'.

Just to reiterate my previous point in this thread: Never had a loose one. Is it like fucking a trash can with tits or what? The girls I've been with have been fine (even with my high standards). Some have been good, some have been better, a couple have been deadly. My current model is totally the tightest I've ever ordered Private Wang Spitta to do pushups in. Think she's trying to turn my dick into a diamond. She does the vag crunches and isn't a stranger to aerobics, but something tells me that alone has little to do with how the cavern is constructed. The level of general physical fitness of the women I've been with doesn't seem to have a whole lot to do with their coital death grip. Maybe it's just random like our other favorite topic: dick size.

The great God of Genetics doesn't have a sense of humor. It just gives people different parts. Such as abyss-like vaginae and baby dicks.

Good thing I wasn't drinking or it'd be all over my monitor right now.

Again, it's not "loose" women... but there's definitely levels of tightness. I guess if someone's never experienced a regular-kegels girl they wouldn't know. They go from the "Wow this feels awesome" to "Ok she's decided it's time for me to cum because this feels REALLY FUCKING AWESOME".

Guys can benefit from kegels too... helps you last that extra 30sec or so which is sometimes the difference between her cumming or not.

My s.o. before children could be pretty tight. post children it was hit or miss, but not awful by any means. I didn't have to rub one side to make the other side jealous and come on over or anything. Now that s.o. has gained weight, however, the looseness is more pronounced. I think it is making it hard for her muscles all over to keep up. The thing about skinny/petite chicks seems to be true. They can be tight to where it hurts them and that's no fun. I was finger-banging this one chick and she was a petite and I could hardly get a finger in. And she had some large labia so that isn't necessarily a true myth either. Do any of you remember the Gregory Hines movie "loose shoes"? the main lyric he sang in the soundtrack was "I want some tight pussy, loose shoes, and a warm place to shit." seems simple enough.

Being only average size (7"), I have nonetheless been with women who'd never had children who weren't snug, and women who had who apparently done the "Kegels" you all are talking about who were wonderfully tight. The worst one was a few years ago, she had 2 grown kids, and after an hour of frantic going at it, I actually faked a climax to have it over with! (She had multiples and wanted more from me, and getting shut of her is another story, not a good one.) So, yes, we can tell. Some of us do try to take care of ourselves, keeping fit and honing our techniques. Please, kind ladies, return the favors and exercise your PC muscle, so that we may BOTH have a fine old time when we get together!

7" is only average size nowadays? news to me. last i heard 5" was the average. guess most guys are below average, huh.

5"?! Man, I'm like a pink shotgun shell down there.

I have noticed that when get'n with a few of my exes, seems it only feels tight for the first 20 minutes. After that it gets kinda loose. Usually we would just play around the edge for a bit or go into oral for a few and then get back into it - lets her get a little tighter for the moment. Works for like 10 minutes each time we take "2 minutes to tighten", then starts to feel loose again.

If we just kept going past the 20 minute mark, it just feels nice and wet but would take a good position to get me off when it gets that way.

Thats why quickies are good - keep them around the 10/15 minute mark and usually stays nice and tight - feeling better for both.

Anyway it is, tight or loose - as long as both are into it and having fun - I don't care!

There was a guy on another forum who asked about why his average-sized penis might be hurting his girlfriend. His view of normal had been formed by porn and it turned out his "average" unit was 9" long. Average is around 5.5" in the US

You girl, rock. Your man is a lucky guy.

Yes,it's pretty easy to feel tightness but I've never had a problem with it one way or another.never felt like a hotdog down a hallway as they say.

Kegel Exercises
 

Vaginal tightness is very important. Not only does a tighter vagina feel better for your partner, it can give you more explosive orgasms as well. Tighten your vagina by doing regular kegel exercises. These can also aid in making the g-spot orgasm a bigger possibility.

I have been with two mothers and strangely enough they were by far the tightest, and yes it makes a huge difference.

I think I am an anomaly and I have a hard time having an orgasm anyways during sex, I have one maybe half the time. One ex I couldn't have a orgasm with while having sex, it had to be oral... so yes, it makes a very big difference.

"Vital" Measurements
 

Unfortunately, there is no standard criteria for how these "crucial" measurements are made!

You mean they don't have such a device already?! :hyper:

- Create graduated shoehorn
- Market to insecure women
- ???
- PROFIT!

I've come to the conclusion that a fair number of women who like a really big dick (10 plus) have a loose pussy, if the standard six or seven incher isn't enough for a woman she's got looseness issues.

Twenty plus years ago I had a girlfriend I just couldn't feel, I was suggesting surgery to tighten her up. Her position was that her ex husband didn't have any issues with that, I asked and of course the guy had an eleven inch dick. I guess one way of looking at it is she's the right woman for horse dicked guys huh?

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I went for a long time thinking I was average because it just seemed like a "normal" dick. After a few comments to the degree that I was a little bigger than their take on average I was questing what's average. From what I gathered from women who'd been with a number of guys half of them would be under six or seven inches.

It seems a lot of women are on the same page with 6-1/2 inches being a nice size that isn't too big or small, just a nice fit. It works for me.

Now an interesting variation is the difference in the angle of the dangle or the angle of the vaginal canal. That is what makes different positions feel better for different people, it's how it fits together.