There are clubs actually. I saw it on that show that comes on after "Sunday Sex with Sue" ... there are wanking clubs that have both men and women members... its true.

could be that the your just an exhibitionist. maybe you could do it with your wife on the couch i dunno man

I would never feel comfortable wipping it out in the room with my guy friends for the purpose of self pleasure. :crazy:

I've done it too, something about grabbing your cock and stroking it while your buds are beating theirs. Would love to do it again too.

Never done it myself but have heard lots of stories from the boarding house in high school about them!

dang this is an old topic but since someone else brought it back and i've never seen it i might as well put in my two cents.

I think it's a shame how people sort of attacked borf when he posted this, probably a very hard thing to do even with the anonymity of the internet. Admitting this is something he is into probably wasn't easy for him. I mean, from the looks of his # of posts, the poor guy didn't really post again after this. And doing stuff like this doesn't necessarily make you "gay;" it all depends on how it's done or whatever. Hopefully people will be more open-minded or not reply insensitive things to people who post here looking for advice.

But anyways, I say, to each his own *shrug*

I'd love to do this with a group of women, but not with a bunch of guys alone. That would not feel right for me.
But if anybody wants to, fine by me. Help yourself ;)

Well if you totally look at it gay is just a word. You could dream about men all day long as a guy that really doesn't make you gay. It would make you curious. Our minds think and explore things. I remember hal saying something like this before. Hell someone could have a homosexual experience and that still doesn't make them gay. Just curious. I hate the fact that the word "gay" is such a widely used word like it is.
You may or may not enodorse homosexuality, or you may be curious about it. That doesn't make you gay. Gay is a lable in my opinion.

What I'm trying to get at here is the desire to do this "circle jerk" doesn't make you wierd per say. Some may disapprove of this but others may wonder. Some men think about other guys. Some watch them, some partake in activities with them. Simply doing this sort of activity does not neccessarily make you gay. This means your mind is exploring possibilities and ideas that it thinks of. That's not a bad thing, it's how the brain works.

So in a final note I want to say that anyone who knows any information about the said idea in question should just answer it. There is no point for negative comments, or comments that say, "Ew gross". This is forum is designed to help people out with questions or ideas about their sexuality. It isn't designed to make fun or slander them. Be nice.


And to answer your question, I've watched porn with a friend before.. it wasn't really planned. We were watching tv latenight and found it on the tube. We watched it a bit. We didn't really pay attention to each other. We did talk about about it and laugh and make some jokes. There wasn't anything sexual between the two of us, however the probably was on each of our personal sides. I mean watching porn has a purpose and it started that. I don't remember much after that. I mean we watched it for a bit and then it got boring. Since I can't say it was planned I'm not sure I can help you in your search to find out more about this. I do however hope that you will find the answers you're looking for. Good luck man.

I mean, to be honest, I think if you approached people with that proposition, it would probably sound a little bit gay to them. I am not really sure what having other guys in that situation would do for someone, in a heterosexual way.

When I was at school, there was apparently a game, called "cummy dodger" where a load of guys had to jack off on a piece of bread, all standing in a circle around it, and the last one to cum had to eat it. I mean, I never actually took part, and it could have all just been a myth - but again, I struggle to see it really in any other light than being a homosexual sex game.

Borf- if you're near a major metro area, check out www.craigslist.org ... they have a page for a lot of metros, and there's a "casual encounters" section where folks try to hook up with other folks, using anonymous e-mail and whatnot.

It might help you out. I've never used it, so I can't vouch, I've just read some of the ads for amusement. Pity me!

Done this with a couple friends before, it's more of a male bonding experience in my opinion.

Yes, I think circle jerking with a bunch of chicks would be AWESOME !

I'm a bit of an exhibionist myself... I love getting naked and doing the whatever with someone or someone's watching... its erotic.. almost like an ego trip... the HOLY HELL LOOK AT HIM GO! is amazing and makes it all the better...

never done a circle jerk... might try it I dunno... but if there's a woman or two involved.. definately... I'm game;)

i have to apologise for the number of rude comments made in this post; ignore them, of course; it certainly takes a good deal of courage to post like this

the first step would be to talk with your wife. maybe she can find some way to help you out in a way that doesn't involve your friends masturbating, which would cut out an extra step. otherwise, I imagine that your friends would be the target audience, although I don't have any suggestions as to how one brings it up.

good luck!

i think that might be a greater cause here, to have people centered on a common, mutual goal.
http://www.masturbateforpeace.com/

Just friends?

The blowjob Clinton got was not sex either.

That is not normal and I hope your wife does not read TF

:lol: we had Soggy Sao here in Australia :D
Albeit it was a Sao (i thin sao is Australian?) biscuit/cracker instead of bread :D

Isn't that Bukkake?

nope one girl and lots of guys is bukkake i believe

Bukkake is just where a bunch of guys cum on one or more girls untill they look kinda like an ameoba....

Depending on whether you would mind strangers or not. Most porn theaters usually ahve large rooms with lots of people in them and for sure you could find someone there to do that with. I visit one place once that actually had back rooms for men to go on and have full on sex in.
Best bet, look for a porn theater somewhere or look for friends who you might be comfortable doing that with.

I know what your talking about. It's usually more extreme with a buddy. Very enjoyable IMO.

Sounds quite a cool idea to me. Any girls up for it? lol :D

yuck!

I heard it called Limp Biscuit, that's where Limp Bizkit got their name.

I think masturbation is something that should remain private.... unless you're doing mutual masturbation with your partner, that is.

i dont think anything is wrong with you but what does it for ya. i know it is not my thing, and what is this titty board you are tlking about? how do i get it

I had some fantasies about it too, back when i was younger, 15 or so.
I kinda regret i never got to it , but if the opportunity ever comes forth i won't hesitate.

I don't think there's anything really wrong with it. There are far weirder things people are into than just jacking off in the same room. If you try some of the yahoo groups or other places for internet personal ads (craigslist) I'm sure there are people you can find.

who the hell are you to say what is normal and what isnt?

show some respect.

I'd have to agree with a few other people here that this thread is starting to turn me on. That being said, I'd be game, given the right circumstances (no other family around, etc.). Some alcohol wouldn't hurt either.