savvypup

Ok, I've been thinking about this for quite a while and I've had a look and I can't see an existing thread to point me in the right direction.

I'm after some general advice. I've never asked before - who do I ask?

So ..... Guys - what makes a blow job great?
What do you like us to do with our tongues, fingers, etc.

I think I'm doing alright. I haven't had the "tap" to come back up
Should I go fast, slow, deep throat .... what feels best?

Thanks!!

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Tully Mars

Yes all that and more often. Never heard a guy complain "she just won't stop giving me BJ's."

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uncle phil

you might get some ideas from here...

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-...atisfying.html

and here...

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/hall-fa...job-guide.html

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savvypup

Awesome! Thanx Uncle Phil!

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soma

No teeth is a must. I haven't been given too much head in my life, but the few experiences I've had, the girls have always used their teeth. I have no idea why but it didn't feel good at all. Something I really enjoyed was getting the head of my dick getting licked like an ice cream cone. I'm getting turned on just typing about it!

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curiousbear

some surprises, unpredictability...
combination of BJ and handwork, if he is long enough
pretend as if eating a cornetto ice cream

if you can sense its coming and can stop it, by pinching or slapping, just to prolong.

not that i had all this experienced, just my 2 cents

Leto

I don't mind the teeth. Actually, any kind of bj any time is fine with me. The more (and there never is enough) the better. I actully prefer the 69 position the most...

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braisler

I know that this has been touched on before... more than once.

My 2 cents, the one thing that separates a good blowjob from a great blowjob is enthusiasm. We can really tell if you are just down there because you feel like you should, or you think it is what we want but you aren't really that into it yourself. If you love doing it and let that come across in your enthusiasm, then you are giving us great head.

Some other tips: Don't tease. You want to do it. He wants you to do it. Go ahead and do it.
Take off your top. As mentioned above, topless BJs are better.

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Nutt Johnson

Enthusiasm is the key. It is very different if you are actually enjoying doing it.

PayUp

Lady in public, whore in bed. Thats all I ask.

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Craven Morehead

teeth is good
licking is good
cupping the balls is good
grabbing the balls is good
finger in the anus is good
slow is good
fast is good
both hands is good
one hand is good
fingers is good
lips is good
tongue is good
swallowing is good
spitting is good
facial is good
while sitting is good
while standing is good
while lying down is good
while driving is good

pretty much all of it is good

Daniel_

As the philosopher said: "let me tell you about the worst blowjob I ever had. It was great"

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Plan9

But I like teeth.

I concur. Except with the "spitting" bit. That's silly. Just deal with it. It isn't like girls taste delicious 24/7.

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It's been said. Enthusiasm is really key. A blowjob with a smile and a wink is a great blowjob.

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FuglyStick

yes

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Plan9

Fugly, go find a picture of a "smiling blowjob" for the thread so we can NSFW it.

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Plan9

Where's my smile?!

...

Ooh, wait...

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neobutt

Physically: do as you girls like the guys do. be creative and try every combination of speed and location and technique. you will know how well you're doing based on how much your guy's moaning. i also concur with the no teeth rule - unless u want to give something really rough and nasty.

Emotionally: i think attitude / enthusiasm is the very important. show him that you love the man, his penis, and giving him pleasure.

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Halx

I like "I am going to get you off" confidence. Too many girls are hesitant because they don't know if what they're doing feel good. That's when I start to lose it. I want whoever is sucking my cock to look and act like they're not afraid of it.

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Iliftrocks

I just want it....

Preferences are individual, not sure if there's a universally accepted method, but I haven't had one I didn't like. Some pleasure, some pain, teasing is good, but for the love of Pete, please finish

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uncle phil

she's trying to smile...

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RedSabre

What makes one great to me? Just getting one.

If I could be picky...it's a mix of what other people have said....enthusiasm, no teeth, 69 position, and being licked like an ice cream cone. Also the ability to not have to worry about ejaculation would be nice. Like I said though, this is all being picky. I'm thrilled as it stands now just getting one.

Plan9

Thanks, UnclePhil. I like that girl. She can massage my feet with her large intestine.

I'll assume you mean "...not worry about what she'll think/do/say when I ejaculate."

Since that's really the only funtime e-brake issue guys have with blowjobs.

I mean, seriously... just let Old Faithful go off wherever. It's only semen, ya prudes.

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Shaindra

Heh, nothing like starting off with the "I'm going to *own* you" smile before going down.

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RedSabre

Yeah, that would be what I mean. Big funtime e-brake (love that term).

In a nutshell, let him relax and enjoy.

Anonymous Member

Two Words: Deep Throat.

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Xerxys

Halx, I've seen pics of you, yeah....,

They are all scared of it!!! For ALL intents and purposes!!

Push-Pull

And while you're at it, be SURE to look up and stare him directly into his eyes while thinking, "(His name here..), I'm going to rock your world".

Eyes, eyes, eyes. That is all.

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Crack

Because really... they are afraid, and it would be an act. I have only seen pictures and it scares the ba-jesus out of me.

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thespian86

Ready for this [because I don't think you are]:

I don't like blow jobs that much. BAM.

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Daniel_

Maybe you've only had shitty unenthusiastic ones?

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thespian86

Naw. I'm just not a huge fan. I know I'm not alone on this but I'm aware that I'm in the minority. A couple of guys and I were sitting around the other night talking about it and a girl in the room asked what everyone was into, blah blah blah, and five out of the nine guys said they weren't big into it.

I mean they aren't terrible (they do however suck; ba dum csh) and I enjoy it enough but I'm not BJ-crazy by any stretch of the imagination.

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ametc

I'm still learning what my boyfriend likes during blowjobs So far he likes:

- being able to see my ass
- being able to smack my ass
- deep throating it (I can only do this if I haven't eaten for a while.. otherwise my gag reflex affects how well I deep throat him)
- using my hands to stroke while I suck
- (apparently the base of his shaft is very sensitive as well as the head of his penis)
- when I don't touch his balls... even though I've been told by guy friends that they actually enjoy having their balls touched and played with
- being able to see me suck him
- being able to finger me and whatnot.. but he doesn't like 69 for some reason....



That's what I've learned my guy likes so far...


Also, I'm not AFRAID of my guy's penis.... I just wish he'd shave more often. >_<

Borla

Have you clearly communicated that to him yet?

I know that I respond positively to virtually any suggestions that entail me getting more/better sexual activity.

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Milnoc

Lips wrapped around the shaft with tongue action around the corona and along the frenulum.

Don't try to stick your tongue down the urethra. That hurts.

bluelou

See all the above.....

Jozrael

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

vinceco252

Tongue catheter? Ouch...

gentlesoul43

1. Do the up and down action
2. Slurp and make it wet
3. Look like you really really like it!

Plan9

... so basically:

WE WANT our crotches ravaged like starving lions on plump wildebeest.
PLUS hot-hot eye contact with slobbery satisfying noises, lotsa general enthusiasm
AND no squeamish bullshit about where the tongue is going or where Old Faithful is detonating

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