vancityboi

So my gf has brought up anal play for her. I have never done anything like this so i dont even know where to start. What are the general things i should do to warm her butt hole up? what are some things she should do to prepare herself? lube/diet/bowel movement..All we have so far are water based lube and a discreet vibe. Thanks in advance

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lostgirl

Here are a few threads that may help

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-...-any-tips.html

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-...beginners.html

vancityboi

ty lost girl. my attempt at using the search function was fruitless since i still had to go through ALOT of threads

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Plan9

...or hit up Google.

The Internet was designed by Al Gore in 1992 to allow all free citizens of the world with computers and modems to access porn and global warming information.

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Key to success? Don't pull a Scorpions and rock it like a hurricane the first time. Be gentle. Use patience along with your lube.

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Stare At The Sun

Eros silicon lube is pretty amazing as far as lube goes, and its far better than water based lubes.

When you're talking about anal, its important to be relaxed, and realize that sometimes you'll end up with some poo in places you would rather it wouldn't be. Its just a risk you take. Be realistic about it, don't go eat Mexican food before anal, etc. From my experience, if you're just talking about fingering her ass during sex, I wouldn't worry about BM's, because there is nothing there for the first 3-4 inches. So that's almost OK.

Eh, if you're going full on sex, I advise getting a small anal plug and working your way up. Biggest things to remember are start small, use lots of lube, be relaxed, and be comfortable. Have fun and enjoy it, anal can add a lot to sex.

Also, for you, remember that anal stimulation on the surface is great for her too, just get some lube on your thumb, and gently rub her ass. Light touches can be good. Just find out what she wants and go with it. But its a good thing to use other toys like a vibe to keep her in the mood and turned on.

I do advise reading up from other sites though. This kind of trial and error can be a lot of fun, just don't pressure anything/don't force anything, and be clear/open in your communication both during and after sex.

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Plan9

That's right... the TFP: Where the F really means anal sex.

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Strange Famous

I would advise you to have none of this kind of malarky.

It's just not right!

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dlish

SF - any reason you think this sort of behaviour is not on?

what makes it 'not right'? have you had any personal experiences that you'd like to share to help benefit the rest of the community?

edit: im neither for nor against..i cant say ive tried it and i cant say i will, i just dont have an opinion at the moment

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Stare At The Sun

Avoid the naysayers. Anal, when done right adds a lot to a persons sex life, and if you're open to it, you'll enjoy it!

The_Jazz

And THAT, my friends, is good enough reason to try it.

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SabrinaFair

I'll just rehash what's been said before--lube, patience, and relaxation are the trifecta of successful anal play.

It's not my favorite thing on the menu, personally, but I'm glad I've had the experience.

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vancityboi

Ty ty for the great advices. This is why I love TFP

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Plan9

Man... I haven't slid into some nice tight malarky in forever.

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