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Eros silicon lube is pretty amazing as far as lube goes, and its far better than water based lubes.
When you're talking about anal, its important to be relaxed, and realize that sometimes you'll end up with some poo in places you would rather it wouldn't be. Its just a risk you take. Be realistic about it, don't go eat Mexican food before anal, etc. From my experience, if you're just talking about fingering her ass during sex, I wouldn't worry about BM's, because there is nothing there for the first 3-4 inches. So that's almost OK.
Eh, if you're going full on sex, I advise getting a small anal plug and working your way up. Biggest things to remember are start small, use lots of lube, be relaxed, and be comfortable. Have fun and enjoy it, anal can add a lot to sex.
Also, for you, remember that anal stimulation on the surface is great for her too, just get some lube on your thumb, and gently rub her ass. Light touches can be good. Just find out what she wants and go with it. But its a good thing to use other toys like a vibe to keep her in the mood and turned on.
I do advise reading up from other sites though. This kind of trial and error can be a lot of fun, just don't pressure anything/don't force anything, and be clear/open in your communication both during and after sex.
mk im done
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