hotdog690

I've noticed that guys have all kinds of different equipment and I certainly have my own favorite type. eg. length, girth etc. I find that long and fairly slim makes a variety of activities a lot easier. What have y'all to say about this?

Dexter Morgan

Yes.

anti fishstick

size and definitely girth matters. girth more than size. "are you bigger than my wrists? then fuck me!" j/k... or am i?

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genuinegirly

Yes. Size matters. Too large is a deal-breaker for this girl.

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Starkizzer

Girth is definitely just as important for me as length. But I cannot honeslty answer this question since I have only ever been with im2smrt4u.

But I can say his works just fine for me!

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PonyPotato

+1.

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ShaniFaye

+1 for me too (more so with length than girth)

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Dexter Morgan

Look, if to guys, our body size/breast size/lip size matters to any certain degree (whether they like 'em small or large), then of course dick size matters. None of us want to fuck a telephone pole, nor do we want to fuck a hypodermic needle.

Luckily, I'm thinking 99.9% of men out there have a penis somewhere in between those extremes. And what they may NOT have in penis, they can make up for with cunning linguistics and manual dexterity, yeah?

Peaches

Bigger is not always better.

SabrinaFair

Size does matter....not as much as most men seem to believe, but yes, size matters. It's not a deal-breaker for me except in cases of extremes. (i.e., if I can't get my hands around it, or if I can't find it without leaning down and squinting)

And as Dexter Morgan said, most size issues can quickly be overcome by other types of bedroom prowess. I'll also add, it doesn't matter how big your package is if you don't know how to use it....

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anti fishstick

hmm am i weird because i like above average... ??

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Halx

I'm bigger than your wrist

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ShaniFaye

you're not weird, your body can obviously handle it better than some of us. I can handle "above average" since if I remember right "average" is about 5.5 to 6 inches when erect, I just cant handle more than about 8 without out pain I really dont want to deal with. I'm very happy with with 7.5 in length I get on a regular basis lol

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snowy

Pretty much.

My guy is on the above average side of things in length and girth, and there are certain positions we just can't do because he'll go too deep and it will hurt too much.

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Yellow Tulip

Definitely, size is important. My ex was too big for me and I got to the stage when I dreaded sex - I knew it would hurt so much. Short and wide is far better than long and thin.

Anormalguy

What happened to the sticky for/about about penis size, & also shaving? Does it disappear after you reach a certain post count, or was it removed? It included some very interesting reading.

I'll throw in my .02 from my perspective as a decidedly "average" guy. My wife admits to being curious to try a large cock, in fact her favorite erotica for masturbation involves a woman using the woman on top position to experience a 10" dick for the first time.

I/We put a lot of effort into foreplay, just about everything that you can think of: Kissing, touching, stroking, sucking, nibbling, biting, fingering, cunnilingus, whispering, talking dirty, silence, spanking, pinching, etc. The type of foreplay is tailored to what we have planned, or where the mood takes us. It's not unusual for us to spend more time on foreplay than actual intercourse, & my wife usually orgasms at least a couple of times before we have intercouse. My theory is by the time we get to intercourse I want her as horny & as wet as possible. I make my wife's orgasms paramount, rarely do I want our lovemaking to be just about me.

We use positions that allow maximum penetration, her on top with a pillow under my ass, doggy, her on her back with a pillow under her ass, her on the desk, etc. There are positions that don't work because my dick doesn't reach, or maintaining penetration is nearly impossible.

In brief, my wife & I work together to make the best use of what I have to offer.

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SabrinaFair

Mrs. Normalguy is a lucky woman!

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MSD

The problem for me isn't size, it's that being around 50th percentile in penis length but 99.9999th percentile in height makes it look small. I'm thick enough that a Magnum will stay put but not thick enough that it's a necessity, and not enough that it look out of proportion to length.


And where did the penis size thread go? If this thread gets stupid I have no recourse other than to lock it

Willravel

Speaking from experience it helps a great deal to get rid of the beer belly. Not only does it fix the optical illusion thing, but it actually can increase length.

Anormalguy

On the contrary, I'm lucky to be married to Mrs. Normalguy.

Something puzzles me about toys & penis size. Even after a hard, deep pounding with a large toy that causes several intense orgasms, my wife is still happy to have my dick inside of her, & her orgasms don't wane. I know that the clitoris & the first few inches of the vagina are where the stimulation occurs, but I'm not clear on how she could be happy with my penis after experiencing satisfaction with a large toy. My wife says that no toy takes the place of the real thing, & there's more to it than what's inside her pussy.

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Plan9

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Alternative thread title: Different strokes for different folks.

Alternative thread title: Concealed carry, the dangle version.

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I figure just as long as you don't get inadequacy-related complaints... you're straight.

Story time:

We had this one guy in the barracks at Bragg that one of the local "party girls" referred to as "three thumbs." Too funny. She described her experience with CPL Stubby to one of my buddies with refreshing candor... much like an advertisement for some kind of over-the-counter pharmaceutical, "Well, I have to admit: it just left me unsatisfied."
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Yeah, I've always wondered the same thing. After the Mac truck has crammed through the tunnel... how does the Ford Mustang even get noticed?

Somehow it works.

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Seaver

I, from what I've been told in the past, am "big." I honestly never thought much about it, figuring it was my GF's just playing to my ego.

Recently, I ran into a friend of a girl I dated for a couple weeks. In short we went on 3 dates, hooked up, and she kind of dropped me after. I always figured I had offended her, or she went back with her ex, or something of the sort. This friend told me it was because I was too big, and I hurt her doggy style.

Honestly. I'm not sure if I should be proud or sad.

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cadre

If so then count me too!

I've always dated above average size guys, except one, and I have to say that I was kind of unsatisfied with the guy that was of average size. I think that may have been because I was used to the giant I had been seeing before him though. I think because I am used to bigger men, I tend to be most satisfied with the same but I don't rule anything out. Ultimately it's never been a deal breaker for me.

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MSD

It says something about me that this is more of a motivation to lose weight than my health. If I jam the ruler against my pubic bone, I'm above average.

Bear Cub

Me too, I just use the metric system! Sounds waaaay better in centimeters!

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Willravel

You have your priorities in order, from a Darwinian perspective.

Anormalguy

A friend of ours had the opposite experience. She described her ex-husband as having a "damned horse dick," & they had problems because she could only take so much, but he liked to go all out.

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cadre

Of the size problems I think being big could easily be worse than being small. I've heard more valid complaints from men about being too big.

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*Nikki*

I prefer slightly above average as well.

However my husband is average and I knew that before we were married

Martian

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The Crompmonster has it. Satisfying your woman has nothing to do with penis size. You don't need a twelve inch dick, and having one does not automatically make you a stud.

My oft-advertised policy: Keep 'em coming so you can keep 'em coming.

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Anormalguy

I can understand that having to refrain from 'giving it everything that you have' could be frustrating; burying it to the hilt feels great, and not being able to do so could be problematic. I would also think that being too big would be a real problem for anal intercourse.

I'll be honest...even though I've lived with my cock for 48 years, and my wife & I have been mongamous for 25 years with no real problems, I wouldn't mind being able to give my wife a couple of more inches. It's just a thought, certainly not an obsession with either of us.

This has mentioned before, probably ad naseum, but I think that the proliferation of porn causes unrealistic expectations in people whose only exposure to sex is porn. In pro porn, and even in amateur porn (when you can actually find true amateur porn), the guys are almost always well endowed, & the women are able to handle them, even anally, with no problems. If I were teaching a sex education course I would emphasize that porn sex is not reality sex, the men in porn are hired for their cock size, and the women are hired their ability to take a huge dick. Rant over.

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Plan9

Martian... I swear you're my brother from another mother.

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That age old human problem of craving variety in our lives. Monogamy goes against our inner animal, the animal that craves change and difference and excitement. As animals, we want regularity in our bowel movements, not our sex lives... so we change the things we can in relationships to keep ourselves from getting bored with the same old in-'n-out slosh-'n-squirt mechanical act.

Oh, the things we do! Different frilly body wrappings (lingerie), gnarly poke positions (crouching honeypot, snapping lotus), dirty talk ("Oh, fuck me, Senator McCain!"), bondage, peeing on a handcuffed donkey, etc.

We'd change more things like wang size, etc. if it was an option. We're curious, bored, and very vain.

I'd bet my stripes that 99% of the men on this planet would be okay if they woke up sporting another inch on their reproductive gut-stabber.

And that other 1%? Centaurs.

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Baraka_Guru

Crompsie, I swear to you you'd make a great poet...if you consider some of the modes of writing that takes place these days, at least in Canada. The libidinal writing is what I'm referring to.

I'm serious.

I have nothing else to add.

Well, except that I'm of the opinion that women who say size matters probably wouldn't complain otherwise if the man knew what he was doing.

I dunno; I could be wrong. It's hard to say because no one's ever complained about me.

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belfizare

although she has an orgasm with a toy, that toy doesnt have the soft skin and voice of the person she loves. also one of the most pleasnt things for women is listening to their parners heartbeat. you might not notice but she prob trys really hard to get her head on your chest... boy over toy all the time.
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um im about 7.5-8 long and fairly thick bu thats not what i wana talk about... i was wondering if you guys could help me... my balls/ shaft tend to be a bit clamy and kinda smells... it has not always been this way... infact this is a kinda new thing and i have no idea what caused it... any ideas? iv tryed washing it with many shampoos and i try baby powder but nothing seems to help...

Jenna

Not weird at all. I don't think there is such a thing as "too big."

My ideal size would be from 7.5 - 9 inches. Which is great, because my guy fits in that category.

I've never turned down a guy because we started going at it and he was too small though.

MSD

This thread remind me why I love you guys. Thanks for the laughs
Ban original scent roll-on between the sack and legs does it for me. Even every few days prevents ball funk. You also should try trimming or shaving down there. Check the shaving thread in Tilted Life and find my link for a free Schick Quattro trimmer (I haven't figured out how to select or copy and paste when posting from my iPod yet.)

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THREADJACK'D

Whoa... wait a sec. So you're suggesting I join the ranks of the emotionally disturbed, vulgarity-spewing human equivalent of a toilet brush: crude and abused implements for scrubbing the exterior layer of grunge in order to examine the pure, cold, white porcelain soul... of Canada.

Hell, I'm on it.

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When you say "modes of writing" I read it as "mediocre literary vomit." And I understand.

What was it that old Native American saying? Oh, yeah...

"The [garbage] doesn't belong to us, we belong to the [garbage]."

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MSD

He said poet, not emo kid

Derwood

having a big dick is kinda overrated. Mine is above average, but it didn't help me get laid in college