Ladies, Tell us. does size matter? - Page 3 - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

dippin · 02-26-2009, 07:51 AM

As someone who is constantly hitting the wife's cervix, and seeing the pain it causes, I know that length is overrated. Especially as the average vagina is only about 6-7 inches deep.

MSD · 02-26-2009, 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Hyacinthe

I really don't think that you read much of this thread as every woman on here has said that yes she has a preferred size type but that she would never hold it against the man in question if he didn't fit that. That would be the same as me asking you if you would hold it against a woman because her breasts were smaller or larger then what you preferred.

That's not really a valid comparison. Breasts are sexual, but they're not directly involved in intercourse, so size is more of a visual thing than a stimulation to orgasm thing for a woman's partner unless he's titfucking her. And you can still titfuck A cups

Plan9 · 02-26-2009, 03:09 PM

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Originally Posted by MSD

That's not really a valid comparison. Breasts are sexual, but they're not directly involved in intercourse, so size is more of a visual thing than a stimulation to orgasm thing for a woman's partner unless he's titfucking her. And you can still titfuck A cups

I concur. The old "apples to [sausages]" comparison. Breasts are oversexualized liquid food dispensers, visually pleasing but completely unnecessary. They're great and all, but let's be serious: it's like saying guys with big biceps are better in bed and that isn't the case. Hah, just look at me.

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I do, however, disagree with your A-cup finding, MSD. I have extensive personal knowledge acquired from scientific tests regarding this.

Hyacinthe · 02-27-2009, 02:13 AM

I more meant MSD that very few men will break up with a woman because her breasts are too large or too small - the same way that very few women would break up with a man because of the same issues in regards to his penis.

It's one of those things you can't change (well not without surgery) about yourself or your partner so why stress out over it.

blar · 02-28-2009, 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Hyacinthe

I more meant MSD that very few men will break up with a woman because her breasts are too large or too small - the same way that very few women would break up with a man because of the same issues in regards to his penis.

It's one of those things you can't change (well not without surgery) about yourself or your partner so why stress out over it.

people stress over it because others make a big deal out of it for exmaple just read the posts here about it

for example no ones care about the size of their tongue because you will not see someone say it's length and girth are important and if it's thinker then a wrist call me etc etc

people worry because others worry

Tiny Dancer · 02-28-2009, 04:12 PM

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Originally Posted by MSD

That's not really a valid comparison. Breasts are sexual, but they're not directly involved in intercourse, so size is more of a visual thing than a stimulation to orgasm thing for a woman's partner unless he's titfucking her. And you can still titfuck A cups

As a proud owner of A-cups it's not possible in my experience that you can titfuck them. But cumming on them is possible, no fucking.

hotdog690 · 02-28-2009, 04:47 PM

Regarding breast size, I always maintained that much more than a handful is a waste, but I mean a handful each.

MSD · 02-28-2009, 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Crompsin

I do, however, disagree with your A-cup finding, MSD. I have extensive personal knowledge acquired from scientific tests regarding this.

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Originally Posted by Tiny Dancer

As a proud owner of A-cups it's not possible in my experience that you can titfuck them. But cumming on them is possible, no fucking.

The only way to solve this is a proper scientific study. We'll have to control and record variables carefully because if we double-blind it, someone's going to misjudge their position and someone else is going to end up with a dick up their nose.

ametc · 03-01-2009, 12:15 AM

Size does matter for me. The penis needs to fit in the vagina for it to work. It can't be too big or too small for the vagina. Some girls have short canals.. and those girls should go with guys who have shorter penises. Some girls have longer canals and should go with guys who have longer penises. Most women are average in length (in their vaginal canals) as most men are (penis length), so it usually isn't such a huge deal.

Tiny Dancer · 03-02-2009, 09:29 PM

And no one wants something in the eye. That's so not a nice thing.

Shaindra · 03-15-2009, 09:33 AM

Well, to resurrect an old topic.

I've had big ones that equaled mediocre sex and average ones that were great. I prefer girth over length, but a little bit of extra on both is preferred. That said, I had a friend with 9" + girth. The cock itself was fun. But the man left a lot to be desired as a lover. He was also older and needed a lot of stimulation to get anywhere. Too much work. I've also had some guys who managed to pound me and hurt, even with smaller sizes. I think some of them are proud of that ability. :-/

I had one that was 5.5" or so. He was much younger than me and very insecure about his size. I reassured him that he was actually average and that, in fact, he was one of the better lovers I've ever had...including older and presumably more experienced guys. This one was a true giver. He loved getting me off and that made it a lot of fun. And something about the way he worked the angles made full use of what he had. He was grateful for the positive feedback.

My personal ideal is about 8" and fairly large girth. Too much longer and giving BJs is impaired. But the best cock is the one that is there and ready to go when you want it. ;-)

wayneferrell479 · 03-15-2009, 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Shaindra

Well, to resurrect an old topic.

I've had big ones that equaled mediocre sex and average ones that were great. I prefer girth over length, but a little bit of extra on both is preferred. That said, I had a friend with 9" + girth. The cock itself was fun. But the man left a lot to be desired as a lover. He was also older and needed a lot of stimulation to get anywhere. Too much work. I've also had some guys who managed to pound me and hurt, even with smaller sizes. I think some of them are proud of that ability. :-/

I had one that was 5.5" or so. He was much younger than me and very insecure about his size. I reassured him that he was actually average and that, in fact, he was one of the better lovers I've ever had...including older and presumably more experienced guys. This one was a true giver. He loved getting me off and that made it a lot of fun. And something about the way he worked the angles made full use of what he had. He was grateful for the positive feedback.

My personal ideal is about 8" and fairly large girth. Too much longer and giving BJs is impaired. But the best cock is the one that is there and ready to go when you want it. ;-)

Now Im no kid but as I am new here it will take me a while to be able to handle females talking like this. It is very distracting. That aside I appreciate the insight

laudanum · 03-15-2009, 11:10 PM

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Originally Posted by wayneferrell479

Now Im no kid but as I am new here it will take me a while to be able to handle females talking like this.

That is exactly the reason why this board is the best. It's not just the women, but everyone.

oh yeah...please donate. mine's on its way...

blar · 03-18-2009, 12:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Shaindra

Well, to resurrect an old topic.

I've had big ones that equaled mediocre sex and average ones that were great. I prefer girth over length, but a little bit of extra on both is preferred. That said, I had a friend with 9" + girth. The cock itself was fun. But the man left a lot to be desired as a lover. He was also older and needed a lot of stimulation to get anywhere. Too much work. I've also had some guys who managed to pound me and hurt, even with smaller sizes. I think some of them are proud of that ability. :-/

I had one that was 5.5" or so. He was much younger than me and very insecure about his size. I reassured him that he was actually average and that, in fact, he was one of the better lovers I've ever had...including older and presumably more experienced guys. This one was a true giver. He loved getting me off and that made it a lot of fun. And something about the way he worked the angles made full use of what he had. He was grateful for the positive feedback.

My personal ideal is about 8" and fairly large girth. Too much longer and giving BJs is impaired. But the best cock is the one that is there and ready to go when you want it. ;-)

well at least you seem to appreciate guys of a large variety or sizes or is it just average 5-6" and up I dunno

but I still can't believe guys talk their partners about their size.....I don't see the point it's not like a girl is goign to say "you are not my preferred size" just like how a guy isn't going to say something bad about his partners body

Xerxys · 03-18-2009, 12:49 PM

Thing is .... when you're not compatible in the bedroom section, it makes sex a chore!!! I would just rather have her be able to take me completely instead of using a whole bottle of lube for one session!

spectre · 03-18-2009, 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by blar

well at least you seem to appreciate guys of a large variety or sizes or is it just average 5-6" and up I dunno

but I still can't believe guys talk their partners about their size.....I don't see the point it's not like a girl is goign to say "you are not my preferred size" just like how a guy isn't going to say something bad about his partners body

I've been watching, and I really need to know, why are you going after the women here for being honest? I mean, what's the point of having people answer an honest question if the only point is to answer a certain way or be attacked?

Would you prefer that they lie to you? Would that make you feel better? Seriously, if it's going to offend you when people give their honest opinion on something like this, then maybe you shouldn't read this kind of thread.

Sue · 03-19-2009, 05:59 AM

It matters to me. I've been very happy with my guy's for 4+ years.

blar · 03-19-2009, 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by spectre

I've been watching, and I really need to know, why are you going after the women here for being honest? I mean, what's the point of having people answer an honest question if the only point is to answer a certain way or be attacked?

Would you prefer that they lie to you? Would that make you feel better? Seriously, if it's going to offend you when people give their honest opinion on something like this, then maybe you shouldn't read this kind of thread.

lol I am attacking any women for being honest...infact I didn't even attack anyone if it seems so that isn't my intent. I sure I replied to some posts but that's what m,essgae boards are for

Shaindra · 03-20-2009, 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by blar

well at least you seem to appreciate guys of a large variety or sizes or is it just average 5-6" and up I dunno

but I still can't believe guys talk their partners about their size.....I don't see the point it's not like a girl is goign to say "you are not my preferred size" just like how a guy isn't going to say something bad about his partners body

Well, smallest I ever had was about 5". I have been largely spoiled in this regard.

Most of the guys I've been with have not talked to me about their size...unless they were bragging or after the fact in discussions described above. I've talked with my partners openly about a lot of things. I'm not sure why this surprises you.

In the case of the guy above, we were friends who had been intimate. He expressed some insecurity and I told him the truth. He was great.

belle_enigma · 03-20-2009, 07:03 PM

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blar · 03-21-2009, 01:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Shaindra

Well, smallest I ever had was about 5". I have been largely spoiled in this regard.

Most of the guys I've been with have not talked to me about their size...unless they were bragging or after the fact in discussions described above. I've talked with my partners openly about a lot of things. I'm not sure why this surprises you.

In the case of the guy above, we were friends who had been intimate. He expressed some insecurity and I told him the truth. He was great.

well other then the bragging ("am I your biggest etc etc") I just didn't thinks guys would ask their partners if they are small or not

just as I said before it's not like they will get the honest answer most of the time

Shaindra · 03-21-2009, 09:05 PM

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Originally Posted by blar

well other then the bragging ("am I your biggest etc etc") I just didn't thinks guys would ask their partners if they are small or not

just as I said before it's not like they will get the honest answer most of the time

I'm not sure of your point. Am I saying that all guys ask me if they're big enough? No. Of course not. Most guys would rather not discuss the size of their penis. But there are guys who are curious and they know that I'll give a reasonably straight answer. Mostly though, I keep my discussions on the topic to technique rather than tool.

NorthernGirl · 04-14-2009, 10:12 PM

somewhere in the middle of the two extremes is good. there are sizes that are good enough, just as long as he knows what to do with it etc .

Plan9 · 04-14-2009, 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by MSD

The only way to solve this is a proper scientific study. We'll have to control and record variables carefully because if we double-blind it, someone's going to misjudge their position and someone else is going to end up with a dick up their nose.

I concur. Once again, I'll fund my own research and post the findings on TFP, including methodology demonstration photographs.

However, I may substitute said A-cups for tomatoes attached to a department store mannequin.

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Whoa, I totally did an awesome thread reload double-take:

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Originally Posted by NorthernGirl

I broke up with a guy because his pee pee was way too small . Its not that I need a huge huge one, but that one was way too small . I almost cried and wrote a poem .

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Originally Posted by NorthernGirl

somewhere in the middle of the two extremes is good. there are sizes that are good enough, just as long as he knows what to do with it etc .

I totally demand the puny pee-pee prose.

sourgirl · 04-14-2009, 11:14 PM

I'm new..so this is one thread that will get bumped a bit..

Size doesn't have to be an issue if the gentleman in question has dexterity in his fingers and tongue. Frankly, if you can get to the g-spot with a couple of fingers while licking or squeezing the clit..well the rest is just icing. Finishing off with a good fuck bent over the bed/couch/kitchen counter (hey..cupcakes!), big or small, will make this mama happy.

Shaindra · 04-14-2009, 11:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Crompsin

I totally demand the puny pee-pee prose.

Will a haiku do?

Your penis is small
I would still suck it tonight
And lick your balls too

bloody_rose20 · 04-15-2009, 12:04 AM

I like something that is average and if the guy knows how to use it. Like, it can't be too thin, because then it won't do much for me. Plus, I like the slightly curved, lol, hits the spots just right ;-)

curiousbear · 04-15-2009, 12:26 AM

Very nice posts. Thanks to all girls here.

I long ago had seen a picture where a girls are trying to hug a pillar like huge penis standing upright! I think it was a lilliput theme.

Mine is average. I beleive Size is good but attitude, timing and techniques are more important.

Plan9 · 04-15-2009, 07:57 AM

Mine is a four foot long tentacle, ribbed with green bumps and lined with purple suckers. Any takers?

02-27-2009, 02:13 AM	#84 (permalink)
Hyacinthe Psycho Location: Australia	I more meant MSD that very few men will break up with a woman because her breasts are too large or too small - the same way that very few women would break up with a man because of the same issues in regards to his penis. It's one of those things you can't change (well not without surgery) about yourself or your partner so why stress out over it. __________________ "I want to be remembered as the girl who always smiles even when her heart is broken... and the one that could brighten up your day even if she couldnt brighten her own" "Her emotions were clear waters. You could see the scarring and pockmarks at the bottom of the pool, but it was just a part of her landscape – the consequences of others’ actions in which she claimed no part."

03-15-2009, 09:33 AM	#91 (permalink)
Shaindra Psycho Location: Massachusetts	Well, to resurrect an old topic. I've had big ones that equaled mediocre sex and average ones that were great. I prefer girth over length, but a little bit of extra on both is preferred. That said, I had a friend with 9" + girth. The cock itself was fun. But the man left a lot to be desired as a lover. He was also older and needed a lot of stimulation to get anywhere. Too much work. I've also had some guys who managed to pound me and hurt, even with smaller sizes. I think some of them are proud of that ability. :-/ I had one that was 5.5" or so. He was much younger than me and very insecure about his size. I reassured him that he was actually average and that, in fact, he was one of the better lovers I've ever had...including older and presumably more experienced guys. This one was a true giver. He loved getting me off and that made it a lot of fun. And something about the way he worked the angles made full use of what he had. He was grateful for the positive feedback. My personal ideal is about 8" and fairly large girth. Too much longer and giving BJs is impaired. But the best cock is the one that is there and ready to go when you want it. ;-) __________________ "Never regret something that once made you smile."

03-19-2009, 05:59 AM	#97 (permalink)
Sue Teufel Hunden's Freundin Location: Westminster, CO	It matters to me. I've been very happy with my guy's for 4+ years. __________________ Teg yw edrych tuag adref.

03-20-2009, 07:03 PM	#100 (permalink)
belle_enigma Upright	__________ Last edited by belle_enigma; 09-11-2010 at 06:25 PM..

04-14-2009, 10:12 PM	#103 (permalink)
NorthernGirl Upright	somewhere in the middle of the two extremes is good. there are sizes that are good enough, just as long as he knows what to do with it etc . Last edited by NorthernGirl; 04-14-2009 at 10:18 PM..

02-26-2009, 07:51 AM	#81 (permalink)
dippin Crazy, indeed Location: the ether	As someone who is constantly hitting the wife's cervix, and seeing the pain it causes, I know that length is overrated. Especially as the average vagina is only about 6-7 inches deep.

02-28-2009, 04:47 PM	#87 (permalink)
hotdog690 Upright Location: Southern NH	Regarding breast size, I always maintained that much more than a handful is a waste, but I mean a handful each.

03-01-2009, 12:15 AM	#89 (permalink)
ametc Psycho	Size does matter for me. The penis needs to fit in the vagina for it to work. It can't be too big or too small for the vagina. Some girls have short canals.. and those girls should go with guys who have shorter penises. Some girls have longer canals and should go with guys who have longer penises. Most women are average in length (in their vaginal canals) as most men are (penis length), so it usually isn't such a huge deal.

03-02-2009, 09:29 PM	#90 (permalink)
Tiny Dancer Registered User Location: D-Town, Co	And no one wants something in the eye. That's so not a nice thing.

03-18-2009, 12:49 PM	#95 (permalink)
Xerxys Junkie Location: My head.	Thing is .... when you're not compatible in the bedroom section, it makes sex a chore!!! I would just rather have her be able to take me completely instead of using a whole bottle of lube for one session!

04-14-2009, 11:14 PM	#105 (permalink)
sourgirl Upright Location: Los Angeles	I'm new..so this is one thread that will get bumped a bit.. Size doesn't have to be an issue if the gentleman in question has dexterity in his fingers and tongue. Frankly, if you can get to the g-spot with a couple of fingers while licking or squeezing the clit..well the rest is just icing. Finishing off with a good fuck bent over the bed/couch/kitchen counter (hey..cupcakes!), big or small, will make this mama happy. __________________ The statement below is true. The statement above is false.

04-15-2009, 12:04 AM	#107 (permalink)
bloody_rose20 Crazy Location: In Vermont	I like something that is average and if the guy knows how to use it. Like, it can't be too thin, because then it won't do much for me. Plus, I like the slightly curved, lol, hits the spots just right ;-) __________________ "The only way to enjoy life, is to try different things, and take risks. Sometimes you just have to jump in with both feet and hope for the best "

04-15-2009, 12:26 AM	#108 (permalink)
curiousbear Addict Location: WA	Very nice posts. Thanks to all girls here. I long ago had seen a picture where a girls are trying to hug a pillar like huge penis standing upright! I think it was a lilliput theme. Mine is average. I beleive Size is good but attitude, timing and techniques are more important.

04-15-2009, 07:57 AM	#109 (permalink)
Plan9 I Confess a Shiver	Mine is a four foot long tentacle, ribbed with green bumps and lined with purple suckers. Any takers? __________________ *Whatever you can carry.* "You should not drink... and bake."