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Old 10-28-2008, 12:20 PM   #1 (permalink)
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What makes you feel sexy?

One curiosity I have is how much attention people pay to their sexuality. A lot of times, people don't even know what makes them feel sexy, so they don't even try for it. Do you know what makes you feel sexy? How often do you try to make it happen?

For me, I feel sexy in tight clothes. I may not be a body builder by any stretch of the imagination, but I like how my body is defined. If I can illustrate that by the clothes I wear, then I definitely feel sexy. Sometimes I go too far with that... wearing pants that show an obvious bulge... its not very decent but that still makes me feel nice.

Attention makes me feel sexy, too. When I get compliments or when people talk to me (without me talking to them first) I feel attractive and approachable.

How about you?
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Old 10-28-2008, 12:55 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Few things make me feel as attractive or sexy as dancing with someone I don't even know and having her give off all the right signals - extended eye contact, dancing really close, the arms around my neck, flirty grinding and not minding where my hands will eventually go.

I do the crotch accentuating pants thing as well but nothing does it like dancing.
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Old 10-28-2008, 01:13 PM   #3 (permalink)
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New cute clothes, a great hair day (which is rare), great makeup day (which is almost a regular basis), red lipstick, clear skin, and my babe when he touches and kisses me. And, when I do wear one, a *hot* dress.
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Old 10-28-2008, 01:13 PM   #4 (permalink)
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My hair cut short, slicked back. Sunglasses. Fitted jeans and shape defining, button down trendy shirt. Nice shoes to complement.
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Old 10-28-2008, 01:39 PM   #5 (permalink)
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A corset, skirt, and knee high boots. I also feel sexy in a garter belt with stockings, even if you can't see them.

I feel so sexy when my SO tells me so.
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Old 10-28-2008, 01:53 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Wearing a dress, particularly with a slip and stockings.
Being around men who are taller than me (I'm 5'9" and wear heels, so this is rare).
Dancing with a partner (not so much when trying to shake my ass by lonesome)
Listening to certain types of music. (old school R&B in particular)
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Old 10-28-2008, 02:00 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Knowing someone is eyeing me up,especially when he thinks I don't know he's looking.
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Old 10-28-2008, 02:01 PM   #8 (permalink)
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My new hair style with my Tommy Hilfiger jacket and a pair of jeans makes me feel like a beast. Acting also, especially on stage, gives me that feeling of being both loved and suitably mysterious, giving off not only a feeling of being attractive, but gives one hell of an adrenaline rush.
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Old 10-28-2008, 02:04 PM   #9 (permalink)
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I guess I feel sexy when I work out.. when i'm sweating.. after a run, etc.

I feel sexy in a cute outfit.

I feel sexy when I know someone is checking me out...

I don't know.. I appreciate it when guys pay attention or if a SO will compliment me, because he wants to, not because he feels pressured to. Ex would always say he didn't need to tell me because I already knew how he felt.. Psh. Ladies like to be told!!
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Old 10-28-2008, 02:34 PM   #10 (permalink)
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When i get my hair right, kinda messy kinda style, not so much out of bed, nice gray scarf, black jacket, and my SO by my side ....
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Old 10-28-2008, 03:23 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Old 10-28-2008, 03:29 PM   #12 (permalink)
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I'm sure you all expect me to say something like, "When my dick is in a girls mouth" or "When I don't have to pay for sex" but I'm not gonna go that way this time.




I feel sexy when I'm cooking. I know that's really lame but it's true. When I'm flying around the kitchen on a busy night and everything is coming out perfect, I get a hard on that could choke Jenna Jameson.
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Old 10-28-2008, 03:35 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Lingerie . Whether it's a sexy bra and panties under jeans and leather, or the retro glamor type preferred for playtime, it's all sexy.

When my fiance looks at me in "that" way, when I can feel his eyes following me around the house.

A quick smooch and fondle in the kitchen when no one is looking
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Old 10-28-2008, 04:44 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Tonight I will be wearing a mini with my tshirt and my boots. I will be drinking wine and eating at a new restaurant of the year with a flirt who is an excellent pro chef. I have little doubt that we will be the happiest people there, with the most laughter and the most courses.

I will be feeling sexy.

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Im not sure its the clothes though.
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Old 10-28-2008, 04:50 PM   #15 (permalink)
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You know that deep, throaty moan a woman makes, like it's been decades since she's been with a man? That makes me feel sexy.
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Old 10-28-2008, 06:05 PM   #16 (permalink)
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You know that deep, throaty moan a woman makes, like it's been decades since she's been with a man? That makes me feel sexy.
You pick up chicks at the retirement home?
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Old 10-28-2008, 06:16 PM   #17 (permalink)
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You pick up chicks at the retirement home?
I used a simile, but I like where your head's at.
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Old 10-28-2008, 08:20 PM   #18 (permalink)
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Old 10-29-2008, 01:28 AM   #19 (permalink)
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Interesting question Halx.

I've never considered myself particularly attractive, nor by extension, sexy.

If a girl gets flirty with me I've always considered that as being responsive to my personality.

The only times I ever really feel sexy is women are actually turned on my me. Then I feel like da man!
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Old 10-29-2008, 02:29 AM   #20 (permalink)
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Certain smells...like a particularly attractive aftershave mixed with a little sweat...sometimes I'll be walking down the street and catch it...I like that.

Certain looks...when your guy looks at you like he could ravage you in an instant.

A good conversation with suggestive hints.

A hand brushing against me very lightly, from that particular guy.

Without external stimuli...a new haircut or hair colour. New, form fitting clothes. A top that shows off my cleavage a bit more than usual. Skirts. High-heels. Feeling confident makes me feel sexier. Being a bitch too.
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Old 10-29-2008, 02:44 AM   #21 (permalink)
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In a couple of different ways:

By myself - when I'm working out, either running or at the gym. Knowing my strength and stamina makes me feel good.

When I'm with a woman - when she compliments me and pays real attention.
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Old 10-29-2008, 03:16 AM   #22 (permalink)
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I feel sexy when I'm cooking. I know that's really lame but it's true. When I'm flying around the kitchen on a busy night and everything is coming out perfect, I get a hard on that could choke Jenna Jameson.
It's so not lame.
Guys, especially, are damn sexy when they almost lose themselves inside an activity they enjoy.
In fact, despite not being a guy, my first thought was that I feel sexy behind the camera sometimes because I get absorbed and then my SO watching me turns me on.
And there's one pair of jeans that make me feel sexy. That's about it.
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Old 10-29-2008, 08:29 AM   #23 (permalink)
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After a particular increase in my exercise regime and I notice the difference. I change my hair a lot, so when I get it cut/grow it out just right, and it flows just right. Every time I take a shower, afterward for a short while, when I'm squeaky clean. And, this may be redundant, when I get a rock hard erection.
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Old 10-29-2008, 09:10 AM   #24 (permalink)
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I never feel sexy. Sometimes I feel good looking me in mirror when I have a neat shave and good hair. But never felt sexy or something...
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Old 10-29-2008, 09:34 AM   #25 (permalink)
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Shortly after geting out of the shower, when I'm all smooth and clean and soft... that's when I feel sexy.

I had a vinyl skirt that I wore clubbing back in the day, and it always made me feel awesome. It almost fits again... I'll have to try it out when it does.
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Old 10-29-2008, 11:35 AM   #26 (permalink)
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Shortly after geting out of the shower, when I'm all smooth and clean and soft... that's when I feel sexy.
Me too. I'm pretty much a minimalist when it comes to feeling sexy. I'll towel off with a not-too-soft cotton towel, put on a long silk or cotton top that drapes just right over my breasts. That's when I feel the sexiest.

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Knowing someone is eyeing me up,especially when he thinks I don't know he's looking.
When a guy is kind of surreptitiously looking me over, I feel sexy. Not overt ogling, or staring at my chest, but stealing glances and "checking me out." Especially at "non sexy" places like church, the mall, or the grocery store. Makes me feel sexy partly because someone else is showing interest, partly because I'm not trying (in those kind of places) to look sexy!

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Old 10-29-2008, 11:47 AM   #27 (permalink)
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I feel sexy after a hard work out, or after I go for a long run. Also, after I spar, all of the bumps and bruises make me feel sexy.
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Old 10-29-2008, 11:48 AM   #28 (permalink)
 
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I feel sexy when I've just stepped out of the shower, my hair is still wet, and I walk around the house with just a towel draped around me... occasionally flashing my husband (or the neighbors, accidentally).

I also feel sexy when my husband is suddenly overcome with desire and throws me down on the bed to fuck me. That's hot.

EDIT: As others have said, I also feel sexy when I'm working out, and after I finish working out and am walking around the gym feeling like a hot piece of ass. I used to rock climb a lot in tight clothing, and that also made me feel quite confident in my body.
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Old 10-30-2008, 01:19 PM   #29 (permalink)
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I feel sexy when I've just stepped out of the shower, my hair is still wet, and I walk around the house with just a towel draped around me... occasionally flashing my husband (or the neighbors, accidentally).
The world needs more neighbours like abaya ...
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Old 10-30-2008, 02:51 PM   #30 (permalink)
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What makes me feel sexy is being desired.

Ladies form an orderly queue.
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Old 10-30-2008, 02:53 PM   #31 (permalink)
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What makes me feel sexy is being desired.

Ladies form an orderly queue.
then you must feel sexy every time we talk!!!
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Old 10-30-2008, 08:09 PM   #32 (permalink)
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I agree with lostgirl rarely do I feel as sexy as in a pair of stockings with a garter and corset and a killer pair of heels (not necessarily boots for me though)

I don't know if I would describe it as sexy but I also love a nicely flared bias skirt (for those of you who don't sew that won't help much ) the type of skirt that when I am going up or down a set of stairs I know it's hugging my ass and hips and at the same time the hem is fluttering around my calves bringing attention to my legs. I don't know if that's so much sexy as feminine though, I feel powerful when dressed in that.
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Old 10-30-2008, 10:23 PM   #33 (permalink)
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Sipping hot cocoa while wearing only my soft, fluffy robe (on my day off work when kids are at school)
Naked between two satin sheets.
My hair is elbow length in the back now, and I love the feel of it brushing against my bare back.
Wearing dark sunglasses so nobody can tell where I'm looking.
Dabbing perfume on my pulse points before getting dressed.
Chocolate melting on my tongue.
The smell of popcorn.
Washing my hair.
Wearing black mini skirts/dresses with high heels.
I've never owned black fishnet stockings, but would love to someday.
The smell of his cologne.

ok, I think that's enough for now.

edit: okay, maybe a couple more.

Licking peanut butter or chocolate icing off my fingers after frosting a graham cracker.
Wearing pretty earrings.
Painting my nails.
Roasting marshmellows (or doing anything really) in front of a fire. Indoors or out.
In hot weather, cooling off with a few strategically placed ice chips.

that's really it this time.
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Old 10-31-2008, 12:49 AM   #34 (permalink)
 
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The world needs more neighbours like abaya ...
Well actually, one of my almost-neighbors is lotsofmagnets... hopefully he hasn't walked by the window when I'm getting out of the shower, ha!!

The funny thing is there's only one neighbor with a window high enough to look down into ours... so when ktsp and I are going to the bathroom after sex or something (when we're naked), we usually bend down and sneak by under the window so they won't see us. But sometimes I wonder if they can see us anyway (due to their height), which probably makes them laugh every time they see these two naked people trying to sneak by the window in their own home by bending over.
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Old 10-31-2008, 04:01 PM   #35 (permalink)
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wearing slinky underwear is definitely what makes me feel sexy. a thong here, a bikini there (despite me not having anywhere near the 'right' body for it) well, that or wearing what i have on in my profile pic.

now to find someone who digs that and wants to see me in more...
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Old 11-01-2008, 04:58 AM   #36 (permalink)
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I just remembered this one. I find it really hard to sleep naked. It feels way to sexy for me to fall asleep!
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Old 11-01-2008, 08:45 AM   #37 (permalink)
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When i have a crisp dinner suit on, shoes so shiney you could shave with them and a face smoother than an androids bottom.

It's big man coming through syndrome then, and i'm not afraid to flaunt it
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Old 11-01-2008, 10:23 AM   #38 (permalink)
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Old 11-01-2008, 01:09 PM   #39 (permalink)
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That picture is NOT sexy...

I like dressing up in something nice. A tie for some reason makes me feel sexy.
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Old 11-02-2008, 10:27 AM   #40 (permalink)
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I just remembered this one. I find it really hard to sleep naked. It feels way to sexy for me to fall asleep!
that's interesting. i LOVE sleeping naked because i find it so much more comfortable. i don't think of it as being sexy though... especially when i'm by myself
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