PearlSonja9

I was wondering what a woman's labia size means to a guy. When I look at porn, I notice most of the girls have small outer labia. Now clearly, I don't fit into that category, so I am wondering: does size matter?

Willravel

They're all beautiful. A lot of men may be obsessed with our own equipment, but we're appreciative of all female forms.

Anormalguy

I've never really thought about labia sizes, so I 'd say no, labia size doesn't matter.

Unless you want to talk about outer labia piercings.

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inBOIL

Most guys are so happy to see labia that they won't care what size they are.

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Jozrael

I find the stretched labia not to my liking. The ones who look like their nether regions could envelop my hand whole without a second thought, and then start munching up my arm.

Just personal preference though.

curiousbear

Size doesnt matter. The color, texture, form can be adorable. Most of the ones I had seen in pictures were nice. They looked like flowers.

The word Pudendum which means the female genitalia sounds phonetically very close to Indian word 'Pundareekam' which means Lotus! Amazing isn't it? Lotus is also associated with religion and divine.

Frosstbyte

As with virtually every part of a human body, some things appeal to some people and some things appeal to others. Nothing is blanket better or worse, but people do have individual preferences. Hopefully anyone who is intimate enough with you that you allow him or her to see your labia will either not care or just naturally like what you have. I personally can go either way. I've had partners on whom big looked good and small looked good.

Honestly, some people will care, and people who suck about it are the same people who suck about any part of a person's body and you can't worry about them.

n0nsensical

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Cervantes

It doesn't matter, as long as you are comfortable with it then that's the way it should be.

I don't see how the shape, size or form of the labia could have any unattractive features (if it's not grossly disfigured by mutilation)..

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tisonlyi

Some guys are very much into big labia - the bigger the better.
Some guys are very much into small/non-existant labia.
Most aren't too bothered by labial variation.

(My 0.02 I think the fetishism of either extreme is something along the same lines as hair preference [shaved/unshaved] and a bit weird, to be honest. Youth fetishism? *sigh*)

Myself, I think it's great either way. Actually... Now that I think about it, maybe bigger is a bit better. More stuff to molest.

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dlish

size doesnt matter.. on a woman

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DSmith67

The more there is ... the more there is to nibble/suck on while giving her oral. I like more but really doesn't bother me either way. Like inBOIL said: "Most guys are so happy to see labia that they won't care what size they are."

LoganSnake

Speak for yourself. That goes for all of you who say that all men love labia of all shapes and sizes. kthx.

Does it affect the enjoyment of sex? No. Do some labia sizes and shapes fall out of my aesthetic? You bet your ass.

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Willravel

Okay, MOST men.

Not Logan. Logan is a connoisseur.

Randy

I do indeed have a preference. I prefer more pronounced labia. Smaller labia strike me as sexually undeveloped.

That's probably a shame, but I don't know what to do about my sexual response in this regard. Like penis size, there is practically nothing that a person can do about it.

LoganSnake

You bet your ass.

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Leto

don't care (Logan not withstanding) never comes up in my thoughts. I have to agree that just having access to labia is exciting enough.

curiousbear

Now did yours yeild you compliment or negative or ignored?

Aladdin Sane

What's been your experience?


I've never seen a labia that I didn't like. I have noticed that larger ones can make penetration somewhat more difficult if she's not one to get particularly wet.

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ratbastid

Hooray for labia!

highthief

I'm more concerned with what she tastes like and feels like down there than what the lips look like.

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ASU2003

They are all smaller in real life than what they look like on my 37" computer monitor.

Actually, the last time I saw some in real life, I had forgotten how small that area actually is compared to what I've been looking at (Zooming in makes it appear one foot long...)

I don't really care, just so the girl is comfortable showing them off to me in the daylight.

skizziks

While I find all women's genitalia attractive, I seem more attracted to large labia. Much like Randy said, smaller labia, to me, seem a bit underdeveloped. I like em big and pouty and long and large. That said, I'll take anything I can get.

Martian

It turns out that real life and porn bear almost no relation to each other. Real life girls are not porn girls. They sometimes have a bit of a belly, or imperfect skin. Nobody airbrushes out the scars or stretch marks. One breast is often bigger than the other. Many of them have pubic hair. And their labia are not always picture perfect.

Real sex is also different. For one, everything in porn seems to be massively exaggerated. I understand the reasoning for it, but it's still a bit off-putting to me. Aside from that, real sex is a bit ridiculous. Occasionally you bump your head on the headboard. No biggie.

If you try to compare yourself or your sex life to what you see in porn, you'll quickly go mad. Don't do it.

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james t kirk

Exactly....

ASU2003

That reminds me, I should visit (NSFW) Pussy XXL (NSFW) again. You may want to visit to see that labia come in all shapes and sizes and there is nothing wrong with any of them.

(Art project NSFW) http://brightonbodycasting.com/design-a-vagina-faq.php (Art project NSFW)

james t kirk

Boing.

Thanks for that. That's perfecto in my books.

You can try Large Labia and their Sex Appeal at SexyLabia.com

My kind of pussies.....

NSFW as well - of course - it's a site about women with large sexy labias, what do you expect?

Tully Mars

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Prince

To be honest, I love pussy, but I've never paid any attention to labia sizes.

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joeitalian3

no, but some men prefer large lips, esp for oral sex, which i prefer

lotsofmagnets

having faced several types i was able to appreciate each

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Psycho Dad

I've not noticed that. In fact I'd have to say that I think I've seen nearly every type of labia imaginable in the porn I've seen.

But as far as size, I know I haven't and I'd imagine most men have not made labia size a factor in choosing a partner. I do understand however that my wife is not happy with her labia while I am perfectly fine with them.

Don't worry about it. I'd wager you are just fine. Don't compare yourself to anyone in porn.

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lotsofmagnets

for looking back at your other (2) posts i can assure you you have absolutely nothing to worrry about. try being happy with what you have

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Seaver

I've never seen a pussy that I didn't plan to kiss

Honestly I prefer smaller labia, something I came to realize only after my last gf. First time I saw her down there, she had small labia and was nicely groomed. I just thought it was so beautiful and clean.

I wouldn't ever leave a girl because of labia... but I'm much much more inclined to pay some oral attention to the smaller ones.

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Yellow Tulip

Wow, thanks for that link J.T.Kirk! I'd never compared myself to other women before. When I was a teenager I used to be slightly embarrassed that my inner lips hung a bit outside the outer ones. I became more comfortable with myself as I got a bit older but now I feel completely normal.

Plan9

Whoa... stretched?

Try again.

So... somebody with a large nose has a stretched sniffer? Doesn't follow.

Some labia are "fuller" than others, but they're not stretched.

There is no human body development phase that involves the stretching of labia. While I've heard of vanity-seeking operations to reduce the labia, I don't know of any that involve stretching it. Ripley's or not.

Like ears and noses and fingers and tongues and feet and the fierce orifice-stabbing man-swords that this forum seems obsessed with... they come in different sizes naturally.

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The whole 'net-spun misinformation about women with fuller labia being whores or loose or post-pregnancy are all bullshit myths.

/rant available to continue upon request

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Psycho Dad

There is quite a bit of fetish activities that involve stretching them.

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Cernunnos

If a woman is comfortable enough to part her thighs for me, it's likely that I'll be willing to overlook any genital abnormalities. Assuming that her parts are in working order and no STDs are present, I would be more than happy to lick and fuck her to orgasmic oblivion.

Fat or thin sex lips, it doesn't matter. I am more appreciative of sexual appetite than labia proportions.

Jozrael

I did indeed mean stretched, but I could be wrong. I have heard tell of porn artists who regularly stretch their labia so that they can appeal to certain markets.

NSFW: http://shockme.t2i.info/wp-content/u...ussy-lips2.jpg is an example where I would imagine stretched, but I could be wrong.

Ilow

Rants are fine, but better if factually correct. There are tons of stretching activities that some women like to do with their labia. Some attach weights to them, some gently tug on them, etc. I am sure that someone can post pictures of this happening if you'd like.

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