oddball193

ok- what if a man penetrates a woman for a few seconds or minutes but no 'action" takes place and you don't ejaculate- is it sex? what if you two try to go at it but again nothing happens- is it sex? do you think that if its a special person that you love, sex before marriage is ok?

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yes, yes and yes

Maybe you could explain for us why you're asking?

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clockworkgreen

he's trying to figure out if he can tell the lads at lunch tomorrow that he's (technically) not a virgin.....i'd call it that you just didn't try hard enough...

Yes to the last question.

oddball193

ok, my gf isnt a virgin and it bothered me for a while because i was and she always said that it was a mistake- but we planned this one- it wasnt a caught up in the moment thing, but she wanted me to pull out (shes on the pill though). i wonder what i should tell her, i mean it was great- really great, but nothing really happened, you know? oh, clockwork- i'm not telling my lads and she sucked me off right after-

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Slims

yes, you had sex. Personally, I think sex before marriage is not only ok, it is necessary.

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Mael

and any girl that'll but your cock in her mouth after it's been in her is a keeper.

rogue49

yes, all of the above is sex.

just keep the intimacy up, and explore each other
it will just better, as you get to know yourself and each other.

Charlatan

Of course it's sex... even the blow job is sex (despite what Clinton said)...

If you are asking if it was intercourse. I'd still say yes despite the lack of ejaculation.

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Dorkums642

you poked her she popped you, you are not a virgin. If you're wearing a condom when during intercourse you never ejaculate into a woman (or man). Is that still sex?

and I agree with Greg that sex before marriage (and engagement) is necessary. What if you find out your potential spouse is crap in in the sack? I've had GFs where we got along great but the sexual intimacy just stinks and that makes for a doomed relationship.

and what do you mean by "no action"? You just put your penis in her laid there as still as possible?

Just remember, anal sex is the way to go for women if they want to remain a Technical Virgin.

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Main Entry: sexual intercourse
Function: noun
Date: 1799
1 : heterosexual intercourse involving penetration of the vagina by the penis : COITUS
2 : intercourse involving genital contact between individuals other than penetration of the vagina by the penis

that should clear it up

from webster's

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Byebye723

yes

Eviltree

e.) all of the above plus all of the below, well maybe not.

yournamehere

Well, according to <i>Seinfeld</i>, the line between "making out" and "sex" is crossed "when a nipple makes an appearance."

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RichardRambone

yes, yes, yes

man, keep her... she gets great respect for sucking you off after you pulled out.

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89transam

Well think about it. If you did work things out but she diddent, then would you be having sex and her not? Its not about the finish its how you get there.

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xepherys

You can have sex with your pants on... that's why men invented zippers!

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snowy

Wow, talk about digging up threads from the grave.

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mixedmedia

Yes, I suppose it's sex. But it doesn't sound like good sex.

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dlish

you can blame xeph for this one

maybe it should be moved to the hall of fame.but then again theres so many of thes types of threads.

i love the chuckle though

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allaboutmusic

That's a completely different type of sex...

little_tippler

what a disappointment...I thought this would be an interesting thread because I thought we'd be discussing what sex is to you...as in what it means or doesn't mean to you, why you do it or don't do it, what it's like for you (physically and/or emotionally)....ah well.

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Halx

You can always make it that...

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yellowmac

This thread could almost arguably be in the Philosophy forum, no?

btw, the answer to the OP's question is yes, that's sex.