Being currently single, yeah, I miss everything. But, the thing I miss most is her playfulness around the house, and out, too. It was a lot of fun to be with her...period.

I regret certain things, but that's not for here. She was a good woman...and her...I'd take back. NOT just for the sex and stuff, but everything.

Well, I had a 4 year relationship with my ex... there's lots I miss sexually from her.

She was 6 years older, and knew exactly what she was doing in bed. 5'5 and a beautiful Korean. She, without any doubt in the world, was night and day better than any other women at BJ's. Honestly, if she weren't a lawyer she could make a living teaching girls how to do it. Ontop of that, she loved having me cum inside her, mouth or pussy. Her sexual drive was as high, if not higher, than mine.

I'm living now in Chicago, and just recently had my first "experience" here. Unfortunately it simply wasn't that great. Thinking about it, we are newly out of long-term relationships... and probably are more used to what worked with our previous partner than being good with each other.

Oh well, only one way to get better ;)

her nice, big, firm, tanned tits!!!

The instantaneous, multiple vaginal orgasms. I've never had them with anyone else before. Something about him really turned me on sexually, and it didn't seem to fade with time, just get better. I also miss the smell of his skin and hair -- he smelled so damned sweet. I'd go back in a heartbeat, if such a thing were possible.

Small asian girl, with long long hair. She used to ride me, and her hair would tickle my balls.

Coming home, she would push me against the door, pull my pants down, and suck me off. The only thing is, she wouldn't swallow, or get it anywhere near her mouth when I was close to coming. Too bad.

Yea, I don't know why my ex asks my husband for girl advice (what he's doing wrong), instead of asking me. I mean, I could tell him everything that's wrong with him, if he really wanted to know. I could use an Excel spreadsheet, even. With graphics.

OK I just remembered one thing I miss about my ex...hehehe...he is always wrong :D

I could live with that!

:thumbsup:

I do miss one guy's penchant for just throwing me around into whatever position he wanted during sex. That was so sexy. Plus, the amount of sex we had was awesome. I feel like I don't get enough now.

Funny, at one time I missed how my ex gave oral, but my newer guy--who was a total beginner when I first met him--ended up surpassing him, and then some.

Amazing what a little practice and research can do =P

How's that working out for you? LMAO

Well, not that I'm not wildly happy with the future Mrs. Levite, which I am...but sure, sometimes I miss some things about some of my exes. Mostly it's around oral-- not that my girl doesn't give me any now, but she has a condition that means she can't give me extended bj's to finish.

My previous ex could do incredible things with her mouth. I kinda miss that amazing way she had of interspersing the licks with sucking so hard I thought she was gonna suck my balls right up through the shaft....

And I had a girl, a couple before the last one, that I often think of...I never ended up with anyone else as into B&D games, roleplaying, and spanking as her...I used to really like that. Mmmmm....

probably coming home one day, being handed some cuffs and a riding crop by someone dressed as a playboy bunny and being told 'tie me up'.


Current girl is not a fan of bondage, which is a shame, because i built up quite an expensive collection of paraphenalia. However she can actually give a good blowjob, not just one extended lick then a look of 'yeh, thats it for the next month buster'.

*sighs*

My most recent ex was fabulous in bed. He had the perfect sized cock and knew how to use it. He also had a refractory period measured in minutes. Yes, I said minutes. Literally, he'd finish, we'd lay there, still joined, and then he'd start moving again for round two. It also meant that I could do my beloved oral to completion and still have some action later.

He had the tireless, turbo tongue, and he loved oral the way a fat cat loves sunshine. He wasn't at all put off by my period, which was fabulous because I can be horny as hell during that time.

Add in the right amount of Dom, knowing when to stroke my hair vs. when to pull it, when to make love to me and when to bend me over.

*sighs*

the combination of touch, smell and taste, of time standing still, primal sex, very primal

Ohhh sweet jeebus, I think about it everyday, If only I hadn't broken up with C cause I'm a freakin' idiot!! She introduced me to Oral, was a sex machine!! She did Anal within the first few times of my first having sex with her. She was also my first!!

I don't miss a damn thing. It was terrible to begin with. Nothing to miss!!

I miss a few things about a few exs. My college ex was so pretty with the tightest body. She was always horny. She looked so sweet and innocent, but she was always ready for something wicked.

My right out of school ex was an ex stripper that was bi and would bring home other girls. She was so much fun.

Then I dated a dominatrix that was also an exhibitionist. She would amaze me with the sexy things she would dream up. She would bring home slave girls, take me to orgies, she was very fun.

Then I dated the hottest girl. She had the most amazing body. I would love to just have her walk around naked. Unfortunatly she was bat shit crazy. That exploded really fast.

Maybe I'm getting old... I don't miss the sex as much as I miss the odd domestic tranquility of my last relationships. Sharing chores and building IKEA furniture had markedly more long-term personal satisfaction than hair pulling, back scratching, or screaming while plastering my pearly essence on heaving breasts. Although that's probably just a product of my rose-colored imagination. I've been suffering from Super Good Mood (TM) for the last couple weeks.

I apologize.

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Vague inventory of what I can remember:

Girlfriend I had before / during the first of the army years... she had a super fit body, smart, and ambitious... but about as physically passionate as a bran muffin. It showed in the sack. Great human, lousy lay. Would have been an excellent wife as long as she was okay with me having to masturbate twice every evening after seeing her crawl into bed naked. Great with a rifle, good in the kitchen.

My exwife was an emotional bear trap but good in the sack. She was average in the body department but her sex attitude was primo. She was incredibly body conscious at times and violently anti-porn (until she started cheating on me, anyway)... yet the things we did together were definitely not wholesome family fun. I actually recall a few points where I was like, "Uh, let's do something else. That's a little too freaky for me."

Last girlfriend was utterly amazing. Great body, very playful. We had a rough spot at the end because of external factors but when it (sex) was good, it was deadly. Killed weekends with sex marathons early on. I often think of that relationship and related aspects as my new benchmark for any future partners. I was really happy and it fulfilled my needs well on many levels.

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It's funny. I have a hard time remembering the sex. I remember the person's glow--smiles and laughs and gestures--but the sex gets lost in the neural Post-It Note shuffle. Sex is important at the time but when you go your separate ways? Just another faded statistic.

Awww, did someone miss me enough to resurrect a year old thread on my behalf?

Helluva lot of necromancy going on here. But it's good for business.

I guess I'll throw in my $.02 on this revived thread...

I am happy in my current situation...when we have sex, it's absolutely amazing. Unfortunately, we work completely opposite schedules, (me, 8AM to 5PM, him 11PM to 7:30AM) so sadly I'm not getting quite as much I'd like. That's one thing I miss about my sexual past...getting it often. :-)

As far as specifics go, there are little things I miss in a vague sort of way. Holden and I were very playful in the sack, which was a ton of fun. He also had great stamina and loved to get me off. Jay occasionally had zero refractory period...like, could get off and keep on going. Good stuff.

Sexually? Absolutely. Emotionally? No-fucking-way.

The last girl I dated was nearly 15 years ago. She did Kegel exercises religiously.

Yes and no... I think there are pros and cons to every pairing.

TotalMILF, who I will dearly miss having sex with, was a very, very satisfying lover.

My gf before her had some specific traits that are missed, but I'll live.

The one before that, we were young and experimental. Probably not the greatest of things by older standards, but for the time it was pretty impressive!

I miss some aspects of a couple of them, but obviously the total package wasn't enough to last. One I really miss was very sweet, giving, and a luscious body that she was free in the sharing of.... I sometimes selfishly hope she regrets the loss of me, but really can't imagine that anyone does.

I do miss bjs and sex more frequent than once or twice a month.

Yeah; taking her from behind. She used to go crazy for that.

The ex I missed the most happens to be the ex who will be sharing my bed again tomorrow night.

There are things that could be (drastically) improved with everyone, but I've always been most comfortable with him. Feeling safe, respected, admired, adored. That's the sensation I missed most.

I have one ex that did amazing things with his tongue. That is all he had going for him but I do think about that from time to time.

No. My wife is more sexually adventurous and responsive than any of my exes.

+1

gotta be road head. almost every date i had with my ex for over a year ended with it while i drove the half an hour to take her home. almost got busted one time when the cops were out with a roadblock looking for drunks. luckily we had a blanket to cover her up with so they couldnt see that she didnt have pants on. (while she was polishing my knob i would have my hand between her legs. ah how i miss bench seats in a car.)

the wife now, she very very rarely even gets her lips close to my d**k and she thinks there is something wrong with road head. never have understood why she thinks it not something a woman that loves her man would do.

I'm about to have an ex, or have a new ex, or whatever the hell is going on here. I think the feeling safe, respected, admired, adored is what I also miss the most. But then, I've missed that for a long, long time. And he left not long ago.

Ah, but I sooo miss his naked body. His smell, his curly hair that tickled my nose no matter where I was browsing. The way he rubbed my back or brushed my hair for a half hour at a time while I was busy below. How a "quickie" was an hour instead of 5 minutes. That incredible mouth of his. The way he was willing to try 69 while standing on his head just because I wanted to. How he liked to hold me and take an hour nap afterwards. Which was a good thing since we couldn't really move another inch. We were absolutely hot between the sheets.

But here at the end, that was the only thing left relatively unspoiled by PTSD after an almost 2 year military tour. *sigh* Time to suck it up and move on, I guess.

EDIT: I wonder if my old-ex will stop asking him (new-ex) for advice about girls now.

She had the perfect ass and you can fit a face right into those crack. Lovely shapely legs that is just the right size. Loves to bend over across the mirror at just the right angle for the perfect fit. Oh those were the days. Then her boyfriend came back.

Not really sexual; I miss the touchy feelyness that was constant from my ex-.
My girlfriend at the moment, as much as I love her for who she is, and I wouldn't change her for the world, mind - isn't a touchy feely person.. at least not until she is ill and then she wants to be held and huged until the cows come home (or at least until she is feeling better).

One ex was very knowledgeable on g-spots. He taught me all about them. It's the most intense feeling in the world. After lying there completely relaxed and motionless while he did his thing, I'd end up flying around the room like an out of control fire hose. And not even that description does the feeling justice.

I'm very in love atm. And I've never actually 'made love' before until he and I hooked up. It's always been about drugs and lust in the past. But with this guy, it's just beautiful. {I know...*gag*}

My ex liked to get fisted.

Wait...I don't miss that. Bleh.

Never could really get into that.

I'm in the not getting any category, so I miss sex period.

I don't really miss an ex, usually I only miss them when I'm real horny/lonely. When one of those two emotions has been satisfied, I don't miss them at all.

I agree with Crompsin, I miss the domestic side of being in a relationship. When I lived with my ex-gf in college was a happy time... When she wasn't cutting herself because we got into a fight or losing job after job that I got her.

Can't miss what you haven't had.

never had an Ex

Definitely BJs. I never had a GF that was able to deep throat me, but she was the one. It's not like she knew how to do it right away, it was a learning process for her and I was glad she learned how to do it on me. And what she enjoyed the most while doing it to me was looking up and seeing how much I enjoyed it. May I add, I am glad that this is the only thing I do miss (physically) from her, not anything emotionally..

A girl I dated in high school was all about using tongue when she kissed me.
Not like shoving it in my mouth haha, i don't know how to describe it except for masterful use of tongue!