anything sexual you miss about your ex(es)?
 

I miss one persons awesome oral skills and the way their hair smelled. And their soft lips.

I miss another person\'s ability to move my body wherever it needed to go for some interesting acrobatic sex and that person\'s sexy body odor. Animal lusty.

You?

Being single at the moment, I miss having sex.

Also, one ex-girlfriend was able to do impressive things with her tongue. That's something that I regret never being able to experience again.

yeah the whole "just having sex" thing is gone right now.

I'm sure when I get to being intimate with some other girl I'll mentally take note of what my ex did better, She was pretty damn hard to top I think. We'll see.

I miss how one was just the perfect size...not too big, not too small.

I miss blow jobs.

I miss dating asians. It's not strictly sexual, but it's about as close as I can get.

I miss the "I want you now" look...that's sorta sexual...

wow, having been with three women over the course of the last 17 years. I wish I could combine all three.

My first wife, loved oral. She would blow me in the car and where ever, but she hated anal and toys. She also squirted SO much, we always kept towels next to the bed.

My current wife, could not suck a dick to save her life. She has swallowed ONCE and puked immediately. BUT, loves anal. She is MASSIVELY multiorgasmic. She also goes through periods where she will experiment. At times, she likes to be spanked, choked, DP with toys and rough sex. But, it all stays in the bedroom.

Now 4 years ago, I had an affair with a woman in Columbus, OH (RJ).

She was different. She was 38, never married, no kids, and world cultured. I could have done her the first night we met, that of course is always a BAD sign.

She hated shaving the va-jay-jay, liked to suck, but no swallow. I was able to introduce her to anal :thumbsup: and she would fuck anywhere. I effectively did her in every room of her townhouse. The hood of her car in the garage, the golf course by her house, the french quarter and every where in between. She was always good to go for seconds and thirds and was not afraid of exhibitionism. Of course, this was all to counter that she was a failure in life, could not balance a checkbook and always teetering on the edge of bankruptcy and a total meltdown!

Sometime, remind me to tell you about the aerobics instructor from 18 years ago!!!

bj's

Heck, I just miss my wife enjoying sex. Not that we don't have it, I just want her to be into it as much as I am....

Now to the topic at hand, I dated a girl in HS that could suck-start a Harley. And deep-throat. And swallow. Anywhere/anytime I wanted. I almost didn't have to masturbate at all during my senior year.....

Nope. Not a damn thing.

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While I wouldn't want her back, the first Mrs. Highthief did have amazing breasts. 34 DD.

The second and current Mrs. Highthief is a slimmer and more athletic girl and a much better all-around wife and mate, but that Mark 1 version did have great tits.

My ex never got tired and wanted sex every night. To me it got to the point then when it felt routine. But now being married and having sex about 4 days a week I miss having it everyday.

Just about sums it up right there. They all pale in comparison to the girl I'm sort of seeing.

I know what I don't miss...


Her fucking some other guy then insisting I was cheating on her.

I don't miss anything at all from my former relationships, sexual or otherwise. I'm having the most sexually gratifying relationship of my life thus far right now. Well, not right now...but often...maybe next weekend. :p

Yeah, sorry about that ... she told me she was single.

Call her "J"

J was this tall red head I met about 1.5 years ago. Long straight hair, nice body, very sexy woman. I loved her dearly and think about her often. I think she truly cared about me, but she had this really bad habit of escalating a minor frustration into a MAJOR row every time.

I miss her Blow jobs the most - she was fantastic at it, I miss her asking me to pull out and cum in her mouth.


Then there was "S"

S had very very few inhibitions. She was into BDSM, 3'somes, 4'somes etc. She was a very sexually driven woman, very kinky. I truly miss that.


There was "K"

K and I lived together for a long time. 5'-5" of demon red headed scottish woman. I miss her oral talents, her love of facials.


Then there was "V"

V was the love of my life. I miss her love of anal, her fondness to anything unusual. Her absolutely stunning look. I miss knowing that 100 percent, I was in love with her.

Good for you. I have herpes.

I don't sexually miss any previous girlfriends, but I'd love to go back and thank one of them. She showed me that nice, smart girls could also be quite sensual and enjoy their own sexuality.

This knowledge helped me to find my wife, who for the last 20 years started out perfect, and then got better.

The only thing I miss is that my last boyfriend loved porn just as much as I do. I can get my guy to watch it with me now, but otherwise, he doesn't like it.

this about sums it up for me lol

Yes.

If you made a poll out of this thread, it would seem that bj's would win. At least that would be my vote.

Only thing I miss about my ex is the anal sex and her willingness to do some kinky positions. Don't really miss her though, or her A cups. Currently with a great girl who has DD's. :thumbsup:

Yes. I miss the passionate connection I've only shared with one.

hmmm let me think. Fridgid woman making me feel bad about wanting sex? No, don't miss that... Young, religious feeling bad for having sex? Nope, I'm good here. Had some good trysts during my time and some great sex, oral and otherwise but nothing beats my girl now :)

Noooo way. I miss nothing. My current boyfriend is perfect for me. <3

And why is that, do you think? Interesting pattern. Does that mean more guys got BJ's when they were younger, with more immature women, than they do with their current partners?

Notice that none of the women have said, "I miss giving BJ's to my ex." ;) (I never gave BJ's to anyone but my husband, and I enjoy doing that more and more the longer that we're together, so I guess I don't really get why some men get less of them over time.)

Anyway, given that I only did semi-sexual things with one guy before my husband, and never enjoyed any of it... yeah, I don't miss a damn thing. :)

What ex'es???? My current girl has made me forget all of them in every way...especially in bed though. I can't complain about a thing, and that's saying something since I'm a complainer :)

Sounds really weird but she had perfect skin and the small of her back was one of the most sexy things I have ever seen. I miss running my hand up her back and running my lips down her front.

I miss it being exciting. Sex is nice, but it's become kind of routine. And we've become super domesticated so it's like "I'm going to go pee and then we'll do it, ok? See you downstairs" It feels great and she is still just as sexy. It's just not the same.

I can't honestly say I miss anything about any of my past relationships. They all ended .. most of them badly .. and looking back on them now, I'm glad they did. I've been married to my third wife now for nearly five years and she completes me in every aspect I could possibly imagine. I get oral WHENEVER I want it, as well as everything else you could hope for, and it's never been routine.

So no, I don't really miss anything about my past relationships .. well .. except for being able to fuck some 8 or 10 times straight, but that was like 20 years ago. I try that shit now and I might have a stroke.

Titty play;

It seems like most of the women I've been with were just so-so about having their boobs played with, sucked on etc.

My ex-wife really loved having me play with her titties and she would play with them herself too. The time I remember best was when she was on top of me fucking my lights out and she started whipping my face with her tits. She didn't stop until she had a huge orgasm.

Needless to say I'm a boob man.

Absolutely not. Thinking about my past bedroom experiences...makes me queasy.....and embarrassed. :shakehead:

Screamincheetah gives me everything I want/need. Of course, he gets that in return. I've got the best there is. :love:

Yes. And No.

Sexually? No. Companionship? Yes.

I miss not one thing. They rarely cross my mind at all in that way. This one has me too spoiled. I did miss almost everything about him, though, when he was deployed. And I'm trying to savor each moment now.

The funny thing is, I am still friends with one of them (we have a daughter). And he has this habit telling my husband all about his girl troubles, and asking for his advice. I get a chuckle out of it every time he tells me about it.

I used to miss shit. Until I realized that not only does it make the sex better, but the women I date are usually appreciative when I tell'em how I like it.

lmao, niiice

No, I can't say that I miss anything in particular. Besides, I usually discover new things with every woman that crosses my path. And as long as she's willing to try new things, there's no problem. Variety is the spice of life!

Being currently single, yeah, I miss everything. But, the thing I miss most is her playfulness around the house, and out, too. It was a lot of fun to be with her...period.

I regret certain things, but that's not for here. She was a good woman...and her...I'd take back. NOT just for the sex and stuff, but everything.

Well, I had a 4 year relationship with my ex... there's lots I miss sexually from her.

She was 6 years older, and knew exactly what she was doing in bed. 5'5 and a beautiful Korean. She, without any doubt in the world, was night and day better than any other women at BJ's. Honestly, if she weren't a lawyer she could make a living teaching girls how to do it. Ontop of that, she loved having me cum inside her, mouth or pussy. Her sexual drive was as high, if not higher, than mine.

I'm living now in Chicago, and just recently had my first "experience" here. Unfortunately it simply wasn't that great. Thinking about it, we are newly out of long-term relationships... and probably are more used to what worked with our previous partner than being good with each other.

Oh well, only one way to get better ;)

her nice, big, firm, tanned tits!!!

The instantaneous, multiple vaginal orgasms. I've never had them with anyone else before. Something about him really turned me on sexually, and it didn't seem to fade with time, just get better. I also miss the smell of his skin and hair -- he smelled so damned sweet. I'd go back in a heartbeat, if such a thing were possible.

Small asian girl, with long long hair. She used to ride me, and her hair would tickle my balls.

Coming home, she would push me against the door, pull my pants down, and suck me off. The only thing is, she wouldn't swallow, or get it anywhere near her mouth when I was close to coming. Too bad.

Yea, I don't know why my ex asks my husband for girl advice (what he's doing wrong), instead of asking me. I mean, I could tell him everything that's wrong with him, if he really wanted to know. I could use an Excel spreadsheet, even. With graphics.

OK I just remembered one thing I miss about my ex...hehehe...he is always wrong :D

I could live with that!

:thumbsup:

I do miss one guy's penchant for just throwing me around into whatever position he wanted during sex. That was so sexy. Plus, the amount of sex we had was awesome. I feel like I don't get enough now.

Funny, at one time I missed how my ex gave oral, but my newer guy--who was a total beginner when I first met him--ended up surpassing him, and then some.

Amazing what a little practice and research can do =P

How's that working out for you? LMAO

Well, not that I'm not wildly happy with the future Mrs. Levite, which I am...but sure, sometimes I miss some things about some of my exes. Mostly it's around oral-- not that my girl doesn't give me any now, but she has a condition that means she can't give me extended bj's to finish.

My previous ex could do incredible things with her mouth. I kinda miss that amazing way she had of interspersing the licks with sucking so hard I thought she was gonna suck my balls right up through the shaft....

And I had a girl, a couple before the last one, that I often think of...I never ended up with anyone else as into B&D games, roleplaying, and spanking as her...I used to really like that. Mmmmm....

probably coming home one day, being handed some cuffs and a riding crop by someone dressed as a playboy bunny and being told 'tie me up'.


Current girl is not a fan of bondage, which is a shame, because i built up quite an expensive collection of paraphenalia. However she can actually give a good blowjob, not just one extended lick then a look of 'yeh, thats it for the next month buster'.

*sighs*

My most recent ex was fabulous in bed. He had the perfect sized cock and knew how to use it. He also had a refractory period measured in minutes. Yes, I said minutes. Literally, he'd finish, we'd lay there, still joined, and then he'd start moving again for round two. It also meant that I could do my beloved oral to completion and still have some action later.

He had the tireless, turbo tongue, and he loved oral the way a fat cat loves sunshine. He wasn't at all put off by my period, which was fabulous because I can be horny as hell during that time.

Add in the right amount of Dom, knowing when to stroke my hair vs. when to pull it, when to make love to me and when to bend me over.

*sighs*

the combination of touch, smell and taste, of time standing still, primal sex, very primal

Ohhh sweet jeebus, I think about it everyday, If only I hadn't broken up with C cause I'm a freakin' idiot!! She introduced me to Oral, was a sex machine!! She did Anal within the first few times of my first having sex with her. She was also my first!!

I don't miss a damn thing. It was terrible to begin with. Nothing to miss!!

I miss a few things about a few exs. My college ex was so pretty with the tightest body. She was always horny. She looked so sweet and innocent, but she was always ready for something wicked.

My right out of school ex was an ex stripper that was bi and would bring home other girls. She was so much fun.

Then I dated a dominatrix that was also an exhibitionist. She would amaze me with the sexy things she would dream up. She would bring home slave girls, take me to orgies, she was very fun.

Then I dated the hottest girl. She had the most amazing body. I would love to just have her walk around naked. Unfortunatly she was bat shit crazy. That exploded really fast.

Maybe I'm getting old... I don't miss the sex as much as I miss the odd domestic tranquility of my last relationships. Sharing chores and building IKEA furniture had markedly more long-term personal satisfaction than hair pulling, back scratching, or screaming while plastering my pearly essence on heaving breasts. Although that's probably just a product of my rose-colored imagination. I've been suffering from Super Good Mood (TM) for the last couple weeks.

I apologize.

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Vague inventory of what I can remember:

Girlfriend I had before / during the first of the army years... she had a super fit body, smart, and ambitious... but about as physically passionate as a bran muffin. It showed in the sack. Great human, lousy lay. Would have been an excellent wife as long as she was okay with me having to masturbate twice every evening after seeing her crawl into bed naked. Great with a rifle, good in the kitchen.

My exwife was an emotional bear trap but good in the sack. She was average in the body department but her sex attitude was primo. She was incredibly body conscious at times and violently anti-porn (until she started cheating on me, anyway)... yet the things we did together were definitely not wholesome family fun. I actually recall a few points where I was like, "Uh, let's do something else. That's a little too freaky for me."

Last girlfriend was utterly amazing. Great body, very playful. We had a rough spot at the end because of external factors but when it (sex) was good, it was deadly. Killed weekends with sex marathons early on. I often think of that relationship and related aspects as my new benchmark for any future partners. I was really happy and it fulfilled my needs well on many levels.

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It's funny. I have a hard time remembering the sex. I remember the person's glow--smiles and laughs and gestures--but the sex gets lost in the neural Post-It Note shuffle. Sex is important at the time but when you go your separate ways? Just another faded statistic.

Awww, did someone miss me enough to resurrect a year old thread on my behalf?

Helluva lot of necromancy going on here. But it's good for business.

I guess I'll throw in my $.02 on this revived thread...

I am happy in my current situation...when we have sex, it's absolutely amazing. Unfortunately, we work completely opposite schedules, (me, 8AM to 5PM, him 11PM to 7:30AM) so sadly I'm not getting quite as much I'd like. That's one thing I miss about my sexual past...getting it often. :-)

As far as specifics go, there are little things I miss in a vague sort of way. Holden and I were very playful in the sack, which was a ton of fun. He also had great stamina and loved to get me off. Jay occasionally had zero refractory period...like, could get off and keep on going. Good stuff.

Sexually? Absolutely. Emotionally? No-fucking-way.

The last girl I dated was nearly 15 years ago. She did Kegel exercises religiously.

Yes and no... I think there are pros and cons to every pairing.

TotalMILF, who I will dearly miss having sex with, was a very, very satisfying lover.

My gf before her had some specific traits that are missed, but I'll live.

The one before that, we were young and experimental. Probably not the greatest of things by older standards, but for the time it was pretty impressive!

I miss some aspects of a couple of them, but obviously the total package wasn't enough to last. One I really miss was very sweet, giving, and a luscious body that she was free in the sharing of.... I sometimes selfishly hope she regrets the loss of me, but really can't imagine that anyone does.

I do miss bjs and sex more frequent than once or twice a month.

Yeah; taking her from behind. She used to go crazy for that.

The ex I missed the most happens to be the ex who will be sharing my bed again tomorrow night.

There are things that could be (drastically) improved with everyone, but I've always been most comfortable with him. Feeling safe, respected, admired, adored. That's the sensation I missed most.

I have one ex that did amazing things with his tongue. That is all he had going for him but I do think about that from time to time.

No. My wife is more sexually adventurous and responsive than any of my exes.

+1

gotta be road head. almost every date i had with my ex for over a year ended with it while i drove the half an hour to take her home. almost got busted one time when the cops were out with a roadblock looking for drunks. luckily we had a blanket to cover her up with so they couldnt see that she didnt have pants on. (while she was polishing my knob i would have my hand between her legs. ah how i miss bench seats in a car.)

the wife now, she very very rarely even gets her lips close to my d**k and she thinks there is something wrong with road head. never have understood why she thinks it not something a woman that loves her man would do.

I'm about to have an ex, or have a new ex, or whatever the hell is going on here. I think the feeling safe, respected, admired, adored is what I also miss the most. But then, I've missed that for a long, long time. And he left not long ago.

Ah, but I sooo miss his naked body. His smell, his curly hair that tickled my nose no matter where I was browsing. The way he rubbed my back or brushed my hair for a half hour at a time while I was busy below. How a "quickie" was an hour instead of 5 minutes. That incredible mouth of his. The way he was willing to try 69 while standing on his head just because I wanted to. How he liked to hold me and take an hour nap afterwards. Which was a good thing since we couldn't really move another inch. We were absolutely hot between the sheets.

But here at the end, that was the only thing left relatively unspoiled by PTSD after an almost 2 year military tour. *sigh* Time to suck it up and move on, I guess.

EDIT: I wonder if my old-ex will stop asking him (new-ex) for advice about girls now.

She had the perfect ass and you can fit a face right into those crack. Lovely shapely legs that is just the right size. Loves to bend over across the mirror at just the right angle for the perfect fit. Oh those were the days. Then her boyfriend came back.

Not really sexual; I miss the touchy feelyness that was constant from my ex-.
My girlfriend at the moment, as much as I love her for who she is, and I wouldn't change her for the world, mind - isn't a touchy feely person.. at least not until she is ill and then she wants to be held and huged until the cows come home (or at least until she is feeling better).

One ex was very knowledgeable on g-spots. He taught me all about them. It's the most intense feeling in the world. After lying there completely relaxed and motionless while he did his thing, I'd end up flying around the room like an out of control fire hose. And not even that description does the feeling justice.

I'm very in love atm. And I've never actually 'made love' before until he and I hooked up. It's always been about drugs and lust in the past. But with this guy, it's just beautiful. {I know...*gag*}

My ex liked to get fisted.

Wait...I don't miss that. Bleh.

Never could really get into that.

I'm in the not getting any category, so I miss sex period.

I don't really miss an ex, usually I only miss them when I'm real horny/lonely. When one of those two emotions has been satisfied, I don't miss them at all.

I agree with Crompsin, I miss the domestic side of being in a relationship. When I lived with my ex-gf in college was a happy time... When she wasn't cutting herself because we got into a fight or losing job after job that I got her.

Can't miss what you haven't had.

never had an Ex

Definitely BJs. I never had a GF that was able to deep throat me, but she was the one. It's not like she knew how to do it right away, it was a learning process for her and I was glad she learned how to do it on me. And what she enjoyed the most while doing it to me was looking up and seeing how much I enjoyed it. May I add, I am glad that this is the only thing I do miss (physically) from her, not anything emotionally..

A girl I dated in high school was all about using tongue when she kissed me.
Not like shoving it in my mouth haha, i don't know how to describe it except for masterful use of tongue!

I miss using the back door once in a while

But I would not go back with those girls