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Miss Mango · 04-01-2008, 11:54 PM

The first time you consented to sex, did you talk about and plan it out or did it just happen?

For me, he asked first. and I said okay. We had both been talking about it prior to that. He kept bringing it up. We actually tried once before but were interupted before anything happened. So yeah, it wasn\'t exactly planned, but there was some notice.

levite · 04-02-2008, 01:54 AM

I actually consented to sex well before anyone else consented to have it with me....

abaya · 04-02-2008, 02:02 AM

Miss Mango, you are an inexhaustible source of thread-starting questions!

The first time I consented to sex (not when I lost my virginity), it basically just happened. Ktspktsp and I had just "gotten together" a few days prior, while my mom was visiting and staying with me. We were kind of waiting for her to go home before trying anything, but one day I just went over to his house and we got naked and... yeah.

I think we both knew that it had the potential to happen (it was at like 11am--I guess we were horny!), as we had both showered, shaved, and cleaned up real nice right before that, but it wasn't "planned" by any means.

I ended up skipping a lecture that I was a TA for, which was kind of bad, but I never did that again since. I figured it was for a good cause.

That was almost exactly 4 years ago, on his birthday, April 13th!

whatever1 · 04-02-2008, 03:47 AM

aaaahhhhhhhhhhhhh

MY first time, I was with an older woman who was the most patient and easy going. THEN, I was fortunate enough to be the first for a girl. We tried once, and it was too painful. A few days later, with patience, it worked, and that was the flood gate. We then were like rabbits til she broke my heart

BUT, we are still friends today and she threatens if she ever gets married I have to be her maid of honor.

Editor94 · 04-02-2008, 04:43 AM

first time was planned, didn't last long though

Bees · 04-02-2008, 04:58 AM

I guess you could say it just happened. We definitely didn't plan it out in advance in words.
It was signaled in advance through the eyes so we both new it was bound to happen.

FlatLand Flyer · 04-02-2008, 07:29 AM

No plan. She was giving me head and it just went from there.

Jenna · 04-02-2008, 07:48 AM

My boyfriend at the time and I had been fighting that night. While at a party, my friends insisted that we go downstairs to talk and stop fighting. And, one thing led to another, and we ended up having sex. It was really bad sex.

My first experience was make-up sex. Ha.

telekinetic · 04-02-2008, 10:00 AM

I ended up in a bed drunk and making with someone at a party, we both decided we shouldn't continue, and in the morning I gave her my number, and told her to call if she ever wanted to pick up where we left off.

She called a few days later, and we sealed the deal the next week.

Daniel_ · 04-02-2008, 12:34 PM

We were virgins. We'd been dating for a couple of weeks, and had done heavy petting.

She had a day off work, my folks were out.

It was certainly planned.

It was certainly crap.

thespian86 · 04-02-2008, 12:59 PM

Parents went to a Christmas party, we were both each other's firsts. We'd been dating for around a month. We lit candles, put on music, and slowly but surely had sex. This sounds stupid but I was quite big for her, she bled a lot and I was as understanding as possible. We finished before either of us came because it was painful for her. We tried again, and again, and then it wasn't so painful. Thats about it.

Willravel · 04-02-2008, 01:02 PM

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Originally Posted by levite

I actually consented to sex well before anyone else consented to have it with me....

Hahaha.... awesome.

For me it was rather spur of the moment, but she was on the pill and I had a condom.

LoganSnake · 04-02-2008, 02:27 PM

It just sorta happened. I was on top. Next thing I know, I was inside. Who was I to argue?

Martian · 04-02-2008, 03:16 PM

I think Levite's experience is rather common among young men.

I did not plan to have sex the first time, and so far as I can recall have never planned it since.

noodle · 04-02-2008, 04:25 PM

I was asleep, he was spooning me and it went from there.
Not planned per se on my part, but I still think he planned it.

04-01-2008, 11:54 PM	#1 (permalink)
Miss Mango Psycho	The first time you consented to sex...... The first time you consented to sex, did you talk about and plan it out or did it just happen? For me, he asked first. and I said okay. We had both been talking about it prior to that. He kept bringing it up. We actually tried once before but were interupted before anything happened. So yeah, it wasn\'t exactly planned, but there was some notice.

04-02-2008, 01:54 AM	#2 (permalink)
levite Minion of Joss Location: The Windy City	I actually consented to sex well before anyone else consented to have it with me.... __________________ Dull sublunary lovers love, Whose soul is sense, cannot admit Absence, because it doth remove That thing which elemented it. (From "A Valediction: Forbidding Mourning" by John Donne)

04-02-2008, 02:02 AM	#3 (permalink)
abaya Location: Iceland	Miss Mango, you are an inexhaustible source of thread-starting questions! The first time I consented to sex (not when I lost my virginity), it basically just happened. Ktspktsp and I had just "gotten together" a few days prior, while my mom was visiting and staying with me. We were kind of waiting for her to go home before trying anything, but one day I just went over to his house and we got naked and... yeah. I think we both knew that it had the potential to happen (it was at like 11am--I guess we were horny!), as we had both showered, shaved, and cleaned up real nice right before that, but it wasn't "planned" by any means. I ended up skipping a lecture that I was a TA for, which was kind of bad, but I never did that again since. I figured it was for a good cause. That was almost exactly 4 years ago, on his birthday, April 13th! __________________ And think not you can direct the course of Love; for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. --Khalil Gibran

04-02-2008, 04:43 AM	#5 (permalink)
Editor94 Upright Location: los angeles	first time was planned, didn't last long though __________________ live simply so others can simply live

04-02-2008, 04:58 AM	#6 (permalink)
Bees Crazy Location: New Hampshire, US	I guess you could say it just happened. We definitely didn't plan it out in advance in words. It was signaled in advance through the eyes so we both new it was bound to happen. __________________ *The sands of time past keep shifting according to how we remember or forget or refashion it in hindsight, which is no sight at all.* Kajal Basu

04-02-2008, 03:47 AM	#4 (permalink)
whatever1 Tilted Location: Central PA	aaaahhhhhhhhhhhhh MY first time, I was with an older woman who was the most patient and easy going. THEN, I was fortunate enough to be the first for a girl. We tried once, and it was too painful. A few days later, with patience, it worked, and that was the flood gate. We then were like rabbits til she broke my heart BUT, we are still friends today and she threatens if she ever gets married I have to be her maid of honor.

04-02-2008, 07:29 AM	#7 (permalink)
FlatLand Flyer Insane Location: Eastern, WA	No plan. She was giving me head and it just went from there.

04-02-2008, 07:48 AM	#8 (permalink)
Jenna Psycho Location: Wisconsin	My boyfriend at the time and I had been fighting that night. While at a party, my friends insisted that we go downstairs to talk and stop fighting. And, one thing led to another, and we ended up having sex. It was really bad sex. My first experience was make-up sex. Ha.

04-02-2008, 10:00 AM	#9 (permalink)
telekinetic zomgomgomgomgomgomg Location: Fauxenix, Azerona	I ended up in a bed drunk and making with someone at a party, we both decided we shouldn't continue, and in the morning I gave her my number, and told her to call if she ever wanted to pick up where we left off. She called a few days later, and we sealed the deal the next week. __________________ twisted no more

04-02-2008, 12:34 PM	#10 (permalink)
Daniel_ Evil Priest: The Devil Made Me Do It! Location: Southern England	We were virgins. We'd been dating for a couple of weeks, and had done heavy petting. She had a day off work, my folks were out. It was certainly planned. It was certainly crap. __________________ ╔═════════════════════════════════════════╗ Overhead, the Albatross hangs motionless upon the air, And deep beneath the rolling waves, In labyrinths of Coral Caves, The Echo of a distant time Comes willowing across the sand; And everthing is Green and Submarine ╚═════════════════════════════════════════╝

04-02-2008, 12:59 PM	#11 (permalink)
thespian86 change is hard. Location: the green room.	Parents went to a Christmas party, we were both each other's firsts. We'd been dating for around a month. We lit candles, put on music, and slowly but surely had sex. This sounds stupid but I was quite big for her, she bled a lot and I was as understanding as possible. We finished before either of us came because it was painful for her. We tried again, and again, and then it wasn't so painful. Thats about it. __________________ EX: Whats new? ME: I officially love coffee more then you now. EX: uh... ME: So, not much.

04-02-2008, 02:27 PM	#13 (permalink)
LoganSnake We work alone Location: Cake Town	It just sorta happened. I was on top. Next thing I know, I was inside. Who was I to argue? __________________ Maturity is knowing you were an idiot in the past. Wisdom is knowing that you'll be an idiot in the future. Common sense is knowing that you should try not to be an idiot now. - J. Jacques

04-02-2008, 03:16 PM	#14 (permalink)
Martian Young Crumudgeon Location: Canada	I think Levite's experience is rather common among young men. I did not plan to have sex the first time, and so far as I can recall have never planned it since. __________________ I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said - Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame