aaaahhhhhhhhhhhhh
MY first time, I was with an older woman who was the most patient and easy going. THEN, I was fortunate enough to be the first for a girl. We tried once, and it was too painful. A few days later, with patience, it worked, and that was the flood gate. We then were like rabbits til she broke my heart
BUT, we are still friends today and she threatens if she ever gets married I have to be her maid of honor.