04-02-2008, 09:08 PM | #1 (permalink) |
Just here for the beer.
Location: Ft. Lauderdale, Floriduh
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Femdom
Hi all. My Fiance and I have recently entered into a Female Domination lifestyle. She and I have been together for two years and she was always so dominant and it drove me nuts. I figured I might as well ask her to Dominate me 24/7. She liked the idea but we are both clueless. I know what I want to an extent. She wants this lifestyle to work but she is a bit scared. I don't want a lot of pain or public humiliation. I just want to feel that She owns me. I don't want to be a woman or anything. I'm happy being a man. But I honestly feel that I want my SO to dominate me and control me. When She calls me "slave" I just melt. Help me, please.
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04-03-2008, 05:53 AM | #3 (permalink) |
Junkie
Location: Pats country
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I would say find the place that you and your fiance's kinks meet. If you enjoy being told to lick her ass and she enjoys it when you do, or if she wants you to clean the house and pleasing her is your thing, or if you like to have your nuts kicked and it turns her on, then go for any and all of it. There would otherwise seem to be too many directions to go to give specific answers, you have to work out the specifics on your own. If there is one thing the internet is good for, it is providing information on non-mainstream lifestyle choices, so I would start there.
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04-03-2008, 04:21 PM | #5 (permalink) |
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The best advice that I could offer would be for the two of you to enter a contract. Documenting specifics on what you will and will not be willing to experience...Or even marking items as to be discussed at a later time. Even if you do not believe that you have limits it should be considered. If you look around the internet you should be able to find some similar checklist.
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04-04-2008, 10:30 AM | #6 (permalink) |
follower of the child's crusade?
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Stuff like this... I just dont know. But if it makes you both feel better, I guess its fair enough. You probably just need to set out the things you arent prepared to be said to you or have happen, so there are some ground rules and reduced risk of it getting too far and someone freaking out.
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04-04-2008, 04:40 PM | #7 (permalink) |
Junkie
Location: Toronto
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Go Here first:
http://elisesutton.homestead.com/Main.html It's what you want. Or here: http://www.ondominance.blogspot.com/ Warning - Nudity. |
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