Stuff like this... I just dont know. But if it makes you both feel better, I guess its fair enough. You probably just need to set out the things you arent prepared to be said to you or have happen, so there are some ground rules and reduced risk of it getting too far and someone freaking out.
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"Do not tell lies, and do not do what you hate,
for all things are plain in the sight of Heaven. For nothing
hidden will not become manifest, and nothing covered will remain
without being uncovered."
The Gospel of Thomas
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