viper12047

I know that this does happen and is not a urban legand Because my buddy had several. I drive drop him off then go chill and come back and pick him up

skinnymofo

that sounds kind of like a bum deal there viper.
you drop him off wait around and then pick him up when hes done?
try and get in on some of those

tman17m

yes, they do exist....
a friend that ive had for...well, 5 or so years, hooked up a few weekends ago. i had recently broken up with my g/f and i called her up and wanted to go hang out. hanging out turned into drinking and then you know the rest.

maestroxl

I was in high school and I had sex for the first time with an attractive and *very* busty clarinetist who was also a junior. We were together at the time, but after a while the relationship part just sort of fizzled. Having now been initiated into the club, as it were, I was naturally anxious to find any further opportunities to have sex, and it turned out (though I don't quite remember how we came to this arrangement) that she was agreeable to hooking up on a regular basis. She taught me quite a lot about fucking, needless to say, and I don't think I've quite found a pair of breasts that matched up (down?) to those since.

At our 10-year reunion a couple years back I did run into her. She was married, and we made some small talk. It was not uncomfortable, but oh did it bring back the memories.

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Sbudda

I had the best fuck buddy for the longest time. Then she fell in love (and 6 months later I fell in love) and we ended up getting married. I can't wait to have to answer a kids question about how mommy and daddy met....

Well you see, mommy lived in the dorm next to daddy's and she would come over twice a day for sex - which suited daddy fine because he was dating another girl already who wouldn't put out...

thinktank

I really dont think they exist without one of the two parties eventually going crazy. Thus is my experience at least. No matter how much the "no-strings" aspect is spoken about, in the two experiences i've had the girl has gotten attached more so than agreed upon and the whole thing has blown up in my face.

luvthefun

Fuck buddies definately do exist, my roommate has a girl whom he sleeps with frequently (almost nightly), but doesn't spend the night with. They will get together for a fuck and then he will come back to his room and she stays in hers. She often doesn't come around and they rarely acknowledge each other if they pass in the halls. She isn't a friend whom he sleeps with, they just enjoy each other sexually. They hook up with other people in bars, but both are currently single. However, they seek out other people to have a relationships with. I'm not saying that this situation would continue if they met someone else, but for the time being they seem happy with it.

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snowy

I have one!!! And it's nice because he knows all the right buttons to push but there's nothing else to worry about, no emotions involved, no weirdness. And we're good friends on top of it. We're quite able to keep it all separated which I think is rather nice. The worst part of it is that we don't have sex nearly often enough for my tastes. Once a week just doesn't cut the mustard.

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LIMilf

It can be done, but it has to be understood that there has to be NO feelings involved. Its just sex, thats it

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mtnman323

i would say now... fuck buddies are few and far in between. i had a fuck buddy for a while before i got serious with another girl. we would meet once or a couple times a week just for sex...there were no emotional attachments. i'd still say there are few women that go for that

nightshade000

I have one right now..I go out and do my thing with my friends..if I get home early enough, I'll give her a call and she comes over. Sometimes we go out togeather with a group of friends..*shrugs* we're friends..that have sex.. It feels good, it's nice to have someone to sleep with (I mean both senses of the word) without ANY of the relationship pressure.

Dostoevsky

Fuck buddies do exist, atleast for a little while. My personal experience has always been that after a while, weeks or months, girls start getting attached and possessivenss/jealousy rear their ugly heads, ruining what was a great relationship. I once maintained this type of relationship for almost a year with a 'friend.'

DeterminedPower

I had one for a very short time while in college... it was great.

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Dirty

Fuck buddies do exist. BUT something always screws up and ruins it. It no one fault, but eventually you start to, I guess, fall in love. I have never had a fuck buddy, but I know a girl that had one for a while. Until he started a rumor about her.

Krycheck

I currently have a "fuck buddie". We've known each other for about 5 yrs. Been FB's for about 4yrs. The few people that I've told about it say it's too good to be true. She calls me once in awhile. "hey I need some. Can you come over?" kind of thing. I sometimes see her twice a week or as little as once in 3-4 months. She's really busy with a home business and has no time for "outside activities". I go to her house, do the deed and I get the heck out. I sometimes don't even get a kiss

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longbough

I've had a couple of them in the past. The arrangements usually end when either of us lands a serious relationship/engagement. Usually that's learned when making a booty call - so you end up more frustrated than ever.
One ex-fuck buddy called me a couple of months after she got married. I had to turn her down- I didn't like the idea of treading on marriage. It wasn't easy because we had a long history before she got hitched-up.

A word of advice about maintaining a FB status. Sometimes it's not wise ask too much about their personal life (assuming you both are in different social circles). Such involvement treads dangerously close to BF/GF territory. Unless you are willing to cope with the responsibility of a committed relationship just respect their privacy.
e.g. If they've just had a major breakup or tragedy and called you for sex don't encumber the encounter by asking her to elaborate more on her situation. Just be there and be what she wants you to be. Believe me, you'd want the same courtesy if you had to call her for any reason.

outdoor

yeah i think they exist...but use caution. The last thing you want to hear..."we need to talk"

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tommylee02

Yes, I had a few in college. All friends that end up taking care of things after hours, then F-ing was only a phone call away. They all started out nice, then after a while the girl would always want more. That's when I would bow out. The friendship would suffer, but not too bad. 1 was all good and we are still friends (just friends as I'm married now) today. Man, I miss college! *tear

snowy

I think the biggest problem I face with mine is that I think he thinks I want more sometimes, which is not true. Any time I express any kind of affection for him--we're very good friends--I think he misconstrues it as being romantic interest, which it isn't. It's also very hard to let someone know you don't have romantic feelings for them. It just seems awkward.

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longbough

Yeah. That's why FBs seem to work out best if it's someone from a different social circle. One FB of mine worked at the register of a confectionary shop. We had a one-night thing, and then settled into a FB arrangement. Then, one evening, she confessed that she used to be much better at giving head. Well, I made the mistake of asking the story behind that statement. I learned that she once had an abusive BF who smacked her so hard he broke her jaw. She was hospitalized with her jaw wired shut and still has some loss of sensation in part of her mouth and face. That was more detail than I needed to hear and it introduced the weight of emotional responsibility to our meetings. That weight worked against the convenience of having a FB to begin with. We still fucked but it wasn't the same.

bleach

Fuck buddies existed for me before I got married...haha!

Really, I knew one in my early 20s - actually from 19 to 21. That was rare. I don't know if she really qualified as a fuck buddy because she was my girlfriend's best friend. Honestly, she propositioned me for casual sex and at the time, I was 19, I thought I'd regret it if I did do it and I'd regret it if I didn't do it. Now, looking back, I realize that there were many more hot women after that one and the greater regret was losing the woman I loved(eventually after I was caught).

After that I didn't know any fuck buddies until my later 20s. Then I found them quite often. Sometimes they were married, oftentimes they were about to get a divorce. Anyway, the casual sex thing did fulfill a need I had for quite awhile because I had just exited a marriage. At that time I viewed women as tools to fulfill my needs and thats all I needed. Finally I met my current and final wife and I'm happy and fulfilled. However, it wasn't sex that made us true...it was our personality and chemistry.

I know so many guys that marry the first woman they fuck. If only they could enjoy fuck-buddies, than they could wait for the right match to come along. Believe me, the fuck buddies are out there.