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Originally Posted by onesnowyowl
It's also very hard to let someone know you don't have romantic feelings for them. It just seems awkward.
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Yeah. That's why FBs seem to work out best if it's someone from a different social circle. One FB of mine worked at the register of a confectionary shop. We had a one-night thing, and then settled into a FB arrangement. Then, one evening, she confessed that she
used to be much better at giving head. Well, I made the mistake of asking the story behind that statement. I learned that she once had an abusive BF who smacked her so hard he broke her jaw. She was hospitalized with her jaw wired shut and still has some loss of sensation in part of her mouth and face. That was more detail than I needed to hear and it introduced the weight of emotional responsibility to our meetings. That weight worked against the convenience of having a FB to begin with. We still fucked but it wasn't the same.