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Old 04-01-2007, 10:08 AM   #1 (permalink)
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The last 6 months I have lost my sexuality. More so in general my interest in sex. The want. The need. I just don't have it. Its very odd.

When I say I have no interest its that basic.

I recently met this amazing girl that I have fallen head over heels for. I have been single since my seperation. She lives 1000+ kms away. She came to visit me after a few months of talk/chat. It was a spectacular time. I can't get enough of this girl.

Anways to the point of the post. While she was here we *tried* to have sex. Mentally I was there. She is this amazing beautiful truely sexual being. (and so young and knows soooo much...) But the ole johnson wasn't wanting any part. It was non responsive when it should have been giving a 21 gun salute. :P She was great. Very understanding. There was no pressure on me to perform. It didn't ruin the weekend for either of us. We are so taken by each other that we know (the problem) it will eventually get better...

So through all this I was like "Fuck ya this girl is so amazing... mind body and soul..." She was turning me on in every way... but as I said. No responce from down below. :P Frustrating none the less. I would get some blood flow to my penis... a semi if you will, but it wouldn't even stay like that for more than a few minutes...

I went to the doctor and she asked a few questions. Blood pressure is fine. General health is spot on. She asked questions about morning wood and the firmness... I was thinking that everything was still normal there... but a week after the appointment I am noticing I don't even wake up with a boner anymore. So needless to say I will be going back to her to fill her in with this information. I am thinking my hormone levels are messed up. Or something. A blood test will tell a lot. If she will do one. I almost want to goto a male doctor b/c he may understand more the effect something like this can have on a man. It is very frustrating. I just want a boner! haha. I don't even jerk off more than 1 every 2 or 3 weeks :P just b/c the interest isn't there. Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!

So. I will update once I get to the doctor and they give me some more information. If this is a little random here and there I apologize I am a touch hung over. So.

Thanks for the listen. And good luck to me.

Kris.
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Old 04-01-2007, 10:30 AM   #2 (permalink)
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(barring an april fools joke) sorry dude.

there are several drugs available, hopefully your doctor can find one for you with minimal side effects. Good luck and i hope you get back to boning soon.
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Old 04-01-2007, 10:47 AM   #3 (permalink)
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are you on any kind of medications for anything at all?
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Old 04-01-2007, 11:11 AM   #4 (permalink)
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No meds at all. No allergies. Supplements for my weight lifting include Whey protien and a Multi Vitamin. Thats it.

I told the doctor about my lifestyle... work 9 hours a day and hit the gym for an hour or two. Thinking the exhaustion may be part of the problem too. But I know when my body is tired. And thats not the case. I have been taking 3 days a week of lately too to help with that just in case.

I also forgot to mention that the doctor thought it may be a psychological problem. I would consider that IF I could get an erection. But I have tried and tried and tried... that isn't the case.

So I will see. Making another appointment tomorrow for later in the week I hope.

Dilbert, she said that something like Viagra is definately an option... but didn't want to go there as our first option. I was feeling that way too.

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Old 04-01-2007, 11:44 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Don’t rule out psychological, however, to my unprofessional ear, it sounds like you have the will. my old general practitioner tried to blame my reoccurring cough on my mind, after 6 months of counseling, I saw a gastroenterologist and got some antacids, cough cleared up in days...

When I had my prostate infection, the first alpha blocker they put me on did some weird things to me, I could get up and even orgasm, but I shot nothing, cleanup was nice, but it was still very strange.

I’d try cutting back with the gym and at work. 11 hours of hard work will make you tired, your body may just be saying no more. Can you cut out the gym and cut back at work for a couple of weeks?

oh and a quick note on male or female doctors, there is nothing wrong with having a female doctor, I have a female dentist and want to find a female urologist, little fingers.

If I ever see the extra large gloves in a proctologist office, I’m leaving.
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Old 04-01-2007, 10:36 PM   #6 (permalink)
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I've had this a few times.

Once was because of depression, I just completely lost my labido, I wasn't even having vaguely sexual thoughts.

But last year I think I spent three or so months with no libido, none, nudda. I latter found out this was because of a hyperactive thyroid gland, which was causing a whole host of other problems as well.

Don't ignore your mind state in all of this, and most importantly, don't let this consume you, it will just make it worse.

From the sounds of things what you're suffering seems very much just a hormonal issue. Keep seeing your doc and work out what you can do increase your libido.

You might even find that soon your libido will return with savage avengence, that's what happened to me anyways.
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Old 04-03-2007, 06:16 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I'm sorry to ask but I think this is relevant information. Do you masturbate? It sounds like perhaps you haven't done it in a while and not that into it.
I recently heard about this guy who suddenly stopped producing testosterone. He lost sexual desire, as you might have guessed. He also lost lust for things, ambition, the drive. He didn't care about tasty food anymore. He didn't care about fancy restaurants. He was equally happy sitting at home munching on cereal as he was at a five star restaurant. He also noticed this new appreciation of beauty in everyday things. This deep spiritual connection you feel with this girl may be due to changes in your hormone levels. Perhaps you will be referred to an endocrinologist.
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Old 04-04-2007, 02:46 PM   #8 (permalink)
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If you have used steroids as part of your body development programme you could have fucked up your body chemistry - it is not uncommon for body-builder who use anabolic steroids to mess up their body's testosterone levels and effectively "chemically castrate" themselves.

If you have used steroids, please be honest with your doctor - you don't have to tell us.
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Old 04-08-2007, 01:20 PM   #9 (permalink)
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The last 6 months I have lost my sexuality. More so in general my interest in sex. The want. The need. I just don't have it. Its very odd.

When I say I have no interest its that basic.

I recently met this amazing girl that I have fallen head over heels for. I have been single since my seperation. She lives 1000+ kms away. She came to visit me after a few months of talk/chat. It was a spectacular time. I can't get enough of this girl.

Anways to the point of the post. While she was here we *tried* to have sex. Mentally I was there. She is this amazing beautiful truely sexual being. (and so young and knows soooo much...) But the ole johnson wasn't wanting any part. It was non responsive when it should have been giving a 21 gun salute. :P She was great. Very understanding. There was no pressure on me to perform. It didn't ruin the weekend for either of us. We are so taken by each other that we know (the problem) it will eventually get better...

So through all this I was like "Fuck ya this girl is so amazing... mind body and soul..." She was turning me on in every way... but as I said. No responce from down below. :P Frustrating none the less. I would get some blood flow to my penis... a semi if you will, but it wouldn't even stay like that for more than a few minutes...

I went to the doctor and she asked a few questions. Blood pressure is fine. General health is spot on. She asked questions about morning wood and the firmness... I was thinking that everything was still normal there... but a week after the appointment I am noticing I don't even wake up with a boner anymore. So needless to say I will be going back to her to fill her in with this information. I am thinking my hormone levels are messed up. Or something. A blood test will tell a lot. If she will do one. I almost want to goto a male doctor b/c he may understand more the effect something like this can have on a man. It is very frustrating. I just want a boner! haha. I don't even jerk off more than 1 every 2 or 3 weeks :P just b/c the interest isn't there. Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!

So. I will update once I get to the doctor and they give me some more information. If this is a little random here and there I apologize I am a touch hung over. So.

Thanks for the listen. And good luck to me.

Kris.
For pete's sake find a male Doc! Urologist. Do the blood test, BP, blood sugar and examination of your prostate.
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Old 04-12-2007, 08:39 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Thanks for all the input everyone. I have made an appointment to see my doctor again this next week and will be getting some blood work done.

And daniel_ I speak the truth and nothing but the truth. I wouldn't be here asking questions if it was due to that... I would already know the answer. Haha. Thats one of the first questions the doctor asked too. :P Everyone does. I took it as a compliment the first few times I got it... but now I am just... annoyed I guess.

Its just really wierd losing this connection to such a huge part of the male psyche. My penis. I haven't ruled out pyschological yet either. I just want to get some tests done telling me that all is well with my health (physical at least). Then I will check out some counselling.

Time is on my side! And the miracles of science! If need be. The doc said sometimes a shot of viagra is all it takes to get the ole boy working again. Will see what happens next week.

Thanks again everyone.
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