09-10-2006, 09:11 AM | #6 (permalink) |
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Sadly I much doubt it, Slim.
Sorry.
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09-10-2006, 03:06 PM | #8 (permalink) |
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Well, it sounds like if she gets back together with the guy there it's settling. And people who settle are just putting off the conflict and pain for later when it's worse.
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09-11-2006, 06:57 AM | #11 (permalink) |
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Break up, move on. Sorry and best of luck!
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09-11-2006, 08:09 AM | #12 (permalink) |
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Sorry Slim...
I'm 44 years old, and I've never seen anything positive follow those words. It's as tired a breakup line as; "It's not you...it's me". Only slightly better than; "So-and-so (usually your best friend) and I have been talking a lot lately, and...". It sounds to me as if she wants her freedom. Take some advise from the old guy...give it to her. Trust me. You'll both end up happier for it. Good luck, man.
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09-11-2006, 02:24 PM | #14 (permalink) |
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umm, I'm the "move on" type, so I have nothing to offer but this:
Move on, and good luck
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09-11-2006, 04:04 PM | #16 (permalink) |
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I know as a female, the only reason I would say that (not that I would but hear me out) is if I was pretty sure I was done with the relationship but I didn't want to let go until I found the next guy.
It's a done deal when you get that line.
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09-11-2006, 04:44 PM | #18 (permalink) |
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Even if this was the 1 in ten thousand case where she really might just need "space" and "time" (e.g. parents divorcing, grandma is ill, adjusting her dose of lithium ... etc) then just move on anyway - because, when she's good and ready, she'll come to you .... however unlikely - but don't hold your breath.
When my heart gets stomped on there's one silly song that always cheers me up and even makes me laugh (and I'm not a sappy guy who stews in mood songs) - It's the classic "Everybody Plays the Fool" by The Main Ingredient. I don't know if it works for anyone else but this one works for me so give it a try. Just for you, buddy - the link will take you to a site where you can download - just pick "free" download http://rapidshare.de/files/32799179/...s_the_Fool.m4p Last edited by longbough; 09-11-2006 at 05:10 PM.. |
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09-12-2006, 05:27 AM | #20 (permalink) | |
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I promise you that there is something much better for you, down the road.
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