What makes you a horrible person?
 

Bear Cub is tired of all the positive energy floating around the forum.

The internet dating thread proved a good point: we all work so hard to hide our flaws to disguise the "real" us, and to alter how we are perceived. Well, most of us try to hide them to some extent. Bear Cub chooses to openly embrace that which makes him truly abhorrent.

What sort of behaviors or habits do you have which would generally be frowned upon?


Bear Cub routinely exhibits the following:

-Overwhelming sarcasm
-Hatred of children
-Violent/generally taboo sexual preferences
-Love of homewrecking
-Lust for revenge
-Emotional abuse of women who once loved him
-Emotional abuse of women who won't leave him alone
-Leading people on
-Excessive drinking
-Using women to gain access to their attractive friends
-Joking about pedophilia and necrophilia in entirely inappropriate situations
-Lying to get sex
-Taking out professional obstacles through office politics

Laughing at stupid people. Out loud, at times.
Laughing about death or telling stories about death at inappropriate times.
My inability to feel empathy or sympathy to certain types of people. Not just the "bad" ones either.
Compulsive lying with certain people when I don't care what he or she thinks.
I hide from people at work, even when they need me.
I'm soooooo selfish about my free time. Even when my family really, really needs me. Some people think I'm horrible because I haven't let my mother visit me in 4 years. I don't care. I like my space. I go home twice a year.
I frequently hit ignore on my cell phone.
Leading people on.
Complete ambivalence to the problems of other people at times.
I contributed to breaking something so my landlord would have to fix it. Heh. It was loud and annoying and I didn't really thiink it was going to break.

Good ones, Noodle! A few I left off my list in there! I moved 1700 miles south to escape my family, and I purposely turn down my radio and go out into the field so people can't find me at work.

When we receive promo's at my work (small gift certificates, marketing items, etc.) I keep them for myself and don't give a crap about the others wants or needs.

-Excessive drinking is a big one for me
-spending money when I shouldn't
-not paying hospital bills
-I used to lead people on who liked me because I wanted to feel liked
-I ignore phone calls when I don't want to deal with people

You know, I had some nice chuckles making a list here, but decided it's best I not post it lol.

I don't care about other people. Or their opinions. I think people are stupid.

I struggle with being passive aggressive.

It's not pretty.

ugh... list... hehe

bipolar... so used to be random "explosions" (now it's when things get too much)
sarcastic to almost everything
avoid certain topics by saying i don't know anymore how to do that
twisted sense of humor that nobody gets
can't stand a passive person but won't be aggressive on some things (kinda a oxymoron lol)
seeing red when i hear "i don't know" coming from the kid
also, seeing red when i hear "i was going to do that" after i've started when it took too long for them
holding grudges
like to plot revenge to ex's that have used me as a doormat per se (can't do it.. can't bring my self to that low level)
liking to throw things when pissed off ... whatever is near enough for me to reach
the school doesn't like me... i showed the bad side of my self if the problem wasn't fixed before i had to come in
(i'm starting to think they run and hide when i show up cause i never see them unless i ask for them)
tech support doesn't like me... script or no script.. i'm not a idiot don't treat me as one (no the damned thing won't come on.. that's why i want a motherboard)
people on the road.... in general... the tailgaters, stop dead for just about no reason or to turn off, the ones that aren't doing the speed limit but speed up when you're trying to pass

my final one.... being that last damned one to know what in the hell is going on... medical scenarios with family

some of mine probably don't seem too much of a bad thing to others, but i don't like it about myself.

This is a novel concept at best.

lightweights.

Maybe so; am not as partial to the thought of amorality as you seem to be.

Ooooh, good one, Charlatan. I'm so passive aggressive. It makes me frustrated with myself. And I hate it in other people when they lean harder towards the passive side, as much as I hate it in myself. And then I look down on that person rather inappropriately.

I actually stop listening on the phone sometimes. I'm the master of "mmmhmmm...."
And I do it to my friends and people I like.

I'm too hard on my youngest daughter because sometimes her personality reminds me so much of her father.

Sort of like noodle, I tune people out sometimes. Got so used to doing it with my youngest kids and their noise that now I seem to do it all the time.

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I take my unfair frustration with society out almost exclusively on unknown people on the internet.

The fact that I'm more worried about Dave's dr appt this afternoon about his neck than the fact its the anniversary of 9/11

Secretly plotting elaborate deaths in my head of people I really don't like

How exactly does that make you a horrible person? An 8 year old event vs your husband's health. Kind of a no brainer to me.

• I cannot empathize with other people
• I'm selfish
• More often than not, the things I do have an ulterior motive
• I wouldn't have any qualms about breaking up a relationship
• I sometimes make people like me just for the fun of it and then lose interest in them
• After a while, I get bored with most people
• I hold grudges and will do something to get back at a person even if years later
• I sometimes make fun of people too much
• I consider myself above certain people when in actuality I am not
• Sarcasm. Any time of day. Any appropriate or inappropriate situation.

There's probably more.

I have a short temper.
I am selfish.
I'm lazy - Slob-like.
I struggle to give a shit about anything.
Inappropriate comments out the wazoo!
I have a superiority complex.
I have an inferiority complex.
I start every line with an I.

There's a deep-seated part of my very fractured soul that thinks a "half-extinction" level event that instantly erases half of the world's population will provide a beneficial future towards the overall integrity of the human sphere of life.

- I'm emo! I know this but I never realize when I'm showing it.
- I tease people
- I take my anger and frustration out on others
- I'm not dependable
- I'm lazy
- I'm selfish
- I'm racist?
- I'm a slob
- I'm crazy






I should show this to my therapist to see what she says about this. haha

My big fat mouth. Truly, I would be a saint if it weren't for that.

My wife has been away on business for 4 days now and I haven't offered my kids a single vegetable.

I'm not very ambitious.

I'd rather people contact me than the other way around and am lazy in this regard. I've let a lot of friendships fade away over the years.

I tend to roll over to sales people.

- I'm lazy
- I let the internet eat my life day after day when there are so many more productive things I should be doing.
- I manipulate people to get my own way. Family, friends, coworkers, doesn't matter. I do this sometimes on purpose and sometimes without even realizing it.
- I have a very bad temper
- I judge people very quickly, and it takes a lot to get me to change my first impression

I have found it necessary to delete my content from this post. Peace.

+1

I tend to be suspicious of, and hostile towards, people who go out of their way to be nice to me.
I cut myself far more slack when dealing with things that are difficult for me than I do for others dealing with things that are difficult for them.

* An unwarranted hostility toward my boyfriend's ex-girlfriends when they're in the same room as us.
* A universal distrust of the people close to me
* Checking my boyfriends facebook, texts, and emails when he's not there
* Being a jealous person in general
* Not appreciating what I have

Good ones, GG! This thread is starting to compete with the sideboob thread as my favorite.

I want what I can't have.
I lead women on.
I'm paranoid.
I'm cynical.
I hate everything that moves.
I'm borderline-rascist.
I hunt without eating the animal or using it's carcass for anything else.
I like Bear Cub.
I'm quite neurotic.
I once put TV before a girl. She called and I pretended to be a non-existent live-in brother, saying that I was in the bathroom. In all fairness, it was Futurama.
My interest in fiction has gone to shit.
I hold a grudge like alcoholics hold liquor.
I have a sensitive ego.
I'm stubborn as hell.
I emasculate my little brother for being effeminate. Seems to work though.

Wow I'm a truly horrible person. I'll add more later.

When I know the right thing to do, but didn't do it because of laziness or apathy... I feel really shitty afterward.

I'm never satisfied.

I'm not sure if my general misanthropy and cynicism shows through on the board, but I assure you it's there.

If there were any way for it to have an effect, I would actively hope that certain public figures and politicians died.

I am often physically aggressive at the slightest provocation (to other men, I have never been physically aggressive to a woman in my life)
I have an idealised and patronising view of women
I hate my own heart
I am a liar
I drink too much
I am an attention seeker
I am compulsive
I am an emotional coward
I am emotionally fragile and my confidence freuently crashes - causing me to behave irrationally and depessively (ie writing abuse directed at myself on the walls of my own house, breaking things, drinking heavily)
I like to think I dont care, but far too often I care too much
I am often disloyal
Sometimes I feel like I have no real feelings at all, just a dead weight at the centre of me surrounded by automatic responses and learned behaviour.

To be honest I sound like a real cunt.

I can be horribly self-centered, selfish, and downright petulant when I don't get my way, but I'm working on it :)

My tendency to pont out that ever since I saw this thread I've been trying to resist the temptation to come and say "It should be 'an horrible' not 'a horrible'"

I'm not proud of the fact that today I cracked. I've had a long day and am feeling misanthropic.

Maybe you say "an horrible" across the pond, but not stateside. The "h" is a hard "h," not like "an hour."

That's not horrible - that's compassion for someone you know and love, compared to concern for a statistic of national grief. You care about both, but does the rest of America care about Dave?

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Does't matter. It's an Hotel, even when the H is hard.

Also, I get unreasonably annoyed when anyone who's not a Rastafarian says 'Erb, when the mean Herb.

I'm not proud of this, but I offer myself for immolation nonetheless.

-- I always put my feet up on the seat in front of me at the movies.
-- I procrastinate so much, it's ridiculous.
-- I flirt. Shamelessly.
-- I'm sometimes sarcastic to the point of being offensive.
-- I don't talk to my family as often as I should.
-- When I go to weddings, I secretly wanna say something along the lines of "well, you have a 50% chance of staying together. Good luck with that!" Even if I like them. Even if they're a cute couple.
-- I have no problem at all with letting guys buy me drinks, even though I know they're planning on it going somewhere, and I am not.

TEASE




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