02-21-2009, 10:17 PM | #1 (permalink) | |
Tilted Cat Head
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Have you ever used any government assistance or programs?
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I've done it before in preparation for fiscal disaster. I've looked at what social programs and things will be available to me from time to time since they do change over years and administrations. But for most of my life, I have not used any assistance whatsoever. I didn't use any of the things I paid into out of pride. I never collected unemployment until I was 33. I looked into collecting food stamps since at that time I was concerned that maybe we'd not make it if the dot com and 9/11 downturn didn't pick up. In that time I was laid off at least 3 different times. I paid into it fairly and deserved to collect the monies that were due me. I didn't like to collect it. It was reminded to me each and every week that I placed that phone call or went into the office. So far, my only usage has been unemployment. I know that while it was difficult to swallow my pride, I'm happy to swallow it again if need be. I know that I'm a better person because I was able to actually ask and accept for help. What about you?
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02-21-2009, 10:21 PM | #2 (permalink) |
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Location: San Francisco
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Unemployment. That's it. Not that I necessarily have a problem with them.
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02-21-2009, 10:24 PM | #3 (permalink) |
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I've used federally subsidized student loans and aside from the benefits I get from paying taxes, I've never used federal assistance. On that note, I'd rather my taxes go to help buy food for impoverished families than to bailouts for banks.
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02-21-2009, 10:34 PM | #4 (permalink) |
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Location: Canada
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I relied on employment insurance when I had to take time off work due to illness.
I don't have an issue with people who are going through tough times taking advantage of government assistance. I don't think less of someone for going through personal hardship, and this is why these programs exist in the first place. EI and welfare are useless if they're not available when people need them. Same goes for food banks, shelters and the like. Life's hard right now, and there's every possibility that it's going to get worse before it gets better. Pride's a funny thing, and too much of it usually does more harm than good.
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02-22-2009, 04:48 PM | #7 (permalink) |
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Martian, Your a better person than me then .... I DO in fact think less of people who take advantage without DOING EVERYTHING THEY CAN to prevent themselves from being in the said situation. Fact .... McDonalds are Always hiring!! You can get a job and feed one person of MickyDees pay while gearing up for more things. I would work 80-85 hours a week just to keep my head above water when I want something real bad. YOU WILL ALWAYS GET A JOB somewhere. For this reason, I have never needed any help from the social services. Of course I am linient on folks who are disabled but I detest giving to lazy people. If your as poor as a church mouse you deserve to work like a donkey until you get yourself situated. Period. |
02-22-2009, 05:08 PM | #8 (permalink) |
Eat your vegetables
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Not sure if others consider educational grants government assistance, but I do.
California Grants in Aid paid for the last two years of my undergraduate education and provided a living stipend so I didn't have to work much while in school. I've also accepted federal pell grants. I'm willing to look into government funding when I realize that I could use some help. ---------- Post added at 05:08 PM ---------- Previous post was at 05:03 PM ---------- Er, actually... my husband and I moved to a small town where the only thing here is the university. He has six months before his grad program starts and would like some temporary work. He has applied to every single position possible, including taco bell. No leads. You can't always get a job somewhere. Sometimes the universe just doesn't give you a chance. The programs are there to help you get on your feet. Then you can fly without pent up debt when you're in a better place.
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02-22-2009, 05:19 PM | #9 (permalink) |
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Yes. I used food stamps many, many years ago when I was working min. wage ($3.35/hour). In the Winter, after bills, I had nothing left.
There is nothing wrong with getting assistance. I don't look down on anyone who is working to get themselves out of a bad situation ... I do look down on people who take advantage of the system. But, before I pass judgment I have to KNOW they are taking advantage. I've only known one person in my life who did that. If I don't know what the situation is I don't think about it. |
02-22-2009, 05:26 PM | #10 (permalink) |
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Location: Florida
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My two daughters and I were on food stamps for about 9 months after my first divorce.
I have collected unemployment twice in my life after being laid off. I am going to school now on the Pell Grant and with assistance from an organization that helps single mothers get through college. Accepting this assistance has had no effect on my self-pride. I have a strong work ethic and I excel in school. Why should I be ashamed? There are many hallmarks of personal success in life. Never having to ask for help from anyone is perhaps but one of them. Feeling superior to those who do is not.
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02-23-2009, 08:45 AM | #13 (permalink) |
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Not necessarily. Let's say you're the hiring manager at McDonalds. You've got the choice between two candidates. One is PhD who's recently lost his job at a high-powered biotech company. Needs the McD's job to tide him over while he finds another "real" job. The other is a highschool dropout. Who're you gonna hire?
I'm gonna hire the dropout. He's not gonna be looking to bail in 3 weeks if he can find a high-paying job, because he can't find a high-paying job. I know I'm gonna lose the PhD the minute something opens up in his field. Why go through all the hassle of training him when he'll be leaving so much sooner than the dropout? |
02-23-2009, 09:43 AM | #14 (permalink) |
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The Op asks a very personal question,
and I will go ahead with a very personal revealing response. I have been on Social Security disability since 2003, and haven't worked any other job since then, to supplement income. Medicare for health insurance. Foodstamp allowance is 14 dollars a month. The disability check is now up to $743.00 a month. Rent takes 30% of that. (utilities and cable included) I drive with no insurance, (which is still legal in this state), if I were to get in an accident, then I would have to have insurance. I share the vehicle and its expenses with my mom, who is also on disability. I have been out of work long enough now, that a sense of 'learned helplessness', that I was warned could happen, has set in. The population of my town is 7000. Most people that have better than minimum wage jobs, have to commute at least a half hour or more away. I started to look for work about a month ago. With the recent economic implosion, and the many many layoffs in the area...people are scrambling for any type of work. The skills I have: (machinist-tool and die maker) I cannot use anymore on a consistent level that an employer would require. The pain level in my body from day to day is so variable that even a simple cashiering job would be difficult to maintain with any consistent attendance, but I am searching...perhaps I can find something that would only be a few hours a day. I plan on moving towards a much larger city for a variety of reasons. Part of what holds me back from moving is that my mother depends on me for many things. I talk too much, I am done for now. This is relevant to this thread perhaps. http://www.sun-sentinel.com/communit...,4560185.story Last edited by ring; 02-23-2009 at 10:11 AM.. |
02-23-2009, 11:06 AM | #15 (permalink) |
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Location: Oregon
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I've taken advantage of subsidized student loans, and I had a Pell Grant for my first degree, as well as an Oregon Opportunity Grant.
And Xerxys, like others have already said--sometimes no one is hiring, or sometimes the only jobs available are ones you are not qualified for. In this economy, places like McDonalds are saturated with applications. I was looking for work this last summer and sent out about 60 resumes in addition to filling out countless applications. I got one job that varies from 5-10 hours a week. I was looking for full-time employment, but it's just not out there right now. So I took advantage of the resources available to me, and decided to go back to school. I'll be applying to put my name in the lottery for the Oregon Health Plan this year. I don't have insurance, can't afford it, and OHP is meant to be a safety net for people like me. I'd rather not have to put my name in the lottery, I'd rather have regular, good insurance, but unfortunately it just isn't feasible at this point in time. I could possibly afford a limited plan, but what's the point in having it if I can't afford the co-pay when I do need to go to the doctor or hospital? I'm just glad that this program exists in my state, and so I can get medical coverage (once I jump through all the bureaucratic hoops). I was also eligible for the Earned Income Credit this year on my taxes. I didn't pay anything into the system this year, but I'll be getting just over $60 back. I'm going to be paying for these things for the rest of my working life, once I'm out of school and in the workforce (and already have, via taxes from former jobs), so why not use them?
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02-23-2009, 12:19 PM | #16 (permalink) |
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1 - I signed on the dole for about 8 weeks after graduating 2 - I claim a "single occupant discount" on my council tax 3 - I claimed a refund on some fillings I had from the dentist when I was a student 4 - I claimed compensation for a burgulary I was victim of (still dont know if I'll get paid anything back)
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02-23-2009, 12:26 PM | #17 (permalink) |
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I conducted an exercise. I was well dressed for work, today, so I went to lunch at the walmart here in cary and got myself a doublecheese burger and the small fries. I noticed the lady serving it was the manager so I asked if she were hiring. She said yes. And gave me an application.
How exactly do you guys look for jobs when applying for entry level jobs? All entry jobs that I've had, I just walked up and asked for a job. |
02-23-2009, 01:11 PM | #18 (permalink) | |
Tilted Cat Head
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Apply. Go Interview. See if you actually get offered the job. That's the definition of getting a job, not getting an application. I'd not even get to the interview part. /threadjack.
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02-23-2009, 01:23 PM | #19 (permalink) |
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Cyn, I swear I'm not trying to be dim .... all these places need are extra bodies and SOMETIMES if youre registered to work in the USA. Iz all... I have gotten every single entry level job I went up to and asked for withing asking a maximum of 3 places. If I would have stretched the number to maybe 6, I would have found a job that gave me a 7-3 shift and one that got me 4-12 shift!!!
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02-23-2009, 04:50 PM | #20 (permalink) |
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Location: Tampa Bay, Florida
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I have a degree and a decent resume, yet when I talk to managers at places like blockbuster, or even mid level sales in retail, I get this look like "WTF?! You've got a degree and you're previous job paid 40% more than we offer. GTFO" Most of the people who say "go get a job" haven't even tried to see what its like gaining employment in this economic environment (and if you have, getting a clerk job for mommy/daddy's office DOES NOT count).
In these times when social programs (and good god, let's not call it socialism, lord only knows how semantics infuriates the sheep) are what are keeping many people afloat, it really is scary to think would happen if the government essentially ran out of money for what it owes (Discount Army march on Washington back in the day anyone?) Back to the OP, though. You should not even allow pride or shame to enter into the equation here if only cuz at the basest of facts that YOU HAVE ALREADY PAID FOR IT. That is, if you're a law abiding tax payer. And as a law abiding tax payer, you've been raped and reamed enough from unfair taxes that you have earned some free spaghettio's from time to time.
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02-23-2009, 05:01 PM | #21 (permalink) | |
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and your signature is interesting.
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02-23-2009, 05:43 PM | #22 (permalink) |
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When I was working at a job where the employer did not cover any costs of health insurance, I attempted to take advantage of state healthcare but made too much by $50. However, at $10/hr I did not make enough to shell out $250/mo (just for 1 person!) to have health insurance to help cover a medical condition I've had since near birth. I went without health insurance until I was able to located a job which provided it.
What bugs me is that I'm in the tax bracket that seems to always be in between everything - I make just barely enough money to not qualify for most assistance, but because I don't qualify, I'm actually worse off than those who can get the assistance. Some days I want a refund of all the tax dollars I've paid, that are just on the other side of the glass taunting me.
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02-23-2009, 07:36 PM | #23 (permalink) | |
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02-24-2009, 12:04 PM | #24 (permalink) |
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Location: Southern England
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I pay taxes and use whatever state assistance I am elligable for.
I have taken unemployment benefit. I have taken discounts on local taxes for single occupancy. I receive child benefit and working families tax credit. My daughter is in a state school, she was born in a state hospital, and my family all use state doctors. If I lost my job, or became ill, I would be at the front of the queue and I would take every penny I could. Why? Because when I work I pay for the other people in the line, when I can'twork they can pay for me; it's how my vision of a just society works. You pay your share when you can, and take back your due when you can't.
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02-26-2009, 06:57 PM | #25 (permalink) |
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I'm collecting unemployment right now, since 12/15/08.
I'd rather be paying into it.
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02-26-2009, 09:02 PM | #26 (permalink) | |
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I have gotten laid off or fired a lot and contacting the unemployment office is the first thing I do. I remember years ago my grandparents would go to get their free government cheese and then give a 5 lb block of it to my mom. We'd be knee-deep in grilled cheese sandwiches for months. If someone offers me something for free I am not above taking it. A friend who worked at the senior's center in town had a trunkful of donated bread that no one took-I took a few bags. When I went to school, the spouse's salary was the detriment to not getting Pell, even though his take-home barely gets us by. Same with reduced school lunches-missed their guidelines by $50 a week. We don't make enough to breathe any sigh of relief, but we make too much to ask for help. I'm hoping that the unemployment increases apply to those of us who are already collecting. My checks are less than half what I was making and I don't see me getting called back.
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