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genuinegirly 04-20-2008 04:54 PM

Tilted Frugality
 
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Originally Posted by smoore
Start a thread, please! ... I'd love to hear a detailed explanation of how you are so frugal.

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Originally Posted by Baraka_Guru
Oooh. We could call it Tilted Frugality. Is there no such thread yet? If not, yeah, one should be started.

Thanks, smoore and Baraka_Guru for suggesting this thread!

Here we start our new repository of all things about getting by in this world with very few expenses. If you find any great tips, pass them along. If you have any tried and true ways of getting by on the cheap, share!

I'm going to post links to applicable threads. I'm also going to babble with random advice on coupon clipping, reducing energy and water expenses, and other penny-pinching tips. As long as people take interest in this thread, I'll do my best to add to it.

Cheap Foods thread from Tilted Cooking:
http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...ghlight=frugal

Websites for stuff swapping:
http://www.freecycle.org/
http://sfbay.craigslist.org/

Philosophies/ways of life that are condusive to cheap living:
Simple living: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Simple_living
Green lifestyle and Sustainable lifestyle (be careful, these have been yuppified)
probably many, many others.

My family's lifestyle has been a mix of bargain hunting, coupon clipping, community living, hand-me-downs, freecycle, lentils, beans, rice, potatoes, and low personal needs.

Coupon clipping:

Read this only if you like commercialized goodies like Chips Ahoy cookies or French's Mustard.

Where are your closest grocery shopping locations? Find out their policies on double coupons, and multiple coupons for each item. Sometimes it's advertised, sometimes you just have to learn by trial and error.

Figure out where they publish their weekly ads. You might need to check local newspapers. You can usually pick up the discarded coupon sections of Sunday newspapers, possibly from a coffee shop.

There should be two ads released by each major grocery chain each week. Usually a small two-color ad on Tuesday or Wednesday, and a full-color ad on Sunday. Sometimes these get mailed to you. Sometimes they're available in the store. They're often available online. Find them.

Also, grab that stack of manufacturer's coupons from the Sunday paper each week.

Go through and clip the coupons for everything your family will eat. You will notice that often the coupons overlap. If they don't overlap now, they will often overlap sometime before the manufacturer coupons expire. This is not always the case, but trust me, it happens more often than you think possible.

Figure out when your local grocer likes to highly discount their stock before discarding it. My local Safeway, for instance, has insane random unpublished sales on things like bread and cereal every Sunday.

General Inexpensive Food Basics

Learn to love the basics. Have them on hand. Learn to cook with them. Purchase them in bulk from cheap ethnic stores, dollar stores, or places like Costco or Smart & Final.

Rice (Long-grain white, brown, wild, whatever)
Lentils (green, red, or tan)
Beans (dry and/or cans)
Chickpeas (these often go on sale with beans)
Quinoa (if it's cheap or available in your area)
Tofu (can usually find 50cent boxes from Asian food stores like 99 Ranch)
Salt
Flour
Yeast

Start a Garden
If you live somewhere with a tiny bit of sun, start a vegetable garden.
Let me explain how easy this is:

Go to the grocery store. Purchase green onions. Cut off the white part. Place these nubs you wouldn't use in cooking, in soil. Water them. They will grow.

Purchase two whole potatoes, of whatever varities you like best. Leave them in partial sun on your counter until they start sprouting, then plant them in your garden. Within a couple of months, you'll have 5-10 new potatoes from each one you planted. When the tops of your potato plants start to wither, dig up the ground around them, you'll find several new potatoes. Save aside one or two to start the process again.

Don't have dirt? Gather coffee grounds. Have a friend at a local cafe? Ask for theirs. Coffee grounds work as a superior sort of soil, with excellent drainage and a delicious fragrance every time you water. Yes, even your French Vanilla grounds will work fine. Have soil? Ammend them with your grounds. Your plants will be healthier. Especially if you're container gardening - good drainage is key.

Ready to be daring and expand beyond potatoes and green onions? Seeds can be purchased at dollar stores or wal-mart. Germination instructions are on the package.

Good stuff that is easy to grow from seed:
Romaine Lettuce
Green Leaf Lettuce
Broccoli
Swiss Chard

Have you ever bought a delicious tomato or pepper? Come on, everyone has. When dicing them for salads, save aside the seeds. Dry them in a windowsill on a paper towel, then save them for next year or plant them in season. This doesn't work (hardly ever) for pitted fruits like peaches, nectarines, or plums. Also rarely works well for apples. They're plenty viable, there's just so much breeding that goes into fruit trees, you'll rarely come across something that matches yummy standards. Occasionally you'll get something nice, though. If you want to bother growing a tree for 12 years before learning if it'll produce decent fruit, feel free to experiment!

Did you realize that dandilions are edible and make a delicious tangy addition to a salad? Don't hesitate to pull them from your yard (assuming you don't use pesticides). The larger and leafier they are, the better they taste.

Entertainment

Don't bother with cable. Set yourself up with a healthy internet connection and depend on websites like hulu. The lack of advertisements alone is enticing to me.http://www.hulu.com/

Save up your money for the occasional theatre production or show or whatever you really love. Something special every three months is overkill for me. Attend free concerts in the park, get together with friends who have a film collection. Pick up that rusty musical instrument, or start up that (cheap) hobby you've been putting off learning.

Water-Saving Techniques

Time yourself in the shower. Take a 5 minute shower, or less. Use anti-perperant/deodorant. Skip a shower every now and again if you're confident you don't smell funky.

Wash your clothes only when they're really dirty. I mean, covered in muck, smelly, or otherwise just don't seem clean to you. Everyone has their own standard of clean. I don't pay for water in my apartment, so I handwash my clothes and line dry them on our little garden balcony. We occasionally take a load of towels and bedding over to a friend's place to wash. Tt prefers to machine-wash his stuff, quicker at getting his man-smell out. Find what works for you and develop a rhythm. Hand-washing becomes no big deal, honest.

*Some might consider the following poor hygeine. Sorry if it bothers anyone, but this is how I was raised*

If you have children, pull water for a bath once a week, and never more often. Fill the tub only half-way. Bathe your cleanest child first. Drain the tub only after all of the kids have bathed. Any other time of the week? Wipe them down thoroughly with a simple moist cloth, treat dry skin with lotion, and call it good. If their hair gets greasy fast, and you don't like braiding it, or finding other ways to mask the natural oils that are beneficialfor the health of their hair, then go ahead and wash their hair more often. Do this by filling a small sink with water halfway, moistening their hair, rubbing in shampoo, rinsing in the half-filled sink, let out the water, run clean water through briefly if necessary, repeat with conditioner. Brush/comb hair while conditioner is in their hair, rinse. Learn to work with hair without the use of a hair dryer, (unless it's freezing weather).

Building a friend/community base of like-minded saving inviduals is a valuable key to success. These can come in the form of relatives who have children just a few years older than yours, or friends who are interested in embarking on this great adventure of ultra-thrift frugal living. It can be frustrating to be thrifty when everyone you interact with is focused on material culture.

In the Store
Make a list of items that you're going to purchase before you step into any store. Do not deviate from this list unless necessary.

If you see something you really love, ask yourself if you're willing to give up two personal items to bring it into your home. (this does not apply to food)

Go through toys and clothing often and pass them on to a frugal friend, or to your local charity like Goodwill or Salvation Army. Someone else will appreciate items that are in good, useable condition. The more space you free up, the more room you'll have to accept offers of exciting new-to-you (used) toys/clothes from others.

Transportation
If you're planning where you're going to live with your family - Find a place within walking distance of a grocery store, a community park, and an elementary school. Try to have only one car/van for your family. Bicycles are handy in a pinch. Learn how to walk. Don't be afraid to walk a total of two miles a day to meet your transportation needs. I do this, it's healthy and energizing to start your day off with a half-mile walk to campus or to a grocery store. Though, remember children's little legs will need plenty of stops.

Shauk 04-20-2008 05:42 PM

The number 1 thing I find to be the source of monetary drain for me, seems to be "Entertainment"

If you must go out, look for cheap/free alternatives, instead of going to the 25-30$ show, or the club with the 10$ cover charge, head to the 10$ show or the club with no cover charge.

if you drink, alcohol on the outside is expensive, if you feel the need to get a lil sloppy and don't wanna pay 10$ a drink to do so (hey thats a 40$ minumum) then head to a liquor store in advance, for 40$ you should get enough to last you multiple trips to the clubs (aka. the pre-funk)

dont date.

yeah, there, I said it. Dating is expensive, girls want a guy who can be "secure" financially, which means pay for their food, or instead of buying 1 ticket to the movies or to the show, you're buying 2. all of a sudden your entertainment expenses just went up to double.

dating is a fools game anyway, if a girl likes you, she'll like you for what you are, not what you spend on her.

embrace your cheaper hobbies, find cost effective solutions. as an example, My old way of "DJ'ing" involved buying vinyl, which equated 10$ per 1-2 songs (in most cases you bought it for ONE song)

I dropped a couple hundred dollars on a "virtual vinyl" set up (about the equivalent of 25 records) on ebay and now my songs cost me 85 cents or so.

skip going out once in a while, it's ok to stay home and do something productive, clean your room, do some exercise, go for a walk, ride a bike. You don't HAVE to be entertained every weekend, you dont HAVE to see a movie, you don't HAVE to go to a concert. Just maybe find some friends who want to have a more subdued gathering. Maybe just some cheap video games/rented movies as an alternative.

genuinegirly 04-20-2008 05:46 PM

Awesome, Shauk! Thanks for contributing some super handy advice when it comes to entertainment!

Cynthetiq 04-20-2008 06:04 PM

I got onto a mailing list of free tickets and shows here in NYC. Last night we saw The Devil and Tom Walker as an off off off broadway show. It was a delightful show.

When going out to dinner, think about what you are ordering. Maybe even split the dish with your spouse/date. Spend that money on desert instead and also share it.

When travelling, find places that have efficincies. This can allow you to make your own breakfasts and lunches. The money you save, you can go out to have a nice dinner for the whole trip, or have smaller modest ones.

Ask the waitstaff what is good to sample. Tell them you are on a fixed budget for the day. They may be able to tell you about ala carte items that aren't listed on the menu and you can sample the best of their menu without all the extra fanfare.

Watch TV shows that help you find cheap eats and things to do. In NYC we have a show called $9.99 which shows all kinds of things you can do in the NYC area for the whole day that cost no more than $9.99 watch it here.

Read the newspapers and magazines. Time Out covers many cities. Gotham-ist and other -ists covers many cities online. Village Voice, LA Weekly, etc.

NYC is a little too easy, there are books and magazines that help you plan outings. In the summer there are free movies all over the place in many of the parks. There's Shakespeare in the Park (Central Park), Shakespeare in the Park(ing Lot.)

Skogafoss and I eat out often. We know places in NYC where you can eat dinner for around or less than $4.00 per person. The food is good, fast, and usually enough for a second round meal. Sometimes it's cheaper for us to eat out than it is to cook at home. Go figure.

You need to learn how to cook. When going out to dinner, we only get things that we can't cook at home. If we can cook it at home, I'll make it instead. I can't tell you how ridiculous I feel paying $5.95 for Mee Krob knowing I can make it for $1 at home. Or Chicken Massaman Curry, $9.95???? Howabout home cooked for $5 and it feed 4.

When having a get together with friends, make it potluck. This helps distribute the funds and workload. It also gives other people the opportunity to contribute if they can't cook, they can bring silverware or cups, or even offer to do the dishes afterwards.

genuinegirly 04-20-2008 06:29 PM

Wow, neat info. about food, Cyn!
And the thought of getting all of that culture for free.

Starshine 04-20-2008 06:38 PM

I'm going to Germany in June for two weeks, does anyone have any tips for being frugal in foreign countries? I've never been outside of the States!

Baraka_Guru 04-20-2008 06:41 PM

"Be industrious and frugal, and you will be rich." —Benjamin Franklin

A great start to a very useful thread.

I want to discuss debt in my initial post. This is mainly because I am currently in a very frustrating position. Many of my financial dealings are conducted with the use of debt. For example, I have outstanding student loans, I carry credit card debt month-to-month, and I use overdraft monthly.

This isn't because my spending is out of control; it is a result of coming out of a limited financial position, going to school longer than expected, living in a city with a high cost of living, and currently earning a lower-than-comfortable salary. What I want to discuss is the cost of interest expense and what it means for the frugal aspirant such as myself.

It is surprising how many don't realize the impact of carrying debt and its nagging compound interest expense. Compound interest in itself is a fascinating thing, but it is a financial ogre if it works against you. To me, if I remove the non-tangible benefits of why I acquired the debt in the first place, paying for interest is like cold hard cash turning to dust and being blown away by the wind. And this happens every month. This happens to a few hundred dollars of my hard-earned money every month! This, for the privilege of having something that I would not otherwise be able to afford. But what is the real cost? It's quite frightening, actually.

If you were to calculate the real cost of using debt to pay for things, you might be astounded, if not disgusted. What if I told you that that television you see at a great deal would cost you twice as much if you were to buy it on credit and pay the minimum payment each month? Well, that is exactly what happens. What if I also told you that the frugal minds who wait to make the same purchase with cash by tucking away a small amount each month instead will be able to afford twice as much TV as a result? That's right. By sidestepping poorly handled credit and paying with cash means you will effectively pay half as much as the minimum-payment debt handlers would. This means you can get a bigger TV at the same value, or, if you wish, a surround sound system as an add-on—for the same value.

By simply waiting to make that purchase, you can get more than those who can't wait. This is the very nature of compound interest and our desire for immediate gratification. It takes strong willpower, but the frugal mind will prevail if it is disciplined.

That said, what of my own position? Well, let me tell you, I'm in no position to be buying TVs, not even on credit. My current debt-management cost is too high—so high that I have virtually no disposable income. So what do I do? Well, I need to stop making reactive purchasing decisions. I need to stop paying for lunch and start making more money-saving decisions, and I need to start accelerating my debt repayments. I need to eliminate my credit card debt so I can stop maxing out my line of credit that I use to carry me over month to month. Meh, a tight spot, I know.

But things will start to change for me. I'm starting to get some extra income with freelance jobs. This money will be going directly to debt repayment. All of it. I won't look at it as "Hey, extra money! Let's get the things I've been wanting all this time!" No. It is for paying for things I've already bought and haven't paid for yet. Things that are costing me twice as much as they should...or more.

Interest expense is like turning hard-earned dollars into dust. But if you throw those dollars at the debt instead, then it will slow the process. One encouraging way to look at it is this: Making a payment on a debt that carries an 18% interest rate is kind of like buying an investment with an 18% return. The only difference is one is preventing a penalty, the other is soliciting a bonus. Either way, the real value is the same. Think it through.

Cynthetiq 04-20-2008 06:52 PM

Most hostels have hot plates from what I understand. I never have traveled via the hostel route.

Eat like a local. Find where the locals eat. If you see eateries in multiple languages/flags with photographs, that's a red flag that it's a tourist eatery. Some of the best pasta and tirimasu I have ever eaten was a local Italian wine and pasta restaurant in Salzburg. Didn't speak a lick of Italian or German, but we still we able to order a lovely dinner and a lovely wine.

Two secrets to finding good cheap food in just about any city in the world. Take note of where cabbies and police officers eat. They always seem to know where the cheapest and best food is located in town. If you see either cabbie or cop at a location it's a good bet that the food is good and the portions are fair. Also, don't be afraid to ask them. Don't ask them where they suggest to eat, ask them where THEY eat. Tell them you want to go where the locals go eat.

Shop like a local. Find where locals shop. People think it's expensive to live in some cities, and while that's true for the most part, many people learn where the cheapies are located.

Don't eat breakfast at the hotel where you are staying. Usually that's an additional cost charged to the room, "breakfast included". It is usually not something you want to eat anyways, something akin to the US Continental breakfast, more than likely the additional fee is not worth to food your getting usually some cold cuts, hard boiled eggs, breads and jams.

Even if you can get a room with a hot plate and fridge, that can save you some cash for breakfasts. Find the market and get some oatmeal, cereal and milk. Get some coldcuts and bread to make some sandwiches if you like.

Walk. Walk to where you want to go, pay attention to bus lines and cab stands. If you are staying at a nicer hotel there may be a concierge. Ask them for bus information. A simple bus ride can extend your walking range by quite a bit. Make sure you know when the LAST bus going back to your hotel is leaving the bus stop that you will be at. Nothing sucks more than thinking your taking the bus home, only to find out you missed the last one and now have to take a cab or have a very long walk home.

If you are a student. Use that student discount.

genuinegirly 04-20-2008 07:20 PM

Cyn has some excellent advice, once again!

Starshine -
If you have space in your luggage, pack a small knapsack with snacks, and oatmeal for breakfasts. Suppliment with local produce and cheese for lunch, enjoy dinner with your friends in the evenings. Oh, and while you're there, try those cheap local beers in plastic bottles. Tt loved those when we were in Germany.

What an honest account, Baraka_Guru. Thank you for taking time to contribute.
You've prompted me to add a little about educational expenses.

Don't be overcharged for your education
At age 23, in California (and I assume in other states as well) your parents' financial information is no longer necessary or applicable to your financial aid application. Keep this in mind as you're planning your education. I was handed thousands in grants, and was literally paid to complete the past two years of my undergraduate education, thanks to this system.

If you're interested in pursuing graduate studies, search for a school that offers teaching fellowships or other financial aid assistance. There are even reputible MBA programs that will pay your way through school, if you get in. Like this one

Starshine 04-20-2008 08:23 PM

Thanks for all the great advice guys! I'm concerned about entertainment too, I mean I'll be with friends that know the area, but I really just don't have a clue as to how I go about figuring out how much money I should bring... this is also my first trip outside of the country and all by myself! I know only one person in Germany and he has to go to class for a couple days out of the week and I'm kinda nervous about venturing out on my own...

Cynthetiq 04-20-2008 08:25 PM

what german city will you be in?

ASU2003 04-20-2008 08:27 PM

I'll have to add to this list as I think of them, but I am doing pretty good living a sustainable and inexpensive lifestyle.

1. Go outdoors. There are national parks, state parks, beaches, bike trails, lakes, parks. They are free or can be pretty close to free. Bring your own food along, but always buy an ice cream cone after hanging out at the beach. :)

2. Get digital over-the-air TV. The government will even give you $40 towards the converter box. Most of the TV shows you watch are on broadcast TV. Setup a DVD fund for cable shows and either rent the season when it comes out on DVD or buy it. Some shows you can download on iTunes. I saved enough money to buy a HDTV this way.

3. Eat natural foods. Fruits and veggies. Drink regular (or reverse osmosis) water instead of sugar water or bottle water.

4. Make sure you have good air pressure in your car and bike tires. Bike if it is possible.

5. Go to the public library. They have books, DVDs & magazines.

6. Build your own stuff, do your own work. It takes time, and it isn't easy. I am trying to plant a 10'x10' garden and I haven't even finished painting the fence, and the weekend is over already. I have built a lot of my own furniture, and the stuff I do buy is real wood Amish stuff.

7. Know when to buy quality, nice, expensive stuff. There are times where it pays to buy good stuff. Just do the research. If you are going to use something for the next 10-20 years, make sure it is good. But save your money up before you buy it. This will make it look like you aren't cheap. Look in some of those high-class architecture magazines, the rooms aren't decked out with a ton of stuff, but you know what is in there looks expensive. If you can recreate the look without spending 10% what they paid, you are doing it right.

genuinegirly 04-20-2008 08:49 PM

Yes! Right on, ASU2003.

Doing the research is key - it's ideal for furniture, and it works great with fashion as well. I spend a couple of hours each season flipping through the fashion shows by the top designers. Training your eye to current and lasting trends helps you make better purchasing decisions, and helps you remain fashion savy when you're shopping thrift or sifting through second-hand freebies.

Starshine 04-20-2008 09:06 PM

Lubeck, Germany

kurty[B] 04-22-2008 08:04 AM

Another note on Transportation.

Look into the Public Transportation opportunities in your area, and use them. I'm fortunate to have a free bus in my town, but now with gas prices even the Regional Bus would be cheaper than paying for the gas to drive (let alone the wear and tear on my vehicle). Combine this with loading a bike on the front of the bus, or being willing to walk 2-3 miles and my need to drive is greatly reduced.

Willravel 04-22-2008 08:33 AM

Awesome thread! I should have made one years ago, but I was trying to be efficient....

Live in a house but consumed by radical cooling bills each summer?
- Vent your attic! I build bigger vents on each side of my attic, which allowed a breeze to carry out the hot air that usually stagnates above every room in my house and I've seen a rather surprising savings in my electricity each summer. It only costed me a bit (less than $100) for some wood, nails and paint. If you really want to stick it to GE, add a solar panel connected to an attic fan. It's an investment, but it pays for itself very quickly and lasts for decades.
- Plant bamboo! If there is a wall of your house that gets a lot of sun but doesn't have large viewing windows, plant some bamboo. It grows very quickly and it can prevent a lot of that heat from reaching your walls. I planted a few years back, just as an experiment, and it grew about a foot a day. Be sure you've got airspace, depending on the type, it can get quite tall.
- Turn off lights and your computer! These not only consume energy, but also generate heat. Wait until the evening when you can.

snowy 04-22-2008 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by willravel
- Plant bamboo! If there is a wall of your house that gets a lot of sun but doesn't have large viewing windows, plant some bamboo. It grows very quickly and it can prevent a lot of that heat from reaching your walls. I planted a few years back, just as an experiment, and it grew about a foot a day. Be sure you've got airspace, depending on the type, it can get quite tall.

This is good advice, but one caveat: Make sure that bamboo is contained, otherwise it will grow, and grow, and grow. It will take over that part of your garden if it is not contained somehow. And don't forget to protect your neighbors from your bamboo if it's near a fenceline--it will spread under the fence.

Willravel 04-22-2008 08:59 AM

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Originally Posted by onesnowyowl
This is good advice, but one caveat: Make sure that bamboo is contained, otherwise it will grow, and grow, and grow. It will take over that part of your garden if it is not contained somehow. And don't forget to protect your neighbors from your bamboo if it's near a fenceline--it will spread under the fence.

Yes, bamboo is at least twice as aggressive as a prom date. I built a 1' deep wood border and I still trim it often.

Cynthetiq 04-22-2008 09:52 AM

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Originally Posted by willravel
Yes, bamboo is at least twice as aggressive as a prom date. I built a 1' deep wood border and I still trim it often.

I thought the only fool proof method of containment was cement/plastic barrier that kept the root system 100% contained.

Willravel 04-22-2008 10:03 AM

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I thought the only fool proof method of containment was cement/plastic barrier that kept the root system 100% contained.

Mine are in what used to be a planter, so there's concrete like 4 feet down. They're basically contained, but I'll have to check in the next few months to be sure.

jewels 04-22-2008 12:01 PM

Great thread, gg!

Off the top of my head:

Entertainment: Dollar theaters and Sunday morning shows for movies. Some theaters have an 11 a.m. or so show on Sunday mornings for half the price of a matinee show, usually about $2 or $3.
Fast Food: I know you family people do it once in a blue. Don't order meals. Order your sandwiches and then order an extra large fry to share. Bring your own water. We've been so conditioned to buy those meals but it's a helluva lot cheaper without those wasted fries and drinks.
Meal Planning: Don't do it until you've checked your supermarket circular to see what's on sale. If you have an inexpensive Sam's or Costco membership through the workplace, you can buy meat, poultry and veggies in quantity and save as well.
Hand-me-downs, thrift and consignment: I swallowed my pride years ago and am happy to accept gently used hand-me-downs for the girls. Great items can be found, some not even worn, from thrift and consignment shops. People with too much money to spend donate some nice stuff. :p

Cynthetiq 04-22-2008 12:25 PM

Wait for sales for common or needed goods

You know you're going to need new sneakers at some point in time. You know you're going to need a new pair of jeans. The toothpaste you like will be used up at some point.

Pay attention to sales. Wait for sales to happen for those goods and buy them when they are on sale.

Buy only what you need and use. Stop thinking that all the options are more value. If you don't use the feature, it's not adding any value at all.

allaboutmusic 04-22-2008 01:35 PM

This is an excellent thread.

Check out websites like http://www.moneysavingexpert.com - I have saved lots of money by following their tips.

Anyone in the UK should switch their TV on to Channel 5 every Wednesday for "It Pays To Watch". Amazing tips on saving money.

For example, instead of buying detergent, use soap nuts. Half a kilo cost me GBP7, and six half-shells lasts me six washes. Instead of fabric softener, use distilled white vinegar. Much cheaper AND better for the environment.

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Originally Posted by Shauk
dont date.

yeah, there, I said it. Dating is expensive, girls want a guy who can be "secure" financially, which means pay for their food, or instead of buying 1 ticket to the movies or to the show, you're buying 2. all of a sudden your entertainment expenses just went up to double.

dating is a fools game anyway, if a girl likes you, she'll like you for what you are, not what you spend on her.

Quoted for absolute truth. I decided very early on that I won't date any girl who expected me to pay my way and hers as well. I am studying again at the moment and choose not to spend money on eating out and entertainment. I am sure not going to spend it on someone who isn't interested in me if I don't pay for her food.

If that makes me cheap, then so be it. It's a choice between being cheap or being broke, and I'd rather not be broke.

Bear Cub 04-22-2008 07:41 PM

I'll be moving around pretty frequently and living in apartments, so large, expensive furniture, or having a lot of "stuff" in general is non-optional. To make my place seem more like a home than a sterile box, I'll be taking full advantage of the Ikea Hacker website.

snowy 04-22-2008 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by allaboutmusic
Quoted for absolute truth. I decided very early on that I won't date any girl who expected me to pay my way and hers as well. I am studying again at the moment and choose not to spend money on eating out and entertainment. I am sure not going to spend it on someone who isn't interested in me if I don't pay for her food.

If that makes me cheap, then so be it. It's a choice between being cheap or being broke, and I'd rather not be broke.

This is a bit of a threadjack, but: we've always taken turns in my relationship--I paid the first time we went out, he paid the second, and so on. Now it comes down to three things: 1) I've offered to pay, 2) if it was mutual/we have equal amounts of money, we rock-paper-scissors it out, or 3) whoever has more money pays. In my opinion, equity should start at the beginning of the relationship. If a girl wants you to pay her way all the time, she isn't worth it.

itlain 04-23-2008 04:07 AM

There are a few things that my wife and I have done that I think have really saved some money.

The first one is for our newborn, we decided we were going to use cloth diapers. It was a bit expensive up front, maybe about 300-400$, but these diapers will last him until he is out of them. Not to mention it is a LOT better for the environment and we have already more more than recouped our initial investment. I really thought that I wouldn't like them, but I've surprised myself and I'll recommend them to ANYONE with a newborn.

The other thing that I've done is to move from the disposable razors like the Fusion or the fancy Gillette type razors to a double-edge safety razor like:

http://tbn0.google.com/images?q=tbn:...nk.com/180.JPG

Again, it took a bit of up-front investment in that the badger brush cost about 30$, a container of shaving cream was about 20$, and the razor was free. So for about 50$ I have a razor that will last a lifetime, a brush that will easily last about 5-7 years, the shaving cream will last on average about 4-6 months for me (not to mention my skin feels so much better with a natural sandalwood instead of processed goo), and the replacement blades only cost about 3-5$ for 10 blades. I go through maybe 6-8 blades a month right now and that is shaving everyday. So after 3 months, I've already saved money and from now on it will just keep adding up.

Both of these do take a bit more time out of your day, but my son no longer has diaper-rash and I've come to really enjoy the 10 minutes every morning when I shave.

smoore 04-24-2008 02:59 PM

Sweet, I asked for it and I got it! I'm going to love this thread.

Here are my major tips:
  • NEVER buy on price alone. Cheap things break. Determine what will last the longest per dollar.
  • Rice and beans, learn to love 'em. We have a pressure cooker which makes it easy and I eat rice and beans two to four times a week. Make a batch, refrigerate what you want and freeze the rest. Cajun seasoned, mmmmmm. Frozen shrimp on sale? It's like a holiday!
  • Freezer cook. I have to maintain the freezer, about $10/mo in the winter and about $20 in the summer as far as I can tell. However, when I want a sausage and egg bagel for breakfast I don't call on Jimmy Dean, I grab one that was made a month, two, hell even six months ago when we stood in the kitchen for a couple hours cranking out a buttload of the things. Lasagna, beans and rice, soups, casserole, etc. are good candidates for freezer cooking.
  • Pack your lunch. Even the cheap lunches add up. $6/day, $30/wk, $120/mo, $1440/yr. Yup, $1440 per year to eat at Burger King on your lunch break. That's a nice bicycle per year. Since I'm working on jobsites I carry an old microwave from job to job. "Is that carpet layer going to be here all week? I'll bring some leftovers!" I've heard that more than once.
  • Speaking of bicycles, use one. It doesn't have to be fancy but if you have one and use it you benefit in more than just frugality. I can't commute by bike due to hauling 200lb of tools to every job so I use it for errands. Store, bank, store, store is one of my regular loops. It's about 6 miles total and it's easy. I'm not what you would call the epitome of fitness, note next tip.
  • If you smoke (I do) learn to roll your own with a filter. I smoke Bali Shag, possibly the most expensive rolling tobacco you can get. I'm not shy about it, I'm a heavy smoker. I spend $20 every two weeks to smoke my friggin' brains out. At $5/day you can see that me smoking tailor made cigs would cost $70 for the same time period.
  • If you eat meat, make friends with hunters. They can rarely store all of the meat they harvest from larger game. Sometimes I get it for free, sometimes I "rent" freezer space in exchange for a portion.
  • Toothpaste is cheaper than dental work and oil is cheaper than an engine.

snowy 04-24-2008 06:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by smoore
Speaking of bicycles, use one. It doesn't have to be fancy but if you have one and use it you benefit in more than just frugality. I can't commute by bike due to hauling 200lb of tools to every job so I use it for errands. Store, bank, store, store is one of my regular loops. It's about 6 miles total and it's easy. I'm not what you would call the epitome of fitness, note next tip.
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Toothpaste is cheaper than dental work and oil is cheaper than an engine.

Bicycles are awesome. In six months, my bicycle had paid for itself. I did shell out for a nice bike, because I didn't want to ride around town on some piece of crap secondhand bike that didn't fit. I wanted to plunk down my money once for a bike to last for years. I also outfitted it with a basket and a rack so I can bike to the farmer's market.

And preventative maintenance applies to the body too--engaging in regular exercise, eating right, and stretching can prevent illness and injury, keeping medical costs low.

Tully Mars 04-24-2008 06:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by onesnowyowl
Bicycles are awesome. In six months, my bicycle had paid for itself. I did shell out for a nice bike, because I didn't want to ride around town on some piece of crap secondhand bike that didn't fit. I wanted to plunk down my money once for a bike to last for years. I also outfitted it with a basket and a rack so I can bike to the farmer's market.

And preventative maintenance applies to the body too--engaging in regular exercise, eating right, and stretching can prevent illness and injury, keeping medical costs low.


I've thought about buying a bike but so far I've managed to walk almost everywhere. The market place is almost exactly 1 1/4 mile from my house. I have a back pack for veggies and stuff. But I may have to take the plunge when summer gets here. Not going to be a lot of fun if I can't make it to the market and back before it hits 110.

smoore 04-26-2008 08:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tully Mars
I've thought about buying a bike but so far I've managed to walk almost everywhere. The market place is almost exactly 1 1/4 mile from my house. I have a back pack for veggies and stuff. But I may have to take the plunge when summer gets here. Not going to be a lot of fun if I can't make it to the market and back before it hits 110.

Try to stay away from department store bikes. They are inexpensive but they never work as well as a "real" bike and the maintenance issues are horrendous. If you're just using it for short trips with few hills, seriously consider a single speed bike, like a beach cruiser. I had one beach cruiser from schwinn that I rode through three sets of tires and all I ever had to do was lube the chain and adjust the coaster brake. I have no idea how my coaster brake made it through all that but it did. The front brake needed only one replacement of pads, IIRC.

snowy 04-27-2008 09:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by smoore
Try to stay away from department store bikes. They are inexpensive but they never work as well as a "real" bike and the maintenance issues are horrendous. If you're just using it for short trips with few hills, seriously consider a single speed bike, like a beach cruiser. I had one beach cruiser from schwinn that I rode through three sets of tires and all I ever had to do was lube the chain and adjust the coaster brake. I have no idea how my coaster brake made it through all that but it did. The front brake needed only one replacement of pads, IIRC.

Old Schwinns are great bikes; newer Schwinns are not that great. Finding an older Schwinn cruiser that just needs some maintenance/love would be a good bet.

As of yesterday, we've begun setting aside our coffee grounds to use in our containers and garden. Composting isn't really practical for us given that we live in a townhouse with a small yard (plus I don't want to build/buy a compost bin and then have to move it in two months), so just using the coffee grounds as a soil amendment is a great tip. Thanks, gg! :)

jewels 04-27-2008 09:26 AM

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Originally Posted by onesnowyowl
Composting isn't really practical for us given that we live in a townhouse with a small yard (plus I don't want to build/buy a compost bin and then have to move it in two months), so just using the coffee grounds as a soil amendment is a great tip. Thanks, gg! :)

Another gardening tip that I've been using the past few months -- epsom salts!

I had an old box in the house from an old sprain and didn't want to throw it out, but the carton was really falling apart. I found out that it makes a great natural inexpensive fertilizer. Add a couple of spoons to a gallon or so of water. All my houseplants have really greened up and thickened, just like MiracleGro. Now it comes in resealable recycleable bags and I use it every time I water my plants at a fraction of the cost.

spindles 04-28-2008 03:31 AM

My wife swears by this book as her 'cleaning' bible:

http://shop.abc.net.au/browse/produc...oductid=162165

Quote:

Shannon Lush is the ‘sensei’ of stain removal.

Her admiring radio audience around the country have complete confidence in her encyclopedic knowledge of the repair of stains, scratches and other disfigurements as the final word on surviving messy household emergencies.

This book came about through James Valentine and his radio program on 702 ABC Sydney. He asked listeners to ring in if they were having problems fixing a spill or stain around the house and then invited other listeners to give their solutions. One day Shannon rang in and answered every question. She became a regular guest and is now heard on similar ABC Radio programs around the country. ‘Spotless’ is published in response to clamorous listener demand.

If you have ever washed a jumper in the machine and horribly shrunk it, burnt a pan to obliteration or had your pet mess the white wool carpet, you will be pleased to know that there are solutions to these and many other problems. Each chapter in ‘Spotless’ addresses a particular room in the house or outside area so it is simple to use and incredibly useful.

The section listing inexpensive and easily obtainable ingredients to keep on hand is unique and indispensable. Especially now that Shannon clearly explains exactly how to use them.

Whatever the problem: a filthy oven, a tea stain on the mattress, ink on the lino or just some useful hints on cleaning problem areas such as doors or window sills, Shannon has no-nonsense advice that will work.
Lots of things in our house get cleaned with bicarbonate of soda and white vinegar - and it looks pretty clean around here :)

ColonelSpecial 04-29-2008 04:14 PM

As far as entertainment goes, you are in luck if you live in a college town. I happen to do and there are several events each week that are inexpensive to attend. Plus, there is a huge variety to the events on campus. Usually, there are details in the campus paper. My favorite for a long time was free showings of MST movies every Friday evening. Very cool.

mixedmedia 04-29-2008 04:57 PM

wow, I've yet to get through your OP genuinegirly, but I wanted to take the opportunity midstream to thank you for this thread...

Tully Mars 04-29-2008 05:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by smoore
Try to stay away from department store bikes. They are inexpensive but they never work as well as a "real" bike and the maintenance issues are horrendous. If you're just using it for short trips with few hills, seriously consider a single speed bike, like a beach cruiser. I had one beach cruiser from schwinn that I rode through three sets of tires and all I ever had to do was lube the chain and adjust the coaster brake. I have no idea how my coaster brake made it through all that but it did. The front brake needed only one replacement of pads, IIRC.

I kind of limited down here, my guess is I'll have to go with one from Costco.

smoore 04-30-2008 03:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tully Mars
I kind of limited down here, my guess is I'll have to go with one from Costco.

No bike shops, huh? That kinda sucks. Well, get the simplest one they can sell you, the complicated ones obviously require more maintenance. Every bike seems to have fancy indexed shifters these days, I miss the old levers.

Tully Mars 04-30-2008 03:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by smoore
No bike shops, huh? That kinda sucks. Well, get the simplest one they can sell you, the complicated ones obviously require more maintenance. Every bike seems to have fancy indexed shifters these days, I miss the old levers.

There might be?? Took me almost three months to find a place to get my scuba tanks refilled.

I was looking at the bikes at Costco and Sam's Club. Nothing there looks simply to me, but what do I know about bikes? I do know getting anything repaired or replaced down here is usually a hassle.

Might be time to do some serious investigation. I walked to the phone and power companies today and felt near death by the time I got back.

allaboutmusic 04-30-2008 10:35 PM

Living in London, I've only ever owned a really cheap, used bike. Bikes here tend to get stolen or stomped on (destroying the wheels) so there's no point getting anything decent if it's going to be locked out on the street.

genuinegirly 05-01-2008 08:52 AM

Yeah, I'm with allaboutmusic on this one. Living in Berkeley, bikes get stolen all the time. Even knew a few folks whose bikes were stolen off their second floor balconies because they weren't locked up.

Get a crappy-looking bike, learn how to maintain it yourself, treat it well, and get a sturdy lock.

I've also never lived anywhere that I could do without multiple gears. Hilly, hilly hills + cruiser = certain death.

Tully Mars 05-01-2008 09:11 AM

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Originally Posted by onesnowyowl
This is a bit of a threadjack, but: we've always taken turns in my relationship--I paid the first time we went out, he paid the second, and so on. Now it comes down to three things: 1) I've offered to pay, 2) if it was mutual/we have equal amounts of money, we rock-paper-scissors it out, or 3) whoever has more money pays. In my opinion, equity should start at the beginning of the relationship. If a girl wants you to pay her way all the time, she isn't worth it.

I agree with everything you just said. Though I would add this applies to much, much more then just finances.

smoore 05-01-2008 09:16 AM

Uh oh, hope it doesn't devolve into a bike thread.

re: no bike shops: I'm loath to recommend it but there is a website called bikesdirect.com I've heard really bad things about customer service but the prices are REALLY tempting. I've never ordered anything from them, caveat emptor. I've been lusting over a trek fixie they have for something like $200.

There is also http://www.performancebike.com/ the prices are higher but I've actually had a CS issue with them and can give their service a rousing thumbs up. Others have had negative experiences so YMMV.

Here is a list of bike fit calculators: http://www.cyclemetrics.com/Pages/Fi..._fit_links.htm I have no idea how well they work, I ride all used bikes so I just get on the thing and see if it fits :)

re: hills and single speed: I feel your pain, sister. I live in CO and I sold my cruiser for that exact reason. I could get away with it now that I live in Lakewood for short trips but gears are good. A stronger cyclist could use one around here pretty well but I'm flabby and out of shape.

re: bike thieves: Scum of the earth. I feel for people who have to keep their bikes outside. I just bring mine in the house. It's leaning right over there. Sure, it's not too neat for the house but I like my bike so looking at it isn't an imposition. Be wary of U-Locks, they are not created equal, buy a good one. I don't understand vandalism and never have. Why would someone stomp a bike's wheels? (or rip the antenna off a car or break a window or...or...or...) Assholes.

edit: oh yeah! Some people put Huffy or Magna decals on their nice bikes, I don't know if bike thieves actually know what to look for or if they just steal via brand name.

NoSoup 05-07-2008 07:57 PM

Perhaps I'm Biased, but one of the easiest, least expensive ways to save a ton of cash throughout your lifetime is to have great credit.

If you're interested, you can learn more here ->http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthread.php?t=67686

genuinegirly 05-07-2008 08:55 PM

Thanks, NoSoup! Great advice! It really does make a difference.

Convince yourself to spend less
If you enjoy windowshopping as a hobby, leave your credit card and cash at home. Bring only a small change purse, no bills.

See what catches your attention. Explore. Develop your tastes without indulging. Learn what a reasonable price is for the items that appeal to you the most, by walking (or surfing) from store to store, comparing prices, styles, and quality. Touch items. Learn about textures and textiles. Find what you've determined is your favorite. Wait a month. Do you still find it interesting? It's probably on sale or clearance by now.

When your shoes have started to give out, start looking around. If they're dress shoes, polish them. Wait a month before purchasing. You'll realize those shoes had a lot more life than you thought. Throw away if the sole is literally worn through or the body torn noticeably.

Build a Budget

As an exercise in frugality, design yourself an unreasonably low budget. Keep to it religiously for a minimum of 4 months. Determine just how little you can live off of. Weigh your comforts and needs. By the end of that 4 months, you will realize you could have spent/wasted less. Make it a game. Try it again.

allaboutmusic 05-07-2008 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by genuinegirly
When your shoes have started to give out, start looking around. If they're dress shoes, polish them. Wait a month before purchasing. You'll realize those shoes had a lot more life than you thought. Throw away if the sole is literally worn through or the body torn noticeably.

Get your shoes resoled if the sole is worn but the upper is still in good shape. My favourite pair of smart casual shoes is on its third sole now... not very trend-setting, but much cheaper than buying new shoes.

Cynthetiq 05-16-2008 03:33 PM

keep shopping until you are committed to the purchase.

I do this for rental cars when we travel. I sometimes can save a HUGE amount just by continuing to shop the different aggregators. Don't lock in with a credit card unless you absolutely must.

Cynthetiq 05-26-2008 07:35 PM

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Starting Salaries but New York Tastes
May 25, 2008
Starting Salaries but New York Tastes
By CARA BUCKLEY
Laura Werkheiser knew she would have to make many sacrifices to live in Manhattan. Foremost among them was shopping for clothes.

Anticipating, rightly, that her Manhattan digs would be cramped and her budget stretched, Ms. Werkheiser, 26, shipped 18 boxes of her clothes to her parents’ house in Omaha before moving here from San Francisco. The boxes sit in her parents’ basement. When she feels she needs to freshen up her look, Ms. Werkheiser has her mother ship her several outfits from what she dryly refers to as the “Nebraska boutique.”

“If I shop,” said Ms. Werkheiser, “I can’t have a social life and I can’t eat.”

Having one’s mother mail rotating boxes of old clothing is just one of the myriad ways that young newcomers to the city of a certain income — that is, those who are neither investment bankers nor being floated by their parents — manage to live the kind of lives they want in New York. Every year around this time, tens of thousands of postcollegiate people in their 20s flood the city despite its soaring expenses. They are high on ambition, meager of budget and endlessly creative when it comes to making ends meet.

Some tactics have long been chronicled: sharing tiny apartments with strangers. Sharing those apartments with eight strangers. Eating cheap lunches and skipping dinners — not just to save money, but so that drinks pack more of a punch and fewer need be consumed.

But there are smaller measures, no less ingenious, that round out the lifestyle. These young people sneak flasks of vodka into bars, flirt their way into clubs, sublet their walk-in closets, finagle their way into open-bar parties and put off haircuts until they visit their hometowns, even if those hometowns are thousands of miles away.

Ms. Werkheiser’s salary as a publicist, while well south of six figures, might be considered enviable elsewhere in the country, but in New York she has had to reprioritize. So the remote wardrobe was not her only money-saving tactic. She also gave up being a blonde.

Before moving from San Francisco last fall, Ms. Werkheiser realized that paying salon prices for platinum tresses in New York would require cutting back on needs like food and shelter. “So I went natural,” said Ms. Werkheiser. “I dyed it dark, a New York brunette.”

She and her friends have also located just about every B.Y.O.B. brunch spot in the city, plotting them out on Google maps. The cost-consciousness, Ms. Werkheiser says, is worth it: She adores New York and lives, with two roommates, in a $3,450-a-month three-bedroom apartment on the Lower East Side, verily the center of the universe for Manhattan’s young and hip.

Drinking and eating carry their own complications. Especially if you are, say, Noah Driscoll, a 25-year-old project manager for a Chelsea marketing company whose salary is comparable to what a rookie teacher might make.

“For a little while I only ate grapefruits for my lunch,” said Mr. Driscoll, who pays $400 a month on his college loans, “because they have a lot of nutrients and they got me through the day.”

Mr. Driscoll has since started packing two peanut-butter-and-jelly sandwiches for lunch. Dinner might be two baked potatoes. On a recent Monday, it was franks and beans. On a good night, he might spend up to $6.

“To live like a human being on the salary that I make is very difficult in this city,” he said. “You’ve got to forget about brands, you’ve got to forget about, you know, what your mom made you growing up, and take what’s out there.”

Mr. Driscoll’s rent is reasonable: $725 for a room in a converted loft space that he shares with five friends in Gowanus, Brooklyn, near Park Slope. Most of his friends, however, earn far more than he does, and Mr. Driscoll is guilty of that quintessential New York sin: coveting thy neighbor’s salary. One recent night, his roommates went to Peter Luger Steak House. Mr. Driscoll waved them goodbye and stayed home.

Peter Naddeo, a 24-year-old musician, earns $15 an hour working as a temp in Web development in Chelsea, and has perfected the tricky art of stretching lunch into dinner. He moved to New York from Pennsylvania last fall and can barely afford his $80 monthly college loan payments. He listens to a hand-me-down CD player because iPods are out of reach. He pays $600 for a 10-by-10-foot room in Williamsburg, Brooklyn, that has one saving grace: a window that faces east. For lunch, Mr. Naddeo usually orders a $3.50 plate of yellow rice and beans from a Latin American diner on Eighth Avenue, and eats late to ward off hunger pangs. Sometimes he hits up a bar in his neighborhood where a $6 pint comes with a small pizza. Or he relies on friends to feed him.

“My friends aren’t rich,” said Mr. Naddeo, who is slight. “They’re just nice.”

“Pre-gaming,” youth speak for drinking at home before going out, is another cash saver. So is ferreting out bars that offer free drinks at certain times, information that is handily compiled at myopenbar.com. Another trick is to become a semiprofessional “plus one,” and tag along with connected friends to events and shows. Strapped partygoers the city over often sell the contents of goody bags online. The truly bold scrimper, armed with designer swag, might “return” items to a department store for credit.

Cassaundra Reed, a 26-year-old concierge, lives in the West Village with three roommates, and pays $925 for a narrow room where the only viable sleeping arrangement is a twin-size loft bed. Though she lives paycheck to paycheck, her job comes with heavy perks: She often eats at top restaurants, drinks at trendy clubs and sees Broadway shows, all free of charge.

“A lot of the things that I do in New York, I wouldn’t be able to do, because I would have to pay for a lot of it,” she said. “A lot of the restaurants that I’ve been to, I wouldn’t be able to go to at all, because I wouldn’t be able to afford it.”

Allison Mooney, 27, whose first job in the city was in publishing, often skipped dinner before going out, and instead took along mixed salted nuts in her purse. When things got really tight, she occasionally sneaked a flask filled with vodka into bars. Other times, she reluctantly resorted to flirting.

“I find in other cities guys are more apt to buy you drinks and expect nothing from it,” Ms. Mooney said.

“Here, if they do buy you a drink, which is rare, you have to suffer through flirtations. It’s true,” she said, adding, “It’s really cheesy.”

Now, though, Ms. Mooney is a publicist, and this month received a 40 percent raise. She is also about to move in with her boyfriend, so the hard-core scrimping and forced flirting are behind her, at least for now.

Still, some young men insist that women have it easier. The men say strangers never buy them drinks. Mr. Driscoll recently took a date out for margaritas, to a place that was supposedly cheap. They had four drinks and the bill came to $45.

“I looked at the charge four times and immediately regretted it,” he said.

Grooming presents its own challenges. Mr. Naddeo cuts his own hair with an electric razor and wears hand-me-down clothes from friends. Mr. Driscoll has curly hair that he says requires specific products and “some taming.”

“I wouldn’t go just anywhere” for a cut, Mr. Driscoll said. “Not to sound metro, but I like my hair.”

For women, though, grooming can break the bank. Like Ms. Werkheiser, Ms. Reed gave up being blond. But Ms. Werkheiser went further, renouncing manicures and pedicures, and trolling Craigslist for hair stylists offering cheapish cuts. Andrea Duchon, a 22-year-old freelance publicist, landed a spot as a hair model for Bumble and Bumble, where she gets free cuts. Victoria Varney, 23, a brand manager for the Soundgirl clothing line, schedules haircuts into her trips home to Ohio. She also relies heavily on handouts from friends who work with other designers, and on sample sales.

“That is how you shop,” Ms. Varney said. “There is no need to pay full price here.”

Some indulgences are less negotiable than others. So Ms. Varney, formerly a self-professed “huge Sephora shopper,” allows herself Dior mascara and high-shine lip gloss, which cost about $25 each. “Everything else, I’ve regressed and buy at Duane Reade,” she said.

Ms. Werkheiser refuses to give up her Bumble and Bumble shampoo. “I don’t do drugstores,” she said. “I will eat Pringles for dinner instead.”

Adam Leibsohn, a 27-year-old communications strategist who makes roughly $60,000 a year and pays $1,650 a month for his own apartment in the East Village, says the trick to squeaking by in the city is to swear off impulse purchases and credit cards. He cooks for himself, pirates wireless Internet access and buys electronics from Craigslist or eBay. If he wants new clothes, he unloads old ones first at the Salvation Army, keeping the receipt for his taxes. “It’s kind of a spartan lifestyle,” he says. “I eat a lot of street meat for lunch.”

Sarah Avrin, a 23-year-old music publicist, said she was struck recently by the sacrifices that some people make to sustain their New York lifestyle when one of her friends endured the long, painful process of selling her eggs.

Many young people wonder just how long they will be willing or able to pay their dues to stay in New York until that new job, that big break or that coveted raise comes along. Mr. Driscoll tries to constantly remind himself that he “won’t be eating scraps” forever.

Mr. Naddeo, who has his own band, Archipelago, and plays in several others, said, “The whole plan is that something good will come along eventually, like something will just come my way.” One of the bands recently earned $180 at a gig — not a bad haul, except that 13 musicians were playing.

“I mean, New York’s just the place for that type of thing to happen. And I’m hoping it will soon,” Mr. Naddeo said. “I’ll be rich and famous and this is going to be hilarious.”
NYC is a hard town that's for sure. I believe that's why the Sinatra line, "If I can make it there, I'll make it anywhere". I'm not trying to make this a NY-centric thread, because really, "making it" is an important thing. The ability to stand on your own two feet with no one but you being responsible for yourself. Yes, we have relatives and friends to assist and bail out of situations, but all in all, the idea of making it... of making something more than what you started with...

I read this article and thought to myself, it is part of the carpe diem that is slightly missing from my current self. I'm comfortable with our salaries and our lifestyles. But that won't be satisfactory in 10 years and if don't make the adjustments now I'm not going to hit those goals.

And with all the trips that Skogafoss and I have been taking this year, so far they have been plenty, Chicago twice, LA, Las Vegas, Tampa, Puerto Rico and we just booked yet another trip to Las Vegas. We've started eating PB&J and grilled cheese sandwiches. While it's not the college ramen staple, it is still something out of ordinary for us to scrimp in order to save. We don't have to do it, but then something else in the budget would have to give.

The last time we did this kind of scrimping we did it 100% so that we could buy where we live right now. We did it for 2 years... this time it will be a little shorter, but we have some additional goals in mind. This time it's for a few months, just so that we can take some additional travel in for larger goals.

allaboutmusic 05-27-2008 03:43 PM

That sounds a lot like London. Lots of people I know are getting to the point in their lives when they're questioning if London is really worth the trouble.

pocon1 05-28-2008 12:16 PM

nothing to say

Tully Mars 05-28-2008 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by pocon1
About dating:

Just get a hooker. You will get exactly what you pay for, and the cost is up front. No dinners, no movies, just the three G's. Get In, Get Off, Get Out. It will save money in the long run.


Umm, you may have left off a "G"- Get to the clinic.:eek:

Baraka_Guru 05-28-2008 03:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pocon1
About dating:

Just get a hooker. You will get exactly what you pay for, and the cost is up front. No dinners, no movies, just the three G's. Get In, Get Off, Get Out. It will save money in the long run.

I would have just said find yourself a woman who makes at least double what you do. But whatever.

smoore 05-28-2008 07:58 PM

Back on track:

I don't know if I or someone else mentioned this before but... power strips. They are your buddy. We have all our "vampire loads" plugged into them and we turn the power strip off when not using said "charger pucks". When a computer gets powered down, it's power strip gets powered down too.

It's kinda fun to go into the yard and watch the 'fridge kick on via the power meter.

denton 06-01-2008 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Baraka_Guru
I would have just said find yourself a woman who makes at least double what you do. But whatever.

As long as she doesn't consistently spend 120% of your combined incomes like my woman does.:shakehead:

Cynthetiq 06-28-2008 09:08 AM

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Source: NYTimes
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Food-Shopping Tips Direct From the Store Manager
June 28, 2008
Your Money
Food-Shopping Tips Direct From the Store Manager
By RON LIEBER
At the bottom of some of its receipts, Heinen’s Fine Foods prints its phone number and asks customers to call in with comments. And each week, Tom Heinen, who runs the 17-store chain in the Cleveland area with his twin brother, Jeff, listens to a recording of those calls as he drives to work in his Chevy Blazer.

This week, he let me listen in as we made a lap of the suburbs, visiting his stores and those of the competition. While lots of self-styled shopping experts have been trotting out the same tried-and-true advice recently on clipping coupons and avoiding the store while hungry, I thought we could learn something new about shopping tactics by talking to a grocer who actually sets the prices.

It’s a tricky time to be selling the high-quality foods Heinen’s offers. Egg prices in May were up 18.2 percent from a year ago, while bread rose 15.9 percent and milk was up 10.2 percent, according to Consumer Price Index data. With those kinds of spikes, the big question most consumers are asking is whether it’s time to switch grocers.

On those phone calls, Heinen’s customers are indeed complaining a lot about prices. But so far, most of them seem to have stuck by the chain.

Their loyalty suggests a couple of things about the kind of middle- and upper-class shoppers Heinen’s tends to attract. While they are concerned about price, they’re increasingly thinking about their foods’ origins and quality. So they would just as soon not trade down from a store like Heinen’s that offers handsome local radishes and an excellent stir-fry station.

And they almost certainly don’t want to drive around to six different stores cherry-picking deals. “With two adults working and the kids going to soccer, I defy you to show me how they can do it,” Mr. Heinen said. “They’ll be in the nuthouse.”

But the chain has chosen to do a number of things differently, given that Whole Foods entered the Cleveland market last year and regional chains have been relentlessly papering the area with circulars. (Whole Foods itself has its own initiatives under way, which I’ll describe below.)

If your grocer isn’t trying some of these same experiments, you’re probably paying more than you need to. And the questions the Heinen brothers and others have been asking are the same ones you should be asking of your grocers. Here are a few of them:

HOW MUCH ARE YOU THROWING OUT? According to one Agriculture Department estimate — though it is more than 10 years old — Americans waste 27 percent of all food available for human consumption. Tom Heinen is well aware of this, since grocers have to get rid of all sorts of food past its prime. But he thinks that grocery shoppers share some of the blame as well. His solution is to spend more money but waste less food.

He explained his logic in front of a display of sausage-stuffed Hungarian peppers, assembled in Heinen’s kitchen and ready for cooking at home. “It’s not cheaper to make it yourself if you throw parts of the peppers or the sausage away,” he said.

The theory here is that if you buy marinated meat or washed lettuce or other convenience items, you’re not creating any waste in the preparation. If you chop and stuff those peppers with sausage yourself, however, you may buy too much of one or the other and neglect to use it or throw out parts of the pepper that don’t work in the recipe. You may also buy the ingredients but never get around to making the dish.

This way of shopping puts money in the grocer’s pocket, so take it with a grain of imported sea salt. But if you value your time and find yourself throwing away half-heads of lettuce on a regular basis, these sorts of convenience foods may be more economical than you think.

WHERE ARE THE ARTISAN-QUALITY DEALS? Heinen’s has won “best cheese selection” honors from Cleveland Magazine for several years running, a tall order for a nonspecialty shop. To keep that title, with cheese prices up 14 percent in the last year nationally, the store’s managers knew they had to make some adjustments.

“We went to vendors and said to them, ‘Go out and find us artisan equivalent cheese,’ ” said Chris Foltz, the company’s director of operations. What Heinen’s was looking for was the unusual, the delicious and the gently priced.

Now, Heinen’s is selling an Australian cheddar and Monterey Jack cheese for $5.99 a pound and is promoting those new offerings with signs that say “Heinen’s Great Value Cheeses.” There’s an offering from Wisconsin, too, for shoppers concerned about how far their food has traveled.

If this all sounds a bit familiar, it’s because Trader Joe’s has been using similar strategies for years, helping it to develop a cult following. “Too many of our customers think they’re too cool,” Tom Heinen said of Trader Joe’s. “We’re worried more about them than we are about Whole Foods.”

Your grocer ought to be eyeing the competition, too. Does it offer fair prices on unique products? Is there a conscious effort to stock interesting and inexpensive wines? Good olive oil for under $10? If not, ask why.

IS IT LOCAL? One way to keep prices low is to buy local produce, since it travels fewer miles to the store and tends to pass through fewer hands. Heinen’s now has a produce buyer whose primary job during the warm months is to shop the local produce auctions. The chain buys from 45 farmers, most of whom are no more than two hours away.

This last week, for instance, radishes and green onions from K. W. Zellers & Son in Hartville, Ohio, sold for 99 cents for two bunches, and they sit under a “Home Grown” sign highlighting their origin. When local bell peppers are in season, they sell for 59 cents a pound, a fraction of the price that peppers from far away fetch in the winter. At Heinen’s, local produce is cheaper about three quarters of the time.

Local products aren’t always less expensive. Heinen’s carries a goat cheese, for instance, that costs about $24 a pound. But grocers generally promote such items anyway, since many shoppers like the idea of supporting nearby businesses and buying items that didn’t consume too much diesel fuel to get to the store.

WHO’S MY TOUR GUIDE? Not every grocery store bothers to highlight local products. So you may need to ask what comes from nearby and who grew or made it. “One of the things Whole Foods taught us is the need to tell stories” about our products, Mr. Heinen said. In fact, Heinen’s has 50 stories that it trains employees to tell customers about its meat, produce, baked goods and other items.

This month, Whole Foods took another step forward on this front, designating one employee from each store as a “value guru.” Those employees now give regular tours highlighting sales, local and seasonal items and popular selections from its private label brand.

I learned a couple of new things on my tour with Alli Krohn Smith in the company’s Union Square store in Manhattan. First, you can order many grocery items by the case and receive a 5 percent discount. In the health and beauty aisle, where many grocers try to rob you blind, Whole Foods has its own brand of shampoo and conditioner. They each sold for $3.79 for 32 ounces in New York, which is a nice deal.

Though your store may not have a guru per se, there ought to be someone knowledgeable enough to answer the following questions: What’s new? What’s local? What’s exclusive to this store or chain? What’s the best deal in the store right now? What did you buy this week for your own pantry?

WHAT KIND OF GROCER DO YOU PATRONIZE? Running a grocery store is a tough way to make a living. Industry veterans refer to it somewhat derisively as a “1 percent business,” because of its rock-bottom profit margins. The stores are labor- and logistics-intensive and riddled with waste and costs of every sort.

So this is what you have to ask yourself: If you are patronizing a grocer that doubles your coupons, discounts your gasoline or runs other expensive promotions, how exactly are they staying in business? Are they gouging you on the second most popular brand when the most popular one goes on sale? Do prices bounce around so frequently that it’s impossible to keep the baseline in your head?

Shoppers can play the discount game and win by shopping six different stores, buying only the sale items and products they have coupons for, buying in bulk and then cooking from the pantry and freezer.

But if you don’t want to live that life, you shouldn’t beat yourself up. Demanding more from a single store on price — and quality —may be a better way to fill your belly.
here's tips from a gorcery manager

genuinegirly 06-29-2008 11:45 AM

Cyn: Thanks for the tips from the grocery manager! Interesting to think about consistancy of prices. The key really does seem to be this: THINK.

pocon1: Not sure if you realized, but it was a woman that started this thread (me!). Not all women are out to make use of your money while out on a date. If you honestly feel that a string of hookers can be less expensive overall than a girlfriend or a wife, you're spending time with the wrong women.

Tully Mars 06-29-2008 01:01 PM

Yeah, I think if you're going to look at a cost benefit analyst prior to beginning a relationship your life's going to be pretty shallow and lonely.

genuinegirly 06-29-2008 03:01 PM

Tully_Mars: While I agree with you completely, there is something to be said about finding someone who is compatable from a financial perspective. If you have similar goals and self-control when it comes to money, you'll find there are fewer conflicts. So many otherwise solid relationships fail because of differing perspectives on finances.

Tt and I are doubly happy - I never thought I'd find a man who was as frugal as me, turns out he was just under my nose. His father mirros my mother with their deal-hunting habits, his mother is like my father with their classic style. Throw those backgrounds together and you get us: a pretty awesome duo that can live below the poverty line while fitting in with the upper-middle class.

laconic1 07-15-2008 09:07 PM

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The other thing that I've done is to move from the disposable razors like the Fusion or the fancy Gillette type razors to a double-edge safety razor like:

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Again, it took a bit of up-front investment in that the badger brush cost about 30$, a container of shaving cream was about 20$, and the razor was free. So for about 50$ I have a razor that will last a lifetime, a brush that will easily last about 5-7 years, the shaving cream will last on average about 4-6 months for me (not to mention my skin feels so much better with a natural sandalwood instead of processed goo), and the replacement blades only cost about 3-5$ for 10 blades. I go through maybe 6-8 blades a month right now and that is shaving everyday. So after 3 months, I've already saved money and from now on it will just keep adding up.

I did the same thing a few months ago. My upfront investment was a lot higher that yours, my razor was $55, my brush was $80. My shaving cream was $16.00 and the tub will most likely last me about 2 months, since I tend to use quite a bit. I bought a pack of 100 blades for $14.20 shipped, which at my current usage will last about 1 year. The aftershave balm I use cost $19.00 and will last about 4 months. So that works out to an upfront cost of $135.00 with an annual supply cost of about $150.00. Compare that to when I was using a Fusion going through two $3.00 blades a week and one can of $5.00 shaving cream every three months. Annual supply cost of $325.00. So it won't pay for itself yet for another six or seven months, but once it does then the gains will be pretty significant. Better yet, my skin feels better and is noticeably healthier, with virtually no red bumps or irritation visible now compared to when I was using a Fusion.

clavus 07-16-2008 10:10 AM

I only shave a couple of times per week, and I don't use shaving cream. Just run the blade over my face right out of the shower. That solution might not be for everyone, but it works for me. My face got used to no shaving cream pretty quickly.

Baraka_Guru 07-16-2008 10:25 AM

I've been using the same electric razor my mother bought me when I was 16. That was 16 years ago. My rent has hydro included. How frugal is that?

I also cut my own hair, using a number 2 or 3, depending on my mood.

Frugalicious.

clavus 07-23-2008 12:36 PM

Oh ya. Free haircuts. My wife does the whole family (except for herself). We have an understanding. If she ever really screws up, it's OK to shave my head. It will grow back.

tangerineflower 08-06-2008 09:54 PM

Very helpful thread. When I have the time, I'll go through all of the links. I would love to spend less money on food and I know all the ramen I eat isn't that great for me. This has helped to motivate me to make a change.

I'm already doing some money saving things that are also good for the environment. We have a nice big garden which gives us vegetables throughout the summer. We also have a flock of chickens, a dozen in fact. They give us us cheap eggs to eat, surplus eggs to sell and wonderful fertilizer. All we have to give them is food, water and love.

Halx 08-07-2008 01:26 PM

I fail in so many ways at being frugal. I order delivery and eat at restaurants on a regular basis. I purchase for quality over price. I buy myself presents all the time. I go to the movies a lot and go to bars and wine and dine. I live in Manhattan. I can tell you that if I had been a little more patient in pulling the trigger on HALF of my big ticket purchases, I would have been able to make about 50% MORE big ticket purchases. I favor buying over shopping. I probably own a lot of things that I can live without. I've probably upgraded a lot of things that didn't need improvement.

Sometimes I regret it. The rest of the time, I use all the time I would have spent strategizing over it to just enjoy it.

Cynthetiq 08-07-2008 02:17 PM

quality is relative if you're going to be buying something that is supposed to last a lifetime. why buy 10 $50 watches in your lifetime when 1 $500 Rolex will do.

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Life on $7 a Day
Life on $7 a Day
March 04, 2008 12:09 PM ET | Kimberly Palmer | Permanent Link


My friend Zack, who lives in New York City, recently told me that on average, he spends only $7 per day on food. I asked him to share his tips, many of which he gleaned from the personal finance blog the Simple Dollar. Here's how Zack saves money on food:

• Buy in bulk. Zack drives to the suburbs in New Jersey to shop at bulk retailers, such as Sam's Club. He fills large duffel bags of food to bring back to the city and estimates it saves a significant chunk of change each month.

• Stockpile supplies. Cans of beans and tomatoes are cheap, store easily, and make quick, filling meals.

• Compare prices. For some items, such as fruit, buying from street vendors turns out to be cheaper than shopping at Manhattan grocery stores.

• Cook big. Zack makes lots of soup, chili, and other big dishes that can turn into leftovers or even go into the freezer for a future meal. To spruce up the dishes and make them even bigger, he often adds pasta or rice.

• Plan ahead. By loosely deciding in advance which meals to cook on which nights, Zack avoids getting home from work—starving—and eating out just because it seems easier.


Cynthetiq 10-04-2008 11:03 AM

Here's just a few ways that we go to see many of the broadway and off broadway shows for little to no money here in NYC.

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Seeing the Show Without Breaking the Bank
October 5, 2008
Weekend in New York
Seeing the Show Without Breaking the Bank
By SETH KUGEL
PRESIDENT BUSH and Treasury Secretary Henry Paulson have announced bold initiatives to calm the nation during these times of financial crisis, and Congress has weighed in. But no one has mentioned any relief whatsoever for one vital sector of Americans: theater fans planning a trip to New York City. One hundred and twenty dollars plus fees for an orchestra seat to see a Broadway show? In this economy?

When the government fails to act, Weekend in New York must step into the void. There are plenty of ways to go to the theater — and even get great seats to Tony Award-winning Broadway shows — for under $50.

Probably the best deal is the front-row ticket lottery for shows like “In The Heights,” “Avenue Q,” “Hairspray” and “Wicked.” There is no better feeling in theater fandom than standing on West 46th Street in front of the Richard Rodgers Theatre and hearing your name called by the friendly folks who run the lottery for “In The Heights,” the Tony Award Best Musical for 2008. Winning snags you a pair of front-row orchestra seats for $26.50 each on the day of the show.

The odds are actually not bad. Weekend In New York’s attempts to win were successful on the third try, landing two tickets right-of-center, close enough to see the sweat drip from the dancers in the upbeat story of a Latino neighborhood in northern Manhattan. (Boy, do they sweat.)

And it wasn’t a once-in-a-lifetime stroke of luck: an average of about 80 people have been entering the lottery lately, and there are 11 sets of two seats available. If you run the numbers, a couple visiting New York who enters the lottery for three of five weekend shows stands about a 60 percent chance of winning at least once.

Here’s how it works: You and your companion bring photo ID’s and cash to cover the tickets to the theater two to two and a half hours before the show (though times vary for the other shows). You each fill out a little slip of paper, and then wait for the drawing. No problem arriving at 5:59 for an 8 p.m. show; in fact, that’s the best way to do it, since early birds have no advantage. (Just one of you has to be there to win a pair, but your odds are sliced about in half since you can only fill out one slip.)

And there’s a great consolation prize: The theater is on the same block as the TKTS discount ticket booth (tdf.org), where they sell same-day seats for sharp discounts, usually 25 to 50 percent. Thirty seconds after you lose, you can be in line there. (And it’s only a couple minutes’ walk from the other theaters.) On those three recent visits, the wait at 6 p.m. at TKTS was negligible.

As always with TKTS, bring a magazine or newspaper with theater listings, so you can look at the ever-changing screen that announces what’s available and choose wisely. Since even half-price tickets on Broadway can go for more than $50, the Off Broadway shows on the right side of the screen are often the best bet. (Off Broadway theaters have fewer than 500 seats; Broadway theaters have 500 or more.)

If you’re intent on seeing a Broadway show, but don’t want to take your chances with lotteries or last-minute discounts, several shows have tickets for under $50, usually for seats in the back rows (not bad) or with obstructed views (kind of bad). Among them: “Spamalot” (excluding holiday periods) for $36.50; “Phantom of the Opera” for $26.50 if you go Monday through Thursday, and “In The Heights” for $41.50. As of recently, many performances had cheap seats available just a week in advance.

Off Broadway shows are cheaper, although not necessarily cheap. At New World Stages, a sort of multiplex of Off Broadway shows on West 50th Street, a few shows offer seats for $25 or under. Tickets for “Altar Boyz,” the absurdly funny mock concert given by a Catholic boy band (with one accidental Jew), are $25, and all you need is a decent neck: the seats are on the far ends of the front row, and aren’t bad at all.

That’s the regular price, but there are also discounts available for many Off Broadway shows. The Best of Off-Broadway (bestofoffbroadway.com) is a user-friendly site that doles out codes for sharp discounts on around 20 shows, saving you 20 to 40 percent and sometimes more on good seats. (Registration is required, but easy.) Other Web sites offering discounts are broadwaybox.com and goldstar.com, and there is a comprehensive discount page on nytheatre.com that also mentions rush tickets, which are last-minute bargains often restricted to students with ID.

But the absolute easiest way to find inexpensive theater is to hit Off Off Broadway, by definition theaters that seat fewer than 100 people. The shows are usually $18 or less, and take place in cool spots like Performance Space 122, housed in an old public school building in the East Village, and the SoHo Repertory Theater, which even offers 99-cent seats for Sunday shows, though good luck getting those.

Since the shows’ runs are short and attract less press attention, a couple of Web sites can help you sort through the mess. Indietheater.org has thorough, impressively up-to-date and easy-to-read listings with links to learn more about each. Offoffonline.com’s listings are less helpfully formatted and not as up-to-date, but the site publishes its own reviews and feature articles. That’s an invaluable service: sure, trying for front-row “In the Heights” tickets sounds risky, but choosing an Off Off Broadway show without guidance? That’s the real lottery.


Painted 10-05-2008 11:15 PM

I live in a treehouse I built myself. Totally secluded, in a ravine in a sparsely popuulated area. Spent the summer there. Rent? Never heard of it. Where am I now? Wintering at my SO's place :thumbsup:

Threadjack: I bought one of these: Windsor Bikes - The Hour from bikesdirect.com last Thursday. They shipped it same day I ordered it, and apparently they sent me something, because they sent a tracking number that shows my address. A friend used them and said they work, so they're probably okay.

Rekna 10-06-2008 01:51 PM

Two ways I save a lot of money are 1) learn to cook 2) netflix. Cooking at home typically yields much better food than going out at a fraction of the cost. Also netflix is cheap if you utilize it a bunch. At home we do 2 DVDs at a time. Whenever a DVD comes in the mail we rip it and send it back immediately. Then later that weeks we watch the DVD and delete it. Usually by the time we watch the DVD we already have the next one ready to go. Sometimes we will get 3-4 DVDs ripped at a time giving us a good backlog of DVDs if we get a lot of extra time.

Also if you are single and want to save on entertainment consider getting a fun MMORPG where the monthly cost is fairly low. I remember playing Everquest and getting many many hours of entertainment for $10 a month. Also when playing that game I probably skipped over $10 worth of meals....

genuinegirly 10-06-2008 03:48 PM

Halx - Yep, shopping around isn't for everyone. If you don't get a thrill out of the hunt, it's not necessarily worthwhile.
Cyn - thanks for the great tips!
Painted - A tree would be a fun place to live. Now that's a new frugality extreme.
Rekna - Yes! Learning to cook is a great tip. Netflix is great. So is Hulu.

Cynthetiq 10-10-2008 05:27 PM

here's more tips for seeing theater in NYC

take notice that some of these tips will apply to other cities, such as student discount seats, senior discount, or even SRO.

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Bad Times, Good Prices
October 10, 2008
Cheap Seats
Bad Times, Good Prices
By BEN SISARIO
CULTURE can be expensive, no matter which way the Dow is pointing. But in belt-tightening times, the cost of enjoying the arts in New York might seem particularly daunting.

Take Broadway, for example. The average price paid for a ticket last week was $76, according to the Broadway League, which represents theater owners and producers. For many shows that will barely get you a spot in the rear mezzanine — or, in the case of the “Equus” revival at the Broadhurst Theater, one of the 52 seats onstage.

Or do you prefer rock ’n’ roll? Prices for pop concerts are higher than ever. The national average for entry to this year’s major tours is slightly more than $67, the trade magazine Pollstar has reported, and — surprise — New York is the most expensive market in the country. The top price for Neil Young’s shows at Madison Square Garden in December is more than $250, which is also what a prime seat at the Metropolitan Opera will cost you.

Fortunately for anyone who wants to maintain a busy cultural calendar but hears the call of frugality — and for those of us who pinch pennies regardless — New York is also the home of the bargain ticket, with an array of discounts, promotions and freebies for everything from poetry readings downtown to the glamour of opera at Lincoln Center.

Kate D. Levin, the city’s cultural affairs commissioner, says markdowns are part of basic arts economics.

“Revenue from ticket sales will always be important,” Ms. Levin said, “but remaining affordable to serve loyal patrons is likely to be a priority for most organizations during times of economic uncertainty.”

Here are some suggestions for how to get the most for your cultural dollar.

The Great White Bargain

Perhaps nothing symbolizes the entertainment draw of New York better than Broadway, and the theater world has the most extensive discount system.

The classic Broadway buck-saver is the TKTS booth, operated by the nonprofit Theater Development Fund (tdf.org). With tickets at 25 to 50 percent off, and sometimes more, it has locations in Times Square, South Street Seaport and, since July, downtown Brooklyn. On Thursday its gleaming new Times Square facility will open with a bonus: credit cards will finally be accepted.

Broadway and Off Broadway producers also advertise through Season of Savings, a booklet of coupons for up to 55 percent off, distributed in newspapers and available on the Web (seasonofsavings.com). It was created in response to the drop in theater attendance after 9/11, said Nancy Coyne of the Broadway advertising agency Serino Coyne, which runs the program.

“We were nervous that New Yorkers needed more than just Giuliani telling them to go to the theater,” Ms. Coyne said, referring to reassurances at the time by Mayor Rudolph W. Giuliani.

In addition, most Broadway shows have rush or standing-room tickets sold before the performance; a handful, including “Avenue Q,” “Wicked” and “Hairspray,” have daily lotteries for front-row seats under $30. Onstage seating is available at “Spring Awakening” ($40) and “Equus” ($76.50 for most shows; details at equusonbroadway.com).

Among Off Broadway’s many deals, the New York Theater Workshop (nytw.org) is selling all Sunday tickets for $20, and the Keen Company (keencompany.org) is offering 15 seats to Jan de Hartog’s “Fourposter” on Tuesdays for $15. A cluster of Web sites, including broadwaybox.com and nytheatre.com, have sizable deals for Broadway, Off Broadway and beyond.

One major new bargain in town is Free Night of Theater, a nationwide event organized by the Theater Communications Group. Begun three years ago in Philadelphia, San Francisco and Austin, Tex., it has now expanded to 120 cities, including New York for the first time.

In New York 115 theaters are giving away about 6,000 tickets for performances from Thursday to the end of October. “Fuerzabruta” at the Daryl Roth Theater, “Streamers” and “The Language of Trees” at the Roundabout Theater Company, and “Woyzeck” at the Brooklyn Academy of Music are all on the list. Free Night’s Web site (freenightnyc.net) began accepting reservations last week; most spots have been claimed, but theaters may add more, said Phillip Matthews, the director of audience programs for Theater Communications Group.

Students of Savings

There is a kind of benevolent class system to the discount game, favoring students and retirees — at least those with time to spare.

The New York Philharmonic (nyphil.org) sells $12 tickets to students and has deals for people 65 and older. At Carnegie Hall (carnegiehall.org), students are eligible for subscriptions at $15 per concert and both students and those 65 and older can get into some concerts for $10; student entry to the Chamber Music Society of Lincoln Center (chambermusicsociety.org) is $10 at the box office the day of the show, or half-price in advance.

The catch is that it is almost a job in itself to keep track of all the rules and schedules. Those student tickets at the Philharmonic go on sale 10 days before the performance, and tickets for age 65 and over the day of the concert, if the show is not sold out; Carnegie’s discounts go on sale weekly.

Students and those 65 and older, get to the Brooklyn Academy of Music (bam.org) 90 minutes before show time for $10 entry. But you’ll need to act fast to get the special $20 orchestra seats at the Metropolitan Opera (metopera.org), offered for most performances Mondays through Thursdays. They go on sale two hours before showtime, and the line forms early for the most popular shows.

Dance Theater Workshop (dtw.org) gives 40 percent off to students and those 65 and older, as well as performing artists, who should be prepared to show some proof of creative employment (a review, for example).

The rules are even more byzantine on Broadway.

For “Spring Awakening,” for example, student rush tickets go on sale each day when the box office opens, but for “The 39 Steps,” be there two hours before the curtain; “Mamma Mia!” has rush tickets, but only on Wednesdays and Thursdays. Rush tickets for “Chicago” are available for each performance except Saturday night, and you need not be a student, but for “Speed-the-Plow” they go on sale two hours before showtime — and have that student ID ready.

Got all that?

For a Song

Discounts are nice, but you can’t beat free. Besides Free Night of Theater, there’s a wealth of world-class arts events in New York offered gratis.

On Friday the World Financial Center (worldfinancialcenter.com) presents a piano marathon honoring Thelonious Monk, with Geri Allen, Randy Weston and Chucho Valdés. Later this season are the composer Bobby Previte (Oct. 28), the Limón Dance Company (Nov. 4) and 20th-century choral music with Musica Sacra (Nov. 18) — all free.

The Lower Manhattan Cultural Council’s new “Poems & Pints” series (lmcc.net) presents major American poets at Fraunces Tavern, one of the oldest buildings in Manhattan. Paul Muldoon and Mark Strand read on Nov. 4.

Joe’s Pub (joespub.com) is celebrating its 10th anniversary this weekend with 10 free shows, including Jill Sobule, Allen Toussaint and Roy Nathanson. For classical fans, St. Thomas Church (saintthomaschurch.org) is in the midst of a six-concert run of Messiaen’s organ works on Saturday afternoons, and on Monday the Daedalus Quartet begins a lunchtime Haydn series at Philosophy Hall at Columbia University (millertheater.com). The Juilliard School (juilliard.edu) has a cornucopia of free concerts.

Lovers of the visual arts are particularly fortunate. Galleries are free to browse, and for the Metropolitan (metmuseum.org) and the Brooklyn Museum (brooklynmuseum.org), among others, an entry fee is suggested but not required. Many other museums offer discounted hours: On Friday nights, for example, Asia Society (asiasociety.org) is free, the Guggenheim (guggenheim.org) is half-price, and you can pay what you wish at the Whitney (whitney.org).

The Art of the Deal

It may be too soon for many arts institutions to gauge how the recent economic tumult will affect attendance and sales, and to decide how to react. Some are starting with community outreach: in response to the bad news on Wall Street, the 92nd Street Y has added career counseling to the programming of its new downtown branch, 92YTribeca, which opens next weekend.

But for the city’s most dedicated cultural bargain hunters, a good deal is a good deal no matter what is happening in the economy.

Outside the Metropolitan Opera one afternoon this week, 100 or so patrons were lined up for $20 orchestra seats to see Strauss’s “Salome” — seats that normally cost up to $175. (Starting Monday the Met will offer prime tickets to John Adams’s “Doctor Atomic” for $20 and $30 thanks to a $500,000 donation by Agnes Varis and her husband, Karl Leichtman, who financed the original $20 program, which is now three years old.)

They had brought books and magazines to read while waiting for the tickets to go on sale at 6. Linda Larys, 70, said she went to the opera about five times a season and got the discount whenever possible.

“These are cheap tickets,” she said. “That’s why we’re here.”

ngdawg 10-10-2008 07:46 PM

Before I leave for work, I shut off everything-computers, lights, unplug phone chargers...the only things running are the fridge and clocks.
I buy marked down meats and haven't had steak in two years.
We only run the clothes dryer for a few minutes, then hang everything on a line in the basement or on hangers.
I'm learning to buy off brands-I was always a bit of a brand snob when grocery shopping but now I look at prices.
I put my kids on a weekly allowance to cover lunches and their entertainment. This way, we're not shelling out $10 here and there or scrambling to do so.
I'm collecting Coke points. The spouse checks the freebie lists and Craig's list daily for freebie stuff.

Tully Mars 10-11-2008 05:42 AM

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Originally Posted by ngdawg (Post 2542941)
I'm learning to buy off brands-I was always a bit of a brand snob when grocery shopping but now I look at prices.

I rarely buy name brand anything. Half the time the difference between name brand and store brand is the label... and the price.

I buy "Wally World" mouthwash and I swear it's Scope but the price nearly 1/2.

Cynthetiq 10-11-2008 05:03 PM

pay attention to newspapers.... local or your destination. You'll notice that the last few posts I've made have come from the New York Times.

When we locate a destination, I start subscribing and bookmarking as local as I can find of the destination. This is two fold reasoning. I get to know the location in some fashion as we travel about, I'll see recognizeable names that aren't necessarily in Fodor's and DK Travel Guides. Second, because locals can't afford what tourists pay for things on a regular basis, so I'll find cheaper off the beaten path finds.

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Frugal New York
October 12, 2008
Frugal New York
By MATT GROSS
AT its most generous, New York bestows a rare gift upon visitor and resident alike: it makes you feel young. Stride down its granite-steel-and-glass corridors, and your viewpoint is instantly that of a child, eyes directed forever upward.

But New York offers a deeper sense of youth, too, the earnest expectation that one day, out of the blue, your real, true life will finally begin. A subway scene inspires a novel, an encounter at the bodega nets a stock pick, a salsa class sets you down a new career path — whatever it is, it will seem predestined, a turning point, the kind of epiphany that, as Cindy Adams would insist, can only happen here, kids.

Unfortunately, the corollary of youth is poverty, and New York has a way of reminding everyone from hourly wage strivers to uptown trust-funders that it is always possible to have more, and to spend more. The million-dollar studio apartment, the $50 restaurant entree, the $1,000 bottle of vodka — these are a capricious city’s perverse challenges to would-be Gatsbys.

Yet after a decade of living in New York City — nine years in Manhattan, 18 months in Brooklyn — I’ve learned that big-ticket amusements merely obscure the city’s more affordable (and more enjoyable) corners, something I was recently prepared to put to the test. One weekend in late September, my wife, Jean, and I set out to rediscover our hometown as frugal tourists, on a budget of $500, about $30 less than the rent on my very first apartment, a shared two-bedroom tenement on the edge of Chinatown.

Bargains like those are harder than ever to come by, especially if you’re a tourist uninterested in signing a yearlong lease. Jean and I first scoured the Web for affordable bed-and-breakfasts — and found all the good ones fully booked through the fall. Then we looked into vacation rentals through Craigslist, long a source of cheap (if not always legal) short-term sublets, and Roomorama.com, a newcomer, and turned up a few affordable possibilities (including a shared walk-up on Allen Street, our old block) before realizing that this was supposed to be a vacation, and we were all too familiar with cramped New York apartments.

So I settled on the Chelsea, perhaps the city’s most storied hotel, and discovered a forgotten bargain. Once home to Mark Twain and Dylan Thomas, Arthur Miller and Ethan Hawke, Sid Vicious and Nancy Spungen, the Chelsea is a haven for artists and bohemians. And despite changes in ownership and management, it still offers rooms for far less than just about anywhere else: $149 a night (pretax), a pittance in New York.

On a clear and cool Friday afternoon, Jean and I checked in. In the lobby, long-term residents and transients like us sat in armchairs near an unlighted fireplace, tapping on their laptops, watched over by a fat pink girl on a swing — a sculpture. Other “vaguely alarming artworks,” many donated as payment for rooms, lined the dim hallways and a “baronial staircase” — in the words of Joseph O’Neill, whose new novel “Netherland” is partly set at the Chelsea — swept up the hotel’s 10 floors.

Our room — No. 828, where the Beat writer Herbert Huncke once lived and the artist Elizabeth Peyton had her first show — was airy, crusty with age but crisp and clean, with a broad southern view, a Marimekko-esque duvet and big, soft towels curled up on the dresser like sleeping cats. The only drawback was that we had to share the bathroom down the hall. But given the hotel’s price, history and central location, we hardly cared — the Chelsea was a no-brainer.

One could probably spend an entirely entertaining weekend within the Chelsea, observing the antics of thin European tourists and oddball residents, but Jean and I had other plans. We caught the F train to the Museum of Modern Art, where admission, normally a prohibitive $20, is free on Friday evenings.

We admired Mikhael Subotzky’s photographs of South Africa — trash-pickers in the Vaalkoppies dump, a jackal hunter and his kills — and the fantastical array of creatures in the “Wunderkammer” exhibition, then descended to the museum’s basement for a free movie.

Set in Singapore but shot in New York, “The Letter” tells the tale of a planter’s wife who murders her former lover who’s left her for another woman. Aside from its historical importance — it was the first talkie shot in the city, according to the Museum of Modern Art — the 1929, 65-minute film features a surprisingly modern (and Oscar-nominated) performance by Jeanne Eagles as the pathological Leslie Crosbie, who ends the movie with the mad declaration, “I still love the man I killed!” (The film was remade with Bette Davis in a 1940s release that earned her an Oscar nomination for Best Actress.)

When the film let out, we walked north to the Parker Meridien hotel, crossed the polished marble floor of its airy lobby, ducked behind a maroon curtain and found ourselves in another tax bracket: Cheap-looking wood-paneled walls hung with “Sopranos” and Ramones posters. Elvis on the stereo. A little old lady in a housedress who kissed the employees good-bye. Cardboard signs written in magic marker. A line out the door. Welcome to Burger Joint, one of New York’s great open secrets.

Jean and I ordered at the counter, snagged a booth and attacked our very good burgers, fries, beer and soda — at $29, not the cheapest meal in Manhattan, but certainly the cheapest in a luxury Midtown hotel. Then a young man with a 1970s-pornography-star mustache approached us through the crowd and asked, “Yo, can I call dibs on your table?”

Sure. In New York, it’s dibs, not dollars, that matter.

EARLY the next morning, I went jogging down Hudson River Park, a stylishly landscaped parcel of waterfront that runs from Battery Park City, near the southern tip of the island, to 59th Street. For most of New York’s history, this zone was, uh, gritty, but now there are no traces of sailors, prostitutes, drug addicts or cruisers. I saw only sparkling piers, a Nike-sponsored runners’ hangout, dog walkers — a yuppie paradise.

Actually, the grittiest area was Battery Park City, a swarm of modern towers that were once derided for their soullessness but now seem an inextricable part of the city’s fabric. Chinese women were practicing tai chi there, while a homeless woman chattered to herself near the water.

I turned and headed home, making an eastward detour to City Bakery for coffee, tea, a whole-wheat croissant and a pressed chocolate sandwich ($8.50), then discovering a mid-19th-century Spanish-and-Portuguese Jewish cemetery on 21st Street near Avenue of the Americas. For two years, I’d worked around the corner from these slanting tombstones but never knew of their existence.

Conversely, I’d long known that the Metropolitan Museum of Art was essentially free — admission is pay-as-you-wish — but as a regular New Yorker I rarely took advantage. As budget-minded tourists, however, Jean and I braved the mid-Saturday crowds to see the inspiring J. M.W. Turner show that was about to close and paid the museum $2 for the privilege. (If you’re headed to the Met this month, I recommend the Jeff Koons installation on the rooftop sculpture garden, which closes on Oct. 26. The art is trippy and the setting offers unparalleled views of Central Park and the Manhattan skyline.)

We would’ve seen more, but hunger drove us into the street, onto the No. 6 train (using one-day unlimited Fun Passes, $7.50) and down to Curry Hill, the Indian business strip of Lexington Avenue between 26th and 30th Streets. Among the dozens of restaurants, some dives, others upscale, we chose the original, 32-year-old Curry in a Hurry, where rice, two decent curries, nan and unlimited salad cost about $10. In the sunlit dining room, where Bollywood movies show on a big TV, we tried to finish our meals ($21.12 in all), and Jean remarked on the diversity of the clientele: French tourists, Indian families, old-timers — none seemed to be in any particular hurry.

We, however, were. By scouring Time Out New York and New York Magazine, as well as FreeNYC.net and ClubFreeTime.com, I’d found dozens of enticing no-cost events. At 2 p.m. was a tour of Central Park’s Belvedere Castle. At 3, “Romeo and Juliet” on West 55th Street. At 5, Circus Amok in Washington Square Park; at 7:30, Calo Flamenco in East Harlem. Whenever we wanted, we could catch the ferry to Governors Island for the art show. The city was taunting us with impossible itineraries.

In the end, we rushed back down to Greenwich Village — by taxi, a $10 necessity — to catch a tour offered by Friends of the Hudson River Park. Henry Strouss, the knowledgeable leader, spent an hour on the area’s history, pointing out the sanitation station where Herman Melville had worked (it was a Customs office then) and the playground sprinkler that marks the mouth of what was, long ago, Minetta Creek. He showed us a new work by Richard Meier — the all-too-obvious glass towers — and one of his oldest, the renovation of Bell Labs into the Westbeth Artists Community.

All these things I felt I should already know — as New Yorkers feel we must — and yet the history of our city is endless, each block a trove of art, architecture, politics, music and literature that no one can ever fully master. Anyone who says they know it all is, well, a know-it-all.

Which is what I was come dinnertime. I thought I’d game the system and save money by choosing a B.Y.O.B. restaurant (from the lists at NYMag.com and nycorked.wikispaces.com), and yet Ivo & Lulu, a cute, seemingly inexpensive French-Caribbean bistro on the western fringe of SoHo, left me disappointed. Sure, the jerk-spiced duck confit was nice, and the bottle of Colombelle white — a favorite of budget-minded art galleries, according to the Chelsea Wine Vault shop — was only $7.58, but somehow dinner came to $53 with the tip. (I later realized we should’ve hit our old standby, Great Jones Cafe, for hearty jambalaya, a fantastic jukebox and lower prices.)

Feeling the pinch, Jean and I decided to revisit our own days of youthful frugality and walked to the Lower East Side, where we had had our first date. Back in 1998, the neighborhood was emerging from its dark days as a center of drugs and crime, and as I showed Jean the landmarks I remembered from those early days — Max Fish, Shakespeare in the Parking Lot, and especially Katz’s, the legendary delicatessen — we’d felt a frisson of discovery. At Katz’s, for instance, I had quickly learned the value of pretipping the counterman (an extra buck got you extra meat) and of filling up on free pickles.

Today, the Lower East Side is a magnet for young people with pop tastes and a lot of money (or a lot of credit-card debt). Velvet ropes abound, and the mobs of partiers transform the tenement-lined streets into a hipster version of crowded Times Square. Below Delancey Street, the scene was cooler and calmer (Fontana’s, for instance, was having a wicked, no-cover soul-music party), but Jean and I felt like outsiders — like the Brooklynites we’d become.

As it grew later, Jean, who was six months pregnant, tired and headed home, but I kept walking the streets of my old neighborhood. I’d heard that a new club, the Delancey, was giving away cans of Pabst Blue Ribbon from midnight to 1 a.m., but when I saw the velvet ropes, I knew I wasn’t going in.

I called a friend to join me and after he arrived, we soon found ourselves amid a small pack of revelers, headed to a bar called Boss Tweed’s that was loathsome in its frattiness, but had an appealing special: two pints of Bud for $3. It even had some historical relevance: William M. Tweed, the infamous 19th-century party boss, died in a jail on nearby Ludlow Street.

After a final refueling at Pommes Frites, whose $4.50 cones of French fries have been sustaining New York University students since 1997, I walked back to the Chelsea, slipping into bed around 4 a.m. Who says I’m not young anymore?

On Sunday morning, Jean and I acted our age and took the D and N trains to Sunset Park, Brooklyn’s Chinatown, where the markets, restaurants and tea shops are as good, if not better, than in Manhattan. The scene, though, was strikingly similar: streets crowded with people inspecting live blue crabs, sucking down bubble tea, wrangling cranky toddlers and buying and selling tube socks by the dozen.

Joined by our friends Ted and Amber Phung, we indulged in that classic New York brunch of dim sum at the shiny Pacificana, where the vast spread of dumplings, radish cakes and really, really good chicken feet came to a puny $11.75 a person, tip included.

Finally, we returned home, to South Brooklyn, and I spent the afternoon at the local yacht club — O.K., the Gowanus Yacht Club, which has neither boats nor membership and is named for the Gowanus Canal, one of the nation’s most polluted waterways. It ain’t fancy — just a concrete beer garden where two cans of Pabst Blue Ribbon will set you back $5.

I sat in the shade, ordered a plastic cup of Sweet Action ale ($6, and worth it), and found myself chatting with a guitarist who records music for commercials and a British artist whose ceramic models of burning houses are sold at the New Museum for Contemporary Art in Manhattan. As we talked, I felt something happening. My life changing? Perhaps. But maybe it was just the rumble of the F train, screeching its way through my city, right under my feet.

TOTAL: $539.07, almost exactly my Chinatown rent 10 years ago.

A TREASURE TROVE OF BARGAINS

WHERE TO STAY

Hotel Chelsea, 222 West 23rd Street; 212-243-3700; www.hotelchelsea.com; doubles with shared bath are $99 to $199; those with private bath $199 to $299.

The Chelsea is not the only option for budget-minded visitors. There are bed-and-breakfasts in every borough, many starting around $100 a night, but they fill up fast. LanierBB.com, Bedandbreakfast.com, BBOnline.com and bnbfinder.com have extensive listings.

Short-term apartment rentals are an increasingly common and affordable choice. Craigslist.org is the leader in terms of volume, with apartments of all sizes for as little as $75 a night. But for those worried about handing over cash to a stranger, there’s Roomorama.com, which takes credit cards, offers automated booking and is more organized than Craigslist. Still, as in all New York real estate transactions, buyer beware.

WHAT TO DO

Metropolitan Museum of Art, 1000 Fifth Avenue at 82nd Street; 212-535-7710; www.metmuseum.org; suggested admission, $20.

Museum of Modern Art, 11 West 53rd Street; 212-708-9400; www.moma.org; admission $20, but free Fridays from 4 to 8 p.m.

Friends of the Hudson River Park runs free tours May through September. For more details, visit Friends of Hudson River Park Home Page.

WHERE TO EAT & DRINK

Burger Joint, Le Parker Meridien, 119 West 56th Street; 212-245-5000; LE PARKER MERIDIEN New York.

Curry in a Hurry, 119 Lexington Avenue at 28th Street; 212-683-0900.

City Bakery, 3 West 18th Street; 212-366-1414; The City Bakery.

Fontana’s, 105 Eldridge Street near Grand Street; 212-334-6740; FONTANA'S NEW YORK CITY.

Gowanus Yacht Club, 323 Smith Street, Carroll Gardens section of Brooklyn; 718-246-1321.

Great Jones Cafe, 54 Great Jones Street at the Bowery; 212-674-9304; Great Jones Cafe | New York City.

Ivo & Lulu, 558 Broome Street at Varick Street; 212-226-4399.

Boss Tweed’s, 115 Essex Street between Rivington and Delancey Streets; 212-475-9997; Boss Tweed's Saloon, an olde style NYC bar in the Lower East Side.

Pommes Frites, 123 Second Avenue near St. Marks Place; 212-674-1234; Pommes Frites Inc./Menu.

Pacificana, 813 55th Street at Eighth Avenue, Brooklyn; 718-871-2880; Pacificana Chinese Restaurant of Brooklyn, New York City serving DIM SUM and Chinese cuisine.

mixedsubstance 10-14-2008 09:37 PM

I'm not a big coupon collector....yet....I usually tend to just watch for and buy items at Safeway when they go on sale. We also have a Cash & Carry nearby (it's like a restaurant supply store that is now open to the public)- but we buy a lot of food (especially frozen food) in bulk to stock up on in the freezer to last us months.

My boyfriend's the cook, but we try to plan our meals out for the week. If we need something at the store for one of the meals, we either get the smallest/exactly what we need or a bulk version depending on how much we'd use it in the future.

Also, here's what i just did-The first step is to look at the big picture. I re-analyzed our bills and expenses to see what I could chip off. 1- Cell phone bill. Any extra services we didn't need, I removed. 2- Auto Insurance. I just went on an online window shopping spree, got some quotes, and found several that would save us around $100/mo. Next step- cancel current insurance, sign up for the other. (PS- I found Nationwide to be the best, Progessive came in 2nd). It never hurts to get quotes. But there were other things I personally was able to cut back on, due to my unemployment status and schedule with school, only having my son in after-school karate 3 days instead of 5 days.

We try to go to the Safeway gas station to get gas there, even though it's a little out of the way- but since we have a Safeway card and have racked up a lot of gas points, it saves us A LOT.

Oh and Ebay & Craigslist are my best friends. I am always on the look-out for great deals- and tend to find a lot of them.

I am also trying to shop for things off-season. Such as the after-Holiday sales. And save the items for the following year.

And if possible, sell the good condition items from the past or that you don't use anymore. People on Craigslist are like rabid squirrels or hungry bears when it comes to cheap, local, used items.

Eating in as much as possible. Only eating out/ordering in when we have coupons/gift cards/discounts. (Except occassional special nights, etc.)

My boyfriend (if you have a man who plays video games, this is for you) gets through his video games once, then either trades it in at the video game store or sells it on eBay/Craigslist depending on its value. He only holds onto just a few 'important' games. The rest he consigns. I tend to do the same with clothes sometimes. I get it, end up not liking it that much but knowing someone else will love it, and sell it.

I only have 1 credit card with a low credit limit ONLY for emergencies, and a Target card for tight times during the holidays, which I prepared for this year. Credit cards, I've always considered dangerous, so I've stayed away from them until recently- but vowed not to touch them unless- say- the car needs repair- or some other unexpected expense pops up and we don't have the available funds and it is mandatory that we pay it right away.

Once a year- go through your entire house and see what you can get rid of. Sell it on eBay/Craigslist or have a garage sale. Have seasonal items out for the upcoming season.

RESEARCH. Plan ahead and research for big purchases and trips. When you take your time, you will find a great deal.

Turn lights off when you're not in a room! Leave lights off when it's light enough- and open your shades. Turn off your computer at night. Turn off heaters when not at home. Get a programmable heater. Unplug small appliances & power strips when going on a trip or being gone for more than 1 day.

Baraka_Guru 11-14-2008 11:34 AM

I just wanted to demonstrate some frugality at work (literally).

At work, there's a health-food store around the corner that sells cheap bulk food. I can get protein powder, Nature's Path granola cereal, and soy milk at reasonable prices.

I've calculated the cost as such:
• 1 cup granola cereal (currently the Nature's Path HempPlus Granola)
• 1 cup unsweetened soy milk
• 2 heaping tsp protein powder

Nutritional information (approx.):
Calories: 485
Protein: 35g
Carbohydrates: 50g
Fat: 14g

Total cost per serving: approx. $2.50

With a low cost like that, I've started to add things as a rewarding treat. This week I bought a small bag of dried blueberries. For those who don't know, these can cost a lot ($14.99 lb. at this affordable store, which should be a good price). But I only use a couple of teaspoons per serving, so I should still be around $3.00.

At this price, that's a lot of nutrition. It's filling and quite tasty. Yay cheap and tasty!

But I don't think I'll continue with the blueberries. They're good, but I'd enjoy currants as well I think. I want to keep it close to $2.50 per serving. I like that number. It makes me look financially responsible. :)

Jozrael 11-14-2008 12:04 PM

Someone I know at my work (college spending money :D) feeds 3 (1 a baby) on 15-20 dollars a week.

Lasereth 11-14-2008 12:46 PM

The single biggest one I can think of is eating out. I see people bitching and moaning everyday about two things: they are out of shape, and they are broke. And then they eat out for 2 meals a day, every day of the week. If you eat in you can make a meal for 2 for under $5 easily just by buying canned foods at the grocery store. For some reason many people believe that eating out at $20 a pop doesn't really add up. It can add up and it does. A few coworkers of mine spend $600-$800 a month on eating out. Imagine the savings (and weight loss) they would experience if they ate soup and a vegetable or rice instead of spending $20 a meal once or twice a day.

genuinegirly 11-14-2008 01:19 PM

Mixedsubstance, lots of great advice there. I'm currently going through my stuff and finding all sorts of things to pass along. Since we're gearing up to move and I'm in the midst of a semster, it's not so much an option to sell them on craigslist or ebay. I donated about 150 books to our local library and have a stack of clothes I keep adding to that I'll post on freecycle in the next month. If I had made it a habit to go through my things yearly to sell, I would have been able to make a pretty sum of money.

Baraka, I love those bulk stores. I wish there was one in my area.

Jozrael, Incredibly impressive friend you have there. I don't think I've eaten that cheaply since I was cooking only for myself.

Lasareth, that's a great point. Eating out does add up. Meals from a can are not the most tasty thing around, but they are cheap and easy to spice up. Here's a few other ideas when it comes to worktime meals.

Brown-Bag it!
It's incredibly easy to pack a lunch before you leave for work. It gets quicker every time, too - my mom could throw together 5 bagged lunches in 3 minutes flat, including a hearty sandwich, fruit, a drink and a snack. Easy and cheap. Another thing I noticed, once I was used to packing my lunch every day, if I forgot my lunch one day, I'd become frustrated at the lunchtime traffic rush. Much more rewarding to spend those extra few minutes chatting with friends who also packed their lunch.

Lunch Potluck
At one place where I worked, there was a group of women and men who made lunch into a potluck every day. Each person would bring a small dish to share. Most of the time it was leftovers from their family meal the night before. They always had the most delicious-looking meals. Plus, they would all sit around and chat as they ate - they turned a matter of convenience into friendship.

ASU2003 11-14-2008 02:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Lasereth (Post 2560557)
A few coworkers of mine spend $600-$800 a month on eating out. Imagine the savings (and weight loss) they would experience if they ate soup and a vegetable or rice instead of spending $20 a meal once or twice a day.

I'm going to start doing this when I can go home for lunch next year. I spend quite a bit of money eating food that isn't exactly good for you.

(you do need to watch out for sodium levels in canned food. Some have a lot in it.)

laconic1 11-16-2008 09:17 PM

Another thing is credit card rewards. I have two credit cards right now, and I pay them both off every month. Well actually I pay one off each month and the other one hasn't been used in six months. Why? Rewards. The one card I got when I was in college doesn't have any rewards at all. The other one I got earlier this year gives me 1% cash back on all purchases at the end of each year. As a result I use that card a lot, even for normal everyday purchases. Since it's paid off each month I'm not accruing interest, so it makes sense to use the card instead of writing a check. I'll get about $60 back at the end of this year. Not a ton, but every bit helps.

It also helps to look at what kind of rewards you get on a card. Points? Miles? Can they be redeemed at stores you shop at regularly? I don't know a whole lot about those types of programs, but most of the ones I've researched wouldn't work for me since I would not be able to redeem the awards any where I want. Make sure any rewards program is worthwhile.

Cynthetiq 12-12-2008 11:04 PM

with regards to rewards programs... pay attention to the VALUE of what it is that you are saving up for... Sony Points are wonderful, but if the redemption of things isn't what you want... well it doesn't have any value.

We use frequent flyer miles for our rewards, we have enough FF miles for 4 round trip tickets to the Pacific Rim/Asia, approximate value is $10,000 each seat. There's no way that we'd get that same value with Discover card cash back or Starwood points.

want to know how much something adds up from day to day buying like lunch instead of bringing your own?

Lunch Savings - Financial Calculators from Dinkytown.net

Tully Mars 12-13-2008 05:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Cynthetiq (Post 2572364)
with regards to rewards programs... pay attention to the VALUE of what it is that you are saving up for... Sony Points are wonderful, but if the redemption of things isn't what you want... well it doesn't have any value.

We use frequent flyer miles for our rewards, we have enough FF miles for 4 round trip tickets to the Pacific Rim/Asia, approximate value is $10,000 each seat. There's no way that we'd get that same value with Discover card cash back or Starwood points.

want to know how much something adds up from day to day buying like lunch instead of bringing your own?

Lunch Savings - Financial Calculators from Dinkytown.net

Starwood points suck in my experience. I saved some up and twice used them to upgrade a room. Both times I found my room to be no different then those in my group that didn't "upgrade." Maybe I just got screwed a couple of times, don't know. But stuff like that keeps me from using or staying at properties that use that system. Given the option to earn Starwood points or air mile I'll take the air miles.

Lindy 12-19-2008 01:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Cynthetiq (Post 2572364)
with regards to rewards programs... pay attention to the VALUE of what it is that you are saving up for... Sony Points are wonderful, but if the redemption of things isn't what you want... well it doesn't have any value.

We use frequent flyer miles for our rewards, we have enough FF miles for 4 round trip tickets to the Pacific Rim/Asia, approximate value is $10,000 each seat.

Right. I hate to fly, and will do so only in an emergency. So FF rewards are of no value to me. I like my AmEx rewards program because I can use the points for hotels, or even just general shopping. When I drove from Boston to Kansas last month, I used AmEx Rewards points to stay in a Hampton Inn in Illinois, and a Hilton in Omaha, saving about $300 total.

Eating/cooking at home can sure be a big saver. My housemate ordered a not very big everything pizza and breadsticks. She ate 5 pieces, and the rest will sit in the fridge til it gets thrown out. The bill was about $28 and she probably tipped the driver. That's about what I paid (on sale) for a package of six eight ounce ribeyes. So I can eat six steak dinners at home for a week for the price of one delivered pizza meal.

Lindy

ASU2003 01-23-2009 05:23 PM

I thought of some more simple things to do to conserve energy and save money.

1. Put plastic film over windows in the fall through the spring.

2. Collect snow and fill containers (reuse clean glass or plastic bottles), put these in your refrigerator and freezer. It will take up space, you won't lose as much cold air when you open the door, and nature cooled the snow for free so it will save you energy. If you live in a warm climate, just put water bottles (or fill it with food) in your freezer and keep your refrigerator organized so you can find stuff quickly.

3. Change light bulbs to energy efficient ones. Use sunlight instead of electric light.

4. Look into building a solar thermal heater. It won't work too well here from Dec-Feb because of the clouds, but I still might try to build a solar greenhouse that it's only job is to create heat from IR and UV rays that would have hit my yard. I priced the materials for this at $150, but unless it is damaged, it is a one-time cost.

5. Add more insulation. You get a tax rebate this year of 10%. I would like to see how long it would take for me to recoup this cost though. If I spend $180 to put in additional insulation, it might take 5-10 winters to come out ahead.

6. Wear more clothes in the winter, wear less in the summer (or nothing ;) ). Keep your thermostat low in the winter and delay your use of AC in the summer.

7. Hotel rewards points and fuel cards are great if you stay in hotels for business a lot or buy gasoline. I'm a fan of Priority Club and Speedway.

8. Close off rooms that don't get used in the winter or don't need to be heated (no pipes in the walls).

9. Wash your own car.

10. Mow your own lawn.

11. Recycle aluminum cans and a few other items. If enough people do it, the raw material cost will fall.

12. Buy drink mixes that you have to add your own water to instead of buying drinks that pre-mixed the water for you (and charged you for shipping the water).

13. Use Blockposters.com and Kinkos to decorate your house. http://www.blockposters.com/gallery.aspx

14. Buy flashlights that you shake to generate power instead of having to buy batteries all the time.

15. Use rechargeable batteries for devices that can use them.

16. Use the internet to watch the Daily Show, C-Span, the weather channel, CNN, Fox News, and a bunch of other sites if you have high speed internet or go to a mall, coffee shop or airport with free wifi.

Dammitall 01-28-2009 11:37 AM

Ladies, if you're up for it and don't mind the potential "ick" factor, use reusable menstrual supplies instead of disposable tampons and pads. There's already an open thread about these in the Ladies' Lounge, where many common questions have been addressed. I personally converted to the Keeper seven years ago and, hundreds of dollars in savings later, I haven't looked back.

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Originally Posted by ASU2003 (Post 2587056)
15. Use rechargeable batteries for devices that can use them.

Of course larger retailers are in the business of making money on selling disposable goods that need to be replenished over and over again, but it bothers me that rechargeable batteries aren't made available more prominently and in larger quantity containers in these stores. Whenever I am in places like Best Buy, Target and Home Depot, I'll pass shelf displays of disposable batteries in huge packages, but the rechargeables are almost never more than four per package, many of which include the charger. I have the charger, I just want more batteries!

Anybody have suggestions on the best place to find these? I've seen them available for ordering online but wasn't sure if there were other, more cost-effective options.

Cynthetiq 01-28-2009 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by spinelust (Post 2588703)
Of course larger retailers are in the business of making money on selling disposable goods that need to be replenished over and over again, but it bothers me that rechargeable batteries aren't made available more prominently and in larger quantity containers in these stores. Whenever I am in places like Best Buy, Target and Home Depot, I'll pass shelf displays of disposable batteries in huge packages, but the rechargeables are almost never more than four per package, many of which include the charger. I have the charger, I just want more batteries!

Anybody have suggestions on the best place to find these? I've seen them available for ordering online but wasn't sure if there were other, more cost-effective options.

ebay. I buy my rechargables in bulk. they are generally sold by All-Battery.com - Rechargeable batteries & Chargers and sometimes i get them cheaper than what is listed in the website.

BUT... I've leared that there are some batteries that are better being disposable versus rechargable. Ex. remote controls... they last years as disposable, but with rechargables I have to recharge them every few months.

Cynthetiq 02-18-2009 08:33 AM

the freezing credit cards works for many people I know.

again, look at your spending habits and see just what is a habit and how you can diminish that. Remember it isn't as much about making more but about keeping more.

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Small fixes add up to big savings for Bronx nonprofit manager
Small fixes add up to big savings for Bronx nonprofit manager

BY Lore Croghan
DAILY NEWS STAFF WRITER

Tuesday, February 17th 2009, 9:59 PM
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Adelina Perez, at home in the Bronx, smiles after finding out she can save more than $3,000 a year by making small changes that will allow her to travel abroad.
Certified financial planner Clare Stenstrom Roberts for News

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* Part I: Whiz lends hand to Queens mom
* Part II: Small steps a big help for saving money

Adelina Perez is going to dip her credit cards in water and stow them in the freezer.

Should she decide to go shopping, they'll need a day to thaw - no more impulse buying. She can't speed things up by putting them in boiling water or the microwave. They'd be ruined.

"If you want something, save for it," said certified financial planner Clare Stenstrom, who taught Perez the frozen card trick.

During a counseling session arranged by the Daily News, Stenstrom came up with ways for Perez to save $3,315 a year and urged her to use some of that money to wipe out the card balances ASAP.

Until their meeting in Stenstrom's Penn Plaza office, the debt that most worried Perez was $14,000 in student loans.

"It's such a big number," said Perez, 29, who lives in the Pelham Parkway section of the Bronx. "I don't want it hanging over my head."

As long as you make monthly payments on time, student loans improve your credit rating, Stenstrom explained.

"Student loans are good debt," she said.

Also, employees at some nonprofits are eligible to have their student loan balances wiped out after 10 years' work, Stenstrom said.

Perez, a case manager at a nonprofit with a branch in a Manhattan hospital, plans to find out if the place she works is on the list of qualified employers for this program.

Perez has some savings strategies of her own. She brings a mat and water bottle to avoid $4 in extra charges at the $5 yoga class she takes. She gets tips on finding free or low-cost entertainment from a book called "The Cheap Bastard's Guide to New York City."

Stenstrom found other fixes, such as asking Perez's cell phone company to send a free text message alert that warns when her minutes run out. Perez's cell bill hit $375 a month when she went over her minutes. Tweaks to her cell plan - such as a cheaper texting option - and laying off the music downloads can save $462 a year.

Perez can lower her $80 monthly winter electric bill by making sure a meter reader comes to her apartment. Bills are higher when they're based on estimated power use, Stenstrom said.

Last summer, the tab was $200 a month because her air conditioner was a freebie - an old power-guzzler. She can cut the summer bill in half by measuring her apartment and finding an energy-efficient machine whose output matches the size of her home.

She can save $1,800 a year on food by sharpening her supermarket shopping skills and remembering to take her coffee mug and brown-bag lunches with her in the morning.

"When it comes to work, I'm superorganized," she said.

At home, sometimes, there's room for improvement. Making a list of what to take with her and tying it to her front door knob can help, Stenstrom said. And she should paper-clip a list of her financial goals to her wallet to remind her of the rewards for spending carefully.

Perez wants to use her extra greenbacks for a vacation. She'd like to spend a week in Spain one year and go to Italy and France in other years.

Long-term, "I want to move out of the Bronx to somewhere quieter," she said.

genuinegirly 02-18-2009 08:42 AM

Those are some great tips, Cyn!

My sister told me about her "Coupon Club" the other day. Seemed like a great idea to share.

She has a group of friends that each hunt for coupons. They gather them from websites, newspapers, magazines, cereal boxes - wherever they happen to find them. Now comes the club. They have an envelope that they pass along from one person to the next. As each person gets their turn with the envelope, they:
1) throw out any expired coupons
2) take out coupons they will use
3) add their unused or unwanted coupons to the envelope
4) pass it along to the next person
You'll be shocked at the treasures you'll find when the envelope comes your way!

Cynthetiq 02-21-2009 06:26 PM

coupon club! Great idea... I remember our Ralph's used to have a coupon bin in the front of the store, people looked for coupons that they needed, and left ones that they didn't.

This article tells of some hardcore things like reusing bathwater for laundry... But the most important thing that I do from the whole thing is wait for things to get cheaper. Yes, things get cheaper because there are sales, that's when I buy things, especially things that don't spoil. Canned goods, why pay full price when from time to time canned tomato sauce or other canned items go for 25% - 50% cheaper???

Also, buy only what you need. Do you really need to be a small warehouse of goods? This makes sense if going to the market is on the way home. Europeans go the market regularly, like every other day.

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When Consumers Cut Back: A Lesson From Japan
February 22, 2009
When Consumers Cut Back: A Lesson From Japan
By HIROKO TABUCHI

TOKYO — As recession-wary Americans adapt to a new frugality, Japan offers a peek at how thrift can take lasting hold of a consumer society, to disastrous effect.

The economic malaise that plagued Japan from the 1990s until the early 2000s brought stunted wages and depressed stock prices, turning free-spending consumers into misers and making them dead weight on Japan’s economy.

Today, years after the recovery, even well-off Japanese households use old bath water to do laundry, a popular way to save on utility bills. Sales of whiskey, the favorite drink among moneyed Tokyoites in the booming ’80s, have fallen to a fifth of their peak. And the nation is losing interest in cars; sales have fallen by half since 1990.

The Takigasaki family in the Tokyo suburb of Nakano goes further to save a yen or two. Although the family has a comfortable nest egg, Hiroko Takigasaki carefully rations her vegetables. When she goes through too many in a given week, she reverts to her cost-saving standby: cabbage stew.

“You can make almost anything with some cabbage, and perhaps some potato,” says Mrs. Takigasaki, 49, who works part time at a home for people with disabilities.

Her husband has a well-paying job with the electronics giant Fujitsu, but “I don’t know when the ax will drop,” she says. “Really, we need to save much, much more.”

Japan eventually pulled itself out of the Lost Decade of the 1990s, thanks in part to a boom in exports to the United States and China. But even as the economy expanded, shell-shocked consumers refused to spend. Between 2001 and 2007, per-capita consumer spending rose only 0.2 percent.

Now, as exports dry up amid a worldwide collapse in demand, Japan’s economy is in free-fall because it cannot rely on domestic consumption to pick up the slack.

In the last three months of 2008, Japan’s economy shrank at an annualized rate of 12.7 percent, the sharpest decline since the oil shocks of the 1970s.

“Japan is so dependent on exports that when overseas markets slow down, Japan’s economy teeters on collapse,” said Hideo Kumano, an economist at the Dai-chi Life Research Institute. “On the surface, Japan looked like it had recovered from its Lost Decade of the 1990s. But Japan in fact entered a second Lost Decade — that of lost consumption.”

The Japanese have had some good reasons to scale back spending.

Perhaps most important, the average worker’s paycheck has shrunk in recent years, even after companies rebounded and bolstered their profits.

That discrepancy is the result of aggressive cost-cutting on the part of Japanese exporters like Toyota and Sony. They, like American companies now, have sought to fend off cutthroat competition from companies in emerging economies like South Korea and Taiwan, where labor costs are low.

To better compete, companies slashed jobs and wages, replacing much of their work force with temporary workers who had no job security and fewer benefits. Nontraditional workers now make up more than a third of Japan’s labor force.

Younger people are feeling the brunt of that shift. Some 48 percent of workers age 24 or younger are temps. These workers, who came of age during a tough job market, tend to shun conspicuous consumption.

They tend to be uninterested in cars; a survey last year by the business daily Nikkei found that only 25 percent of Japanese men in their 20s wanted a car, down from 48 percent in 2000, contributing to the slump in sales.

Young Japanese women even seem to be losing their once- insatiable thirst for foreign fashion. Louis Vuitton, for example, reported a 10 percent drop in its sales in Japan in 2008.

“I’m not interested in big spending,” says Risa Masaki, 20, a college student in Tokyo and a neighbor of the Takigasakis. “I just want a humble life.”

Japan’s aging population is not helping consumption. Businesses had hoped that baby boomers — the generation that reaped the benefits of Japan’s postwar breakneck economic growth — would splurge their lifetime savings upon retirement, which began en masse in 2007. But that has not happened at the scale that companies had hoped.

Economists blame this slow spending on widespread distrust of Japan’s pension system, which is buckling under the weight of one of the world’s most rapidly aging societies. That could serve as a warning for the United States, where workers’ 401(k)’s have been ravaged by declining stocks, pensions are disappearing, and the long-term solvency of the Social Security system is in question.

“My husband is retiring in five years, and I’m very concerned,” says Ms. Masaki’s mother, Naoko, 52. She says it is no relief that her husband, a public servant, can expect a hefty retirement package; pension payments could fall, and she has two unmarried children to worry about.

“I want him to find another job, and work as long as he’s able,” Mrs. Masaki says. “We must be ready to fend for ourselves.”

Economic stimulus programs like the one President Obama signed into law last week have been hampered in Japan by deflation, the downward spiral of prices and wages that occurs when consumers hold down spending — in part because they expect goods to be cheaper in the future.

Economists say deflation could interfere with the two trillion yen ($21 billion) in cash handouts that the Japanese government is planning, because consumers might save the extra money on the hunch that it will be more valuable in the future than it is now.

The same fear grips many economists and policymakers in the United States. “Deflation is a real risk facing the economy,” President Obama’s chief economic adviser, Lawrence H. Summers, told reporters this month.

Hiromi Kobayashi, 38, a Tokyo homemaker, has taken to sewing children’s ballet clothes at home to supplement income from her husband’s job at a movie distribution company. The family has not gone on vacation in two years and still watches a cathode-ray tube TV. Mrs. Kobayashi has her eye on a flat-panel TV but is holding off.

“I’m going to find a bargain, then wait until it gets even cheaper,” she says.


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also from WWII or the Great Depression era

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"Use It Up, Wear It Out, Make It Do" (1941-1945)

There's lots of times we don't use things up to the fullest, it sounds silly but I can squeeze at least 1 week extra out of a toothpaste tube. A couple extra servings of sauce from just pouring some water into the jar to get it all off the sides and boiling off the water when cooking.

I recently had to buy 2 new computer monitors. I literally was hoping each and every day that I turned them on for almost 1 month that they not die as I waited for the delivery from Dell to arrive with the new ones.

A friend of mine recently got an iphone because he said he needed to get a new phone, yet his old phone? It worked fine, he just wanted a new phone and found every way to rationalize it. I can actually count how many cellphones I've owned on one hand in the past 12 years, and I still have fingers to go. Skogafoss kept her old cellphone until the company forced her to upgrade because they stopped with the old cell towers.

Use it up, Wear it out, Make it do, Do without!

Finally, there's things that I flat out want, but I just do without. Not because I can't afford them, but because I can do without them. I'd love to have an Xbox360 or PS3. In fact I didn't even get a PS2. I had at one point all the consoles of all the major manufacturers in the mid90's. But by doing without, I've saved a bundle of cash, and I don't feel like I've really missed anything.

snowy 02-21-2009 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Cynthetiq (Post 2598791)
But the most important thing that I do from the whole thing is wait for things to get cheaper. Yes, things get cheaper because there are sales, that's when I buy things, especially things that don't spoil. Canned goods, why pay full price when from time to time canned tomato sauce or other canned items go for 25% - 50% cheaper???

Also, buy only what you need. Do you really need to be a small warehouse of goods? This makes sense if going to the market is on the way home. Europeans go the market regularly, like every other day.

We split up our grocery shopping into a couple different types of trips, to different venues that sell different things. Once a month we go to the big warehouse grocery store (Winco) to stock up our pantry, twice a month in the winter we go to the indoor farmer's market, and every couple of days we buy what refrigerated staples we need from the local hippie food co-op (milk, eggs, yogurt, etc) as well as our coffee. Now and again we troll the local Grocery Outlet. We buy a lot of bulk foods--both Winco and the hippie food co-op have enormous bulk sections. Buying in bulk and then storing the food in reusable containers at home is much cheaper. Shopping for produce at the farmer's market forces us to buy what's in season--and what's in season is often cheaper.

This spring we'll be signing up for a CSA box. For about $19/week, we'll get a box of produce from a local organic farm that comes with guaranteed staples and salad mix every week, in addition to a variety of seasonal items. I'm pretty stoked!

Cynthetiq 02-26-2009 07:49 AM

Join AAA or AARP.
Even if you don't have a car, AAA has membership benefits that pay for themselves very quickly. Discounts on airfare, rental cars, hotels are just the tip of the iceberg. I compare AAA to Expedia, Travelocity, etc. and sometimes I can get an upgraded high mileage AAA rental car for the same price as the cheaper lower model. There are discounts for FTD, all major theme parks, Lenscrafters, and many other places. You also can get free maps, tour books and other extras.

Ask for discounts.
Flat out ask for them. Ask for Student discounts. Ask for AAA discounts, even if you aren't a member, they may still give you the discount. Ask sales associates if there are upcoming sales. This may mean the difference of waiting a few days or week, a savings for you and maybe even a bigger commission for the salesperson. We got our luggage for travel this way, it gave us 1 free piece of luggage which was valued at $250. A nice tidy savings just because we waited one extra week.

hunnychile 02-26-2009 03:11 PM

In regard to bikes, it would be cool if Berkley and other campuses do like the do in Amsterdam: The free local "White Bike". Everyone there rides bikes and at several corners are free, unlocked city owned and lent white bikes that locals use to get from place to place and leave for the next person to "borrow". Isn't that extremely cool? I think so...when I've been there I always smile when I saw someone riding the free white bike! You gotta admit it's just so liberal and commie and wonderful!!!!

genuinegirly 02-27-2009 07:50 AM

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In regard to bikes, it would be cool if Berkley and other campuses do like the do in Amsterdam: The free local "White Bike".
Wait a second... what in the world... have you spent any real time in Berkeley? There's a reason why they don't have free bikes sitting around. Have you seen the bicycle skeletons littered around campus? Free bikes would be picked for parts, stolen, or destroyed. There's little respect for public property in that city.

Cynthetiq 02-27-2009 02:35 PM

Time Out NYC just posted 769 Cheap Things To Do

Your 2009 stimulus plan - Time Out New York

genuinegirly 03-02-2009 04:57 AM

Wow! That's really neat, Cyn. Thanks for sharing!

NoSoup 03-02-2009 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Cynthetiq (Post 2601176)
Join AAA or AARP.
Even if you don't have a car, AAA has membership benefits that pay for themselves very quickly. Discounts on airfare, rental cars, hotels are just the tip of the iceberg. I compare AAA to Expedia, Travelocity, etc. and sometimes I can get an upgraded high mileage AAA rental car for the same price as the cheaper lower model. There are discounts for FTD, all major theme parks, Lenscrafters, and many other places. You also can get free maps, tour books and other extras.

Ask for discounts.
Flat out ask for them. Ask for Student discounts. Ask for AAA discounts, even if you aren't a member, they may still give you the discount. Ask sales associates if there are upcoming sales. This may mean the difference of waiting a few days or week, a savings for you and maybe even a bigger commission for the salesperson. We got our luggage for travel this way, it gave us 1 free piece of luggage which was valued at $250. A nice tidy savings just because we waited one extra week.


In the same line with the AAA discount - one thing you may want to check on, especially those of you with AAA insurance, is whether or not you receive a discount on insurance with the membership.

I had my autos and homeowners on one policy, and AAA was offering a similiar rate. However, if I joined the actual AAA program (like $60/year) it would then get me a discount that added up to like $300/year on autos and home combined. As a result, I pay less for insurance and have AAA.

braisler 03-04-2009 07:23 AM

I love Frugal Living. A lot of what I would contribute has already been said in one form or another. The biggest thing for me to live frugally and well is to not view consumables as a one-way transaction. If you buy a video game, a DVD movie, or clothing, then decide you don't want it anymore, don't let it sit in your closet. Sell it! Ebay, Craigslist, classified ads have already been mentioned. It is simply stunning to me how many people neglect this because it is 'too much bother', then lament their lack of money in the next breath.

If you want to take this to the next level, keep an eye out at garage sales and on Craigslist for items that you know are worth more than the asking price. Buy it, clean it if it is dirty, fix it if it is broken, and re-sell it for what it is actually worth. This was part of the way that my mom made ends meet with raising my brother and myself on $600/month child support with a $500 mortgage. I learned from her example. When I was 14, I bought my first car (though I couldn't drive it) at a garage sale that a neighbor was selling for $200. I paid for it with money I had saved up from birthdays and Christmas gifts and mowing lawns. It was a 1974 Oldsmobile. It ran, but it was dirty and dusty. I spent a weekend washing it inside and out and cleaning it up thoroughly. I sold it the next week for $500. When I was in college, I saw a pretty new looking dryer sitting on the curb down the block. I asked the people living there if they were throwing it out. Yeah, it quit working, we got a new one was the reply. I took it home knowing if I couldn't fix it, I could always just throw it out myself. It turned out that someone had mis-wired the 220 cord and burnt out the connector. I bought a new cord from Lowe's for $6 and sold the dryer for $150. The same principle could apply to used bikes, furniture refinishing... take whatever you are good at and make it work for you.

On rechargeable batteries: take the next step and buy a reliable solar battery charger. They aren't fast, but if you are like me, you can just put a couple of batteries in it and leave it in a sunny corner of your room. Every 2-4 days, you'll have fully charged AA or AAA batteries that you can take out and put the next set in. Unless you are running through batteries like mad, this should keep you set for a while.

Oh, and this is my most recent favorite. Ditch the store bought microwave popcorn. Buy a large bottle of popcorn kernels, a stash of brown paper lunch bags, and do it yourself. Just pour a single layer of kernels onto the bottom of an opened brown bag. Fold over the top twice. Microwave for 1:30 or so until the kernels stop popping actively. Add butter, salt, or leave plain and enjoy. You get great tasting popcorn, for less money, and you get to know exactly what is going onto your popcorn, or not.

genuinegirly 03-04-2009 07:34 AM

Neat ideas, braisler. It's amazing the quality junk that people throw away.

braisler 03-04-2009 07:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Painted (Post 2539245)
Threadjack: I bought one of these: Windsor Bikes - The Hour from bikesdirect.com last Thursday. They shipped it same day I ordered it, and apparently they sent me something, because they sent a tracking number that shows my address. A friend used them and said they work, so they're probably okay.

I know that this was posted a while ago, but I just had to chime in on your bike. Sweet deal, but a FIXED gear!! :eek: I hope you know what you are doing with that bike. I've been riding for 20 years, raced collegiate road and off-road for 3 seasons, raced amateur off-road for 7 years, done several centuries, and the Bicycle Ride Across Georgia.. and fixies still scare the crap out of me.

/threadjack

Cynthetiq 03-04-2009 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by braisler (Post 2604247)
I love Frugal Living. A lot of what I would contribute has already been said in one form or another. The biggest thing for me to live frugally and well is to not view consumables as a one-way transaction. If you buy a video game, a DVD movie, or clothing, then decide you don't want it anymore, don't let it sit in your closet. Sell it! Ebay, Craigslist, classified ads have already been mentioned. It is simply stunning to me how many people neglect this because it is 'too much bother', then lament their lack of money in the next breath.

If you want to take this to the next level, keep an eye out at garage sales and on Craigslist for items that you know are worth more than the asking price. Buy it, clean it if it is dirty, fix it if it is broken, and re-sell it for what it is actually worth. This was part of the way that my mom made ends meet with raising my brother and myself on $600/month child support with a $500 mortgage. I learned from her example. When I was 14, I bought my first car (though I couldn't drive it) at a garage sale that a neighbor was selling for $200. I paid for it with money I had saved up from birthdays and Christmas gifts and mowing lawns. It was a 1974 Oldsmobile. It ran, but it was dirty and dusty. I spent a weekend washing it inside and out and cleaning it up thoroughly. I sold it the next week for $500. When I was in college, I saw a pretty new looking dryer sitting on the curb down the block. I asked the people living there if they were throwing it out. Yeah, it quit working, we got a new one was the reply. I took it home knowing if I couldn't fix it, I could always just throw it out myself. It turned out that someone had mis-wired the 220 cord and burnt out the connector. I bought a new cord from Lowe's for $6 and sold the dryer for $150. The same principle could apply to used bikes, furniture refinishing... take whatever you are good at and make it work for you.

On rechargeable batteries: take the next step and buy a reliable solar battery charger. They aren't fast, but if you are like me, you can just put a couple of batteries in it and leave it in a sunny corner of your room. Every 2-4 days, you'll have fully charged AA or AAA batteries that you can take out and put the next set in. Unless you are running through batteries like mad, this should keep you set for a while.

Oh, and this is my most recent favorite. Ditch the store bought microwave popcorn. Buy a large bottle of popcorn kernels, a stash of brown paper lunch bags, and do it yourself. Just pour a single layer of kernels onto the bottom of an opened brown bag. Fold over the top twice. Microwave for 1:30 or so until the kernels stop popping actively. Add butter, salt, or leave plain and enjoy. You get great tasting popcorn, for less money, and you get to know exactly what is going onto your popcorn, or not.

thanks!

I wish I had the fortitude to do the reselling of things. I just don't have it in me at the moment. I can't sell my things for some reason, but I'm happy to give them away to someone who needs them. I'll have to work on that.

Popcorn, I make mine on the stove. Good to know I can make them in the microwave in a simple fashion. I'll have to sample it.

Cynthetiq 03-06-2009 05:35 AM

There's probably some repetition here, but use them as some important reminders...

I do always forget to walk through the thrift stores. I used to do it on a regular basis when I was younger and needed office clothes. Blazers and button down shirts are cheap and usually have little wear and tear on them.

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Frugal Living: 25 Small Ways to Help Lower Your Expenses
ind Out How to Really Stretch a Dollar
The cost of living is rising all over America, and minimum wage unfortunately isn't keeping up. It is tough to survive in today's economy, especially for a single income family in this double income world. Unfortunately, there are some expenses you can avoid without going without. And
sometimes, going without isn't as bad as it seems. Learn how and when to go without--and how to save money without neglecting your needs and desires. Here are some tips, in no particular order!

1. Don't buy what you don't need if you don't really have the extra money. That cute sweater on sale may be a steal, but if you've already got enough sweaters, and your account balance is dwindling, you should pass.

2. Don't buy name brand, unless you know the off brand is terrible. Compare the ingredients in the two different brands, as well as the amount in each container. Most of the time, the cheaper brand is the better buy and works just as well.

3. Buy thrift whenever you can. Find out when stores like Goodwill and Arc have their discount sales, and make it a point to go when you need something. Check Freecycle and Craigslist, too, before buying something new.

4. If you have an air conditioner, don't use it unless you must. Dress for the weather even indoors. If it gets so hot you're sweating in your underwear, or so cold that you're shivering in your sweatpants, then turn the air conditioner on.

5. Don't buy expensive things. Have a price limit--for everything. I, for one, never spend more than $10 on a shirt or pair of pants unless we have plenty of extra money (if we've received birthday money, for example). When it comes to meat, a $2 pack of hamburger meat fills my families belly as well as $6 steaks, and a $1 pack of chicken drumsticks is as satisfying as filet mignon. A $10 bag of shrimp is a rare luxury.

6. Collect, sell, trade, and use coupons. It can save you money. But, remember that sometimes the name brand is less expensive even when you have a coupon.
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7. If you qualify for government programs like WIC or food stamps, use them. The government funds those programs adequately enough that if every single person who qualified used them, there would be enough money. If the people who qualify don't use them, that doesn't mean more is left for others who need it. They'll get no more. It also doesn't mean less will be set aside next year. The money won't be recycled back into the system. It will just go unused, sitting there, waiting for someone to use it. If you are doing well enough that an extra $75 wouldn't make a bit of difference for you, or you feel that you should forego it on principal because you can manage without it, that's fine--but it's not benefiting anyone. The taxpayers will pay the same amount regardless, because the amount isn't calculated based on how many use it but on how many qualify.

8. If you must borrow money, borrow from friends and family. Pay them back. If you have to borrow from somewhere else, chose a bank over a credit card or instant cash company. You will get a much lower interest rate.

9. In fact, avoid borrowing if at all possible. In America we want instant gratification. Where we once saved up for that new washing machine, now we just charge it--and pay a high interest rate. Take a lesson from the past: save for those big purchases that you want. Before purchasing anything on credit, ask if you really NEED it NOW, or is there is a way you can manage to wait until you can save it up.

10. Wait for something to go on sale before you buy it. If it's summer, and you want to buy a new camera, buy it around Father's Day. If it's winter, and you need a new desktop computer, buy it during the Christmas shopping frenzy. You may have to spend more time in line, but you can save up to a few hundred dollars.

11. Find extra sources of income that require little effort or financial backing. You can make money by babysitting, dog walking, using GPT sites on the internet, or having a garage sale. If you're a writer, try sending a few pieces off to magazines and internet websites.

12. Don't throw something away that can be reused. Rinse zip lock baggies. Save your grocery bags for trash bags.

13. Save your left-overs for breakfast or lunch. Additionally, try not to frequently prepare food that you know will have left-overs that cannot be reused.

14. Don't drive somewhere when you can walk or ride your bike. This is healthy and will save you not only on gas, but on oil changes, tire replacements, etc.

15. Avoid temptation. When you go to a store, have a list, and don't buy anything that isn't on it. Don't go to areas of the store unless you need something from them. Don't go to stores where you have a tendency to overspend.

16. Find cheaper ways to entertain yourself. Rent movies for $5 a piece instead of going to the movies and spending five or six times that. A $300 above-ground pool will amuse your family just as much as an expensive day at the water park--and last longer.

17. Make sure you are paying the least for quality service as possible. Do you have cable? See if DirecTV is cheaper. Have you compared your insurance company's rates with those of other companies? Have you thought about switching from a regular phone company to a voice-over-IP system like Vonage? What about your cell phone plan? Are you getting the most minutes for the least amount of money? Some companies will allow you to bundle services like your ground line, house phone, and satellite TV for additional savings.

18. Refinance your auto loans, mortgages, and other debts every 6 months to a year. You can lower your interest rate, as your credit improves, and your monthly payment, as your balance decreases. You save money this way, and you spend money for a shorter period of time. The key, however, is to keep making the same monthly payment even if it decreases along with your interest rate. That will help you pay your vehicle off even faster and help you save quite a bit more money.

19. Consider buying the less expensive term life insurance, and investing a little for your retirement, rather than paying for whole life insurance, which can be more costly.

20. Change your diet. Cut out those expensive, salty, fatty foods, and stock up on seasonal fruits and vegetables as snacks instead. Drink water instead of cola.

21. If there is a small package, and a big package, the big one is probably a better buy. Buying in bulk saves you per unit. Just make sure you don't get so much that you won't use it before it expires!

22. Frozen juices run you about $1 a can, which yield 48 oz. Juices that are old in jugs are usually $2.50 for the same amount. If you want a small package of juice for when you're on-the-go, instead of paying too much for too little, make the juice, and then pour it into a special drinking container of your own, like a mug.

23. Don't buy convenience foods because of their packaging, like soups that come in a mug. They are priced higher and don't usually taste as good in my experience. If you must have soup in a mug, buy a regular can. Pour it into a regular mug, and then heat it up in the microwave.

24. Make one trip to the store a week, when you have a list of things you truly need, rather than frequent trips because you ran out of this or that and "need" it. Chances are you can do without that 1/2 gallon of milk or that tub of butter for a few days, until you have a few more things on the list. This will mean less chances for overspending, as well as savings on gas, oil changes, and other auto-related expenses. It also makes it easier to keep track of your spending.

25. Have a budget every month, and stick to it. Pay your bills. Then buy necessities. Then save what you can, and if you really, truly want something, buy it if you can. If not, wait.

Hopefully some or most of these techniques will work for you. Personally, I'm not into coupons, and while I qualify for WIC, I'm not interested in having yet another set of doctors tell me how to parent and comment on my child's development all the time. I have, however, saved quite a bit by shopping thrift, sticking to a budget, and bundling my services. Comparison shopping has saved me a lot--and not just in the grocery store. One of the best ways to be frugal is to talk to others about how they save money. These are only a few ways that I and others I know manage to make ends meet. There are a variety of other creative ideas out there that may benefit you and your family. You just have to seek them out and listen to what others have to say.


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