motdakasha

Wow. There is so much to say about your personality/how you think...

I get into a relationship when the guy doesn't think I'm a hole. And I can say with confidence and certainty that in past relationships, they really didn't think of me like that.

And I thought I was a pessimist!

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uptown

My viewpoint is based on the reality of my experiences.They all act like they think you're great in the beginning,then a few months down the line they're telling you your tits would look good an inch or two bigger and damn your legs are skinny and need muscle tone and they're swivel necking every big set of hooters that pass by and every single woman they say they think is beautiful looks totaly diffeent than you but gee baby,you should feel confident and secure...yeah right feel good about beng 5th runner up in the kennel club show,

JadziaDax

uptown, I'm sorry you've had these bad experiences. I've been there, too. And the one thing I've learned from all of it is... Fuck them all. If they can't accept me for who I am, then I don't need them...

And I'm lucky enough to have found one who does accept me for who I am, not what I could be with adjustments or surgery. He loves me for me.

So, not all men are like that. Not all men who look at porn are doing it because that's what they want you to become or want to "trade up for a better model". Some look at it strictly for its entertainment value. I enjoy the same pictures he does, and we also talk about the fact that these women in these pictures represent less than 5% of the population in body type.

It's all how you look at it.

shannon

i love my bf to death
not literally
anyways, he looks at porn all the time. i've always prided myself on being very openminded, and as i always hung out with guys in high school, i saw a lot of porn. now, it's no big deal to me. at LANs and stuff i'll sit with my bf and go through his porn and tell him what i think is nice and his friends are just like " your gf knows you have a porn collection?" boys will be boys. i think it's the coolest thing when my bf and i can look at something and say " do you think we could get into that position" or even just realise that we both really like wet porn ( and, in turn, wet play). i agree with soo much that cheerio is saying. there is sexual attraction between a girl and her SO obviously, but that's not why you're together. i wouldn't have stayed with my bf for over 3 years if there wasn't something special about him. if i was just looking for looks i'd be whoring around all over, cause there are a lot of hot people. the looks pull you in but the person makes you stay. so my bf looking at porn is no big deal. when i'm not around he's jerking off to them, but at the end of the day i'm the one he's fucking and sleeping next to, you know?

Concertina

I don't have a problem with my husband watching porn. It's the KIND of porn that he watches that confuses me.

It's all blowjobs....really forcefull, the man controlling the woman's head, not really allowing her a chance to breath, her gag reflex kicking in heavily blowjobs....he comes all over her (which I don't really understand) and says things like "yea, that's my cum whore"....

This is over 80% of the porn on his computer. It's a bit disturbing to me....

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