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uptown, I'm sorry you've had these bad experiences. I've been there, too. And the one thing I've learned from all of it is... Fuck them all. If they can't accept me for who I am, then I don't need them...
And I'm lucky enough to have found one who does accept me for who I am, not what I could be with adjustments or surgery. He loves me for me.
So, not all men are like that. Not all men who look at porn are doing it because that's what they want you to become or want to "trade up for a better model". Some look at it strictly for its entertainment value. I enjoy the same pictures he does, and we also talk about the fact that these women in these pictures represent less than 5% of the population in body type.
It's all how you look at it.
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