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hunnychile · 02-01-2007, 03:24 PM

As an avid internet surfer, I have been looking for porn that's unique and done in a sexy juicey way that appeals to us ladies. Most movies seem designed from the man's "point of view". Haven't found any movies or books that are interesting & professional to rent or buy yet - but I contunue to look around.

Do any of our ladies here have some favorite movies or books they could recommend? As most of us...I venture to say, I'd like some suggestions where the people are great looking and enjoying themselves. Kinky and FFM is totally fine BTW!

** I realize we aren't allowed to plug sites here on tfp, so I have edited this post and hope that no offense has been taken due to my original post earlier today.***

hagatha · 02-02-2007, 07:27 AM

Its funny, my friend and I were having the same discussion the other day. I would love to see some female friendly porn, you haven't even touched on porn for lesbians (as opposed to lesbian porn that is for men, by men).
For me, it would involve a male protagonist(s) who isn't (aren't) gross looking and, maybe I'm asking too much here, a plausible story line.

serlindsipity · 02-03-2007, 04:05 PM

I remember reading something "somewhere" talking about how making porn to please women is much harder since we latch on to the emotional side a bit more than our visually based counterparts. I wonder if that might have something to do with it.

*sorry for threadjack, back to convo at hand*

hagatha · 02-04-2007, 07:38 AM

I am really surprised this thread is going nowhere fast. I mean is it because the TFP is really more about male porn than anything that turns women on?
As for visual stimulation, I have seen some really hot sex scenes that were a turn on but its the way in which they were presented that made a difference. What little porn I've seen, seems to centre of close ups of penis in vagina scenes and women who look really bored. Or close ups of cum. That, for me is not a turn on.
I really hope this thread isn't dead, I'm very curious to know if there is any good porn for women out there.

serlindsipity · 02-05-2007, 10:25 AM

I am wondering- anyone ever think the SOUND of porn is annoying? I have to mute all porn to be able to watch it.

So i guess that is a pref of mine- silent movies. I'd do well back in the old days of movies, but i doubt they made porn then.

I guess does the lack of thread prove the point that few women watch porn?

hunnychile · 02-05-2007, 11:21 AM

Oh, no worries - this thread isn't dead and there are lots of us ladies who enjoy good well-produced porn. Maybe some of us are busier reading erotica elsewhere. At any rate, is does seem that women in a general sense a need for some emotional attachment to gain true arousal from works of art, porn, erotica or whatever medium they choose which makes them feel their sexual desires blossom. It's not that porn is mainly created by guys for guys...I think that we ladies might speak up and share ideas so we can be a bit more selective when viewing porn/erotica. The post about stockings was a huge turn on to me but what else is out there, other than some guy squirting cum in a girls face? That seems a bit chauvenistic is so many ways. Lots of images waiting to be "mined and shared", right? Mutuallity and romance would be nice to see beautifully filmed for just one example.

hagatha · 02-05-2007, 05:53 PM

I think there's something about seduction and well, maybe its just me, but a well dressed man is a much bigger turn on than a naked one. mens bodies, to me, lack the grace and beauty evoked by the female form. Remember Playgirl? it totally bombed and I think one of the reasons was that it presented soft core images in a manner that appealed to men, but not to women. Although it was a real hit with gay men.
I stick with my initial belief that a good storyline goes a long way.

cadre · 02-05-2007, 08:03 PM

Ladies, I think this thread is just in the wrong place. True men may have different opinions of what is good porn than you do but I'm sure they can point you in the right direction. I haven't downloaded or watched any new porn in a while but Empornium and Cheggit are the places where I find the most options.

StormBerlin · 02-05-2007, 10:11 PM

I know I shouldn't post the link, but there's an Australian porn site that I admit I've actually paid for. It's amature porn, and it's exremely artsy. All the shots are from the neck/chest up. Mosty it's masturbation but sometimes it's couples having sex. It's extremely erotic because all you see is a face and hear the noises they make.

Just kiddin, apparently I can post the link

beautifulagony.com

Mistress Kali · 02-06-2007, 02:46 PM

Hi ladies:

the most readily accessible porn is geared to men. I would recommend checking out the offerings at a woman focussed sex shop such as Good For Her

http://www.goodforher.com/osc/catalo...adb2a4674ccc68

Happy and Pleasurable viewing!

hagatha · 02-06-2007, 03:27 PM

Hey thanks, I checked out the site it looks like a great start.

cadre · 02-06-2007, 05:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by StormBerlin

I know I shouldn't post the link, but there's an Australian porn site that I admit I've actually paid for. It's amature porn, and it's exremely artsy. All the shots are from the neck/chest up. Mosty it's masturbation but sometimes it's couples having sex. It's extremely erotic because all you see is a face and hear the noises they make.

Just kiddin, apparently I can post the link

beautifulagony.com

I just looked at this site. I can say that it's very different than the majority of porn out there. I find it kinda creepy but to each her own.

As someone already said there are women owned sex shops that will have more porn geared toward women as well. I think goodvibes.com is one but I can't remember for sure.

Amethyst · 02-14-2007, 07:08 PM

I absolutely love the Dinner Party. It is probably my favorite porn of all time. Number two is Conquest.
check out the dinner party.

Sue · 02-21-2007, 06:44 PM

I'm gonna go against the grain here. The porn that's out these days that's generated "for men by men" I really enjoy watching. I really don't like seeing the seductive/emotional stuff. It bores me to death actually. The only things I skip through are blow jobs and guys cumming on the girls. Gimme hardcore porn all the way

cadre · 02-21-2007, 07:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sue

I'm gonna go against the grain here. The porn that's out these days that's generated "for men by men" I really enjoy watching. I really don't like seeing the seductive/emotional stuff. It bores me to death actually. The only things I skip through are blow jobs and guys cumming on the girls. Gimme hardcore porn all the way

I'm with you.

oFia · 03-22-2007, 03:53 PM

Has anyone read Regina Lynn's column or blog? I don't remember in which location I saw it but.. she has covered this topic. There's either a book or a website out there titled something along the line of "A Good Girl's Guide to Porn." I also like her blog for taking a female's view of porn. Some day when I have the money I'll probably take some of her recommendations....

Her blog: http://blog.wired.com/sex/

Her column, which updates Fridays, I think: http://www.wired.com/news/columns/0,...tw=rss.columns

After a very quick search of Wired Blogs it might be a book titled "A Smart Girl's Guide to Porn."

Hopefully this will help.

PrettyPoison · 03-28-2007, 05:28 AM

I have no problem with porn, I like to search for it, I even watch it with my hubby, the only thing that really bothers me is...get ready, lol......it seems most of the porn I find, the guy NEVER goes down on the girl, this pisses me off, because lets face it, most of us LOVE that, and I love seeing it in porn, but its hard to find!

I enjoy Milfhunter films, staged, but good, lol

venusinfurs · 03-31-2007, 08:49 AM

I am a woman and I enjoy porn. I mostly enjoy photographs of women being penetrated(not by men) and masturbating. My partner is male, but i found most pornography including men is them is gross. Most are either too muscular or the creepy lookin porno dude. Well, I also find white-man penis ugly, gross and pink some look like dead peices of floured chicken. My partner is S.E asian and has the only penis that has never scared me when i looked at it-not an ugly gorss colour that resembles dead chicken parts. Most porn, though, i find boring. Same anorexic blonde girl or "omg asian girl that isnt hot but we fetishize them" images. I like erotic black and white poses, bondage, forrest black and emlia g images, some SG, and nice close up pictures of shavedwoman bits. I do not like most porn vids, for the audio is annoying. I also hate the ones with the blonde women making annoying fake moans and constantly saying oh yeah yeah yeah yeah uhnnn. In my eyes, majority of porn is boring, same ole thing, not creative. I love looking at hot wet naked vaginas.Doesn;t matter what colour they are, as long as it doesn;t look like roast beef or have tons of hair. mmmmm.

hunnychile · 04-29-2007, 01:57 PM

I agree...those roast beef pics can be a real turn off! And yes, some of the guys who are the "partners" in the sex tapes are pretty gross looking - except for big hard cocks, for sure. Perhaps more of us ladies need to speak out about the images we'd like to see or create new, better stuff so that we ladies can upgrade the biz a bit. It's a thought. Good work is still still work...am I right?

Im_not_bitter · 04-29-2007, 03:42 PM

Err.. Chick flicks?

Maleigh99 · 05-18-2007, 03:40 PM

Well I am more in line with liking the harder stuff as opposed to the soft stuff that comes out on Cinemax. That's just crap. But I wholeheartedly agree about the weird looking porn dude look that seems to be proliferant within these types of videos. Bring on the good looking men so we can have something more to watch than the women.

lisa21 · 01-13-2009, 10:29 AM

I like some softcore over smut but I still like alot of good hardcore action! I really don't care to see girls always dominated and soley pleasing the guy.

A good adult porn site for women is Bubblesandwine.com. It's more focused for women and couples with a mix of different type movies.

KezMak · 01-19-2009, 01:30 AM

The trouble with male porn, from my point of view, is that it's about getting the viewer off really quickly. The quicker the better. What then?... I remember having glorious pubescent masturbation sessions over my sister's Jackie Collins novels and Cosmopolitans - the days of the sealed section - and while the content was still rubbish, because my mind was so much involved I could go on for a very long time indeed, thus enhancing the pleasure. The other thing is, because mainstream porn is just about getting excited by what is actually happening, not what you can imagine or what is implied, you get desensitized after a while.

02-01-2007, 03:24 PM	#1 (permalink)
hunnychile Alien Anthropologist Location: Between Boredom and Nirvana	Great Porn (Edit) for Ladies As an avid internet surfer, I have been looking for porn that's unique and done in a sexy juicey way that appeals to us ladies. Most movies seem designed from the man's "point of view". Haven't found any movies or books that are interesting & professional to rent or buy yet - but I contunue to look around. Do any of our ladies here have some favorite movies or books they could recommend? As most of us...I venture to say, I'd like some suggestions where the people are great looking and enjoying themselves. Kinky and FFM is totally fine BTW! I realize we aren't allowed to plug sites here on tfp, so I have edited this post and hope that no offense has been taken due to my original post earlier today.* __________________ "I need compassion, understanding and chocolate." - NJB Last edited by hunnychile; 02-02-2007 at 04:13 AM.. Reason: Compliance

02-02-2007, 07:27 AM	#2 (permalink)
hagatha Addict	Its funny, my friend and I were having the same discussion the other day. I would love to see some female friendly porn, you haven't even touched on porn for lesbians (as opposed to lesbian porn that is for men, by men). For me, it would involve a male protagonist(s) who isn't (aren't) gross looking and, maybe I'm asking too much here, a plausible story line. __________________ Thats the last time I trust the strangest people I ever met....H. Simpson

02-03-2007, 04:05 PM	#3 (permalink)
serlindsipity Psycho Location: Boulder Baby!	I remember reading something "somewhere" talking about how making porn to please women is much harder since we latch on to the emotional side a bit more than our visually based counterparts. I wonder if that might have something to do with it. sorry for threadjack, back to convo at hand __________________ My third eye is my camera's lens.

02-04-2007, 07:38 AM	#4 (permalink)
hagatha Addict	I am really surprised this thread is going nowhere fast. I mean is it because the TFP is really more about male porn than anything that turns women on? As for visual stimulation, I have seen some really hot sex scenes that were a turn on but its the way in which they were presented that made a difference. What little porn I've seen, seems to centre of close ups of penis in vagina scenes and women who look really bored. Or close ups of cum. That, for me is not a turn on. I really hope this thread isn't dead, I'm very curious to know if there is any good porn for women out there. __________________ Thats the last time I trust the strangest people I ever met....H. Simpson

02-05-2007, 10:25 AM	#5 (permalink)
serlindsipity Psycho Location: Boulder Baby!	I am wondering- anyone ever think the SOUND of porn is annoying? I have to mute all porn to be able to watch it. So i guess that is a pref of mine- silent movies. I'd do well back in the old days of movies, but i doubt they made porn then. I guess does the lack of thread prove the point that few women watch porn? __________________ My third eye is my camera's lens.

02-05-2007, 11:21 AM	#6 (permalink)
hunnychile Alien Anthropologist Location: Between Boredom and Nirvana	Oh, no worries - this thread isn't dead and there are lots of us ladies who enjoy good well-produced porn. Maybe some of us are busier reading erotica elsewhere. At any rate, is does seem that women in a general sense a need for some emotional attachment to gain true arousal from works of art, porn, erotica or whatever medium they choose which makes them feel their sexual desires blossom. It's not that porn is mainly created by guys for guys...I think that we ladies might speak up and share ideas so we can be a bit more selective when viewing porn/erotica. The post about stockings was a huge turn on to me but what else is out there, other than some guy squirting cum in a girls face? That seems a bit chauvenistic is so many ways. Lots of images waiting to be "mined and shared", right? Mutuallity and romance would be nice to see beautifully filmed for just one example. __________________ "I need compassion, understanding and chocolate." - NJB Last edited by hunnychile; 02-05-2007 at 11:23 AM..

02-05-2007, 05:53 PM	#7 (permalink)
hagatha Addict	I think there's something about seduction and well, maybe its just me, but a well dressed man is a much bigger turn on than a naked one. mens bodies, to me, lack the grace and beauty evoked by the female form. Remember Playgirl? it totally bombed and I think one of the reasons was that it presented soft core images in a manner that appealed to men, but not to women. Although it was a real hit with gay men. I stick with my initial belief that a good storyline goes a long way. __________________ Thats the last time I trust the strangest people I ever met....H. Simpson

02-05-2007, 08:03 PM	#8 (permalink)
cadre The Worst Influence Location: Arizona	Ladies, I think this thread is just in the wrong place. True men may have different opinions of what is good porn than you do but I'm sure they can point you in the right direction. I haven't downloaded or watched any new porn in a while but Empornium and Cheggit are the places where I find the most options. __________________ My life is one of those 'you had to be there' jokes.

02-05-2007, 10:11 PM	#9 (permalink)
StormBerlin Happy as a hippo Location: Southern California	I know I shouldn't post the link, but there's an Australian porn site that I admit I've actually paid for. It's amature porn, and it's exremely artsy. All the shots are from the neck/chest up. Mosty it's masturbation but sometimes it's couples having sex. It's extremely erotic because all you see is a face and hear the noises they make. Just kiddin, apparently I can post the link beautifulagony.com __________________ "if anal sex could get a girl pregnant i'd be tits deep in child support" Arcane Last edited by StormBerlin; 02-06-2007 at 02:25 PM..

02-06-2007, 02:46 PM	#10 (permalink)
Mistress Kali Upright	Hi ladies: the most readily accessible porn is geared to men. I would recommend checking out the offerings at a woman focussed sex shop such as Good For Her http://www.goodforher.com/osc/catalo...adb2a4674ccc68 Happy and Pleasurable viewing! __________________ ]

02-06-2007, 03:27 PM	#11 (permalink)
hagatha Addict	Hey thanks, I checked out the site it looks like a great start. __________________ Thats the last time I trust the strangest people I ever met....H. Simpson

02-14-2007, 07:08 PM	#13 (permalink)
Amethyst Addict Location: Illinois	I absolutely love the Dinner Party. It is probably my favorite porn of all time. Number two is Conquest. check out the dinner party.

02-21-2007, 06:44 PM	#14 (permalink)
Sue Teufel Hunden's Freundin Location: Westminster, CO	I'm gonna go against the grain here. The porn that's out these days that's generated "for men by men" I really enjoy watching. I really don't like seeing the seductive/emotional stuff. It bores me to death actually. The only things I skip through are blow jobs and guys cumming on the girls. Gimme hardcore porn all the way __________________ Teg yw edrych tuag adref.

03-22-2007, 03:53 PM	#16 (permalink)
oFia Tilted Location: Texas	Has anyone read Regina Lynn's column or blog? I don't remember in which location I saw it but.. she has covered this topic. There's either a book or a website out there titled something along the line of "A Good Girl's Guide to Porn." I also like her blog for taking a female's view of porn. Some day when I have the money I'll probably take some of her recommendations.... Her blog: http://blog.wired.com/sex/ Her column, which updates Fridays, I think: http://www.wired.com/news/columns/0,...tw=rss.columns After a very quick search of Wired Blogs it might be a book titled "A Smart Girl's Guide to Porn." Hopefully this will help.

03-28-2007, 05:28 AM	#17 (permalink)
PrettyPoison Upright	I have no problem with porn, I like to search for it, I even watch it with my hubby, the only thing that really bothers me is...get ready, lol......it seems most of the porn I find, the guy NEVER goes down on the girl, this pisses me off, because lets face it, most of us LOVE that, and I love seeing it in porn, but its hard to find! I enjoy Milfhunter films, staged, but good, lol

03-31-2007, 08:49 AM	#18 (permalink)
venusinfurs Tilted	I am a woman and I enjoy porn. I mostly enjoy photographs of women being penetrated(not by men) and masturbating. My partner is male, but i found most pornography including men is them is gross. Most are either too muscular or the creepy lookin porno dude. Well, I also find white-man penis ugly, gross and pink some look like dead peices of floured chicken. My partner is S.E asian and has the only penis that has never scared me when i looked at it-not an ugly gorss colour that resembles dead chicken parts. Most porn, though, i find boring. Same anorexic blonde girl or "omg asian girl that isnt hot but we fetishize them" images. I like erotic black and white poses, bondage, forrest black and emlia g images, some SG, and nice close up pictures of shavedwoman bits. I do not like most porn vids, for the audio is annoying. I also hate the ones with the blonde women making annoying fake moans and constantly saying oh yeah yeah yeah yeah uhnnn. In my eyes, majority of porn is boring, same ole thing, not creative. I love looking at hot wet naked vaginas.Doesn;t matter what colour they are, as long as it doesn;t look like roast beef or have tons of hair. mmmmm.

04-29-2007, 01:57 PM	#19 (permalink)
hunnychile Alien Anthropologist Location: Between Boredom and Nirvana	I agree...those roast beef pics can be a real turn off! And yes, some of the guys who are the "partners" in the sex tapes are pretty gross looking - except for big hard cocks, for sure. Perhaps more of us ladies need to speak out about the images we'd like to see or create new, better stuff so that we ladies can upgrade the biz a bit. It's a thought. Good work is still still work...am I right? __________________ "I need compassion, understanding and chocolate." - NJB

04-29-2007, 03:42 PM	#20 (permalink)
Im_not_bitter Upright	Err.. Chick flicks? __________________ Just because it's called common sense, doesn't mean it's a common trait

05-18-2007, 03:40 PM	#21 (permalink)
Maleigh99 Upright Location: Texas	Well I am more in line with liking the harder stuff as opposed to the soft stuff that comes out on Cinemax. That's just crap. But I wholeheartedly agree about the weird looking porn dude look that seems to be proliferant within these types of videos. Bring on the good looking men so we can have something more to watch than the women.

01-13-2009, 10:29 AM	#22 (permalink)
lisa21 Upright Location: Midwest	I like some softcore over smut but I still like alot of good hardcore action! I really don't care to see girls always dominated and soley pleasing the guy. A good adult porn site for women is Bubblesandwine.com. It's more focused for women and couples with a mix of different type movies.

01-19-2009, 01:30 AM	#23 (permalink)
KezMak Upright	The trouble with male porn, from my point of view, is that it's about getting the viewer off really quickly. The quicker the better. What then?... I remember having glorious pubescent masturbation sessions over my sister's Jackie Collins novels and Cosmopolitans - the days of the sealed section - and while the content was still rubbish, because my mind was so much involved I could go on for a very long time indeed, thus enhancing the pleasure. The other thing is, because mainstream porn is just about getting excited by what is actually happening, not what you can imagine or what is implied, you get desensitized after a while.