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I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot!
Location: Upper Michigan
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How close are you with your siblings?
My brother and I were the only children in our home. Even though we were 6 years apart in age(I'm eldest), we were always cohorts in trouble. We actually got into trouble more often together than the number of times we tattled on each other. Now that we're adults we talk about almost anything. Probably too much in some cases. lol
I've purchased condoms for him when he was busy and had a special date coming up and we've talked about what are the best to use and such. The four of us, including my brother and I and our spouses, have sat and scoped out hot girls. My sister-in-law is Bi and I learned that from my brother. He's told me that she wants to have a 3some with another girl but he's not really interested (partly because they've only been married 5 months). We have even talked about the sexual things we've experimented with. I doubt he would be interested in anything of an incestual nature and I refuse to cross that line because of the many potential problems. How close are you all with your siblings? What kinds of things do you share and how well do you communicate?
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Insane
Location: Christchurch, New Zealand
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I have two siblings, a younger brother aged 17 and an older half-brother on my mother's side aged about 30. I'm 22.
My younger brother and I were constantly arguing and occasionally fighting right up until I left home at 18. We get along much better now and although we don't get to talk a lot there is a feeling of closeness and friendship that we didn't have when we were both living at home. When we talk it's usually about our common interests music and computer games, or about life in general. I didn't know my half-brother existed until I was about 11 or 12 and met him soon after. He's a good guy and both my younger brother and I got along with him really well. He came and lived with us for a while before leaving to move in his his gf. I haven't seen him much since and not at all in the last couple of years. He's still in contact with our mother so I know where he works, but I keep forgetting to go catch up with him when I'm in town. Other than my forgetfulness, I don't really know why neither of us has made any effort to see each other.
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Upright
Location: Arizona, the devil's homeland
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I've got two younger brothers, one almost 18 and one just turned 11. I'm 19. The oldest of the two and I were best friends until the youngest was born. Then he and I hated each other up until I was about 17/18 and moving out of the house. Now we're really good friends (even after I moved back home) and we usually watch each others' backs. Wish it coulda been that way in High School, lol. Anyways, the youngest bro and I are buddies, but we're not as close. There's so much of an age difference that it's hard sometimes, but about once a month I make sure to hang out with just him for a while so he knows I don't hate him...
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Psycho
Location: MA
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Unfortunately I dont have any siblings. But there is a girl that ive been close to for so long that at this point we refer to each other as brother and sister. Kinda screws with people's minds when I say that i was talking to my sister and they know im an only child
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Registered User
Location: Somewhere in Ohio
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I live in Ohio and my sister lives in California, and that's still too fucking close to me! She's a fucking bitch.
I don't care what she does or how she lives. We fought continuously as kids and now I can't stand her. For the record, she always started the fights. She's 2 years older than me and one day I realized I was much bigger and stronger than her and I beat the shit outa her, and from that day on I fucked with her to the point that she would go insane. Man, I loved to torture her. I think she likes me now, but I could care less. She's fucking evil! |
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Delicious
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My older half sister and I used to fight all the time, but we never held a grudge more than 10-15 minutes. I wouldn't say we're close but we can tolerate each other for a an hour or so..
My younger step sisters are only 3-4 years old so They use me a punchin bag most of the time. ![]()
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Banned
Location: St. Paul, MN
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my sister has probably been my best friend from teh day that she realized she couldn't convince my parents to take me back to the hospital. once we had that down, the next best thing was to spend every waking moment of our lives together for the next several years. she's a few state over now, and i miss her pretty bad.
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Upright
Location: Boston
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My little sister and i are two years apart (i'm older) and we've been best friends ever since our older brother moved out for college when i was 16. I think he had a tendency to start shit between us so one of us would be on "his side" since he couldn't really play barbies with us. Now that we're older, my brother and i get along fine and shoot the shit once in a while but we're not that tight. I think he adores my sister, and like me, thinks every thing she does is amazing, and she sees him as her big brother. She just came and visited me last weekend and i realized that i felt more like myself than i have since the last time we were both home. I think that i'm gonna have to make sure that when we're "grown ups" we live in the same city so we can wet our pants laughing at each other on a regular basis again.
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COMPLETED and A TRAINER
Location: BEAN_TOWN
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My sister (6 years younger)and I speak about everything her kids, mom and dad and all of the family goings on(she is the closest and can visit then on a regular basis) My brother (3 years younger) and I speak when he's around, its not that we fight its just that we are two very different people now and really don't have much in common, but I would do anything for my siblings if the need arises.
my sis lives in NJ, bro in CA and myself in MA
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You + Me = Us
Location: California dreaming...
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My half-sister and I were pretty close until I hit around age 9. Then I realized I wanted to move on in life while her and my other cousins wanted to stick around and do the same stupid kiddy stuff (even though she is 3 years my senior). So we kinda grew apart for a few years (I lived at home with my mom and step dad while she lived with our grandma since her mom sucks and our dad is in jail).
Then she made the worst decision in her life (she isn't the brightest bulb) and had sex with some asshole. He left, promised to marry her, joined the army and married some other girl. All of this while she was only 17. That guy is lucky as hell I wasn't around. So my nephew brought us closer and every now and then she'll call so he can talk to me. My little sister, *sigh*. I still do my best to steer her in the right direction since I'm the only one thats not afraid to hit her when she fucks up (not beat up but she knows she fucked up when I do). She's 6 years younger than me and I don't want her to screw up like my older sister did. So yeah, we're as close as I want to be.
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Poison
Location: Canada
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I have one sister.
When we were both young, We would kick eachother's asses almost everyday...Now we live together, But I am hoping i can change that soon.
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Justified
Location: West Lafayette, IN
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I don't really think I am that close with my siblings.
When I am at home I barely talk to my brother and I go weeks w/o talking to my sister. The only time my brother will reach out to me online or via phone is if he wants something. It bothers me sometimes, but another part of me knows that I have made attempts to reach out and be there for them, but they have bigger priorities. Oh well.
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My future is coming on
Moderator Emeritus
Location: east of the sun and west of the moon
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I'm really close to my sister. We share everything. Mostly by AIM, but still, chatting with someone basically 8 hours a day you come up with a lot of stuff to talk about.
I was really close to my brother. I miss him so much. I think I have to go cry now.
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Psycho
Location: The capital of the free world??
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My family realy values success in academia, I have cousins that go to places ranging from harvard to the university of Vienna, and many others. I have two half brothers, one 7 years older than me and the other 9. The one thats 7 years older (26 now) is another overacomplished family prodigy, fulbright schoral, etc. he's a cool guy and we only started to get along when I moved out of the country. But we don't really do anything together and before that we used to fight all the time to get attention from my mom, we still do sometimes, its silly.
My other brother is 28 now and he hasn't even graduated college but he's such a happy cool guy. He's really nice he's always there for you and he would include me in with his group of friends when I moved to go to college near him, even though I'm a lot younger. He recently moved to Argentina in one of his hippy stunts, so I'm really sad. I love both my brothers very much and I miss them, but I always got along better with the older one.
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Is In Love
Location: I'm workin' on it
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I have two sisters, one a year older and the other is 4 years younger. I get along fairly well with my older sister, but not so well with the other. I really cannot stand her half of the time.
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Registered User
Location: Oklahoma
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I have a younger sister that I was reasonably close to when I was growing up. However, she has always been about what is in it for her, and all of our conversations usually turn that way. I talk with her twice a year now (if that).
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Giggity Giggity!!
Location: N'York
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I have a younger brother by 3 years, and a younger sister by 12 years (yikes mom and dad!, what were you thinking? Were you even thinking?!) Anyway, I get a long fine with the both of them. I don't see my brother too much, he's pretty busy with his girlfriend most days and doesn't really care to hang out with anybody but her...which is fine, but hey, I'd like to see the little fella here and ther! Sheesh....my sister is a lot younger, so we don't "hang out"as much, but I still take her out here and there to go to the movies or go hiking. I'd say I have a pretty good relationship with the two.
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Fledgling Dead Head
Location: Clarkson U.
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My relationship with my brother varies. Hes 2 years younger then me, and most of the time we get along, but we have our moments.
Of the two of us, I got the quick thinking, and easy life in school, and he got the better hands on skills. He loves engines and the whole bit. To me engines are a conceptual thing, and I would be hard pressed to fix one, while for him that sort of thing comes naturaly. I have to think my way through it. His slower thinking drives me insane at times though, which is why I mention it. A lot of our contention starts from me flipping out about something he didnt think through, or something he says that just makes limited sense, and drives me up the wall. |
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I and I
Location: Stillwater, OK
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My younger sister (by 2 years) and I used to always fight and all the time. I was the oldest and a boy so I couldn't go all out on her, but boy would she go all out on me. Well, a time passed and just a couple years ago we just started getting along really well. We can talk about anything with each other and get along superbly. She'll lend me money if I need it, I'd do the same for here. I've heard adults saying they never got along with their siblings till their 30s, so I'm glad that I've reached this place a lot earlier.
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The Cover Doesn't Match The Book
Location: in a van down by the river
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I have two brothers.
one is awsome, we are so much alike it scares me somtimes. he lives the east coast and I live in Wisconsin....it's sad, we only see each other once or twice a year. my other brother lives six blocks away from my house, he's an asshole.....I see him once or twice a year too. OH WELL!
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Here
Location: Denver City Denver
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My sister and I are have most of the same frineds. She's only three years older then me so it's not that weird. We do a lot of stuff together. It's nice being this close to her. I can't imagine how people don't get along with their siblings.
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Location: Tokyo
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i have an older brother.
when we lived in the same house we weren´t very close. i mean, we didn´t fight all that often, i guess we just never had the same interests. he usually just ignored me at school. but, ever since he moved out, a few years ago, well, we´ve gotten really close. it even got to a point where i had to stop him from ´over-sharing´ info about his sex life. and now that he lives in Japan, and is currently holidaying in Uzbekistan and Kazakhstan... i miss him more than ever. i´m even worrying about him. (when he called home the other day from Tashkent, he sounded really subdued, almost like he was phoning under duress or he was drugged, so i asked him... but he just said that he hadn´t spoken english in ages, and was finding it a little difficult. [no ransom was made, so i figured he was ok])
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My own person -- his by choice
Location: Lebell's arms
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I have three sisters.
The older one and I get along okay. She is a little too far right for my liking and still treats me like a teenager sometimes -- but it is okay. My first younger sister hasn't talked to me for 7 years. But I know if push came to shove she'd give me the shirt off her back and I'd do the same for her. My baby sister is awesome. We get along just fine. Our kids are close to the same age and we are both open sexually -- so lots to talk about.
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Psycho
Location: Australia
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I have two full blood, and two half blood siblings. I get on very well with all of them (though I rarely get to see the half sibs). We're all extremely different, but manage not to fight to often, it's quite amazing.
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Go Ninja, Go Ninja Go!!
Location: IN, USA
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3 Sisters... no brothers.. I'm the youngest.. AUGH!
![]() The oldest is my Half-Sister, I found out about her existance about 8-10 years ago ( I think, its been a while). I still don't see her as a sister, and I doubt I ever will... she's "My dad's kid" with no feeling or anything attatched. I feel a lot of this is because just how fucked up her family is (marriage and kids), we never bonded and with all that I can't stand about that family.. she's here, but I won't see her as my sister. Oldest Full Blooded Sister? Until she got married and moved out I just didn't talk with her. PERIOD. Wasn't that I hated her, in fact I tried more times than I can count to fix things between us, but it got to a point where I'd say "Hi!" and she'd give me the equivolent of a "fuck off" (because she'll NEVER say the word "fuck"). I just stopped talking to her. All she did was complain about my lifestyle, even though she would only see me during certain parts of the day (so she saw how I routinely got on my computer after class and had a soda... she's a nurse), and just bitch to me constantly. I was happier than a ... umm.. I don't know but I was extremely happy to see her move out. Now things are better, we get along, but I also think a lot of that is due to the fact that we dont' see each other every day. Ah well, Things are better and I can now say 'Hi' to my sister and get a nice response back. I'm happy with that. Then comes the "middle child" the sister who is my youngest sister. She has always been called "The Cool One." We have gotten along really awesome our entire life (except for one year, which is an entire story in and of itself). Whenever we got grounded (TV, then Games for me, and phone for her).. We'd spot for each other. "Hey! Parents are pulling in the driveway!" I have yet to hear this as a common thing. I used to think all siblings were cool to each other. After I explained this to some of my friends, they all told me how all of their siblings were QUICK to tell on them. This sister is always more than happy to let me drink, because of which I always have free access to her stash!! ![]() ![]()
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