WhoaitsZ

I’m glad I am strong. Perseverance is needed tonight. Another night of immense mood swings. But it’s gone for now.

Today was good. Just sometimes I end my day and no matter how I feel I can’t show for it. Hmm.


Alright. Thanks for the truth. It is rare that people come completely clean and honest. (I swear that wasn’t a horrible pun!)

Next step. This is hard because I’m not quite sure how to get the point I would hope to drive in and be taken seriously.

I should had done a poll. Most of us, it seems, can go for very long periods of time without and orgasm. The rest of us are pretty much ready and willing. Only a few of us get edgy/hostile after not having had an orgasm; me being one of the latter.

Now the rest isn’t a question as much as a simply odd thought. What about people who are ‘out of touch’, so to speak? People who have complete feeling, nerves, yada yada but are too badly hindered to simply have an orgasm: may it be from masturbation to normal sex? I’m lucky enough that this is not an issue. But the other day I was told of how some of the nursing homes are. . . and what I heard was downright disturbing.

It is something that the people are so quick to say ‘shh’ at that they now have some issues they can’t ignore. Some things that some simple discussion about law, ‘morals’, human ethics, and possible law ‘bending’ could fix. We live in PC masked lies so thick that we’ve forgotten how to remove them and be adults again. We’ve gotten to where we censor everyone and everything to where it’s far easier to quiet the few who speak than try to have some solutions.

So… okay. Say Jimmy is a pretty fucked up guy; bad accident. He’s most likely never getting out of a home, far less chance at finding love. So do we say ‘well, his luck is out’ and pretend he’s no longer ‘completely human’ or do we try to figure out how to get him fixed off and on?

What I hear are people who are held back so long until they stay aggressive. It’s swept under the rug because someone doesn’t like to blush and is ignored until there is a possible accident or someone just giving up and not having any last humanity. It’s wrong.

I apologize this is choppy and sloppy. I’m having trouble typing this out right. I think you get the point.

So am I saying nurses should ‘help out’? no. besides, some nurses are quite creepy heh.. but it seems like someone, somewhere could and would say ‘they need sex’. Prostitution? Maybe. Illegal? Yep. Can people try and change rules or law? I think we can if we quit thinking of ourselves. It is easy for us to have our fun and ignore others.

What if I miss out, don’t marry or what not, parents die and get stuck? I am an ugly motherfucker but I am far, far, far from the person who doesn’t get their kicks. And it doesn’t embarrass me. It’s my friggen body, my life. I’m in a shell and I will do what I will to make life enjoyable.

I have faith and plans in family and I worry very little about going into death camps. But it is possible……

Sorry this was done poorly.

Your thoughts?

monty121052

What juw smokin man.

Peryn

its too late for me to think too seriously....so, I'll just point out that in Nevada, they have a form of legalized prostitution.

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WhoaitsZ

yes. nevada has legalized prostitution.

so....... massive funds to bus peeps to nevada?

sexymama

What you have to say is a very serious concern that deserves to be addressed. All people have the right to have their needs (medical, emotional, spiritual, mental, and sexual!) met. How to do that, I'm not sure. Hmmm, maybe some sort of "machine" (for woman this may be easier than for men). Maybe, like you said, a professional who is pleasurable to work with (not a "crazy nurse.") I don't have a definite answer for you -- just agree that everyone's needs are real and should not be stiffled or ignored.

Oh, one more thought -- it may be that an orgasm isn't the answer as much as being touched and loved. IMHO I think we are a touch deprived society -- especially when one is preceived as "different."

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YzermanS19

The quote of the millenium folks. I agree completely.

More than anything else, its societal. It's not that we don't feel compassion for these people, its just that its nearly taboo to show any outward physical emotion toward these people. Like the rest of the "norms" will look down on you for helping.

Maybe its natures way of making sure that "survival of the fittest" goes in.

Sad, IMO.

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WhoaitsZ

good points.

heh i feared this would crash. just a thought.

hucklebuck74

This question hits close to home for me. As I posted in the other thread, it has been over 9 years since I have had an orgasm. I was paralyzed in a car accident and can not achieve orgasm as a result. I had sex a few times after the accident with my then girlfriend but it wasn't the same. Now, I am more concerned with my partner's needs than my own. Don't know if this made any sense but it's my $.02

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WhoaitsZ

man. i applaud your spirit! keeping a SO happy is a worry for me as well. a lot agree, a lot agree with my thoughts and many think it disgusting. but hell, i dun wanna be selfish. of course i may change my mind heh. chech my journal entry 114!