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What you have to say is a very serious concern that deserves to be addressed. All people have the right to have their needs (medical, emotional, spiritual, mental, and sexual!) met. How to do that, I'm not sure. Hmmm, maybe some sort of "machine" (for woman this may be easier than for men). Maybe, like you said, a professional who is pleasurable to work with (not a "crazy nurse.") I don't have a definite answer for you -- just agree that everyone's needs are real and should not be stiffled or ignored.
Oh, one more thought -- it may be that an orgasm isn't the answer as much as being touched and loved. IMHO I think we are a touch deprived society -- especially when one is preceived as "different."
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