Ever wish you could back in time to a situation with a girl/guy to change one thing.. - Page 2 - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

bundy · 05-04-2003, 02:39 AM

yep.
i wish i didn't reply to my ex's last invitation.
emotional disaster.

portereight · 10-18-2004, 06:48 AM

There are many things that are tempting to change, but I am a product of all of these experiences, and wouldn't chance losing any of the good things in my life to eliminate any of the bad.

ARTelevision · 10-18-2004, 07:05 AM

No, I don't. Because the fact is I would change everything. That would be ridiculous. I see everything I have ever done up to a few years ago as nothing but a series of big mistakes. I just let all of my mistakes go and move on.

Tralls · 10-18-2004, 07:13 AM

Yeah! I'd hit it!

Ustwo · 10-18-2004, 07:26 AM

First, I would have nailed the girl I took to homecomming my senior year.

God I was stupid.

But there are many things I'd change. I would NOT have been drunk at a set up dance in college so I would have seen she was er 'larger' then I am attracted to while sober, and thats just one of the 'oopses'.

Life is about mistakes, and yea I made a few. Less then many I think, or at least not catistrophic, BUT its very easy to go back and think what I'd have done differenetly.

Currently I'm happy, but I'm sure in 20 years I'll look back and think 'damn I shouldn't have done THAT'.

anonymity_sucks · 10-21-2004, 04:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BoCo

I regret nothing from past relationships, because had things not worked out the way they did then a)I wouldn't have learned whatever lesson I did, and b)I wouldn't be with the girlie I'm with now.

crazybill5280, I've been through those same situations as you, and the way I look at it is it's their own damn fault for not coming out and being more obvious that they wanted me. If they want to be all coy and hope that you'll catch on to their flirting, then they can just forget hooking up with anyone. If a girl wants me, then she had better just come right out and say something. In other words, it's not you who is the dumbass, it's them.

I agree with this completely. You can't get hung up on hindsight. Everyone probably has something they 'might' do differently, but at the same time what would be the point?

I guess what I am trying to say that there is something you can learn from every experience you go through, and to wish one could go back in time and change a choice made would end up creating a person who never experienced life fully and freely.

hunnychile · 10-21-2004, 04:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JadziaDax

I wouldn't have said, "I do."

Amen to That!! /I now applaud wildly/

I wish I'd had the guts to change the plan that seemed perfect.
Or to have been open & brave enough to share with the person I should have said "I do or I will, or let's please eachother forever and be married....to"

10-21-2004, 05:51 PM

I wouldn't have married as quickly as we did.

Silvanio · 10-21-2004, 06:13 PM

I had a girl come on real strong in (cliche incoming) a big closet, at work.I kissed her back halfheartedly.

I wish I wouldn't have thought "oh shit, we're gonna get caught" and instead "holy shit, this is great."
------------------
Hm, what else. Not too many regrets, then again, I've led a tame life.

Rlyss · 10-21-2004, 06:42 PM

I'd have talked to that girl on Tuesday when I had my chance. But hey, this coming Tuesday is my last chance to do it, after that I'll never run into her again.

dogma13554u · 10-21-2004, 08:19 PM

I've made more than my share of mistakes. My friends will vouch that my love life has been a serious of the strangest, most horrible stories. But I tend to take that whole, let it be mentality. Sure, I've been through a lot of crap, but I'm happy now. The mistakes I've made are a part of who I am, and oddly enough, I like that guy.

combatmedicjen · 10-21-2004, 08:57 PM

I don't like to regret stuff. You can't change the past... why obsess over it?

CheeseButtons · 10-21-2004, 08:58 PM

I have some regrets...but actually most of them are things I wish I HADN'T done...like chase this one girl through highschool. It was pathetic, but everytime I thought I didn't have a chance anymore, she'd flirt with me, or say something that would get me hooked again.

I do regret not trying to date a couple girls in highschool...I was young and thought that being friends would just be easier, oh well.

gentlesoul43 · 10-24-2004, 05:47 PM

Some years back a Uni friend of mine visited me from Australia and we went out for dinner and some drinks and I took her back to her place. We were really close friends before, we flirted with each other but never dated. Anyway, after dinner we sat on the couch and she had her legs over mine and we were chatting. After that, as I was leaving, she leaned over and kissed me on the lips. For some reason, I mumbled something silly like good nite and just went off. I think I got a bit uncomfortable having someone so close to my face.. kind of coming into my private zone. It would have been OK if I kissed back, but I guess it didn't hit me then that it could have been ok to do that. Stupid dumbass.. the next couple of days, I met up with her friends and they asked me "So, did anything happen to the both of you that night?" Hmm.. looks like she may have had it planned and had told her friends too. Maybe I woulda gotten lucky if only I responded a little bit and I didn't! Thing is, I've always wondered what it would have been like with her... stupid stupid stupid.

I guess we all learn as we go along.. several months back while I was clubbing with some friends, I met this girl who started coming on to me. Stood very close to my face while talking to me and this time, I held my ground and I turned around and our lips brushed and we kissed. We ended up for the next 30 mins all over each other in full view of my friends. It was really good cause we had just met and I found out that she was going overseas for many years soon, so I guess she had just wanted some fun. Would have wanted to see her again before she left, but the guy who came with her that night (was a friend of my friends) was really pissed off with me.

I guess I made up for my stupidity many years back.

You live and learn.

clavus · 10-24-2004, 09:42 PM

I would have had wild monkey sex with this girl (OK, her name was "Ashleigh") when I had the chance. I tried for years, got one shot at it and chickened out. Then her boyfriend went and killed himself, and there was no way she was going to let anyone in her pants after that.

sonikeko · 10-24-2004, 10:16 PM

There was this girl...back in High School that I dated for like 2 and a half years. (ok, ok...her name was Alicia) We were "IN Love", and everyhting was cool for the longest time. Then suddenly, I became this insane jerk-off that was always pissed at her for something. I really treated her like crap...there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about her and what could have been...this was almost 7 years ago now. Sometimes, it's just really hard to let the good ones go.

05-04-2003, 02:39 AM	#41 (permalink)
bundy . Location: Tokyo	yep. i wish i didn't reply to my ex's last invitation. emotional disaster. __________________ Ohayo!!!

10-18-2004, 07:05 AM	#43 (permalink)
ARTelevision I change Location: USA	No, I don't. Because the fact is I would change everything. That would be ridiculous. I see everything I have ever done up to a few years ago as nothing but a series of big mistakes. I just let all of my mistakes go and move on. __________________ create evolution

10-18-2004, 07:26 AM	#45 (permalink)
Ustwo Pissing in the cornflakes	First, I would have nailed the girl I took to homecomming my senior year. God I was stupid. But there are many things I'd change. I would NOT have been drunk at a set up dance in college so I would have seen she was er 'larger' then I am attracted to while sober, and thats just one of the 'oopses'. Life is about mistakes, and yea I made a few. Less then many I think, or at least not catistrophic, BUT its very easy to go back and think what I'd have done differenetly. Currently I'm happy, but I'm sure in 20 years I'll look back and think 'damn I shouldn't have done THAT'. __________________ Agents of the enemies who hold office in our own government, who attempt to eliminate our "freedoms" and our "right to know" are posting among us, I fear.....on this very forum. - host Obama - Know a Man by the friends he keeps.

10-21-2004, 08:19 PM	#51 (permalink)
dogma13554u Crazy	I've made more than my share of mistakes. My friends will vouch that my love life has been a serious of the strangest, most horrible stories. But I tend to take that whole, let it be mentality. Sure, I've been through a lot of crap, but I'm happy now. The mistakes I've made are a part of who I am, and oddly enough, I like that guy. __________________ So many people to love in my life. Why do I worry about one? - Ben Harper

10-21-2004, 08:58 PM	#53 (permalink)
CheeseButtons Crazy Location: 1000 miles from nowhere	I have some regrets...but actually most of them are things I wish I HADN'T done...like chase this one girl through highschool. It was pathetic, but everytime I thought I didn't have a chance anymore, she'd flirt with me, or say something that would get me hooked again. I do regret not trying to date a couple girls in highschool...I was young and thought that being friends would just be easier, oh well. __________________ Sorrow is better than laughter, because a sad face is good for the heart. -Ecclesiastes 7:3

10-18-2004, 06:48 AM	#42 (permalink)
portereight Crazy	There are many things that are tempting to change, but I am a product of all of these experiences, and wouldn't chance losing any of the good things in my life to eliminate any of the bad.

10-18-2004, 07:13 AM	#44 (permalink)
Tralls Crazy	Yeah! I'd hit it!

10-21-2004, 05:51 PM	#48 (permalink)
:::OshnSoul::: Guest	I wouldn't have married as quickly as we did.

10-21-2004, 06:13 PM	#49 (permalink)
Silvanio Upright Location: Eastern, PA	I had a girl come on real strong in (cliche incoming) a big closet, at work.I kissed her back halfheartedly. I wish I wouldn't have thought "oh shit, we're gonna get caught" and instead "holy shit, this is great." ------------------ Hm, what else. Not too many regrets, then again, I've led a tame life.

10-21-2004, 06:42 PM	#50 (permalink)
Rlyss The Pusher Location: Edinburgh	I'd have talked to that girl on Tuesday when I had my chance. But hey, this coming Tuesday is my last chance to do it, after that I'll never run into her again.

10-21-2004, 08:57 PM	#52 (permalink)
combatmedicjen Banned	I don't like to regret stuff. You can't change the past... why obsess over it?

10-24-2004, 05:47 PM	#54 (permalink)
gentlesoul43 Tilted	Some years back a Uni friend of mine visited me from Australia and we went out for dinner and some drinks and I took her back to her place. We were really close friends before, we flirted with each other but never dated. Anyway, after dinner we sat on the couch and she had her legs over mine and we were chatting. After that, as I was leaving, she leaned over and kissed me on the lips. For some reason, I mumbled something silly like good nite and just went off. I think I got a bit uncomfortable having someone so close to my face.. kind of coming into my private zone. It would have been OK if I kissed back, but I guess it didn't hit me then that it could have been ok to do that. Stupid dumbass.. the next couple of days, I met up with her friends and they asked me "So, did anything happen to the both of you that night?" Hmm.. looks like she may have had it planned and had told her friends too. Maybe I woulda gotten lucky if only I responded a little bit and I didn't! Thing is, I've always wondered what it would have been like with her... stupid stupid stupid. I guess we all learn as we go along.. several months back while I was clubbing with some friends, I met this girl who started coming on to me. Stood very close to my face while talking to me and this time, I held my ground and I turned around and our lips brushed and we kissed. We ended up for the next 30 mins all over each other in full view of my friends. It was really good cause we had just met and I found out that she was going overseas for many years soon, so I guess she had just wanted some fun. Would have wanted to see her again before she left, but the guy who came with her that night (was a friend of my friends) was really pissed off with me. I guess I made up for my stupidity many years back. You live and learn.

10-24-2004, 09:42 PM	#55 (permalink)
clavus pow! Location: NorCal	I would have had wild monkey sex with this girl (OK, her name was "Ashleigh") when I had the chance. I tried for years, got one shot at it and chickened out. Then her boyfriend went and killed himself, and there was no way she was going to let anyone in her pants after that. __________________ Ass, gas or grass. Nobody rides for free.

10-24-2004, 10:16 PM	#56 (permalink)
sonikeko What the HELL? Location: Bowling Green, OH	There was this girl...back in High School that I dated for like 2 and a half years. (ok, ok...her name was Alicia) We were "IN Love", and everyhting was cool for the longest time. Then suddenly, I became this insane jerk-off that was always pissed at her for something. I really treated her like crap...there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about her and what could have been...this was almost 7 years ago now. Sometimes, it's just really hard to let the good ones go. __________________ "Adolescence is short, maturity is forever"