Originally Posted by BoCo

I regret nothing from past relationships, because had things not worked out the way they did then a)I wouldn't have learned whatever lesson I did, and b)I wouldn't be with the girlie I'm with now.

crazybill5280, I've been through those same situations as you, and the way I look at it is it's their own damn fault for not coming out and being more obvious that they wanted me. If they want to be all coy and hope that you'll catch on to their flirting, then they can just forget hooking up with anyone. If a girl wants me, then she had better just come right out and say something. In other words, it's not you who is the dumbass, it's them.